-------------译者：路过大街去逛逛--- 审核者：龙腾翻译总管------------




I get it. Both countries don’t like each other. There are numerous reasons like the war crimes and political disagreements between both nations. Japanese have a bad view due to Chinese tourists behaving inappropriately and Chinese people can’t get over the war crimes of the second world wars that many Japanese people are denying or unaware about.  
But as someone with Chinese parents, the people reminding, asking and provoking hatred against Japanese are always non Chinese and non Japanese. I feel like they really like the idea of China, Japan and maybe Korea “looking alike “ and hating each other. They love to ask “Do you and your family hate the Japanese?” for no reason. People online also always want to point out that both nations don’t get along like if a couple is Japanese and Chinese, they most definitely bring up this topic about “I thought you hate each other” People at my school used to asked if I hate that other guy who is supposedly Japanese even though he is Indonesian. We were literally friends but they see a Chinese and a “ Japanese” person hang around so they must put salt on it. It really likes people celebrating the dispute between these two countries , as if it’s so hilarious. Of course there are plenty people who don’t like each other because of these reasons but why do outsiders want us to fight against each other? A friend learns the Japanese language and people ask her “Aren’t you like enemies?” I feel so tired of people wanting me to hate group of people.
我明白，中日两国互相不太喜欢，原因很多，比如战争罪行、政治分歧等等。日本人对中国人的看法也因为部分中国游客的不当行为而变差；而中国人至今也无法释怀二战时期的战争罪行，尤其是许多日本人是否认、或根本不知道这些历史。
但作为一个有中国父母的人，我发现不断提醒、挑拨、鼓动我们去憎恨日本人的，往往不是中国人，也不是日本人。很多外人仿佛很喜欢“中国、日本、韩国长得很像、互相厌恶”的这种叙事。他们特别喜欢问诸如：“你和你家人是不是很恨日本人？”这种完全没理由的问题。
网上的人也很爱强调中日不和。比如如果有一对情侣是中日组合，他们几乎一定会说：“我以为你们互相仇视？”
我在学校时，还有人问我是不是讨厌另一个“日本人”，但他根本是印尼人！我们明明是朋友，可只要看到一个中国人和一个看起来像“日本人”的人一起，他们就非要添油加醋。
有时候我甚至觉得，许多人是在 庆祝 这两个国家之间的矛盾，好像觉得这件事很有趣一样。
当然，确实有不少人因为历史和现实的原因互相不喜欢，但为什么外人这么希望我们彼此仇视？我的朋友在学日语，有人居然问她：“你们不是敌人吗？”
我真的很累，很厌倦别人不断逼我去讨厌某一群人。