国外热议：在中国大陆合法但在大多数西方国家非法的（事情）是什么？

Dongfang Gao
There is a special unspoken rule in China.
A wife can beat up her husband's lover.
A wife's brothers can beat up her cheating husband.
As long as the injury is not very serious, the case will basically not be filed.
Although the law prohibits harming others, most people don't care about such things as long as they don't kill anyone.
In the vast majority of cases, it is the wife who discovers her husband has slept with another woman.
The wife would wait outside the hotel with her family, and as soon as they came out, the wife would beat the woman and the others would beat the husband.
When others see this happening, they will quietly walk away and wait until they are tired of fighting before calling the police.
In the vast majority of cases, the injuries are minor, so there is no criminal liability.
中国有一条特殊的、不成文的规则。
妻子可以痛打一位丈夫的情人。
妻子的兄弟可以痛打出轨的丈夫。
只要伤势不是很严重，基本上不会立案。
尽管法律禁止伤害他人，但大多数人只要不致死就不太在意这类事。
在绝大多数情况下，是妻子发现丈夫与别的女人发生关系。
妻子会和家人守在宾馆外，一旦他们出来，妻子就打那个女人，其他人则打丈夫。
旁人见状会悄悄离开，等打累了才报警。
在绝大多数情况下，伤情都属轻伤，所以不会构成刑事责任。


The main reason is that in ancient times, the punishment for unfaithful men and women was to be thrown into the river.
In throwing men and women into the river, Confucianism achieved equality between men and women.
主要原因是古代对不忠男女的惩罚是把他们扔进河里。
通过把男女一起投入河中，儒家在这种惩罚上实现了男女平等。




So most people think that this is very lenient, it's just a beating, if it were in the past, you should be at the bottom of the river now.
Especially when I watch Western movies and TV series, when a wife finds out her husband is cheating, she has to act rational and even tell herself to stay classy.
You are totally against human nature！
You should fight this woman right now because she is a bitch.
所以大多数人觉得这已经很宽容了，这不过是挨一顿揍，要是放在过去，你现在应该已经在河底了。
尤其是看西方电影和电视剧时，妻子发现丈夫出轨要表现得理性，甚至不断自我提醒要保持体面。
这完全违背人性！
你应该立刻去教训那个女人，因为她是个贱人。

I didn't expect so many people to read this answer.
The beatings are basically carried out with bare hands, and no weapons are allowed to prevent criminal cases from occurring.
If the husband's mistress doesn't know he is married, the two women can beat the husband at the same time.
Similarly, if a husband's wife cheats on him, he can find a few women from his own family to beat his wife.
In order to ensure fairness, a family elder could be found to serve as a witness.
No matter what the situation, public opinion will only stand on the side of the person who has not cheated.
我没想到会有这么多人看到这个回答。
这些殴打基本上是徒手进行的，不允许使用武器，以避免演变成刑事案件。
如果丈夫的情人不知道他已经结婚，两个女人可以同时先动手打丈夫。
同样地，如果妻子出轨，丈夫也可以找几位亲属（女性）去教训他的妻子。
为了确保“公平”，可以找家中长辈作见证。
无论情况如何，舆论总是站在没有出轨一方的一边。

Why do so many women on this website emphasize that women who have sex with married men are innocent?
Why emphasize that you were deceived?
As an adult, do you not even know that the other person is married?
You slept with someone else without even knowing that the other person was married. How could you emphasize that you were innocent?
Having sex with a married man is immoral in itself.
Why do you like to destroy other people's families so much and then emphasize your own innocent?
Damn, are all women in your country so bad? They don't even have basic moral values?
为什么这个网站上那么多女性强调与已婚男人发生性关系是“无辜”的？
为什么要强调自己是被欺骗的？
作为成年人，你难道连对方已婚都不知道吗？
你在不知对方已婚的情况下与其发生关系，怎么还能强调自己是无辜的？
与已婚男人发生性关系本身就是不道德的。
你们为什么这么喜欢毁掉别人的家庭，然后还强调自己的无辜？
我的天，你们国家的所有女人都这么糟糕吗？连基本的道德都没有？

DAGGER
What if the accusation is wrongful? Would the person beating up be punished then? How does the victim even ‘prove’ that he or she wasnt related to the other person romantically?
如果指控是错误的呢？打人的那方会受到惩罚吗？受害者要如何“证明”自己并未与对方有婚外情或恋爱关系？

Dongfang Gao
Basically, the woman brings her family and waits for her husband and other women to come out of the hotel.
基本上，妻子带着家人守在外面，等丈夫和那女人从宾馆出来。

wyqn
In China, it is easy to find out whether a man is already married. 1. If you are in a relationship with a man, he should introduce you to his family and friends, proving that you are a future family member of the man. 2. Do you always choose a hotel when you sleep together? Are your date times always sneaky? Will a man show off his girlfriend on social media (those who have an affair will definitely not dare to show off), so if a normal woman, it takes less than three months to determine whether a man is married
在中国，很容易查出一个男人是否已婚。1. 如果你和某男人有关系，他应该会把你介绍给他的家人和朋友，证明你是他未来的家人。2. 你们每次同居都选择宾馆吗？约会时间总是鬼鬼祟祟吗？一个男人会在社交媒体上秀他的女友吗？（有外遇的人绝对不敢炫耀），所以一个正常的女人，花不到三个月就能判断出这个男人是否已婚。

Simon Jäger
Problem with that approach is, you often get it wrong, the person you thought is a criminal is actualy innocent. About 10–20% of legal verdicts are wrong, and when we add in vigilantism, we have way higher numbers. Now you acidentally killed an innocent. Great.
这种做法的问题是，你常常判断错误，你以为是罪犯的人实际上是无辜的。大约有 10–20% 的司法判决是错误的，加上私刑，错误率会更高。现在你意外杀死了一个无辜的人。好极了。

Evaggelos Panteloglou
About 10–20% of legal verdicts are wrong, and when we add in vigilantism, we have way higher numbers. Now you acidentally killed an innocent. Great.
So, as yourself write, the curt of law is often wrong. What’s happen then? Should we close down the courts?
Anyway, such low level fast vigilatism is much better for society, makes it more probable for people to think it twice, doesn’t burden the courts, and the cheated on have less chance to feel bitter for years on.
大约有 10–20% 的法庭判决是错误的，加入私刑后错误率会更高。现在你意外杀了一名无辜者。太棒了。
所以，正如你自己写的，法庭常常出错。那么会怎样？我们应该关闭法院吗？
无论如何，这种低层次、快速的私刑对社会更有利，让人们更可能三思而行，不给法院增加负担，被欺骗的人也不太可能多年怀恨在心。

Michal Soukup
“If you find a stranger stealing a child, you can attack the trafficker first and then call the police. Even if you accidentally kill the trafficker, you will not go to jail.”
That is actually possible in America and most Western nations (I do not say all because I am not aware of EVERY law on the books everywhere) In the USA is falls under self-defence doctrine where you can use force, and up to deadly force, when necessary to protect yourself or other from death or harm when they are attacked.
The only limitation of the defence against rape is that you can not give chase or further attack a fleeing criminal.
“如果你发现陌生人贩卖儿童，你可以先攻击贩子再报警。即便你不小心把贩子杀了，你也不会入狱。”
这在美国和大多数西方国家实际上是可能的（我不是说所有国家，因为我不能掌握全球每一条法律）。在美国这属于自卫法则，在必要时为保护自己或他人免受死亡或伤害，确实可以使用武力，甚至致命武力。
对强奸的防卫的唯一限制是：你不可追赶或继续攻击已经逃离的罪犯。

SQ Yang
This is a wrong answer. Accidentally killing a human trafficker is illegal and can result in imprisonment
If you report this situation to the police, they will usually say, 'We will arrive at the scene in ten or twenty minutes. It is now a rule of law society, please exercise restraint.' The implicit meaning is that you have the time to do what you want, but you cannot be too harsh, otherwise you will have to bear the corresponding consequences
So the suspect will not die from serious injuries
But after entering the detention center, the police will warmly introduce this suspect to other inmates
Both rapists and human traffickers are very miserable in detention centers and prisons in China
这是错误的回答。意外杀死人口贩子是违法的，可能会被判入狱。
如果你把这种情况报警，警方通常会说：“我们十几到二十分钟后到达现场。现在是法治社会，请克制。”其中的隐含意思是你有时间做你想做的事，但你不能太过分，否则要承担相应后果。
所以嫌疑人不会因为伤势严重而死去。
但一旦进了看守所，警察会热情地把这个嫌疑人“介绍”给其他犯人。
在中国，看守所和监狱里强奸犯和人口贩子都很惨。

Steven Wolk
Western laws require evidence and a court to try the person before giving them a punishment. How many times has someone been beaten, but they didn't do the thing that people accused them of? The Western system isn't perfect, but it's much better than a system that allows people to be judge, jury, and executioner.
西方法律要求在给予惩罚前要有证据并由法院审理。多少次有人被殴打，但他们并没有做被指控的事？西方体系并不完美，但总比允许人们自作主张当法官、陪审团和刽子手的制度要好得多。

B K
That’s your opinion, which is frxd by the collective thinking of your society.
They have their own thoughts on the subject. Based on their own experiences.
No one system is better than the other.
那是你的观点，是受你社会集体思维框架影响的。
他们对这个话题有自己的看法，基于他们的经验。
没有哪个制度绝对优于另一个。

Evaggelos Panteloglou
The main reason is that in ancient times, the punishment for unfaithful men and women was to be thrown into the river.
Interesting. Up until (well into?) the 19th century the punishment for unfaithul women in the (then Ottoman, now Greek) city of Jannina was to throw them into the adjacted lake. There is a very iconic story about an infamous pasha of the time who rounded up almost two dozen married women of good families under the accusation of infidelity and low morals and threw them into the lake.
主要原因是古代对不忠男女的惩罚是把他们扔进河里。
有趣的是，直到（甚至进入？）19 世纪，曾属于奥斯曼帝国、今属希腊的雅尼纳城，对不忠妇女的惩罚就是把她们扔进邻近的湖中。这里有个非常有代表性的故事，说当时一位臭名昭著的帕夏以不忠和道德败坏的罪名抓了近二十几位出身良家的已婚妇女并把她们投入湖中。

Masha Parakina
You are totally against human nature！
You should fight this woman right now because she is a bitch.
People respond to acts of betrayal differently. Fighting the cheater (and even blaming yourself!) is just as humanly natural as confronting the third party.
I’m only the homewrecking bitch if I know the person with whom I’m in a relationship is already committed to someone else. As the victim of deceitful, adulterous men, you cannot insult me.
你完全违背人性！
你应该立刻教训这个女人，因为她是个贱人。
人们对背叛的反应各不相同。和出轨者打架（甚至自责！）与去质问第三者一样，都是人之常情。
只有在我知道与之交往的人已经和别人有承诺的情况下，我才是那个“破坏家庭的贱人”。作为被欺骗的已婚男人的受害者，你不能侮辱我。

B K
No. If you’re truly innocent and find out that you’ve been lied to by a married man in China, you join his wife’s side in beating him. That is widely accepted in China.
不。如果你真的无辜，在中国发现自己被已婚男人欺骗，你会站在他妻子那边一起教训他。这在中国被广泛接受。

Im Yang Gyoon
Many international laws call China's barbaric private sanctions
In other words, modern law prohibits personal revenge.
It is not an individual taking revenge, but using the laws of the country to punish those who have done wrong.
In the past, when humans were ignorant, they used "Taglio's Law" as is.
However, we are now in a civilized society where private sanctions are prohibited and the government's public authorities are handling them.
许多国际法律称中国的私人制裁为野蛮行为。
换言之，现代法律禁止私人报复。
应由国家法律来惩罚作恶者，而不是个人去复仇。
过去，人类无知时，沿用了所谓“塔利奥法”（以牙还牙）。
然而我们现在处在文明社会，私人制裁被禁止，由政府公权力来处理这些问题。

Yohan
Criticizing other country's law would mean allowing for reciprocation and others are free to to criticize your country’s dumbest laws. Such as — the South Korean law that forbids a threatened victim to inflict injury on a potential aggressor even during the instance of an impending life threatening danger, where the victim is only allowed to reciprocate when actual damage is done, at the same degree. This would be bullshit and many victims have been wrongly charged, many can't protect their own right to safety. Such policies are just created by foolish lawmakers and of course fools who graduated from law schools (as in your case). Laws are meant to make lives better and for society to progress better. Not to make sure that people bow to authority. In this sense the Chinese law, as the above, allow a small degree of flexibility to reflect society values, especially 情/정. Whereas the latter described in South Korea’s case, is simply stupidity.
批评别国法律就意味着允许对方以牙还牙，别人也可以随意批评你们国家最蠢的法律。比如——韩国有法律规定在即将面临生命危险的情况下，受威胁的受害者不得先对潜在侵害者施加伤害，只有当实际伤害发生时，才被允许以同等程度还击。这简直荒谬，许多受害者因此被错误指控，许多人无法保护自己的安全权利。这类政策就是由愚蠢的立法者（当然包括某些从法学院毕业的“傻瓜”，就像你）制定的。法律的目的是让生活更美好，促进社会进步，而不是让人们唯权是从。从这个意义上说，上述中国法律允许一定程度的灵活性来反映社会价值，尤其是“感情类”。而韩国的那种规定，简直就是愚蠢。

WANGXC
In China, people can drink beer or alcohol on the street freely, which is very common in China. But it is not allowed in some western countries. By the way, there is also no age limit of drinking alcohol in China, all age people can enjoy their alcohol. (but many parents don’t allow their underage kids do it LOL)
Betel nut is allowed in China. It is a popular snack for young people, which is very common in grocery. But in some places in some countries like USA, India and Philippines, betel nut is banned because it is addictive in some way. (Also, betel nut is negative in some cases, which might lead to oral cancer if people eating betel nut over a long period of time. Recently, in China, more and more people realize that betel nut is dangerous and resist it, the media also call on people leave betel nut alone.)
Abortion. In China, abortion is legal, people are allowed to have abortions. But in some places in the USA, which is illegal. (this topic might sensitive I guess)
在中国，人们可以在街上随意喝啤酒或喝酒，这在中国很常见。但在一些西方国家这是不被允许的。顺便说一下，中国也没有明确的法定饮酒年龄限制，各年龄段的人都可以饮酒（不过很多家长不会允许未成年人饮酒，哈哈）。
槟榔在中国是允许的。它是年轻人喜爱的零食，在杂货店很常见。但在美国、印度、菲律宾等一些地方，槟榔被禁止，因为它在某种程度上有成瘾性。（另外，长期食用槟榔可能会导致口腔癌等负面后果。最近在中国，越来越多的人意识到槟榔的危害并抵制它，媒体也呼吁远离槟榔。）
堕胎方面：在中国堕胎是合法的，人们被允许进行堕胎。但在美国的一些地方堕胎是非法的。（这个话题可能比较敏感。）

404Mhz
China has clear legal provisions prohibiting minors from drinking alcohol, and it is also illegal to sell alcoholic beverages to minors.
According to the "Law of the People's Republic of China on the Protection of Minors" and the "Administrative Measures for the Circulation of Alcoholic Beverages," the following regulations apply:
Article 37 of the "Law on the Protection of Minors" stipulates: It is forbidden to sell tobacco and alcohol to minors. Retailers must display clear signs in prominent locations indicating that they do not sell tobacco or alcohol to minors. If it is difficult to determine whether a person is a minor, the seller must request valid identification. No one may smoke or drink alcohol in places where minors gather, such as classrooms, dormitories, activity rooms, etc., in primary and secondary schools, kindergartens, and nurseries.
Furthermore, the "Administrative Measures for the Circulation of Alcoholic Beverages" also emphasizes the prohibition of selling alcohol to minors.
Therefore, in China, it is illegal to sell alcoholic beverages to minors, and minors are also prohibited from drinking alcohol.
中国有明确的法律规定禁止未成年人饮酒，向未成年人出售酒精饮料也是违法的。
根据《中华人民共和国未成年人保护法》和《酒精饮料流通管理办法》的规定，适用以下规定：
《未成年人保护法》第三十七条规定：禁止向未成年人出售烟酒。零售商必须在显眼位置放置清晰的标志，表明他们不向未成年人出售烟草或酒类。如果难以确定某人是否为未成年人，卖家必须要求提供有效身份证明。任何人不得在教室、宿舍、活动室等中小学、幼儿园、托儿所未成年人聚集场所吸烟、饮酒。
此外，《酒类流通管理办法》还强调禁止向未成年人出售酒类。
因此，在中国，向未成年人出售酒精饮料是违法的，未成年人也被禁止饮酒。

Christian Odinson
Eating dogs is legal in mainland China but illegal in all western countries.
Dog meat - Wikipedia
Roughly 20 million dogs are killed for consumption each year, making the People's Republic of China the world's largest consumer of dog meat.
Although consuming dog meat is not illegal in mainland China, the Chinese Ministry of Agriculture has never issued quarantine procedures for slaughtering dogs.
食用狗肉在中国大陆并非全面非法，但在所有西方国家是被禁止的。
（注：Dog meat - Wikipedia）
大约每年有约 2000 万只狗被宰杀供食用，这使得中国大陆成为全球最大的狗肉消费地之一。
尽管在中国大陆食用狗肉并不违法，但中国农业部并未对宰杀犬只制定检疫流程。