I’ve been talking to an incredibly charismatic guy recently, the type of guy who picks up girls within minutes of a conversation. He told me, “Michael, girls don’t care about what you say. They care about why you’re saying it.”

我最近在和一位非常有魅力的男士聊天。他属于那种只要和女孩子谈论几分钟就能够泡到女孩的人。他告诉我一个非常重要的观点,他跟我说,迈克尔,女孩子不在乎你说什么,她们关心的是你为什么会这么说。