在男生看来，女生的哪些行为，她们觉得很吸引人，但其实根本不是呢？
According to men, what is it that girls do that they think is attractive but that is not, not even the slightest bit?
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According to men, what is it that girls do that they think is attractive but that is not, not even the slightest bit?
在男生看来，女生的哪些行为，她们以为很吸引人，但其实根本不是呢？
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Wholesome
They chuck a hockey stick at your head.
用曲棍球棍砸你的头。
Are you okay? Is there something you want to get off your chest?
你还好吗？我有酒，你有故事吗？
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The hockey stick.
Her aim wasn't very good...
需要曲棍球棍？
她的准头很一般啊……
“Sometimes my ex-wife misses me…but her aim is getting better!”
我的前妻有时会失准，但她的准星正稳步提高。
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Trying to make you jealous by totally randomly hinting at other guys she's met etc.
为了让你吃醋，随意挑逗别的男人。
My ex once flirted with a 16 year old (we were both 20 at the time) to "get me to notice her more and make me jealous" because I was spending too much time doing other things. We were at work, on an employee game night, and on competing teams.
I asked her why I would ever be jealous of a 16 year old, which made her more mad. We did not last long.
我前任曾经和一个16岁的男孩调情(我们当时都20岁)，为了“让我更多地注意她，让我嫉妒”，因为我太多精力花在其他事情上了。我们当时在努力工作，筹备一个员工游戏之夜。我问她我为什么要嫉妒一个16岁的孩子，结果她更生气了。我们没有坚持多久。
It’s almost endearing how stupid that was lol
这简直蠢得可爱。
You see now, this is the real danger to relationships. Things that, if we think rationally about, we'd discover they're problematic, but with a lovestruck gaze, we see as "cute". Not that jealousy example, that's pretty obviously on the bad side.
I'm talking about more subtle things, which compound and further intoxicate the mind. This usually leads to mutual limerence. It sucks and really does kill the moment(s), but it's key to have a solid reasoning approach to this type of thing.
看到没，这种东西对关系有真正的危险。那些我们理性思考下会发现有问题的东西，但在充满爱情的光环下，我们会认为它们是“可爱的”。
我说的是更微妙的东西，它们使人的思想更加复杂，令人心之不清。这通常会导致狂热的求偶心态，很糟糕，很扫兴，但关键是要有一个可靠的、理性的方式来应对这类事情。
Solid reasoning approach; “oh you silly girl, hitting on someone to make me jealous? That is such a strange thing to do when we are no longer dating. Well… bye.”
可靠的、理性的方式：“哦，你这个傻妞，为了让我嫉妒而挑逗别人？我们已经分手了，还做这种事可够奇怪的。嗯……拜拜。”
it's key to have a solid reasoning approach to this type of thing
If man did everything according to reason rather than what is in her heart they would have perished a long time ago.
但关键是要有一个可靠的、理性的方式来应对这类事情。
如果男人做每件事都是根据理性，而不是女人的想法的话，人类早就灭绝了。
Hopefully she learned a lesson from that. Playing silly games like this will come back to bite you in later years.
希望她能吸取教训。像这样愚蠢把戏在以后的人生岁月里会反过来伤害你自己。
Kid stuff, so toxic
孩子气的东西，有剧毒。
I blame reality shows. An entire generation of girls have grown up to think that a relationship must have drama and pretense or it's just boring.
真人秀的锅。整整一代的女孩被灌输成认为一段关系必须有戏剧性和伪装，否则就会很无聊。
Wholesome
Nothing catches attention better than pedophilia
没什么比恋童癖更能吸引目光了。
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As a woman if my partner flirted with an underage individual I would just note the f*** out. Because number one if you're flirting with a teenager you're a f****** predator. Number two I'm not going to be jealous of a minor and in fact I'm going to be scared for that minor.
作为一个女人，如果我的伴侣和一个未成年人调情，我会高度警惕。因为，第一，如果你和一个青少年调情，你就是个变态。第二，我不会嫉妒一个未成年人，事实上，我会替这个未成年人感到害怕。
16 is a whole ass child.
16岁毛还没长齐呢。
So that’s why that 20 year old chick fucked me when I was 16
原来我16岁的时候，一个20岁的妞和我约炮是这个原因？
Send in the FBI
向FBI举报。
It works better at job interviews. Because you don’t have an emotional connection with your job. Mentioning another job is definitely meant to make them be more speedy about their deliberations. Mentioning another possible love interest Is a turnoff because you don’t have a chance with them if they like that other person.
这种手段在工作面试中效果更好。因为你和你的工作没有情感联系。提及另一份工作肯定是为了让对方更快地考虑你。
而提到另一个可能的恋爱对象只会让你倒胃口，因为如果他们喜欢另一个人，你本就没有机会和他们在一起。
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Talking shit about other girls. Like if you gotta shit on someone else to look good hard pass.
A close second is when they act like if I don’t want them they have other dudes lined up. This doesn’t make me want you more
说其他女孩的坏话，为了显得自己更优秀。
紧随其后的是，如果我不要搭理她们，她们表现得好像其他男人排队等着接手。这不会让我更喜欢你。
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Chances are if they are talking shit about other people they will talk shit about you too. BIG red flag.
如果他们在说别人的坏话，很有可能他们也会说你的坏话。
这是一个红灯。
a girl i knew in high school did this and her logic was that if she didn't talk shit about them first. they'd talk shit about her. she thought she was beating them to the punch basically and if they did talk shit it would make the other girls seem like they were just jealous and retaliating.
我高中认识的一个女孩就这么干了，她的逻辑是如果她不先说她们的坏话，她们会说她的坏话，所以她觉得她要夺得先机，这样即便她们真的说了坏话，也会让其他人觉得她们只是嫉妒和报复。
That just makes me feel sad for her. What was her early childhood like if thats how she views the world at large?
这让我替她感到难过。如果这就是她看待世界的方式，那么她的童年究竟经历了什么？
One of the best bits of advice I ever heard. My grandmother told me, “Listen to the way people talk about others who aren’t around – that’s how those same people are talking about you when you’re not around.”
我听过的最好的建议之一，是我的祖母告诉我，“听听人们如何在背后谈论他人——当你不在眼前时，这些人也会这样谈论你。”
Having other guys lined up just sounds like they are prepared to easily cheat on you anyway.
其他男人排队？听起来就像是她们已经给你备好很多绿帽子了。
Insecure and borderline desperate.
I dated a guy once who was like this. Every time there was a pretty girl he'd shit on her for some reason or other. I got really pissed off with it because these girls would be doing nothing wrong, just like, getting their order in front of us etc. I had to tell him that most girls aren't like his ex and that I wasn't so insecure that he had to tear beautiful women down in front of me.
因为没有安全感，濒临绝望。
我曾经和一个这样的男人约会过。每次有漂亮女孩他就会莫名其妙地喷她们。我真的很生气，因为这些女孩并没有做错什么，也没有碍着我们。
我不得不告诉他，大多数女孩都不像他的前女友，我也没有那么没安全感，需要他在我面前喷其它漂亮女人。
Marrying another guy, like cmon that's a little much just to get my attention.
为了引起我的注意，嫁给另一个男人，拜托，这么做有点过头了吧。
Lol playing REALLY hard to get
哈哈，说明你也很难被搞到手。
My woman logic is telling me she hasn't went far enough
Edit:thanks for all the upvotes! Do I have your attention now Greg?!
我的女人逻辑告诉我，她做得还不够。
She must REALLY like you, what bigger hint do you want?
她一定很喜欢你，还有什么暗示能比这更明显？
Might as well push out a couple babies while she at it. That outta get the message across.
不如让她再生几个孩子吧，这样才能传达对你的爱。
I'm an IDIOT. All these years wasted...
我真是个白痴。这么多年错过了多少爱意啊……
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she wants you to do that thing…. you know. At her wedding…. like stand up: and embarrass her…… for love tho!! like the good kind
她想让你做那件事....你知道的。在她的婚礼……突然冒出来，搅黄她的婚礼让她尴尬......为了你们的爱情！
Needing to be "rescued". Guys might like the idea of coming to a girl's aid every once in awhile, but not as a lifestyle. A relationship with someone who constantly has crises and can't stand on her own two feet gets old fast.
需要被“拯救”。
男孩们可能喜欢每隔一段时间帮助女孩，但这不应该成为一种生活方式。如果你和一个经常陷入危机、不能自立的人谈恋爱，你会老得很快。
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Try telling this to Mario
把这个告诉马里奥。
edited Me (who is disabled and often physically can't stand on my feet): Damn. Foiled again
Edit- This was just intended to be a lighthearted pun, but so much love to all my fellow disabled people empathizing with this. It's rough out there for us. Stay strong.
那么残疾人呢？
I hear you on this. I’m struggling with accepting my newly disabled status and asking for help when I need it. I feel guilty, I feel like I’m going to be judged, and because it’s a hidden disability, my partner is struggling with accepting that I am not asking someone to be my hero, but rather to help me get cereal in the morning so I don’t get dizzy, pass out, and fall down the stairs. I never knew how many emotions and stereotypes have to be navigated, daily, for people who experience disability.
我正努力接受我的残疾状态，并在需要的时候寻求帮助。我感到内疚，我感到自己被评判，因为它是一个隐性的残疾，我的伴侣也在努力接受我，我不需要别人成为我的英雄，只需要早上帮我准备好麦片，这样我就不会晕倒，跌倒，跌下楼梯。
我之前从不知道，对于残疾人来说，每天要面对多少情绪和刻板印象。
There's a significant difference between needing help and self-inflicted victimhood. I think you just have to hope the people around you can tell the difference.
需要帮助和自找的之间有很大区别。我觉得你只能寄希望你身边敌人能分辨出来。
When I started dating my husband in college, this woman he was friends with would call him every weekend to "come help her get home, she's so drunk and needs a designated driver"......yeah I told him to k ock that out, bitch is 34, she can call a taxi.
大学时我开始和我丈夫约会那会儿，他的一个女性朋友每个周末都会打电话给他说“帮她回家，她喝得太醉了，需要一个专属司机”......是啊，我告诉他让他拒绝，那个婊子34岁了，她会叫出租车了。
Guys like to feel useful and wanted but not used and taken advantage of.
男人喜欢有用和被需要的感觉，但不喜欢被利用、占便宜。
As a girl I hate this whole ‘rescue’ trope thing too, I’m actually glad there’s many people that agree
作为一个女孩，我也讨厌这种“拯救”，我很高兴有很多人有同感。
When they are obsessed with social media and their “image” My ex drove me fucking crazy with this, every date, every thing we did had to be a photo opportunity for insta. Like jfc just live in the moment for once.
她们沉迷于社交媒体和她们的“图片”时。
我的前任让我抓狂，我们的每一次约会，我们做的每一件事都必须去晒照片。搞得好像明天就会死掉，得抓紧时间多活一秒似的。
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Had an ex who would spend much of her free time taking photos of herself. For hours. Hundreds and sometimes thousands of shots. Average time 4 hours. Full time student, part time job.
Her self loathing was unreal.
Experiences are for stories, not enjoyment. Moments are special, but manicured. Social media has created a large demographic of Stepford partners.
Watching your relationship transform during the advent of social media was a uniquely shitty experience.
前女友之一会花很多空闲时间拍自己的照片。
成百上千次的修图，平均每次4小时。全日制学生，兼职工作。她的自我厌恶令人震惊。
对她来说，经历是为了讲故事，而不是为了享受，精彩时刻很特别的，但PS过。
社交媒体创造了大量随波逐流、模式化的伴侣。眼看着你们的关系因为社交媒体的出现而改变，是一种特别糟糕的经历。
Eureka!
Social media has created a large demographic of Stepford partners.
Profound.
And it goes beyond Stepford partners. It's created Stepford parents, Stepford children, Stepford professionals, Stepford SJWs, etc. It's created a huge number of artificial people; people who live only to create a more entertaining 2D account for others to subscribe to.
说得深刻！
不仅是模式化的伴侣。社交媒体还创造了“模式化父母”、“模式化子女”、“模式化专业人士”、“模式化键盘侠”等等。
它创造了大量的人造人，只为创建一个更具娱乐性的2D账号，吸引他人订阅。
edited What we deem content is often absent substance. Regardless of ideology, we live in a time where performance is valued more than action. It’s a world run on ad revenue. I feel like identity politics can be such a dog whistle, but it is tough to ignore how creative problem solving of social issues has been eclipsed by echo chambers packed with memes and No True Scotsman fallacies.
I don’t think we have to go full curmudgeon longing for a nostalgic past which never existed to take a critical eye to the state of things and recognize something profoundly damaging is occurring.
我们相信的内容往往缺乏实质。无论何种意识形态，我们生活在一个表演比行动更受重视的时代。
这是一个靠广告收入运转的世界。我觉得身份政治就像狗哨一样，但我们无法忽视的是，社会问题的创造性解决方法，正在被各种表情包和无意义的悖论所掩盖。
我们应以批判性的眼光看待事物的状态，并认识到一些严重的破坏正在发生。
Duck Dance
One of my exes was like this, she was really adamant about how we looked out in public. I'm no slob by any stretch, but I generally wear tshirts and jeans 95% of the time that fit well and she said I needed to grow up and start dressing up to work and to social outings. I'm a software engineer, why the fuck do I need to dress up for work when there's people showing up in athletic shorts and flip flops?
我的一个前任就是这样，她对我们在公共场合的形象非常固执。我一点也不懒，但我平时95%时间都穿很合身的T恤和牛仔裤。她说我应该长大了，要穿正装去上班、社交。
我一个软件工程师，穿那么正式干嘛，别人可是穿着运动短裤和人字拖上班的。
You can’t go wrong with a clean pair of jeans and a decent T-shirt
一条干净的牛仔裤和一件得体的T恤绝对不会错的。
Man, I always want to take pictures but I rarely if ever post them anywhere. I just like to print them out and put them in albums, I think it’s fun
I’ve known some people like that. When I went to Disney for a school trip, some people spent literal hours just taking pictures instead of having fun. They would dress up as fancy as possible and then complain the rest of the day
兄弟，我总想去拍照，但我很少分享。
我只喜欢把它们打印出来，放进相册，我觉得这很有趣。
我认识一些你说的那样的人。我参加学校组织的去迪士尼的旅行时，有些人大部分时间都用来拍照了，而不是游玩。他们会尽可能地打扮得花里胡哨，然后剩下的时间用来抱怨。
I witnessed an “influencer” out with her family one. 2 small kids and hubby.
All the kids wanted to do was play in the waves but she spent a good 2 hours making her husband photograph all these silly poses and dances.
Once that was done she completely ignored the kids while surfing her socials.
She was smoking hot but once that started all I felt was cringe and repulsiveness
我看过一个女主播直播自己一家，2个小孩和她丈夫。孩子们只想玩海浪，但她花了整整两个小时让丈夫拍下愚蠢的姿势和舞蹈，她完全忽略了孩子，忙着回复网友。她很性感，但她的做法令我厌恶。
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Acting ditzy. Intelligence is a turn on. Acting like an idiot is not.
神经兮兮的。
智慧是一种魅力。表现得像个白痴可不是魅力的表现。
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I had a guy say this to me once "stop pretendingto be ditzy it's not cute" or something like that.
The problem was I wasn't... I wasn't pretending to be ditzy lmaooo
Edit: Great. Now 700+ people think I'm an idiot.
I mean I am but you're not supposed to think this.
曾经有个男生对我说过“别装傻了，这一点也不可爱”之类的话。
问题是我没有……我不是在装傻哈哈哈
编辑:太好了。现在有700多人点赞，认为我是个白痴。
我是说我是很傻，但你们不应该这么想。
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Unfortunately, ditzy is part of my personality. So is being wicked smart but the ditzy outshines my intelligence sometimes.
不幸的是，傻乎乎是我性格的一部分。聪明绝顶也是我性格的一部分，但愚蠢有时胜过我的智慧。
...or need to poop.
需要拉屎。
这种行为很没有吸引力。
girls don't poop bro
女孩子不拉屎的，兄弟。
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I actually used the opposite of this to my advantage. Back in the day, it was so hard for me to talk to attractive girls. The hotter she was the more difficult. Until this guy I worked with gave me the best advice ever. While you are walking up to her just keep in mind, that at some point in her life she has had a massive, stinky, disgusting shit. All of sudden, talking to her was a lot easier.
我实际上利用了反向心理。
以前，我很难和漂亮的女孩说话，越漂亮的妹妹越难开口。直到我的同事给了我最好的建议。当你走向她的时候，请记住，在她生命中的某个时刻，她拉过巨大的、恶臭的、恶心的便便。
突然之间，和她说话就轻松多了。
Thats weird, because me and my dude figured this approach out and I remember telling some guy I used to work with about it.
Next you're gonna tell me you're from PA!
好奇怪，你说的那个同事是不是就是我。
That "seductive" face you see celebrities make when posing for photos. It just looks like you're having a hard time.
当和名人拍照时，摆出的那副“性感”脸。那只能让你显得生活不如意。
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America’s Next Top Model taught me that it’s called “smizing”
《全美超模新秀大赛》告诉我，这叫“微笑”
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The Zoolander model face? That’s all I can picture right now.
《超级名模》的模特脸?我脑海立马浮现出这个。
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Saying how many other guys are trying to sleep with them/get them out on dates.
说有多少人想和他们上床/和她们约会。
I thought that's what girls said to tell you they weren't interested in you. Everytime that's happened to me, I thought they were just trying to politely tell me I wasn't really their focus.
我以为女孩们这么说是委婉地告诉你她们对你不感兴趣。
每当我遇到这种情况，我都以为她们只是想礼貌地告诉我，我不是她们的菜。
I think some girls think "whatever guy tries the hardest likes me the most so I will put up tons of barriers and if they give up that means they don't like me that much"
我觉得有些女生会想，“最努力追我的男生最喜欢我，所以我会设置很多障碍，如果他们放弃了，就意味着他们没那么喜欢我。
It just means they end up picking a guy with no regard for boundaries and is adamant about getting his way.
这只意味着她们最终会选到一个不顾边界，坚持按自己方式行事的男人。
Abusive relationship speedrun?
SM关系？
Haha same thing with job hunting. Companies that has ridiculous requirements barrier, end up with applicant who just lie about everything.
哈哈，找工作也是一样。那些提扯淡要求的公司，最终的结果是求职者对所有事情都撒谎。
It's projection. Girls generally perceive a man with competition over him as more attractive and think this will go both ways; however, men generally perceive a woman with competition over her as a royal pain in the ass.
这是投射（不自觉地把自己的欲念等加诸于他人）。
女孩们通常认为，有人争夺的男人更有吸引力，并且认为这是双向的；然而，男人通常认为有人争夺的女人是讨厌鬼。
I’ve never had a single girl say that to me in my fun years of living
在我快乐的生活中，从没有一个女孩对我说过这种话。
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a lot of women also do this as a defense mechanism.
很多女人这么做也是出于自我防御机制。
duckface. we've been over that.
鸭子脸。醒醒，已经过时了。
Especially with all the new lip injections / surgeries. Looks insane now
尤其是那些刚做完丰唇手术的，看起来很疯狂。
Lips + cheeks. Wtf seriously, they look like bad caricatures drawn by the guy in the strip mall.
嘴唇+脸颊整形。说真的，它们看起来就像路边业余漫画家画的糟糕漫画。
A happy and healthy person is way more attractive than anything artificial, be it surgery or fillers.
一个快乐健康的人比任何人造物都更有吸引力，不管是手术还是填充物。
I'm starting to believe that women (and men) who get lip/cheek injections and surgeries don't actually think they look more attractive...They want to signal that they can afford enhancements and they want people on the street to look at them and associate them with wealth & status like a Kardashian.
If that's not the case, than I have to assume 90% of them look in the mirror afterward and think "Damn. I fucked up. I guess I have to just own this look." because they really don't appear more attractive.
我开始相信，接受嘴唇/脸颊注射、手术的女人(以及男人)，实际上并不觉得自己看起来更有吸引力……
他们只是想证明，他们做得起整容手术，他们想让街上的人看到他们，就把他们和财富、地位联系在一起，就像卡戴珊一样。
如果不是这样，那我就得假设90%的人在照镜子后会想：“该死！我完蛋了，我必须忍受这种外表了”因为这种整形根本没有提升吸引力。
Seriously. Making a duck face is old. Having a permanent one is in.
说真的，摆出一副鸭子脸过时了。现在流行手术做一个永久的。
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UK tinder is an absolute trainwreck
It's a sea of bad lip-fillers, fake tans and unflattering duck faces. Unironically biggest culture shock moving here.
英国Tinder绝对是个垃圾场。
到处都是糟糕的唇部填充物、假的晒黑皮肤和难看的鸭子脸。毫不讽刺地说，我来英国受到的最大的文化冲击就是这个。
Since I was a teenager I always wondered why girls in the UK have such a different style to the rest of us Europeans. The orange tan seems to never go out of style and SO MUCH make up. But I’ll give them that: they are always the life of the party
十几岁开始，我就一直想知道为什么英国女孩的风格和我们其他欧洲人如此不同。
橘黄色的晒黑皮肤似乎永远不会过时，而且还要化那么浓的妆。但我得评价她们：她们永远是派对的灵魂。
Duckface has been replaced by
鸭子脸已经被（吐舌）取代了。
Playing dumb, that shit is so unattractive. I llllloovvveee smart ppl
装傻，没有丝毫吸引力，我喜欢聪明人。
I came here for this comment. Went to school with some pretty smart chicks and they started acting dumb and speaking like a baby and it disgusted me.
我来这里就是为了这个评论。上学时有一些漂亮聪明的妹妹，她们开始装傻，说话像个婴儿，这让我恶心。
I believe you, but I've also been told many times I need to tone it down and "let him think he's smarter than you." Which I'm obviously really offended by and am just. "Uh...no? Why would I want to possibly spend my life dimming my intelligence down to make someone happy?"
我相信你，但很多人对我说，我需要低调一点，“让男生觉得他比你聪明。”
我真的被冒犯到了，我只是。“呃……不。我为什么要为了取悦某人而降低自己的智商呢?”
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This
If the guy needs you to be dumber than him, find a new one.
如果有男人需要你比他蠢，那就换一个。
Gold2
Playing hard to get. Girl, I'm gonna ask you only once. If you reject me, I'm moving on. I don't need this crap.
欲擒故纵。
姑娘，我只会问你一次。如果你拒绝我，我就另觅芳草。我不需要这些废话。
Wholesome
Fr. Its hard enough to ask someone out, if they play stupid games before your even together, lord have mercy for the stability of that relationship
约一个人出去已经够难的了，如果他们甚至在你们在一起前，就开始玩愚蠢的把戏，天知道你们的关系会不会稳定。
Saw someone comment “playing hard to get makes you hard to want” on a similar thread. It’s really stuck with me.
我曾看到一个评论
“欲擒故纵令你难提兴致”。
经典的评论。
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Don't be hard to get.
Be hard to forget
不要让别人难以得到
让别人难以忘怀。
This is the single biggest turn off.
‘I can play hard to get, because I think I’m better than you’
“我可以玩欲擒故纵的把戏，因为我觉得我比你强”
Peeing and pooing all over
到处大小便。
Play hard to get become easy to forget
这肯定是看了前面“让别人难以忘怀”的评论了。
No mature woman would actually do this. If you're with someone who does, run because you're dealing with an immature child. The proper response to a woman expressing disinterest is always "k thx" and move on. If she gets upset because she expects a dude to be a mind reader then she needs to learn how to communicate like an adult and grow up.
Don't tolerate this bs.
Edit: thanks for the gold and awards! Really didn't expect this to blow up
没有哪个成熟的女人会玩欲擒故纵的把戏。
如果你和这样的人在一起，那就赶紧跑，因为你面对的是一个不成熟的孩子。
如果女人对你不感兴趣，正确的回应应该是“谢谢”，然后各走各路。
如果她期望男人会读心术，那么她需要学着像个成年人一样交流。男人不要容忍这种性格。
In addition, men have been told how much women hate pushy guys who won't take a clue.
此外，男人也被教育，女人有多讨厌咄咄逼人、不愿接受任何暗示的男人。
And rightfully so. If we want men to understand that no means no, we cant have these women going out there and saying that they actually mean yes when they said no, we just didnt try hard enough.
No one is worth pushing past a no for.
太对了。
如果我们想让男人们明白“不”就是“不”，我们就不能允许女人口是心非。我们只是不够努力去改变女人而已。
forget whether or not it's attractive, it's downright dangerous to society. Listen girls, we guys have to take these classes where it's drilled into our heads that no means no.
EDIT: Okay, what the fuck? The comment I replied to originally said "playing hard to get"
忘记吸引力的问题吧，它对社会来说是彻底的危险。
听着，姑娘们，我们男生必须接受这些课程，让“不就是不”刻在我们头脑中。
All-Seeing Upvote
Yep, I was once making out with a girl and things got hot and heavy, she said she didn't wanna do anything else so I didn't go any further, later she texted me "I liked when you grabbed my arms. You should have been more forceful and not stopped" uh NOPE
是的，我有一次和一个女孩亲热，气氛逐渐变得激烈。
她说她不想再继续下面的流程了，所以我就停了，后来她给我发短信说：“我喜欢你抓我胳膊的样子。你应该更强硬一点，而不是停下来。”
呃，我不要。
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“You just want me to rape you in the hopes that maybe you’re into that shit?”
Hot damn that’s a red flag if I’ve ever seen one. God bless I hope you got what you wanted/needed and noped out ASAP.
“你想让我强奸你，并且猜测你喜欢那种破事？”
牛皮，这是我见过的最危险的信号。上帝保佑，还是尽早开溜吧。
Woman here, and I completely agree. I’ve never understood the mind games either side plays, but particularly this one. No wonder guys are confused.
我是女人，我完全同意。我从来都搞不懂双方的心理战，尤其是这种。也难怪男人会感到困惑。
Baby talk
卖萌发嗲，像婴儿那样说话。
I was getting down with a girl and as soon as her clothes came off she said "oh no, I'm nakey." That was the least sexy thing I've ever heard in my entire life.
我曾和一个女孩交往，她一脱下衣服就说：“哦不，我脱光光了~”
这是我这辈子听过的最不性感的话了。
I'm Deceased2
Who were you getting down with, Tommy Pickles?
你在和谁交往，汤米·皮克尔斯吗?
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There’s this silly thing I notice some girls do when they’re drinking when they’re like pretending to be more drunk than they are. It’s really annoying and a huge turn off, especially when they’re getting way louder.
我注意到有些女孩喝酒的时候会做一件很傻的事，她们会装醉。这真的很烦人，很败兴，尤其是她们的嗓门越来越大的时候。
I swear some people just *want* to act like that and drinking just makes it socially acceptable.
我发誓，有些人只是“刻意”这样做、喝酒，为的是让自己被社会接受。
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edited Making your voice higher / cute / babylike. It creeps me out.
Edit: Thanks for all the upvotes! Glad you can relate! To the insecure girls: Don't worry, there's a difference between your 'enthousiastic' voice and the obnoxious baby voice some women do. We'll know.
提高你的音调，装可爱，像婴儿那样，它让我毛骨悚然。
女孩们：别担心，“热情”的声音和一些女人故意做出来的婴儿声是有区别的，我们能分辨。
My dog likes it
我的狗喜欢这种声音。
Lol it’s like the Vince McMahon meme of him climaxing in his chair
哈哈，就像文斯·麦克马洪在椅子上高潮的表情包。
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Dogs like higher pitches because dogs bark at a higher pitch when they're happy and a lower pitch when they're aggressive.
狗喜欢高的音调，因为狗在高兴的时候会叫得更高昂，而在它们具有攻击性的时候会叫得更低沉。
Oversell laughing at a joke
对一个笑话过度大笑。
I hate when I'm genuinely laughing or find something funny but the guy thinks I'm overselling the joke with my laughing. Sometimes things are funny for different reasons. Maybe it reminds me of something else too causing me to laugh that hard
我很讨厌当我真的在笑或者发现什么好笑的事情时，他却觉得我在用大笑夸大笑话。
人们的笑点各不相同。也许它让只是让我联想到了其他特别好笑的事儿。
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Oh man getting the giggles at a dumb joke sucks. I laughed for 20 minutes at the dumbest dad joke on tiktok. Dunno why it tickled my funny bone.
哦，天哪，对着一个愚蠢的笑话傻笑很糟糕的。
tiktok上最蠢的爸爸级笑话让我笑了20分钟。我也不知道怎么戳中了我的笑点。
Same here. If something hits me just right, it plays over and over in my head; and gets funnier every time. I'll still be giggling at something ~20 mins later when everyone else has moved on. Luckily, I married someone who takes it as a point of pride to get a half hour long chuckle.
我也一样。如果某件事恰好击中了我的心，它就会在我的脑海里反复重播；而且一次比一次更好玩。
20分钟后，当其他人都不笑了，我还会傻笑。
幸运的是，我嫁给了一个能让我笑上半个小时的人。