东亚人在40岁时看起来还像20多岁，这很常见吗？
Is it common for East Asians to look like they are still in their 20s at 40 years old?
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我很希望答案是一个明确的"是"。
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Is it common for East Asians to look like they are still in their 20s at 40 years old?
东亚人在 40 岁时看起来还像 20 多岁，这很常见吗？
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, APAC Risk Analyst, UX Writer, and Narrative Designer
Answered Feb 19
I wish the answer was an unequivocal “Yes“.
With properly applied make-up, the right lighting and angle, and some carefully applied photo-editing/filtering later, yes, I suppose there are some attractive 40-year-old East Asian people (usually those whose careers placed a premium on good looks) who might, in photos, approach a facsimile of themselves in their 20s.
But when you meet them in person, meet them in the flesh, see them right front of you, in harsher lighting than those used in professional photoshoots - you’ll know they’re no longer in their 20s.
I mean, yes, if you live in countries where East Asians aren’t in the majority, you could definitely fool non-Asians into thinking you’re in your 20s.
But if you live in East/South-east Asia, surrounded on all sides, every single day, by a sea of people who know what signs to look for, who have spent 30, 40, 50, 60 years of their lives knowing what signs to look for - you might get complimented on your attractiveness, receive effusive praise even, and all of it completely sincere - but you wouldn’t be fooling anyone.
I mean, two months ago I was seeing a doctor, a local Irishman, for a check-up in downtown Dublin and he remarked that I looked like someone who was still fresh out of school and earning my way through my first Bachelor’s.
Back in HK, no one would ever say such a thing to me.
Like it or not, we all age, and while in some, the effects of aging aren’t as prominent, there are still many markers that offer telltale clues for those who know what to look for (see Hu Shi Xiong ‘s answer for some of them)
Even celebraties aren’t spared the signs of aging.
They may look much younger than normal working people around the same age, but you’ll still know that they no longer look like themselves when they were 20.
This is normal, and not something to be ashamed of.
Aging is part of life.
Aging gracefully is something one can strive for, but aging and showing signs of it is as inevitable as one day finding Death knocking on our door, asking to be let in.
The below picture is that of 舒淇
To me, she looks gorgeous as always.
But it’s obvious that she’s not 20 anymore (both shots are of her at her current age)
And, not to sound like a broken record, but that’s absolutely nothing to be ashamed of or to be shamed for.
This is 严屹宽
I can only WISH I look a fraction this good when I’m 43 (not sure about the haircut he just gave himself though…)
Again, he is still an attractive man, as he was when he was much younger, but we know this is a 40+ something man.
A good looking 40+ man, yes, but he’s not going to be fooling any of us into thinking he’s 20.
Conclusion:
No, unfortunately, when you see them in the flesh, away from carefully applied make-up, great lighting and well-chosen angles, and carefully sexted photo-editing and filters, a 40-year-old East Asian isn’t going to look like they’re in their 20s.
It’s normal, it’s part of life, and I don’t think anyone should ever feel ashamed of or be shamed for looking older as they age.
我很希望答案是一个明确的"是"。
通过适当的化妆，正确的灯光和角度，以及一些仔细的照片编辑/滤镜，是的，我想有一些有吸引力的40岁的东亚人（通常是那些事业上需要重视外表的人），在照片上可能接近20多岁时的样子。
但是，当你见到他们本人，见到他们的肉体，看到他们就在你面前，在比专业照片更苛刻的灯光下时--你会知道他们不再是20多岁了。
我的意思是，是的，如果你生活在东亚人不占多数的国家，你绝对可以欺骗非亚洲人，让他们以为你是20多岁。
但是，如果你生活在东亚/东南亚，四面八方，每天都被一群知道岁月在自己脸上是什么迹象的人包围，他们花了30、40、50、60年的时间知道了这种迹象是什么样--你可能会因为你的魅力而受到称赞，甚至会受到热烈的称赞，而且所有这些都是真诚的--但你不会骗过任何人。
两个月前，我在都柏林市中心看医生，一位也在做检查的当地的爱尔兰人，他说我看起来像一个刚从学校毕业并通过我的第一个学士学位挣钱的人。
回到香港，没有人会对我说这样的话。
不管你喜不喜欢，我们都会变老，虽然在某些情况下，衰老的影响并不那么突出，但仍有许多标记可以为那些知道岁月痕迹的人提供线索。
即使是名人也不能免于衰老的迹象。
他们可能看起来比同龄的正常上班族要年轻得多，但你仍然会知道他们不再像他们20岁时的样子了。
这是正常的，不应该感到羞愧。
衰老是生活的一部分。
优雅地老去是一个人可以争取的，但衰老和显示出它的迹象是不可避免的，就像有一天发现死神在敲门，要求让他进去一样。
下图是舒淇，
她今年45岁。
对我来说，她看起来一如既往的漂亮。
但很明显，她不再是 20 岁了（两张照片都是她现在的年龄）
而且，我不想听起来很难听，但这绝对没有什么可羞耻或可耻的。
这是严屹宽。
他今年43岁。
我只能希望我 43 岁时也看起来这么好（虽然很难理解他刚刚给自己剪的发型……）
再一次，他仍然是一个有吸引力的男人，就像他年轻时一样，但我们知道这一点是个40多岁的男人。
一个 40 多岁的帅哥，是的，但他不会骗过我们中的任何人会认为他还在20 岁了。
结论：
不，不幸的是，当你看到他们的肉体时，远离精心化妆、出色的照明和精心挑选的角度，以及精心挑选的照片编辑和滤镜，一个 40 岁的东亚人不会看起来他们还在 20 多岁。
这很正常，是生活的一部分，我认为任何人都不应该因为随着年龄的增长看起来更老而感到羞耻或耻辱。
One of the teachers at my elementary schools often claims to be in his twenties, despite being in his thirties.
I probably could’ve been fooled until he pulled his mask down.
我小学的一位老师经常声称自己只有二十多岁，但是其实已经三十多岁了。
我真的被骗了，直到他自己说出真相。
Hands. For me the hands don’t lie.
看手。对我来说，手是不会说谎的。
if you looked at my mother’s hand, you would have thought she was in her 30s but she’s 80 yr old!
Although she doesn’t look like 80 either!
如果你看我母亲的手，你会认为她只有30多岁，但她已经80岁了!
虽然她看起来也不像80岁!
These people look terrific for their age, but a 40s can never look 20s. My friend and I just video called each other after almost 2 decades we last saw each other few years after college. Although we’d not drastically aged i dint see the cherubic young guy he was and he also felt the same about me…we both immediately recognised that thin sheet of age that’s now on our faces…ageing is inevitable…
这些人在他们的年龄看起来都保养得非常好，但40多岁的人永远不可能看起来像20多岁。我的朋友和我在将近20年后才视频通话，我们最后一次见面是在大学毕业后几年。虽然我们没有急剧衰老，但我看不出他曾经是个天真无邪的年轻人，他也对我有同样的感觉......我们都立即意识到，现在我们的脸上有了一层薄薄的年龄的痕迹......衰老是不可避免的......
You have a different standard there. No Caucasian woman is going to look like that at 45. Ever.
你有一个不同的标准。没有哪个白种人妇女在45岁时能看起来像这样。永远不会。
But here in Europe I've seen them. White people get a bas rep for aging, but these people commenting didn't grow up in Europe to really compare.
但在欧洲，我见过这样的人。大家对白人的衰老的评价有偏见，而且这些人评论的人并不是在欧洲长大，无法真正进行比较。
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Apologies, but to my white eyes, they still look to be in their 20s.
We’re starting to look like friggin prunes in our 40s man.
对不起，但以我白人的眼光来说，他们看起来仍然是20多岁。
我们在40多岁的时候已经开始看起来像该死的老帮菜了。
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“Asians look 30 until they’re 60 but then they look 90” - Family Guy
"亚洲人在60岁之前看起来都是30岁，但之后他们看起来都是90岁" - 恶搞之家
I won’t place either of them in the photos as over 30 to be honest.
说实话，我不会把他们中的任何一个放在超过30岁的照片分类中。
my wife has fooled many
(ill be killed if i say the opposite though )
我老婆看起来就能骗过很多人
(如果我说反话就会被杀)
“Asian don’t raisin…”
On a serious note: many twenty-somethings in the United States have such a bad diet, you can’t tell if they are pushing thirty or forty.
"亚洲人不会变成葡萄干......"
严肃地说：美国许多二十多岁的人的饮食习惯很差，你无法分辨他们是逼近三十岁还是四十岁。
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The cosmetics industry will affirm that they do have a big customer base in East Asia and that their products do work for creating desirable illusions
化妆品行业会肯定地说，他们在东亚确实有很大的客户群，他们的产品在创造理想的幻觉方面确实有效。
Both of those photos could easily be in their 20's lo
这两张照片都可以很容易地说他们是在20多岁。
You are forgetting the fact that Carol Cheng and 舒淇 have never given birth to a child which does help a woman looking younger, not sure about Liza Wang though. But in general I agree most Asians do look a lot younger than they appeared except me, I’m dark skinned , fat and bald , Lol!
你忘了郑裕玲和舒淇都没有生过孩子，这确实有助于女人看起来更年轻，不过汪明荃就不一定了。但总的来说，我同意大多数亚洲人看起来比他们的外表年轻得多，除了我，我是黑皮肤，胖子和秃头，哈哈哈!
By their faces in these photos i would guess the woman is in her late 20s and the man in his 30s. So no we dont know that they are 40+ :)
根据他们在这些照片中的面孔，我猜测女人是20多岁，男人是30多岁。所以我们不知道他们是40岁以上的人 :)
Are you kidding me ?!?! These two are in their 40s ?!?! I mean I'm 41 yo myself and just look at my profile photo for comparison!!!! They may not fool an East Asian but they'll DEFINITELY fool everybody else!!!
你在逗我开吗？！？！这两个人都是40多岁的人了？！？！我的意思是，我自己是41岁，看看我的头像就知道了!!!!他们可能骗不了东亚人，但他们肯定能骗过其他地方的人！！！
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, A Japanese American who lives and works in Japan
To the untrained eye, sure. And with the right filters, photo shopping tools, and angles, there’s undoubtedly a ton of people that could pull it off.
But none of this is the same thing as real life, and natives know this as well. Despite being a very short and baby-faced guy, I haven’t been carded even once since moving to Japan, in contrast to every single time I wanted a can of beer back home.
Furthermore, as beautiful as Hirosue Ryoko is, there’s just no way she’d be able to fool anyone into thinking that she’s still in her 20’s.
Of course, if she were to ask me to guess her age, I would say 28 or 29 to be polite, but that’s neither here nor there.
, 一个在日本生活和工作的日裔美国人
对于不熟悉的人来说，当然可以这么说。如果有合适的滤镜、PS和角度，无疑有很多人可以让自己看起来更年轻。
但这些都与现实生活不一样，而且当地人也知道这一点。尽管我是一个非常矮小和长着一张娃娃脸的人，但自从搬到日本以来，我没有被卡过一次，这与我在国内每次想要一罐啤酒的时候形成鲜明对比。
此外，尽管广末凉子很美，但她不可能欺骗别人，让别人以为她还在20岁左右。
当然，如果她要我猜她的年龄，为了礼貌起见，我会说28或29岁，但这只是出于礼貌。
I had no idea who this woman is, but I guessed her 34 just from that picture before looking her up… and she’ll be 42 in a couple of months. Hats off.
我不知道这个女人是谁，但在查她之前，我根据这张照片只能猜她34岁......而实际上她再过几个月就42岁了。向她脱帽致敬。
Asian women definitely, undeniably age much better than white women. Most white women over 30 are looking “mature” while East Asian women are just getting started. The mother of my three kids is Chinese and she's absolutely gorgeous at 36 and hasn't changed much in the last ten years.
I apologize to any white women I've offended with this post and I don't think you guys are any less human than Asian women but there's something about Asian skin that keeps its neotony for a decade or two longer than others
亚洲女性绝对地、不可否认地比白人女性老得慢得多。大多数30岁以上的白人女性看起来都很"成熟"，而东亚女性则刚刚开始起步。我三个孩子的母亲是中国人，她36岁时绝对是个美人，而且在过去十年里没有什么变化。
我向我在这个评论中冒犯的任何白人女性道歉，我不认为你们比亚洲女性更非人类，但亚洲皮肤的某些东西比其他人的皮肤更能保持它的调性长一二十年。
, volunteer (user:Meursault2004) at Wikipedia (2003-present)
This has something to do with a biological phenomenon called ‘neoteny’. Neoteny or juvenilization is:[1]
the delaying or slowing of the physiological (or somatic) development of an organism, typically an animal. Neoteny is found in modern humans.
Therefore Western people could look much older than Asians, as Asians preserve more juvenile characteristics.[2]
On the other hand, I as an Asian, I think there are also advantages to the ‘older look’ of Western people. Western people do look more mature than Asians, who could look more ‘childish’.
I hope this answers your question. You could read more about this phenomenon in the corresponding Wikipedia articles, which I have provided in the footnotes.
DISCLAIMER: this answer is not meant to offend both Western and Asian peoples.
这与一种被称为"neoteny "的生物现象有关系。Neoteny 或幼年化是：[1] 。
“生物体（通常是动物）生理（或躯体）发育的延迟或减慢。Neoteny存在于现代人类中。”因此，西方人可能看起来比亚洲人老得多，因为亚洲人保留了更多的幼年特征。
另一方面，我作为一个亚洲人，我认为西方人的"老态"也有好处。西方人确实比亚洲人看起来更成熟，亚洲人可能看起来更"幼稚"。
我希望这能回答你的问题。你可以在相应的维基百科文章中阅读更多关于这一现象的内容，我已经在脚注中提供了这些文章。
免责声明：这个答案并不是要冒犯西方人和亚洲人。
But ageing is considered less attractive while youthful faces are desired. How is that an advantage.
但是，衰老被认为是不那么有吸引力的，而年轻的面孔则是人们所期望的。这怎么会是一种优势呢。
But if it’s better why do white women always get Botox to look more young for longer if it’s an “advantage” not to sticking to your young child looks?
但是，如果它更好，为什么白人妇女总是去打肉毒杆菌，以使自己看起来更年轻的时间更长一点，如果这是一个看起来没那么幼稚的"优势"？
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, Client at Value Independence (2008-present)
Europeans have less melanin their skin has the tendency to age very quickly when they are around their mid 20s and late 20s they have wrinkles but they not very visible soon as they hit their 30s it is all down the hill the wrinkles start to appear more visible around the 30 mark Europeans like Swedes and Norwegians look their best in between their late teens and late 20s they age very quickly when they hit their 30s and their looks fade. Asians Blacks and Hispanics look young forever and they never lose their looks they more melanin in their skin they hardly get much wrinkles darker skin has the tendency to wrinkle less.
欧洲人的黑色素较少，他们的皮肤有快速老化的趋势，当他们在20岁和20多岁时，他们就有皱纹了，但不是很明显，当他们进入30多岁时，皱纹开始更加明显。 欧洲人如瑞典人和挪威人在10多岁和20多岁之间看起来最好，当他们进入30多岁时，他们老得非常快，他们的美貌逐渐消失。亚洲人、黑人和西班牙人则看起来永远年轻，他们的美貌永远不会消失，他们的皮肤中有更多的黑色素，他们几乎没有什么皱纹，深色的皮肤有减少皱纹的趋势。
That’s why in the west, people talk about youth like it’s not long lasting and should be cherished cuz for whites it won’t last long
这就是为什么在西方，人们说青春不长久，应该珍惜，因为对于白人来说它不会长久
, former Official Troll Buster
The main reason is that they tend to bald faster and their skin turns to leather. White kids are their best in high school, but after around 21 it is all down hill. For most Asians, that age is around 40 or so, and even then we are able to keep ourselves better then they are (for the most part, anyway).
主要原因是他们更容易秃顶，他们的皮肤变成了皮革。白人孩子在高中时是他们最好的时候，但在 21 岁左右之后，一切都在走下坡路。对于大多数亚洲人来说，这个年龄大约是40岁左右，即使如此，我们也能保持比他们更好的状态（不管怎么说，在大多数情况下）。
Whites age faster than almost everyone. Their skin sort of disintegrates in a much higher degree than Asians, black people, south Asians and natives too. compared to most others their skin appears more wrinkly in earlier stages in their life or while others ethnic groups can seem to retain a youthful look for much longer periods of time, especially black people. Personally I think being ageless compared to another is definitely more attractive hence Botox being big here because the idea that youth doesn’t last long and that people should enjoy it while it lasts comes from western people because that phrase is mostly aimed at them because many of them age early as thirty. Ageing is definitely seen as less attractive here in the west. Lots of white women get surgery to look younger or use products to look younger. I think wrinkles are perceived as ugly while smooth skin is desired by all women of any race.
白人的衰老速度几乎比所有人种都快。他们皮肤的衰老程度比亚洲人、黑人、南亚人和本地人要快得多。与其他大多数人相比，他们的皮肤在生命的早期阶段就会开始出现更多的皱纹，或者其他种族群体似乎可以在更长时间内保持年轻的样子，特别是黑人。我个人认为，与其他人相比，不老肯定更有吸引力，因此肉毒杆菌在西方十分流行，因为年轻的状态不会持续太久；人们应该青春的时候享受它的想法也来自西方人，这句话主要就是针对他们的，因为他们中的许多人早在30岁就已经衰老。在西方，衰老肯定被视为没有吸引力的。很多白人妇女都会通过手术使自己看起来更年轻，或者使用化妆产品使自己看起来更年轻。我认为皱纹被认为是丑陋的，而光滑的皮肤是任何种族的所有女性都渴望的。
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, Vietnam Veteran
Some of it is undoubtably genetics, us Anglos are just naturally more wrinkly. A big factor, though, is that they hide from the sun. Even an Asian peasant working in the paddies wears protective clothing and a large hat.
, 越战老兵
毫无疑问，其中一些是遗传因素，我们盎格鲁人就是天生皱纹比较多。不过，一个很大的因素是，他们躲避阳光。即使是在稻田里工作的亚洲农民也会穿上防护服和戴上大帽子。
That's true Asians Hispanics and Blacks never grow old they look the same as they did at 16 when they are in their 40s and 50s.Caucasians in their 40s and 50s are all wore out after years of smoking boozing and sunbathing.
这是真的，亚洲人、西班牙人和黑人永远不会变老，他们在40多岁和50多岁时，看起来和16岁时一样。白种人在40多岁和50多岁时，经过多年的吸烟、饮酒和日光浴，都已糙得不行了。
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, former Scientist, medical researcher (1972-2018)
Generally speaking, Asians eat a healthier diet than Westerners. Asians such as the Chinese insist on fresh food. Americans don’t. Asian food is definitely healthier because it is more Paleolithic—that is to say, they often eat fish and other seafood prepared sashimi style. Sashimi style means eating raw fish, squid, and lobster. Second, eating Asian food means eating SMALLER portions of healthy food. In Okinawa there is a saying that they “eat until you are 80% full.” Third, Asians often eat meat as a side dish and not as a main course such as in the Korean dish “Bi Bim Bop.” (Founding Father Thomas Jefferson advocated much the same thing more than two hundred years ago.) Fourth, when Asians eat desert, they will serve a very tiny portion of, for example, cake, and not a fistful portion. Fifth, the Japanese consume on average 12.5mg daily of iodine by eating seaweed. This is extremely healthy for your thyroid. (Many Americans have undiagnosed and untreated thyroid problems as described in the New England Journal of Medicine as far back as 1957!) Last, according to the scholarly Harvard book, “Okinawan Diet,” researchers found that 100-year-old Okinawan women had higher levels of hormones such as testosterone than 70-year-old American woman, and this effect was caused by diet and exercise. See also my book “Stay 40” and Jo Robinson’s wonderful book “Eating on the Wild Side” available on Amazon.
，前科学家，医学研究员（1972-2018年）
一般来说，亚洲人的饮食比西方人更健康。亚洲人，如中国人，坚持吃新鲜食物。美国人则不然。亚洲人的食物肯定更健康，因为它更像旧石器时代--也就是说，他们经常吃鱼和其他海鲜，以刺身的方式。生鱼片的意思是吃生鱼、鱿鱼和龙虾。第二，吃亚洲食品意味着吃较小份量的健康食品。在冲绳有一种说法，他们只"吃到八成饱"。第三，亚洲人经常把肉作为配菜吃，而不是作为主菜，如韩国菜"Bi Bim Bop"。(开国元勋托马斯-杰斐逊在两百多年前也提倡过同样的做法）。第四，当亚洲人吃甜点时，他们会提供非常小的一一份，例如，蛋糕，而不是拳头大小。第五，日本人通过吃海藻平均每天摄入12.5毫克的碘。这对你的甲状腺是非常健康的。(许多美国人有未被诊断和未被治疗的甲状腺问题，早在1957年的《新英格兰医学杂志》中就有描述！）。最后，根据哈佛大学的学术著作《冲绳饮食》，研究人员发现100岁的冲绳妇女比70岁的美国妇女有更高的荷尔蒙水平，如睾丸激素，这种效果是由饮食和运动引起的。也可参见我的书"保持40岁"和乔-罗宾逊的精彩著作"野性的饮食"，可在亚马逊上购买。
, just a jinjang
It’s BUllsh*T.
Asian (Indionics) look just as old but in different ways, around 35 you see their skins sag, they get overweight / hefty despite being slim when they were young and the skin becomes ever more greasy.
Whereas the Orientals always look neotnous and flexible even into their 50s and 60s, just the way it is.
这是胡说八道。
亚洲人（印度人）看起来也很老，但方式不同，在35岁左右，你会看到他们的皮肤下垂，他们变得超重/肥胖，皮肤变得越来越油腻，尽管他们年轻时很苗条。
而东方人即使到了50和60岁，也总是看起来很有活力和皮肤有弹性，这就是他们的特点。
It may be the keratin, eastern Europeans have more of that, too. I seem to be aging a little slower than my comparable age friends of western European descent. Melanin isn’t the only pigment in skin. There’s also keratin.
可能是因为角蛋白，东欧人也有更多的角蛋白。我似乎比我年龄相当的西欧后裔朋友衰老得慢一点。黑色素不是皮肤中唯一的色素。还有角蛋白。
, Four cat, three of them black, of those one with Fd gene.
Western people love to sunbathe and get darker complexion. And though sun stimulates vitamin D, it destroys your skin.
Asian prefers fair skin, they avoid sunbathing because they don’t like their skin getting darker, this protect the skin from damage.
Black people have so high melanin, that their skin is naturally sun prof. In reality black people can and do tan, like everybody, but their skin is well adapted to protect them from nocive sunrays and to absorb enough light to stimulate vitamin D.
There are still exception. There still are whites looking young and wrinklesless in their 40 and asians looking old in their 30. Genetics is a lottery.
西方人喜欢晒太阳，使肤色变黑。虽然太阳可以刺激维生素D，但它会破坏你的皮肤。
亚洲人喜欢白皙的皮肤，他们避免晒太阳，因为他们不喜欢自己的皮肤变黑，这样可以保护皮肤不受伤害。
黑人的黑色素很高，所以他们的皮肤天生就喜欢晒太阳。实际上，黑人和所有人一样，可以、也确实晒黑了，但他们的皮肤很适合保护他们免受有害的阳光照射，并吸收足够的光线来刺激维生素D。
但是也有例外。也有白人在40岁时看起来很年轻，没有皱纹，亚洲人在30岁时看起来很老的。遗传学是一种彩票。
, Born and raised in Japan
Yes, it is.
So, people say “Look at her neck and hands. Those parts can’t be free from aging.”
The reason some people look young should be
Tight and smooth skin
Round face with less wrinkles
Thick hair
Genetically, East Asians tend to keep them for a long time.
I myself had been asked if I was a university student from time to time in Japan until I turned 35 or so. Not very rare.
, 在日本出生和长大
是的，就是这样。
所以，人们说"看看她的脖子和手。这些部位不可能不衰老"。
有些人看起来很年轻的原因应该是：
皮肤紧致、光滑
圆脸，皱纹少
头发浓密
从遗传学上讲，东亚人往往能长期保持这些特点。
我自己在日本也时常被问到是否是大学生，直到我35岁左右。这不是很罕见。
, former Import company owner (2000-2017)
Only for westerners.
I constantly got ID checked in the UK for looking underage. As somebody over 30 in the UK it was mildly flattering.
I moved to Asia? Every could immediately tell how old I was and I lived through the transition where young people called me ah gor (big bro) to ah suk (uncle) :/
只是西方人会这么认为罢了。
我在英国经常因为看起来未成年而被检查身份。作为一个在英国的超过30岁的人，这是很温和的奉承。
等我搬到了亚洲？每个人都能一眼看出我的年龄，我经历了年轻人叫我阿哥（大哥哥）到阿叔（叔叔）的过渡期。:/