街访：韩国女性理想的结婚年龄是多少岁

Malik walks MTL
the ideal time to get married is when you ready financially and mentally !
 
理想的结婚时间是当你在经济上和精神上都准备好了的时候!
 
Pinoy Adobo
For me get marry if u find someone whom your soul truly loves
 
对我来说，如果你找到了你内心真正爱的人就结婚吧
 
Chris Kim
This is really well said. NO one should ever get married only because of the pressure from other people.
 
说得很好。不能仅仅因为他人的压力就结婚。
 
Daeg Ham
That mindset is the reason why people arent getting married. Cuz they are constantly working financially and mentally and end up being 50 years old and still single.
 
这种心态就是人们不结婚的原因。因为他们一直在经济上和精神上努力，直到50岁还是单身
 
Raquel R
Great analysis.
 
分析的很好
 
Tamira Bennett Volk
Different culture, same problems.
 
不同的文化，同样的问题。
 
Rockstreet
That's true Because we are all humans after all
 
没错，毕竟我们都是人类
 
TheENofficial
In America you get married and divorced 3 times by early 30’s lol
 
在美国一个30到35岁之间的人可能已经结过三次婚了
 
Entahler
@TheENofficial  oof reality
 
说的太真实了
 
Milla
Thank god I live in Finland...I don't want to get married, I'm an atheist anyway lol. But here it's sooooo common to not get married and still start family. I want that too. I always appreciate my country so much after I watch these videos...not trying to offence anyone but Asia seems like a bad place to live..
 
感谢上帝，我住在芬兰。我不想结婚，反正我是个无神论者，哈哈。但在芬兰不结婚但仍然组建家庭是一件很常见的事情。我也想要这样。看完这些视频后，我真的对自己的国家芬兰很感激，无意冒犯任何人，但亚洲似乎不是一个适合居住的地方
 
Annette
@Milla  it's better here in germany too, even if i  have not an income/Job i still can use
validation and
social benefits to pay my bills and have food. In other countrys you need to find a Job or a way to make Money very soon, no one helping you.
 
在德国的生活更好，即便我没有工作和收入，一样可以使用社会福利来支付我的账单，购买食物等。在其他国家你必须尽快找到工作，没有人会帮助你
 
Annette
@Milla  As  for Love, i want someone who love me and i love him. Dont need the church or must marry for Money, just a Life-Partner-ship.
 
至于爱情，我想要一个能爱我，我也爱他的人。我们不需要去教堂或必须结婚之类的，只是生活上的伴侣关系。
 
Pinoy Adobo
@Annette  that sounds like USA too they have benefits like that too and free coupons?
 
听起来很像美国，他们也有这样的福利，还有免费的优惠券?
 
Annette
@Pinoy Adobo  i do not know about US, i think they not  get some "Basic" money , like payed rent per month/
 In germany, a single person can get 424 €uro (for food, Bills and all other things)  and your rent will be paid  (for a small apartment) , they only take away some of the Money, if you not try to find a Job.
But you will not live on the Street and be hungry.
 
我对美国不了解，我认为美国人拿不到一些基本的钱，比如每月付房租之类的
在德国，一个人每个月可以拿424欧元（买食物，付账单和其他的东西），不需要担心房租（对于一个小公寓来说），如果你不找工作的话，他们会拿走一部分的钱，但你也不至于会住在街上挨饿
 
Pinoy Adobo
@Annette  so your saying there's no homeless people in Germany?
 
所以德国真的没有任何无家可归的人吗？
 
Annette
@Pinoy Adobo  of course there are. To much. Many of them are people from east Europe.
you need a residential address, passport and you need many applications to get the social money. This is not easy for everyone.
 
无家可归的人当然有，而且还很多。其中许多人是来自于东欧
你需要居住地址，需要护照，需要填很多的申请才能获得社会福利。不是所有人都可以轻易获得的
 
Glory Heisenberg
Ideal age is a joke. Get married if you’re ready, don’t let the society dictate us!
 
理想的年龄是个笑话。准备好了就结婚吧，别让社会指挥我们怎么做
 
Gray Kin
Marriage itself is also what society dictates so if you are so against societys expectations then dont advocate for it
 
婚姻本身就是一项社会要求，所以如果你这么反社会，那么就不要提倡结婚就好了
 
lol
america: when's the ideal time to get a DiVoRcE
 
美国：什么是离婚的最佳年龄
 
석회암
As SoOn As PoSiBlE
 
越快越好
 
TB
Whenever they want
 
无论什么时候都可以
 
Jeff 619
In AmeriKKKa almost 80% of the divorce are carried out by  women.
 
在美国，几乎80%的离婚要求都是女性提出来的。
 
Dan L
Go to reddit, this is so true.  People divorce left and right in America.
 
去reddit网站上看看，美国到处有人离婚
 
r2b2ct1
Korea also has very high divorce rates.
 
韩国的离婚率也很高
 
Bbygirl 23
lol well women don’t benefit from marriage at all soo I see why
 
哈哈，女人根本不能从婚姻中受益，所以我明白为什么了
 
Ayveh
Lmao very true. America's divorce and cheating rate is pretty high, same with Europe...or at least their cheating rate. I have seen PLENTY of rich older men travel and spend an hour or night with an escort while staying at a fancy hotel I used to work at.
 
没错，美国的离婚率和出轨率非常的高，欧洲也一样，或者至少出轨率和美国一样高。我曾经在豪华酒店工作，经常见到有钱的老男人来这里旅游，和一个伴游的人呆上一个小时或一整晚
 
Joshua Grasser
@Jeff 619  what country are you from?
 
你来自哪个国家
 
aspergers g.
@Ayveh  cheating rate is way higher in India but not divorce rate
 
印度的出轨率更高，但离婚率不高
 
Toni Klische
That is true. When you look at the past many people get married very early like 18-25 and the divorce rate was not so high but nowadays many people get married like 28-35 but the divorce rate is much higher than before.
 
没错。过去很多人在18-25岁结婚，离婚率也不是很高，但是现在很多人在28-35岁结婚，但是离婚率比以前高多了。
 
LUIS ALBERTO ARENAS ARAYA
Now marriage is a double edge sword. Preferrable to be able to have a better future.
 
现在婚姻就是一把双刃剑。最好是能有一个更好的未来
 
Rahman
People dont even marry anymore these days, like couples move in together for years
 
现在人们甚至都不结婚了，就像夫妻一样同居很多年
 
Katito
I think Human populations will take a big hit if everyone wants to marry their 40s or 30s just saying
 
我认为如果每个人都想在三十多岁或四十多岁结婚，那么人口数量会受到很大的冲击
 
Tae Tae
When you'll graduate?
When you'll work?
When you'll get married?
When you'll have a baby?
Where/when your child enter the university?
Where they work now? 
When they get married?
When they gonna have a baby?
When you gonna DIE?!
 
你什么时候毕业？
你什么时候参加工作？
你什么时候结婚？
你什么时候生孩子？
你孩子什么时候上大学，上什么大学？
他们现在在哪里工作？
他们什么时候结婚？
他们什么时候生孩子？
你什么时候去世？
 
Roshni k
Welcome to reality
 
欢迎来到现实世界
 
Nimbereth
That's life.
 
这就是生活
 
Rakshitha n
LoL welcome back to reality
 
哈哈，欢迎回到现实世界
 
Riya shetty
Vicious cycle
 
恶性循环
 
Ira Williams
It's not like marriage will guarantee a woman everlasting happiness. These days women should look for men who treat them as equals.
 
婚姻并不能保证女人永远幸福。现在的女人应该找一个能平等对待她们的男人。
 
개발자 민수
These days, there are many people who want to live alone in Korea, and the age of getting married is increasing a little. I think it's because there's a lot of social and financial responsibilities to get married
 
现在韩国有很多人想要一个人生活，结婚年龄不断上升，我认为这是因为要结婚的话就要承担很多的社会和经济责任
 
LUIS ALBERTO ARENAS ARAYA
Agree, marriage is more harm than good.
 
我同意，结婚弊大于利。
 
Love Muffin
True, marriage isn’t for everyone plus most people can provide for themselves.
 
的确，婚姻并不适合每个人，而且大多数人都能自己养活自己。
 
Arthur Simon
>  lot of social and financial responsibilities to get married
There's a lot of financial responsibilities for everyone, single or attached. The world is getting a lot more expensive to live in.
 
要结婚的话就要承担很多的社会和经济责任
对于每个人来说，不管你是单身的还是已经结婚的，都要承担很多的经济上的责任，这个世界的生活成本变得越来越高
 
Estela Lopez
@Love Muffin  people want to get married but don't want kids
 
人们想结婚却不想要孩子
 
BlackGrapes
@Arthur Simon  there's a lot of financial and social responsibilities either way, but marriage, or more importantly, having kids, really add a whole new layer of social and financial responsibilities.
 
无论如何，我们都要承担很多经济和社会责任，但结婚，或者更重要的是，有了孩子，增加的社会和经济责任真的是全新的不同层次的存在
 
Arthur Simon
@BlackGrapes  My point is that being single is hard enough. So that's why some people opt not to get married.
 
我想说的是单身已经够难的了。这就是为什么有些人选择不结婚的原因。
 
다이앤다이앤
I heard that S.Korea has lower birth rate compared to Japan.
 
我听说韩国的出生率比日本还低。
 
Q O
개발자 민수 the problem is when u get old..it’s lonely..majority of your friends will talk about their child...and u feel left out
 
问题是，当你年纪渐渐大了，你的大部分朋友就会在一起谈论自己的孩子，你会觉得自己受到了忽视
 
Banshee Queen
agreed, and if it doesn't work out, then the cost to get a divorce is also incredibly high. So it's really a financial situation, you can also love someone and not marry them, i know many people that live like that!
 
同意，如果婚姻不成功，那么离婚的成本就会非常高。所以这真的是一个经济问题，你也可以爱一个人，但选择不和她结婚，我知道很多人就是这样生活的
 
Pinoy Adobo
@Estela Lopez  why they want to have kids their married anyways
 
为什么他们结婚后还想要孩子
 
Estela Lopez
@Q O  my aunt adopted a child so she can't be lonely
 
我阿姨收养了一个孩子，这样她就不会孤单了
 
Dan L
I'm a 40 years old single man in Korea and getting married in Korea is very expensive.  It is the #1 reason people don't get married.
 
我是韩国四十岁的单身男士，在韩国结婚的成本很高。这就是韩国人不结婚的头号原因
 
Hanna Zatul
I am 26, I have absolutely no plans for marriage and I don't feel any pressure.  I just live happily and don’t worry about such things. And I don't see anything terrible in staying single and honestly I don’t think that I’ll meet someone I want to be with :) But to all who dream of finding their love, I sincerely wish it!
 
我今年26岁，我对婚姻没有任何计划，我也没有任何压力。我只想开心的活着，不去操心这些事情。我觉得单身没有什么可怕的，老实说，我认为自己以后不会遇到一个想要一起生活的对象。但对于所有梦想找到真爱的人来说，我真心祝福他们
 
Layorh Skye
Are you still single??
 
你还单身吗？
 
Hanna Zatul
@Layorh Skye  yes, I am
 
是的，我还是单身
 
유혜민Jina
As a Korean women i think biggest reason  Korean women doesn't marry is financial problem. People need money to get marry and raise the child. And our generation need more money to do that than older generation need. But it's hard to get a job and it's still getting hard to buy house in city. And most important reason that women doesn't get marry is most normal Korean women lose there job after they getting married and even if they didn't get fired after getting married they lose there job after they got pregnant, after they gave birth to child. It's hard to tell more specific
 
作为一个韩国女人，我认为韩国女人不结婚的最大原因是经济问题。结婚养孩子都需要钱。我们这代人需要比老一辈人挣更多的钱。但是很难找到工作，在城市里买房子也越来越难。女性不结婚的最重要原因是，大多数普通韩国女性结婚后会失去工作，即使她们结婚后没有被解雇，她们也会在怀孕，生孩子后失去工作。
很难说得更具体些
 
Season Of The Glass
Don't get married if you're just pressured, whether by tradition or societal conformity.
 
如果你仅仅只是因为压力，不管是来自传统的，还是社会上的，那就不要结婚
 
LuMoZaDe
Who wants to die alone,
just my opinion.
 
有谁想孤单的死去
这只是我的个人意见
 
Melory Grey
@LuMoZaDe  we all die alone at the end.
 
最后我们都会孤独的死去
 
dtrishacc
@Melory Grey 
That's true.
Everyone will die alone eventually.
Nothing in this world is permanent.
 
说的没错
每个人最后都会孤独的死去
这个世界上没有什么事永恒的
 
Roshni k
It's not possible in india.
 
这在印度是不可能的
 
Chel
meanwhile I already decide not to marry anyone lmao
 
与此同时，我已经决定不结婚了
 
Blue Angel
Same single and happy forever
 
同样单身，永远幸福
 
Toni Klische
Why do I have the feeling that people only get married because the pressure of the society not for the love? And also in many countries there is such a high divorce rate like 40-50%. Marriage nowadays doesnt have a meaning anymore.
 
为什么我觉得人们结婚是因为社会压力，而不是因为爱呢？而且在许多国家离婚率非常的高，达到了40%到50%。现在的婚姻已经没有什么意义了
 
Diane Choi
Marrige does have meaning. , i love being married, im in love with my husband, marriage life is awesome.
 
婚姻是有意义的，我婚姻很幸福，我爱我的老公，婚姻生活棒极了
 
wisemafalda
The fact that women have to choose between successful career/job (there is a difference) and family but men don't is...heartbreaking
 
事实上，女性必须要在事业和家庭之间做出选择，但男人却不用，真是让人心碎