“我是个金龟婿”：中国男子想要一个月入1700美元，有房有车的老婆
‘I’m a good catch’: Chinese man wants a wife with US$1,700 monthly salary, car and house
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一名男子在中国南方深圳的公园里张贴的一张通知上列出了他对未来妻子的要求。它引发了关于婚介行为和性别平等的激烈讨论。
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A man listed out his requirements for a future wife on a notice he held up in the park in southern China’s Shenzhen. It sparked a heated discussion over matchmaking conduct and gender equality.
一名男子在中国南方深圳的公园里张贴的一张通知上列出了他对未来妻子的要求。它引发了关于婚介行为和性别平等的激烈讨论。
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A man listed out his requirements for a future wife on a notice he held up in the park in southern China’s Shenzhen. It sparked a heated discussion over matchmaking conduct and gender equality.
一名男子在中国南方深圳的公园里张贴的一张通知上列出了他对未来妻子的要求。它引发了关于婚介行为和性别平等的激烈讨论。
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It''s a fun and entertaining way to raise a certain social issue, that is indeed quite problematic! Kudos to him.
这是提出某个社会问题的一种有趣而娱乐性的方式，这确实是相当有问题的！向他致敬。
I love what he was doing to raise the awareness of the ridiculous demands of the modern women in China
我喜欢他所做的，让人们意识到中国现代女性的荒谬要求。
This is actually a very fun video. It''s also refreshing to see how honest and straightforward the elders were, without being offensive.
这是一个非常有趣的视频。看到长辈们的诚实和坦率，而不是冒犯，让人耳目一新。
He is being not serious, just satirising the expectations of typical single Chinese women.
他不是认真的，只是在讽刺典型的中国单身女性的期望。
Respect to this dude, whether he''s being serious or trying to make a point.
尊重这个家伙，不管他是认真的还是想表达观点。
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Dude being a typical Chinese women, props to him
哥们，做为一个典型的中国女人，支持他
If those women can have ridiculous request, I don''t see why this man can''t do it too
如果那些女人可以提出荒谬的要求，我不明白为什么这个男人不能也这样做。
Everyone would praise these standards had it been a woman making them. This man is fighting double standards like a champ
如果这些标准是由女性制定的，每个人都会称赞它们。这个人像冠军一样与双重标准的女性作斗争。
I used to have a "list..."
but then I realized being
single was far less stressful.
So I got rid of my list,
and began enjoying my single life,
without trying to prove anything to anyone else.
我曾经有一个“列表...”
但后来我意识到
单身的压力要小得多。
所以我丢掉了我的清单，
并开始享受我的单身生活，
没有试图向其他人证明任何事情。
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Nothing wrong. Equal rights means equal contribution
没有错。平等权利意味着平等贡献
"I want a woman who owns a car and a house"
Sounds more reasonable than
"I want bad boy who will treat me nice"
“我想要一个拥有汽车和房子的女人”听起来比“我想要一个会善待我的坏男孩”好
He indeed deserves one for his honest confidence .
他敢于做这件事，那他就值得拥有这个女人。
ngl, he had us in the first half. Lad''s earned my respect. Absolutely love what he''s doing
嗯，他有我们，他赢得了我的尊重，我们喜欢他的这种做法
Respect to the man. I know he''s being satirical, but he''s bringing up awareness on how much pressure and unreasonable expectations society puts on men.
尊重这个男人。我知道他在讽刺，但他正在让人们意识到这个社会对男性施加了太大的压力和不合理的期望。
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What Chinese women are demanding in a husband these days is just insane. Kudos to the man for pointing out their foolishness.
现在中国女人对丈夫的要求简直是疯了。感谢这个人指出了他们的愚蠢之处。
A professional troller.
一个专业的搅局人
Kudos to him. Great way to raise awareness.
向他致敬。提高人们认知的好方法。
not the hero we deserve but the hero we need
不是我们应得的英雄，而是我们需要的英雄
It''s not just the women but more of their parents who need to rethink of their unreasonable demands.
不仅仅是女性，更多的是提出不合理要求的父母需要重新考虑他们的要求。
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The fact that this very thing exists and is socially acceptable, is depressing. No wonder why they''re like that.
事实上，这个东西存在并且是社会接受的，这是令人沮丧的。难怪他们变成那样。
At first I thought he was an idiot. But the final argument made so much sense. Profound.
起初我以为他是个白痴。但最后的论点意义深刻。
HE KNOWS HIS WORTH
他知道他的价值
The only real criteria is sincere love. Where there is no love, everything falls apart.
唯一真正的标准是真诚的爱。 没有爱的地方，一切都会分崩离析。
Absolute legend.
真正的英雄
If the lady has so much salary, she probably want to remain single.
如果这位女士有这么多薪水，她可能想保持单身。
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I don''t think it''s ridiculous at all. It''s alright to have standards, if this was real then I wouldn''t really say anything. I mean it''s equality now, this are what some women are wanting. The lists are what some women are looking for in a man, they even want them to be handsome and fit so why can''t a man have those standards too.
我一点也不认为这很荒谬。有标准没关系，如果这是真的，那我也真的什么都不会说。现在男女平等，这是一些女性想要的。这些清单是一些女人在男人身上寻找的，他们甚至希望男人英俊和健壮，所以为什么男人不能也有这些标准。
We could go on and on about ideals and what the world should be, but the truth is that men look for youth (in their partners) and women look for resources (in their partners). This is related to reproductive success (where men need healthy offspring and women need safety during the lengthy period of gestation and child-raising). We could argue all day that it shouldn''t necessarily be true any more as a lot of folks don''t even want kids these days, but it''s a subconscious biological imperative.
That being said, due to the one-child policy in China, the number of men vastly outstrip the number of women, so yes, the women can afford to be choosy and picky (more so than women in other countries). There are a lot of men competing for a smaller pool of women. There''s even a phenomenon called bare branches (Guang Gun/ 光棍) to describe all the "leftover men".
我们可以继续谈论理想和世界应该是什么样子，但事实是，男人寻找青春（在他们的伴侣身上），女人寻找资源（在他们的伴侣身上）。这与生殖成功有关（男性需要健康的后代，女性在漫长的妊娠和抚养过程中需要安全）。我们可以整天争辩那不一定是真的，因为现在很多人甚至不想要孩子，但这是一种潜意识的生物学要求。
话虽如此，由于中国的独生子女政策，男性的数量远远超过女性的数量，所以是的，女性可以去选择和挑剔（比其他国家的女性更挑剔）。有很多男人在争夺较小的女性群体。甚至有一种现象叫做光棍（光棍/光棍）来形容所有的“剩男”。
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These people made falling in love and getting into a marriage such a chore and challenge when these things are supposed to happen naturally and simply.
恋爱结婚本该是自然而简单的事情，可这些人把它变成了一件苦差事和挑战。
He is no catch. He is an artist.
他不是金龟婿，他是个艺术家。
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If a woman with less salary or no salary, no car, no house can marry or search a man with high salary, car, a house then a man can also certainly do that.
Why the double standards? Why do only men have to work or earn more? Why do only woman deserves better??
如果一个工资少或没有工资、没有车、没有房子的女人可以嫁给或找一个薪水高、车、房子高的男人，那么男人当然也可以这样做。
为什么要双重标准？为什么只有男人必须工作或赚更多的钱？为什么只有女人才配得上更好的？？
He is not actually trying to find a wife with all those demand but rather want to start a conversation about the role reversal discrimination or demand.
他实际上并不是想找一个有这些要求的妻子，而是想开始一场关于角色互换歧视或需求的对话。
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Dude is brilliant and noble. Taking one for us guys! Salute!!!
这个哥们是明白的和高贵的。给我们一个这样的人！敬礼！！
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Kudos to this guy raising awareness
向这个提高认知的家伙致敬
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Double standards towards men. Let''s be all single and focus on ourselves, men
对男人双重标准，让我们都单身，专注于自己，兄弟
I thought he was insane first, but now I get it. He''s a hero, sad to see many only want to marry for assets...
我一开始以为他疯了，但现在我明白了。他是一个英雄，我很难过看到许多人只想为了资产而结婚......
I was mad at first but when I watched the video until the end and understood what he was trying to tell everyone, I thought "Oh that makes sense!"
起初我很生气，但是直到最后当我看完视频并理解他试图告诉所有人的内容时，我认为“哦，这很有意义！”
I love this dude. He isn''t wrong about the double standards.
我喜欢这个家伙。他对双重标准的做法没有错。
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He needs to find a lady who shares his sense of humor, ethics, work ambitions and intelligence. If you have those qualities, money will naturally follow.
他需要找到一位与他一样具有幽默感、道德、工作抱负和智慧的女士。如果你有这些品质，金钱自然会随之而来。
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props to the man, saying what men have been wanting to express the last 20 or so years
支持这个男人，说出男人在过去20年左右一直想表达的
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I luv this man. I met a lot of women who confidently demands rich, wealthy husbands for themselves without them looking in the mirror.
我爱这个男人。我遇到了很多女性，她们自信地要求自己拥有富有，健康的丈夫，而从没照过镜子，想想自己有什么。
Women who just expect you to have everything should get nothing.
只期望拥有一切的女人应该一无所获。
When a woman ask for 6 figure salary it''s fine. Let the man do what he''s doing. Nothing wrong with it.
当一个女人要求6位数的薪水时，这很好。让男人做他正在做的事情，他没有错。
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One of my nieces is finishing up medical school at an Ivy and also has a Phd. She married a guy from China several years ago. He is still working on his Phd but his parents are wealthy. They live modestly but should do really well when they are both working full-time. My wife has never worked outside the home after we were married and that was her expectation. I think that China has a relative shortage of women because of the one-child policy in the past so you have the situation of supply and demand. If you want more from a spouse than is the norm, then you have to bring more to the table in other areas.
我的一个侄女将在常青藤的医学院毕业，同时也有博士学位。她几年前嫁给了中国的一个男人。他仍在攻读博士学位，但他的父母很富有。他们过着谦逊的生活，但当他们都在全职工作时，他们应该都做得很好。当我和我的妻子结婚后，我妻子从来没有在外面工作过，这是她的期望。我认为因为过去的独生子女政策，中国有相当数量短缺的妇女，所以有很大的供求问题。如果你想从配偶那里得到比平常更多的东西，那么你必须在其他方面带来更多。
The man has a point
这个男人说的有道理
Support him fully. Equally right equal fight. People can''t even understand it''s a satire experiment. They much dumb they are.
全力支持他。平等权利，平等获得。人们甚至无法理解这是一个讽刺实验。他们太愚蠢了。
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Also shows you just how materialistic Chinese society has become and much humans are valued based on income and assets. That''s one of many reasons why Chinese people nowadays are so unhappy.
它还向您展示了中国社会的物质化程度，根据资产和收入来评价一个人。这是现在中国人如此不快乐的众多原因之一。
I love his confidance
我爱他的自信
He obviously forgot a thing called supply and demand. This is a female market when you have much more males that females. As a male, you don’t get to choose.
他显然忘记了一个叫做供求的东西。这是一个女性市场，男性比女性多得多。作为男性，你没有选择。
Since we all want equality so we should normalize men looking for rich women
既然我们都想要平等，那么男人当然也可以寻找富有的女人
At first I thought he was some delusional incel, by the end of the video I started to believe the man has a point lol
起初我以为他是某种妄想症，直到视频结束时，我才开始相信这个男人有道理，哈哈