QA问答：我未满18岁，我的父母是有钱人，但他们不给我钱，也不给我买任何我想要的东西。我该怎么办？（上）
I’m under 18 years old, my parents are millionaires but won’t give me any money at all or buy me anything at all I want. What should I do?
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为他们工作，证明你应该得到报酬。如果我的孩子18岁，而我是有钱人，我也不会给他们任何东西。祝贺你的父母是伟大的父母，知道如何正确地抚养你。
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I’m under 18 years old, my parents are millionaires but won’t give me any money at all or buy me anything at all I want. What should I do?
我未满18岁，我的父母是有钱人，但他们不给我钱，也不给我买任何我想要的东西。我该怎么办？
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Work for them and prove you deserve it. I wouldn’t give my children anything either if they were 18 and I was a millionaire. Congratulate your parents for being great parents and knowing how to raise you properly.
为他们工作，证明你应该得到报酬。如果我的孩子18岁，而我是有钱人，我也不会给他们任何东西。祝贺你的父母是伟大的父母，知道如何正确地抚养你。
Start asking intelligent questions on how you can start earning your own money. They dont want to raise a spoiled self entitled jerk so they prolly want you to work for it like they prolly had to. But your still in the winning seat by having parents that are millionaires. Thers alot you can learn from them on how they got where they are. How they make money. I would wven be willing to bet they have some ideas of ways you can too. But not by having your hand out but By having your ears open and your hands willing to do work.
开始学会问一些明智的问题，比如：如何开始赚取属于自己的钱？他们不想把你抚养成为一个被宠坏的自以为是的混蛋，所以他们希望你能像他们那样，不得不去工作。但你的父母都是有钱人，这仍然是你的优势，你可以从他们身上学到很多东西，比如他们是如何走到今天的。他们是如何赚钱的。我敢打赌，他们做到的那些方法，你也可以做到。不要对他们伸出你的手，而是要张开你的耳朵，你的手应该用来工作。
As long as they are providing for your basic needs, they don’t need to buy you anything at all beyond that. They probably just don’t want you to be handed everything in life. People are mentally and physically healthier when they have goals and work towards them. So figure out what your goals are and get started. They don’t have to be major life goals. Any goals will do. Improving your grades, learning to paint well, physical fitness goals, etc are all great. You could even find ways to make some money so you can buy the things you want yourself. Even a part time minimum wage job adds up when you’re a kid living rent free with your parents and don’t have to spend money on bills, food, etc.
只要他们能满足你的基本需求，他们就不需要给你买任何东西。他们可能只是不想让你轻易得到生活中的一切。当人们有目标并朝着目标努力时，他们的身心都会更健康。所以，弄清楚你的目标是什么，然后开始吧。它们不一定是人生的主要目标。任何目标都可以。提高成绩、学会画画、健身等等都很棒。你甚至可以想办法赚钱，这样你就可以自己买你想要的东西。当你还是个孩子，和父母一起免租生活，不必在账单、食物等上花钱时，即使是兼职最低工资的工作也能让钱叠加起来。
I knew lots of millionaires’ kids when I was growing up. The very best of them behaved just like good-natured, kind and generous kids of non-millionaire parents.
Having wealthy parents gives you financial stability, whether or not they give you money. You are not going to come home one evening to find that all of your furniture has been repossessed, or that there is no food on the table because there is no money to buy it. You probably don’t wear hand-me-down clothes, and when your shoes get holes in them, they buy you new shoes. Without realising it, you probably have been on all the school trips and extra-curricular activities that you were interested in.
在我成长的过程中，认识了很多有钱人的孩子。他们中最优秀的人，脾气好、善良慷慨，完全不像是有钱人的孩子。
拥有富有的父母能让你有稳定的经济，无论他们是否给你钱。你不会在某一天晚上回家，发现家里所有的家具都被收走了，或者因为没有钱购买食物，桌上就没吃的。你也不需要穿旧衣服，当你鞋子破洞时，他们会给你购买新鞋子。不知不觉中，你可能已经参加了所有你感兴趣的学校旅行和课外活动。
But, please, know that there are kids who don’t eat every day. Know that some of the kids who always come to school in clean clothes but with little wardrobe variation are doing so because those are the clothes they have, and their parents work extra hard to make sure that they get washed and dried in time. Understand that most kids have had to turn down at least one school trip because they couldn’t afford it. While you’re on an expensive foreign holiday, some kids are not going anywhere this year.
这太棒了，你不必为此感到内疚。
但是，要知道，有些孩子不是每天都有东西吃。要知道，有些孩子来学校时，总是穿着干净的衣服，但衣柜里几乎从来没有变化，会这样，是因为这就是他们所有的衣服，他们父母需要格外努力的工作，以确保衣服能够及时的得到清洗和烘干。要知道，大多数孩子至少不得不拒绝一次学校旅行，因为他们负担不起。当你在国外度假时，有些孩子一整年哪儿也去不了。
Horse riding, piano lessons, driving lessons, scuba-diving and surfing are all things that some kids will never have.
还有其他特权。你可能住在一个街角不卖毒品的街区。你可能没有经历过第一次拿到手机，第二天就被一个更大的孩子抢走。当你在课堂上努力时，你的父母支付了学费。
骑马、钢琴、驾驶、潜水和冲浪，都是有些孩子永远不会拥有的东西。
Learn to be a gracious person. Learn to be unselfish and ungrasping. Learn to spend time with the kids who have nothing. Visit them in their homes, invite them into your home. Do stuff that doesn’t require your parents to pay out money. Do you have a guitar? Form a band with other kids, including low-income kids.
Be a person for whom money is not the definition of life.
那么，你该怎么办？
学会做一个有礼貌的人。学会无私和不贪婪。学会花时间和一无所有的孩子在一起。拜访他们的家，邀请他们到家里做客。做一些不需要父母付钱的事情。你有吉他吗？和其他孩子组成乐队，包括低收入家庭的孩子。
做一个不被金钱定义人生的人。
Get a job! Earn your own money! Then you will eventually Learn what a valuable lesson your parents are trying to teach you.
They provide you with a roof over your head, food to eat , clothes to wear and medical care. Get out your calculator and add it up! They are really paying a lot of money to support you. There should be some reciprocal activity; like clean your room without being told to do so. Take out the trash. Ask for other chores that need to be done. Be concerned about your education; apply yourself to learning what you need to learn to be a productive citizen in what ever field you choose.
Stop whining! Be grateful!
找份工作！赚属于自己的钱！然后，你最终会明白你的父母试图教会你的，是多么宝贵的一课。
他们为你提供了栖身之所、食物、衣服和医疗服务。拿出你的计算器，把它们加起来！他们真的花了很多钱来支持你。应该有一些互惠活动，比如：不要等别人叫就自己收拾好自己的房间。把垃圾倒出去。做其他父母要求你做的家务。关心你的教育，努力学习你需要学习的东西，在你选择的任何领域成为一个有生产力的公民。
别发牢骚了！心存感激！
Grow up and get a job.
Im not a millionaire but my daughter will need to be full time working / volunteer / school or some combination in order to stay at home when she’s 18. Doesn’t matter what her income is as long as she’s trying and paying her own way.
长大，找份工作。
我不是有钱人，但我女儿18岁时，需要去做全职工作/志愿者/学校或其他组合才能呆在家里。她的收入有多少并不重要，只要她在努力，并按照自己的方式在支付就好。
I am going to give you solid advise. Your wealthy parents want your independence and drive. The easiest path is getting a job at Starbucks and stop asking for their money. Work on getting into an excellent college and slam home grades. Find your path and forge ahead in a very frugal way. Life is not about parents buying crap for you . They worked hard for their money. Did you know the most powerful motivator in life is poverty?
我会给你有力的建议。你富有的父母想要你的独立性和动力。最简单的方法是在星巴克找到一份工作，不要再向他们要钱了。努力进入一所优秀的大学，并取得优异成绩。
找到属于你的路，以一种非常节俭的方式向前迈进。生活不是让你父母为你购买乱七八糟的东西。你父母为他们的金钱努力工作。你知道生活中最强大的动力是贫穷吗？
Ummm. Not trying to be an ass. But all I have to say is. Don’t be a spoiled 18 year old rich kid complaining on Quora telling strangers that mommy and daddy wont give you any money and go to College and get a job? Maybe your parents are doing this for a reason? Have you ever considered thinking that? Too many rich kids get spoiled. Maybe your parents want you to go and face reality like a mature adult and live life with out being spoiled?
And don’t even consider suing them for money either because your throwing a tantrum online, otherwise, they can seriously disown you for that. I’m pretty sure you don’t want that don’t you? I’m pretty sure you have smart parents that love you, but they don’t want you to be spoiled either. All I see is a spoiled rich 18 year old crying for attention because mommy and daddy won’t give them millions of dollars so they won’t have to work. Go get a damn job like everyone else and go to College and pursue your self a career. I’m sorry for being mean but it’s facts.
嗯。我不想做一个混蛋，但我要说的是：不要做一个被宠坏的18岁富家子弟，在Quora上对陌生人抱怨，你爸爸妈妈不给你钱。去上大学，去找工作。也许你父母这么做是有原因的。你有没有想过这个问题？很多富有家庭的孩子都被宠坏了。也许你的父母希望你能像一个成熟的成年人一样去面对现实，过着不被宠坏的生活。
你在网上发脾气，不要因为这个就考虑用起诉的方式向你父母要钱，否则，他们会严重的否认你，我很确定你不想这么做，是吗？你敢肯定，你的父母很聪明，他们很爱你，但他们不希望你被宠坏。我看到的是一个富有的18岁的孩子哭着寻求关注，因为他的爸爸妈妈不给他们数百万美元，这样他们就不用工作了。像其他人一样去找一份该死的工作，去上大学，追求自己的职业。我很抱歉这么刻薄，但这是真相。
I imagine they are hoping that you will attempt to make your own way in the world, a necessary lesson for the children of rich parents to learn. No doubt they will help you when they see you helping yourself.
我想，他们希望，你能尝试在这个世界上走自己的路，这是富裕父母的孩子们必须学习的一课。毫无疑问，当他们看到你学会自立时，他们会帮助你的。
I was once a child of millionaires. They owned their own business. I worked there doing various jobs. When I graduated college, I was expected to make my own life. I got a job, raised a family, made my own money. They have passed away and I miss them every day. My daughter is a child of a millionaire. She worked for her grandparents before she turned 16, helping during wheat harvest. At 16 she went with a friend and they started working at JCP. By the time she graduated she was a department manager, she now manages a restaurant. If I were you I would talk to your parents about what you could do to earn money and their expectations of you.
我曾经也是个有钱人的孩子。他们拥有自己的企业。我在那里做过各种各样的工作。当我大学毕业时，我被期望过上属于自己的生活。我找了一份工作，养家糊口，赚属于自己的钱。现在，他们已经去世，我每天都很想念他们。
我的女儿也是一个有钱人的孩子，她16岁前为她的祖父母工作，在小麦收割期间帮忙。她16岁的时候，和她是一个朋友，一起去了JCP工作。她毕业的时候，已经是一名部门经理，现在管理着一家餐厅。如果我是你，我会和你父母谈谈你能做些什么来赚钱，以及他们对你的期望。
Simple, get a job and earn your own money, they don't have to give you anything, you are now an adult. Did your parents earn their wealth, maybe they want you to be a responsible, motivated independent person with a good work ethic.
Not a a spoiled “rich” kid that has everything given to them. I grew up with many well to do friends, trust me, the ones who were not handed everything turned out much better adults.
很简单，找份工作，赚属于自己的钱，他们不必给你任何东西，你现在已经成年了。你的父母赚到了属于他们的财富。也许他们希望你成为一个有责任心、有上进心、有良好职业道德的独立人士。
不要做一个被宠坏的有钱的孩子，等待别人为你准备好一切。我和很多好朋友一起长大，相信我，那些没有得到一切的人会成为更好的成年人。
get off your ass and get a job!! you are 18 and very much capable of taking care of yourself and making money. stop being lazy and using your parents for money, just because they are millionaires doesn’t mean they should donate it all to you just because you cannot be arsed to work for your own money.
滚去找份工作！你已经18岁了，有能力照顾好自己并赚钱了。别再懒惰了，别再利用你的父母赚钱了，他们是有钱人，并不意味着，你不想为自己赚钱，他们就应该把钱都捐给你。
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Thank them. They are going to make you survive under your own power, and that is the greatest thing they could ever give you.
You should assume that you will never get money from your parents. Ever. After all, it is their money, not yours. How do you think they got it? They earned it. You did not. Go about your life with that outlook. Go get your own wealth. The thing is, they are more likely to transfer you their wealth one day if you show that you have the ability to generate and manage your own money. Then they might believe that you have the ability to manage theirs.
谢谢他们。他们想让你在自己的能力下生存，这是他们能给你的最棒的东西。
你应该做出假设，你永远也无法再从父母那里得到钱了。毕竟，这是他们的钱，不是你的。你认为他们是怎么得到这些钱的？这是他们自己挣的。不是你挣的。带着这种观点去生活吧。去获取属于你自己的财富。有一天，你表现出有能力创造和管理自己的资金，他们才有可能将财富转移给你。然后他们可能会相信你有能力经营好他们的财富。
带着这种观点生活，你不会失望的。零期望，零失望。你任何一天，得到的任何东西，对你而言，都是在现有的生活上锦上添花。如果你坐在那里等着别人给你钱，那么你永远也拿不到。
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Considering the fact that they've raised you, fed you and given you a home I don't think they should give you any of their money. Maybe a small allowance a week or something but in the real world you can't just feed off of someone else's wealth, so genuinely k think your parents are trying to teach you that their hard earned money isn't yours to use.
考虑到他们养育了你，养活了你，给了你一个家，我认为他们不应该再给你任何钱了。也许一周一点零花钱，但在现实世界中，你不能只靠别人的财富过活，所以我真的认为，你的父母是在试图教你：他们辛苦赚来的钱不是你的。
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O.k, Idk the whole of your situation. But I'd guess that they're probably trying to get you to show some initiative. You say that you're under 18. But you don't mention how old you actually are. If you're @ least 16, you can get a job. Maybe ask your parents for some ideas of things you could do to earn money.
Don't make your parents your advisory. That will get you nowhere. Instead, make them your partner. They want you to succeed. Try it out. You may be surprised @ how well they respond. Good luck
好吧，我了解了你的全部情况。但我猜他们可能是想让你表现出一点主动性。你说你不满18岁。但你并没有提到你的实际年龄。如果你16岁了，你就能找到一份工作。也许你可以向你的父母请教一些你可以做的用来赚钱的方法。
不要让你的父母成为你的顾问。那对你没有任何帮助。相反，让他们成为你的伙伴。他们希望你成功。试试看。你可能会惊讶于他们的反应如此之好。祝你好运。
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I can suggest some possible ways to handle this situation:
我可以建议一些可能的方法来处理这种情况：
Focus on your education and skills: Instead of depending on your parents for money, focus on developing your education and skills. This can help you in the long run to become financially independent and achieve your goals.
1、和你父母聊聊，试着与父母就你的需求和担忧，进行一次坦诚和互相尊重的交谈。表达你的感受，并试着理解他们的观点。也许他们有不给你买东西的理由，也许是他们不知道你有这样的需求。
2、专注于你的教育和技能：与其依靠父母赚钱，不如专注于发展你的教育与技能。从长远来看，这可以帮助你在经济上独立并实现你的目标。
Seek help from other family members: If your parents are unwilling to provide you with financial support, consider reaching out to other family members who may be able to help you.
Seek support from trusted adults: If you are experiencing emotional distress or need additional support, consider talking to a trusted adult such as a teacher, guidance counselor, or therapist.
3、寻找兼职工作：考虑找一份兼职工作为自己挣钱。这可以教会你宝贵的技能，并给你一种独立的感觉。
4、寻求其他家庭成员的帮助：如果你的父母不愿意为你提供经济支持，可以考虑联系其他可能帮助你的家庭成员。
5、寻求值得信赖的成年人的支持：如果你正在经历情绪困扰或需要额外的支持，可以考虑与值得信赖的成人交谈，如老师、指导顾问或治疗师。
最重要的是，要记住，你父母是有钱人，并不一定意味着，他们有义务给你，你想要的一切。当然，作为父母，满足孩子的基本需求也很重要。如果你觉得自己的基本需求没有得到满足，可以考虑向值得信赖的成年人或专业人士寻求外部帮助。
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Have a conversation with your parents: Try to understand why they are not willing to give you any money or buy the things you want. They may have reasons that you are not aware of. Listen to their perspective and try to find a compromise.
Be responsible: If you can prove to your parents that you are responsible, they may be more willing to give you money or buy you things. This means doing well in school, being trustworthy, and showing that you can handle your finances.
1、与你的父母交谈，试着理解他们为什么不愿意给你钱，或买你想要的东西。他们可能有你不知道的原因。倾听他们的观点，并尝试找到一个折衷方案。
2、承担义务：如果你能向你父母证明你能承担义务，他们可能更愿意给你钱，或给你买东西。这意味着在学校表现出色，值得信赖，并表明你能处理好自己的财务问题。
Budget wisely: If you do receive money, make sure to budget it wisely. Create a budget plan that includes your expenses, savings, and any future goals you may have.
3、自己挣钱：考虑找一份兼职工作，或为社区里的人打零工，自己挣钱。这不仅会给你经济上的独立性，还会教会你宝贵的生活技能。
4、明智地预算：如果你确实收到了钱，一定要明智地预算。制定一个预算计划，包括你的开支、储蓄和任何未来的目标。
请记住，你的父母可能有他们不给你钱的原因，与他们进行坦诚的对话以了解他们的观点很重要。
Do the exact same thing everyone does: Get a job. You really did not have to include that your parents are millionaires, because regardless of their financial status, their money is their money, and they have no obligation whatsoever to spend/give you money outside of necessities like food and shelter. You want to buy things? Work for the money. your parents are not ATMs.
每个人都要做同样的事：找份工作。你真的不必如此，就算你父母是有钱人，无论他们的经济状况如何，他们的钱就是他们的钱。他们没有任何义务在食物和住所等必需品之外，为你花钱，或者给你钱。你想买东西吗？为钱工作。你的父母不是自动取款机。
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Get a job and stop trying to mooch off your parents. Your parents want you to be a responsible person and learn the true value of hard work and earning a living. You’ll really feel great about yourself when you earn your own money. You probably won’t even want to spend it, you’ll want to save it because you will understand what it took to earn. It’s called adulthood! Welcome to the real world!
找份工作，别再试图从你父母那里骗取钱财了。你的父母希望你成为一个负责任的人，学习努力工作和明白谋生的真正价值。当你自己开始挣钱的时候，你的感觉会很好。你可能甚至都不想花，你会想存起来，因为你明白了为了赚这些钱你付出了什么。这就是所谓的成年！欢迎来到现实世界！
Learn to be a better human being instead of an entitled brat. Show them you actually deserve any of it.
Volunteer, participate in some kind of community service, learn to appreciate those who are struggling and find ways you can help them- often that takes just your presence and effort and not money.
You've got about 60+ years left. Your parents are hoping you can show them you are the best of them before then. No amount of words will convince them that you are.
学会做一个更好的人，而不是一个认为自己有资格索取的孩子。向他们展示你真正值得拥有的一切。
做志愿者，参与社区服务，学会欣赏那些在努力拼搏的人，并找到帮助他们的方法，通常是你的存在和努力，而不是你的金钱。
你还有60多年的时间。你的父母希望你能在那之前，向他们展示你是最棒的。再多的言语也无法让他们相信你是，做出行动。
You should ask for jobs around the house to earn the money, or depending on your age, get a part time job. Open your own savings account. Invest. Be an entrepreneur. Evaluate what you ‘want’, is it necessary? Do your parents pay for your food, medical expenses, school needs, etc? If so, be thankful and make sure they know it. If not, then there’s a problem and you can report it to child and family services.
在你家附近找工作赚钱，根据你的年龄，找一份兼职工作。给自己开个储蓄账户，投资，做个创业者。评估你“想要”的东西，真的有必要吗？你的父母会为你支付食物、医疗、上学等费用吗？如果是这样的话，要心存感激，并确保他们知道你的感激。如果他们没有为你支付这些费用，那么就有问题了，你可以向儿童和家庭服务机构报告。
Get a job and quit being spoiled. “Anything I want???” Really?? A father should only provide what you need. NEED!!! My father is a millionaire and paid my brother’s fraternity dues and his entire schooling along with all the tests he had to take to get a job. I didn’t ask for one red cent. I worked my way through college and then paid for everything to get my PhD. My advice to you is quit being a spoiled brat and get a job. I started working at age 14 and had $8000 set aside to start college. Your entitlement is beyond belief. You should be ashamed for putting that on a public forum. Go see if the Kardashians will take you in and get off of Quora so you can do something with your life. If your father gives you anything, how are you going to learn how to survive in the world? I would suggest taking this question down.
找份工作，别被宠坏了。“所有我想要的东西”，是这样吗？父亲只需要提供你必须的东西。必须品！！！我的父亲也是个有钱人，他支付了我哥哥的兄弟会会费和他的全部学费，以及他为了找到工作而必须参加的所有考试。
我一分钱也没要。我努力读完了大学，然后为获得博士学位支付了所有费用。我给你的建议是别再做一个被宠坏的孩子，找份工作。我14岁开始工作，赚了8000美元用于上大学。
你向别人索取的权力感，让人难以置信。你应该为在公共论坛上问这种问题感到羞愧。离开Quora，去看看卡戴珊夫妇是否会收留你，这样你就能用你的人生去做些什么了。
如果说你父亲必须给予你什么？那就是如何在这个世界上生存。我建议你把这个问题记下来。
If you are above legal age, you should find a job and work. Make your own way. Even if, you are not but an age of 16, find a job and work. Your parents owe you nothing in this world. Nobody does. You had better learn this early.
I started at age 12. I was not born with a silver spoon in my mouth. I lived on the worst side of town and wore hand me downs that had holes in the knees. We were ashamed to be seen like that.
如果你超过法定年龄，你应该去找份工作。走自己的路。就算你还不到16岁，也要找份工作。你的父母在这个世界上什么都不欠你。没人欠你。你最好早点学会这一点。
我12岁学会了这个。我不是含着银汤匙出生的。我住在城里最糟糕的地方，穿着膝盖上有洞的旧服装。被人看到，我会感到羞愧。
Are they feeding, clothing you and providing a warm comfortable home for you? Are they facilitating your studies? If so that really is all you are entitled to. If they aren’t then maybe you need to explain to them that your needs are not being met. However if there are other things you want then I would suggest you get a part time job and save for them.
他们是否在为你提供食物、衣服和温暖舒适的家？他们为你支付学习费用吗？如果是的话，这就是所有你有权利得到的东西。如果他们没有，那么你需要向他们解释你的需求没有得到满足。
然而，如果你还有其他想要的东西，那么我建议你找一份兼职工作，并为它们存钱。
Stop writing TROLL questions on this website
Do something useful with your life
Read, expand your brain and improve your miserable existence
Exercise and improve your health and body
Volunteer for a charity and help others instead of being narcissistic
Get over yourself
不要在这里问钓鱼问题。
用你的生命去做一些有用的事情。
阅读。扩展你的智慧，改善你悲惨的生活。
锻炼身体，改善健康和身体。
为慈善机构做志愿者，帮助他人，而不是自恋。
忘掉自己。
Get A Job. Earn your own money and show your parents that you have what it takes to survive on your own in the world.
找份工作。赚属于自己的钱，向父母表明你有能力在这个世界上独自生存。