哪些事情让你觉得每个人这辈子都应该体验一次？
What is something you think every person should experience in their lifetime?
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一个走心的拥抱。
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What is something you think every person should experience in their lifetime?
哪些事情让你觉得每个人这辈子都应该体验一次？
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Getting a hug from someone who has been waiting all day to see you
从一个等着见你等了一整天的人那里得到一个拥抱。
I've gotten one and only one hug in my life where I truly felt wanted. Someone had to wait about 5 months without seeing me and when he saw me he hugged me so tight we fell to the floor. I injured my god damn back because of that but that was the only hug in my life where I was like damn.
我这辈子只被拥抱过那么一次，让我觉得对方真的特别想见我。有个人等了五个月也没见过我，在他见到我的时候他把我抱得特别紧，我们两个都摔到地上了。我把自己后背都给伤到了，但这是我这辈子唯一一次觉得特别牛逼的拥抱。
Can you share more details on this hug so I can live vicariously through you with this moment?
你可不可以多分享一些与这个拥抱有关的细节，这样我就可以再替你感受一遍那一瞬间了？
Lmao sure. A good guy friend and I had graduated college, with a bachelor's, and I took a long break (5 months) before starting my master's. We hadn't seen each other because I spent my break traveling so when I came back he had missed me a lot, and apparently he was in love with me and I didn't know that so that adds plus points to the hug I will guess.
哈哈哈哈当然可以。我有个很好的男性朋友跟我一起大学本科毕业了，我放了五个月的长假然后才去读硕士。我们互相有五个月没见，因为我的整个假期都在到处旅行，所以我回来之后他特别想我，显然他当时爱上我了，但是我不知道，所以或许能给这个拥抱加几分吧。
我们本来打算在公园见面，我先到的，当时我在低头刷手机，这哥们忽然就蹦出来了。我们抱得特别紧，我都呼吸不了了，这个笨蛋绊到了什么东西上面，于是我们两个都摔到地上了，我们落到了一个石头坑里，所以两个人都受了点伤。然后我们就出去玩了。
没有幸福地结了婚生了87个孩子这种结局，因为没有。但这确实就是我觉得最被需要的一个拥抱。我们还是好朋友，我也特别感激他。
我知道你可能没特别认真地在问，但我还是想要分享一下，嘿嘿。
I did mean to ask seriously. Never had a hug like that. Thank you.
我确实是认真地问了。从来没被这么抱过。谢谢你。
Getting a hug from someone who has been waiting a few months to see you. Oh god, i don't like long distance, but i swear first hug, first kiss, first cuddle, first sex, they're absolutely mind blowing.
从一个等着见你等了几个月的人那里得到一个拥抱。哦天哪，我虽然不喜欢异地恋，但是我发誓第一次拥抱，第一次接吻，第一次缠绵，第一次做爱，绝对都是印象深刻的。
Looking at a clear sky full of stars. Done that on a beach with a clear sky on a starry night and saw 5 shooting stars in 10 minutes. I was fully amazed.
仰望满是星辰的晴朗夜空。在一个海滩上看过，夜空晴朗，满天繁星，10分钟就看见了五个流星。真的很震惊。
I had the privilege to camp for a few days in a remote game reserve in Southern Africa and the stars were just completely outrageous. It was like a shooting star at least every few minutes.
我曾经有幸在南非的一个野生动物保护区露了几天的营，那里的星星简直亮得离谱。当时几分钟就有一个流星。
Feeling unconditionally loved by a parent. So many other problems would disappear if more people could experience this.
感受到父母无条件的爱。如果有更多的人能够体验这种感觉的话，很多问题都能得到解决。
This one hit me the most. You wouldn't think it needs to be said. But it does.
这一条给我的感触最大。可能你觉得没必要非得说出来，但确实有这个必要。
被你的父母全心全意地爱着，不是为了给孙辈看，也不是为了在社交媒体上显摆……肯定感觉很好
Financial security.
财务自由。
我从来都没感受过，这一简单的事实给我带来了太多的压力和焦虑，我都不敢承认。我确实相信钱买不来幸福，但是如果你真的没有钱，那么你追求幸福的道路肯定会被阻挡。
Maybe wealth doesn't guarantee happiness, but poverty virtually guarantees unhappiness. Constant worry about how to make ends meet just eats away at a person.
或许财富不能保证幸福，但是贫穷绝对能够保证不幸。如果你每天都要担心收支怎么相抵，那你会慢慢被磨平的。
As a dude who grew up in poverty and made it, I can't describe how much of a difference this makes. I remember while shopping several years ago, I got toward the end of my list and realized I didn't have to look at prices or make painful decisions at checkout. I lost it and cried in the store.
作为一个在贫困中长大最后挣了钱的人，我简直无法描述这两者之间有多大的差距。我还记得几年前逛超市的时候，我买完了自己清单上的东西，忽然发现我已经不用看价格标签，也不用再在收银台做出痛苦的决定了。我当时就在超市里失去控制哭出来了。
我每次见到那些被困在严重贫困的生活中的人的时候，都会很痛心。除了给他们报销买菜钱，修车钱之类的，以及给慈善事业捐款，支持那些想要带来真正变革的候选人之外，我不知道还能做什么。
And true poverty. Some folks have no real idea what it means.
还有真正的贫困。有些人可能都不知道这是什么意思。
Seeing a total eclipse.
看一次日全食。
你可能看过日偏食。你整了个小盒子，透过它你看见太阳好像被人吃了一口一样，然后你想，“这有什么厉害的？”或许外面的天气变暗了一点，或许变凉快了一点，但也就那样。
但是在食甚的时候，有那么三十秒钟整个太阳都消失了。日光很暗淡，但和黄昏也不一样，更像是你走进了一个没开灯的影棚。有那么短暂的一刻，空气会变凉，哪怕在夏天也一样。并且在天空中，那个黑色圆盘周围的一圈炽热的圆环，跟在大自然里见过的任何东西都不一样。
非常值得亲眼见证，至少一次。
living alone. being truly by yourself for long periods of time can teach you invaluable things when becoming an adult
一个人生活。如果你能一个人生活很长一段时间，那么你成年之后将会学到很多非常宝贵的东西。
Yes, agreed, but I also think that the college dorm experience taught me a lot too.
没错，我同意。但是我也觉得大学寝室的经历教会了我很多东西。
学会怎么和其他人打交道，怎么和形形色色的人相处，怎么和一个没那么烂，但也不会成为你最好的朋友的室友相处。
学会怎么自己准备好去上课，学会怎么做好你自己的日程表，把你的所有责任都尽到。
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这有点像是不断试错，但实际上这种生活真的教会了我很多关于我自己的，以及关于如何在这世界上生活的东西。
Interesting, what kind of things?
真有趣，比如哪种东西？
我这么问是因为到目前为止，好像我只从孤独的生活中学会了一些让我开心的非常特别的方法（别的几乎没有了。）
Oh, tons, in my experience.
噢，太多了，就我自己来说。
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怎么做家务，因为通常来说你都要和室友或者爱人一起做。
怎么一个人做饭，或者怎么学会喜欢吃剩饭。
你真的得学会与孤独相处。这是可以克服的，并且也不是什么可怕的事情。在学到这一点之后，我发现我确实很喜欢有人陪伴，但我自己一个人也能很满足。
你还得学会怎么才能不要让无聊渗透进来，不要让抑郁的感觉渗透进来。不要觉得你自己是孤独的，应该觉得你是自己的城堡里独一无二的国王，你能做所有的决策，你在全权治理。
One month in customer service
在售后服务部门呆一个月
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You'll either learn compassion or develop a searing hatred for humanity.
你要么会学会同情，要么会对人性产生刻骨的仇恨。
I think usually both. You’ll learn not to be a dickhead to people just doing their jobs, but it will also reinforce a whole bunch of negative stereotypes.
我觉得通常都是两者都有。你会学会不要对那些只是在尽自己本职工作的人过于苛责，你也会对某些负面的刻板印象产生更加严重的厌恶。
Every politician should have to move into a one bedroom apartment and work $18/hr Job for 40hrs a week for 3 months with no safety net in savings to fall back on
每一个政治家都应该搬进一栋单间公寓里，拿着18美元每小时的工资，一星期干40个小时，干上它三个月，并且没有存款让他可以有所依靠。
One month in call center customer service at a student loan servicer. I did it for a year. Seriously the only thibg protecting some of those customers from being destroyed is the kindness of strangers and prosecution
以学生贷客服的身份在呼叫中心客服干一个月。我干了一年。说真的，保护某些消费者被人砍死的唯二事物，就是陌生人的善意和警察的逮捕令。
It's insane all of the shit you have to put up with for a minimum wage job. It's especially worse when you have shitty co-workers/managers too. You'd be surprised how many times you are threatened with death or harm for not taking coupons, or giving free stuff.
你为了干好一份最低工资的工作而需要忍受的那些烂事儿简直让你无法想象。
Might sound depressing but its not meant to. Losing the fear of death. It wipes away all cares and lets you be free.
或许听起来有点让人抑郁，但我没有这个意思。失去对死亡的恐惧。这会抹除你所有在乎的事情，让你变得自由自在。
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How do you that? I've been trapped with it for years and I keep becoming more and more scared by things I used to find fun... (Flying on planes, riding rollercoasters, sometimes even going outside)
你是怎么做到的？我已经被这种事情困了好几年了，之前觉得很好玩的事情，现在我越来越感到害怕……（坐飞机，坐过山车，有时甚至连出门都害怕）
A snow day as a child. It is the most wonderful thing ever.
孩提时代遇到下雪天。那是最美好的事情。
A massage, not sexual in any way though. A relaxing massage of the back, thighs legs and feet. It's truly refreshing and you feel new and energized.
按摩，不是带性暗示的那种。一场放松的背部，大腿，腿部和足部按摩。真的让人焕然一新，你会觉得充满能量。