生活中最可悲的事实是什么(二)
What is the saddest truth about life?
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网友：生活中最残酷的事实是什么?外表美很有价值。虚伪的人更受人喜爱。偏爱在每个地方都是核心。
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What is the saddest truth about life?
生活中最可悲的事实是什么?
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What's the hardest truth of life?
Physical beauty is valued.
Fake people are loved more.
Partiality is core in every place.
Reservation system is killing the development of India.
No one thinks good for you except your parents. I repeat, no one!
Very few friends are happy with your success. Most of your bffs leave you. “No forever!”
Most of the present relationships have no future. They are made to break up one day.
生活中最残酷的事实是什么?
外表美很有价值。
虚伪的人更受人喜爱。
偏爱在每个地方都是核心。
预留制扼杀了印度的发展。
除了你的父母，没有人会为你着想。我再说一遍，没有人!
很少有朋友为你的成功而高兴。你的大多数好朋友都离你而去。“没有永远的爱!”
现在的大多数关系都没有未来。他们注定会于某一天分手。
We are getting addicted to the internet day by day!
Most of the students are even today forced to pursue engineering and medical.
Marriages are not always happy.
All relatives don't think of your goodwill.
90% people you meet in life , backstab you.
We waste most of our time in jealousy.
You can get good education only if you are financially stable.
Headache really sucks.
Life of a divorcee is too tough. Not for work but for the taunts they get to hear daily.
每个人都有难以隐藏却难以表达的感情。
我们一天天沉迷于网络！
即使在今天，大多数学生仍被迫攻读工程学和医学。
婚姻并不总是幸福的。
所有的亲戚都不会想到你的善意。
你一生中遇到的90%的人都会在背后捅你一刀。
我们把大部分时间都浪费在嫉妒上。
只有经济稳定，你才能接受良好的教育。
头痛真的很难受。
离婚后的生活太艰难了。不是因为工作，而是因为每天都会听到的奚落。
God created the donkey and said to him, “You'll be a donkey and carry everyone's burden and will live for 40 years.” The donkey said, “Carrying burdens is OK, but 40 years is too much for me, give me only 30 years.” God granted his wish.
God created the dog and said to him, “You will be a dog and look after people's belongings. You'll eat whatever you are given by your masters and live for 40 years .” The dog said, ”All conditions are fine, but 40 years is too much for this job. Give me only 20 years.” God granted his wish.
God then created the monkey and said to him, ”You will be a monkey and entertain others with your tricks. You will live for 40 years.” The monkey said, “God 40 years is too much for me, give me only 30 years.” God granted his wish.
God then cre
上帝创造了驴子，并对驴子说：“你成为一头驴子，背负每个人的负担，可以活40年。”驴子说：“背负负担是可以的，但40年寿命对我来说太多了，只给我30年。”上帝实现了它的愿望。
上帝创造了狗，并对它说：“你将成为一只狗，照顾人们的财物。你将吃主人给你的任何东西，并能活40年。”狗说：“所有条件都很好，但40年寿命对这份工作来说太久了。”。只给我20年就好。”上帝实现了它的愿望。
上帝于是创造了猴子，并对它说：“你将成为一只猴子，用你的把戏来娱乐别人。你将活40年。”猴子说：“40年对我来说太久了，只给我30年就好。”上帝实现了它的愿望。
From then on, a man lives 25 years as a man, 10 years as a donkey, carrying all the burdens of his house, 20 years as a dog, taking care of his children and eating whatever he is given, and 10 years as a monkey, going from house to house entertaining his grandchildren!
What is the saddest truth of life?
Most people never get to experience what's the difference between living and existing. Most people only exist, don't live.
上帝创造了人，并对他说：“你将成为一个人，活25年。将主宰所有其他生物。”然后，这个人说：“25年对我这样的伟大生物来说太短了。给我加上被驴拒绝的10年，被狗拒绝的20年，被猴子拒绝的10年间。”上帝实现了他的愿望。
从那时起，一个人要做25年的人，做10年的驴，承担家里所有的负担，做20年的狗，照顾他的孩子们，吃给他的任何东西，做10年的猴子，从一家轮一家的招待他的孙子们!
生活中最悲哀的事实是什么?
大多数人从未体验过生活和生存之间的区别。大多数人只是生存，不是在生活。
What are ten important truths everyone should accept in life?
Thanks for A2A. The last one is my favorite.
Some people love sleeping because dreams are better than reality.
8 billion people and you may be still single.
Shared joy is a double joy. Shared sorrow is half a sorrow.
Age is something that doesn’t matter unless you are a cheese.
Maybe the word ‘forever’ was meant for memories and not people.
Never mock a pain that you never experienced.
Time always reveals whose loss it really was.
Some people lose diamonds in search of stones.
Enjoy it before it becomes a memory.
If you found any of these helpful, do Upvote.
生活中每个人都应该接受的十条重要真理是什么?
感谢邀请回答，最后一条是我的最喜欢的。
有些人喜欢睡觉，因为做梦比现实更美好。
80亿人，你可能仍然单身。
分享快乐是双重快乐，分享悲伤是将悲伤减半。
年龄并不重要，除非你是一块奶酪。
也许“永远”这个词是指回忆，而不是人。
永远不要嘲笑你从未经历过的痛苦。
时间总会揭示到底是谁的损失。
有些人为了寻找石头而丢掉了钻石。
在它成为记忆之前好好享受吧。
如果你发现其中任何一条有用，请点赞。
What is the harsh truth of life?
One day I was chopping vegetables to cook food for my family. I was 16 then and didn't have much idea how to cook Indian dishes.
My mum was not well, she had a high fever, and I thought to surprise her with my cooking skills.
She was very happy after seeing me taking the initiative of cooking for the family. She was silently sleeping on her bed, and I was preparing for lunch.
I made one radish dish, one dish of soya chunks and fish with rice. The taste was not great, but yes, she tasted what I made for her.
My father came to have his lunch around at 2 PM, and when he saw her in high fever, he got tensed. My father asked her to get ready to go to the hospital.
She denied at first because of the injection fear, but I asked her to go. I made her ready. I helped her comb her hair and wear clothes.
I brought a glass of water before she was leaving. My father took her to the diagnostic centre.
生活的残酷真相是什么？
那时我16岁，我正在切菜给家人做饭，其实对如何烹饪印度菜不太了解。
我妈妈身体不好，发高烧，我想用我的烹饪技巧给她一个惊喜。
看到我主动为家人做饭后，她非常高兴。她静静地睡在床上，我正在准备午饭。
我做了一份萝卜菜，一份豆块和鱼饭。味道不太好，但是她尝了我为她做的东西。
我父亲下午两点左右来吃午饭，当他看到她发高烧时，他很紧张。我父亲让她做好去医院的准备。
她起初因为害怕注射而拒绝去医院，但我要求她去。我给她准备好了，我帮她梳头和穿衣服。
她走之前我带了一杯水。我父亲带她去了诊断中心。
Unfortunately, that was the last day when I was seeing her. She never came back to me after that day. She had a multi-organ failure, and she left this world.
Who knew that I am feeding her for the last time with my hands? It was a very rare coincidence of surprising her by cooking food on the last day of her life. I guess I proved her that day that I am grown up now.
In these 9 years, I see her in my dreams very often. I fight with her for not letting me know of her sudden leaving. Our journey was not yet completed, and I still needed her.
I miss my mother, I want to share many things with her, but now I just have her memories and my dreams. It is very difficult to survive without a mother.
There are many things which I can't share with my father and my brother. I want that hug which can heal my pain. I need that suggestion which can guide me. I miss her at every point of my life.
Harsh Reality: Life is a lie, but death is a truth.
我害怕看到她的情况，因此我拒绝和她一起去。我不知道那天是什么让我哭了。我回到自己的房间，看到妈妈极度痛苦哭了。
不幸的是，那是我最后一次见到她。那天之后她再也没来找过我。她多器官衰竭，离开了这个世界。
谁知道给她做饭竟变成最后一次？这是一个非常罕见的巧合，在她生命的最后一天给她做饭从而带来惊喜，这是非常罕见的巧合。我想那天我向她证明了我现在已经长大了。
在这9年里，我经常在梦中看到她。我和她吵架，因为她没有告诉我就突然离开。我们的旅程还没有结束，我仍然需要她。
我想念我的妈妈，我想和她分享很多东西，但是现在我只有她的回忆和梦中才能见到。没有了母亲，生存是非常困难的。
有很多事情我不能和我的父亲和弟弟分享。我想要那个能治愈我伤痛的拥抱。我需要那个能指导我的建议。我每时每刻都在想念她。
残酷的现实：生命是谎言，但死亡是真相。
What are some ugly truths of life?
1. Not all relationships will lead to marriage, some will help you discover new restaurants.
2. It’s not selfish to make your happiness your main priority.
3. Stay away from “still” people. Still broke, still complaining, still hating, still nowhere.
4. Anything that costs you your mental health is too expensive.
5. Make sure you’re not the only one who actually values the connection.
6. You don’t have to be liked by everybody. You don’t even like everybody.
7. People may be upset when you choose you over their mess. Choose you anyway.
8. Listen, that move you are scared to make, might be the game changer.
9. There is a past version of you that is so proud of how far you have come.
10. If someone’s absence brings you peace. You didn’t lose anything.
生活中有哪些丑陋的事实?
1.并非所有的关系都会导致婚姻，有些关系会帮助你发现新的餐馆。
2.把你的幸福作为你的首要任务不是自私的。
3.远离老这样的人：一直破产，一直抱怨，一直仇恨，一直一无所获。
4.任何损害你心理健康的东西都很昂贵。
5.确保你不是唯一真正重视这种联系的人。
6.你不必受到每个人的喜欢，你也甚至不喜欢每个人。
7.当你选择为你自己考虑而不是为他们的烂摊子考虑时，人们可能会感到不安。无论如何要选择为你自己考虑。
8.听着，你不敢做的那一步，可能会改变游戏规则。
9.过去的你对自己所取得的成就感到非常骄傲。
10.如果某人的离去能让你平静，你就没有失去任何东西。
What are the worst truths about life?
You got married. Had kids. Raised them with everything you had. Time flew. They grew up.
They abandoned you.
You had a brother. You played together. Grew together. You thought of him to be your strength.
He killed you for money.
You set-up a business. Had a partner. Dreamt together. Realized them together.
Time came, he cheated you.
You fell for her.You thought she was the perfect one.
She slept with your best friend.
You crossed paths with a stranger. Made friends. Became besties. Someone whom you could trust your life with.
He stabbed you right in the back.
The worst truth about life is, you can put as much as of efforts, time, energy and love. When time comes, most people will choose what suits their self interest the most.
生活中最糟糕的真相是什么？
你结婚了，有孩子，用你所拥有的一切抚养他们。时间飞逝，他们长大了。
他们抛弃了你。
你有一个哥哥。你们一起玩过，一起长大，你认为他是你的力量源泉。
他为了钱杀了你。
你创办了一家公司，有一个搭档，一起做梦，一起实现它们。
时间到了，他欺骗了你。
你爱上了她，你以为她是完美的。
她和你最好的朋友睡在一起。
你遇到了一个陌生人，做朋友，成为最好的朋友，成为一个你可以托付一生的人。
他在你背后捅了你一刀。
生活中最糟糕的事实是，你可以付出尽可能多的努力、时间、精力和爱。当时间到来时，大多数人都会选择最适合自己利益的东西。
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What are the bitter truths of life one should know?
It's very manipulative that our angry side is always seen as our “true colours”, as if when we are happy and being kind, we're being fake.
Be careful with your words. You never know how many times it keeps repeating in someone's mind.
What makes people ugly, is their negativity, jealousy & their need to bring others down to make themselves feel better.
Normalize using words like colleague, classmate, old school mate, neighbour, etc because not everyone is your friend.
People look so different once you don't care about them anymore. You begin to notice how “ordinary” they are.
The ugliest thing you can do is bringing up someone's past, when they've changed.
How you're treated is more important than how much you like someone.
一个人应该知道生活中的逆耳之言是什么？
我们愤怒的一面总是被视为我们的“本色”，这是非常具有操控性的，就好像当我们快乐和善良的时候，我们是假的一样。
说话要小心，你永远不知道它在某人的脑海中重复了多少次。
让人丑陋的是他们的消极、嫉妒和他们为了让自己感觉更好而贬低别人的需求。
正常使用同事、同学、老同学、邻居等词语，因为不是每个人都是你的朋友。
一旦你不再在乎他们，他们看起来就会大不相同。你开始注意到他们是多么“普通”。
你所能做的最丑陋的事情就是提起某人的过去，当他们改变了。
别人对你的态度比你有多喜欢一个人更重要。
What's the hardest truth of life?
I met my ex-girlfriend on Tinder. we were together for almost two years. We broke up two years ago and I haven’t been with anyone since. What I learned is that even when you feel ready, you can’t skip to the end.
You cannot find love by looking for it.
Love starts with loving yourself. It’s one of those “when the student is ready, the teacher appears” kind of things. Like attracts like.
And if you don’t think you’re awesome, work on it. Do something for yourself. Go to the gym. Start a business. Buy a book.. Whatever gets you closer to being someone you would want to date yourself. The only person you are guaranteed to spend the rest of your life with is you.
Make sure you’re in great company.
生活中最艰难的事实是什么？
我在Tinder上认识了我的前女友。我们在一起快两年了。我们两年前分手了，从那以后我就没和任何人在一起过。我学到的是，即使你觉得准备好了，也不能直接跳到最后。
你不可能通过寻找来找到爱。
爱从爱自己开始。这是一种“学生准备好了，老师就会出现”的事情—物以类聚。
如果你不觉得自己很棒，那就努力吧。为自己做点什么：去健身房，去创业，去买一本书。只要能让你更接近自己想要约会的对象，唯一能保证与你共度余生的人就是你自己。
确保你有很棒的同伴。
Life is uncertain.
I was out with my friends on a trek, when I got a call from home about my dad’s stroke. I was broken and didn’t know what to do.
I didn’t want to lose him. I wanted to talk to my mom about the same but my eyes unleashed tears.
I booked a cab and went to the hospital. It wasn’t nice to see my dad in the ICU.
4. He had undergone a major spinal cord surgery. His entire body is paralysed, right now.
5. It gets really hard for me to see him in pain, everyday.
6. His efforts and determination to get better during his physiotherapies is commendable.
Life throws lemons in our way but we choose to make lemonade out of it.
My dad's determination gives me hope for his betterment.
生活充满变数。
我和朋友们外出旅行时，接到了家里关于我父亲中风的电话。我崩溃了，不知道该怎么办。
我不想失去他。我想告诉我妈妈，但我的眼睛却流下了眼泪。
我订了一辆出租车，然后去到医院。看到我爸爸在重症监护室，心情很不好。
他经历了一次重大的脊髓手术。他现在整个身体都瘫痪了
每天看到他痛苦的样子，我真的很难受。
他在物理治疗期间努力康复的决心值得称赞。
生活向我们扔来柠檬，但我们选择把它榨成柠檬水。
我父亲的决心让我对他的康复进展抱有希望。
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What is a brutal truth about life that needs to be said?
Nothing in life matters. It doesn’t matter how successful in life you are. It doesn’t matter how many hours of school you put in. It doesn’t matter how many friends you make along the way or family you meet. None of that matters in the end. Because you will die, and with your death, everything that you worked for will wash away in the immortal waves of the universe. The only thing which could possibly change this is immortality, but an even harsher truth is that immortality will likely NEVER be achieved in your lifetime (assuming your actually old enough to read and understand this message). Also, all the times you told yourself that you would “do this tomorrow,” when you could just done it today. The fact that sometimes in life you just have to suffer and sometimes there is no cure to that suffering. Also, the fact that your existence doesn’t really matter. There are millions of people being born every day, your just 1 person of that group. It doesn’t matter whether you become successful or not, or whether or not you invent the cure to cancer or something. Because with enough time (and luck), the odds of someone else within that group doing it is extremely high. Also, all the wasted time that you cannot get back. Every second you waste pondering on the past is a second you miss enjoying the present and preparing for the future. In other words, never stay still for any longer than you need to. Always enjoy life, from your waking second to your eventual dying one. Because nothing else matters.
生活中有什么残酷的真相需要说出来?
生活中什么都不重要。你在生活中有多成功并不重要。你上了多少个小时的学校并不重要，一路上交了多少朋友或认识了多少家人也不重要。这些最终都无关紧要。因为你会死，随着你的死，你为之奋斗的一切都会在宇宙不朽的浪潮中被冲走。唯一可能改变这一点的就是永生，但一个更残酷的事实是，永生可能永远不会在你的一生中实现(假设你真的到了能够阅读和理解这条信息的年龄)。而且，你总是告诉自己“明天就做”，其实你今天就可以完成。事实上，在生活中，有时你不得不忍受痛苦，有时这种痛苦是无法治愈的。还有，你的存在并不重要。每天都有无数人出生，而你只是其中的一个。不管你是否成功，也不管你是否发明了治疗癌症的方法。因为如果有足够的时间(和运气)，这个群体中的其他人做这件事的几率是非常高的。还有，所有被浪费的时间都无法挽回。你浪费的默想过去的每一秒，都是你错过享受现在和为未来做准备的一秒。换言之，如果没有必要，永远不要停留太久。从你醒来的那一秒到你最终死去的那一秒，永远享受生活就好。因为其他的都不重要。
What are some harsh realities of life?
Even if you're so thirsty, don't drink from every cup that is presented to you. That's how you get poisoned.
The biggest part of becoming an adult is unlearning a lot of bullshit you were taught by people, who didn't know what they were doing either !
Maturity is being able to have your opinions and beliefs challenged, without feeling personally challenged or attacked.
Remember, most of your stress comes from the way you respond, not the way life is.
Sometimes you block your own blessings by telling everyone your business.
Don't ask why you don't fit in. You belong elsewhere.
Even if I trust you, I can't tell you everything.
It's great to see the good in people. However, make sure you set boundaries to protect your energy.
生活中有哪些残酷的现实?
即使你很渴，不要把端给你的杯中水都喝光，这就是你中毒的原因。
成为一个成年人最大的一部分就是忘掉那些不知道自己在做什么的人教你的很多废话！
成熟是能够让你的观点和信仰受到挑战，而不会感到个人受到挑战或攻击。
记住，你的大部分压力来自你的反应方式，而不是生活方式。
有时候，你会把自己的事情告诉每个人，从而阻挡自己的祝福。
不要问为什么你不合群—你属于别处。
即使我相信你，我也不能告诉你一切。
能看到人们好的一面真是太好了。但是，一定要设定界限来保护你的精力。
What's the hardest truth of life?
People will judge you for your own personal choices, even when it has nothing to do with them.
The version of you, which others have created in their mind, is not your responsibility.
Even minding your own business makes people upset.
Jealousy comes in jokes. Just pay attention.
Normalize avoiding people who aren’t good for your mental health.
You’re personally responsible for becoming more ethical than the society you grew up.
Forgive people in your life. Holding onto anger only hurts you, not them.
People only label themselves blessed, when money is involved. But it’s deeper than that.
Ignore what everyone else is doing. Your life is about breaking your own limits and outgrowing yourself to live your best life.
生活中最残酷的事实是什么?
人们会因为你的个人选择而评判你，即使这些选择与他们毫无关系。
别人在他们心中塑造的那个你，不是你的责任。
即使只关心自己的事情也会让人心烦。
嫉妒来自于笑话，集中注意力。
正常地避开那些对你的心理健康不好的人。
你个人有责任变得比你成长的社会更讲道德。
原谅你生命中的人。耿耿于怀只会伤害你自己，而不会伤害他们。
只有涉及到金钱的时候，人们才会给自己贴上幸福的标签。但幸福远不止于此。
忽略其他人正在做的事情。你的生活就是打破自己的极限，超越自己，过上最好的生活。
What are some harsh realities of life?
A lot. Being a handsome man, is one of the most “unfair advantage” you could ever have. Better pay. More options in terms of relationships. Easier to make friends. More sex. I could go on and on…Luckily, unhandsome men can become handsome in a matter of 2–3 months. Get leaner, dress better (fitting clothes, wear black), start lifting weights and train in the fighting arts.
Money matters. A lot. Yes, all by itself money won’t make you happy. But you’d be a fool to say that having lots of money WON’T measurably increase your quality of life. You could get out of a dead-end job. You could be the master of your own time. You could retire your mom.
Working hard and “hustling 24/7” is CRIMINALLY overrated and toxic. 20% of your efforts contribute to 80% of your success in any given field. Be it business, good grades in school/college, building muscle and losing fat, dating, relationships…Everywhere. Which means, that there is just a handful of behaviours/actions/customers/partners (20%) that disproportionally contribute to your success and happiness. Hard work, and especially “hustling” is greatly overrated. You need to work hard at the right stuff, the 20% of factors that contribute to 80% of your success. That’s how you get real world success.
生活中有哪些残酷的现实?
很多。作为一个帅哥，是你所能拥有的最“不公平的优势”之一。更好的报酬，在关系方面有更多选择。更容易交朋友，有更多的性爱。我可以继续说……幸运的是，不幸的是，男人可以在2-3个月内变得英俊。变得更瘦，穿得更好（合身的衣服，穿黑色的衣服），开始举重和格斗技巧训练。
钱很重要。金钱本身不会让你快乐。但如果你说拥有很多钱并不能显著提高你的生活质量，那你就太傻了。你可以摆脱一份没有前途的工作。你可以成为自己时间的主人。你可以让你妈妈退休。
努力工作和“全天候忙碌”被严重高估，而且是有害的。在任何特定领域，20%的努力有助于80%的成功。无论是商业、在学校/大学取得好成绩、锻炼肌肉和减肥、约会、恋爱等等无一不是。这意味着，只有少数行为/行动/客户/合作伙伴（20%）对你的成功和幸福做出了不成比例的贡献。努力工作，尤其是“忙碌”被大大高估了。你需要在正确的事情上努力，20%的因素对你80%的成功有贡献。这就是你在现实世界中获得成功的方式。
People lie all the time - But their behaviour can’t. Everybody says: “This year I’m going to get into shape.” But then they get drunk and high on the weekend and scarf down 3 burritos and skip the gym because “hangover”. Never take people for their word - Always look at their actions. People’s behaviour tell the real story, while they tell the story that sounds good to others.
90% of self-help, fitness and business advice is complete and utter bullshit that doesn’t work in the “Real World”. Most advice in books, articles, YT vids and even paid courses and seminars, sounds really good and helpful in theory, but always fails to deliver in the real world. But it get’s worse…Some of the advice is even dangerous. Most popular diets, for example, will make you gain fat back! Most self-help advice will only make you feel good for a couple of weeks, instead of teaching you how to change your habits.
我们都像瘾君子——我们的大脑以某种方式连接起来，我们永远不会满足。无论生活的哪个领域，我们总是想要越来越多、想要更多的钱、想要更多体验、想要更多朋友。问题是:有一个收益递减的点，更多的X并不会带来更多的幸福。
人们总是撒谎-但他们的行为不能撒谎。每个人都说：“今年我要恢复健康。”但他们在周末喝醉了，喝得酩酊大醉，狼吞虎咽地吃了3个墨西哥卷饼，因为“宿醉”而不去健身房。永远不要相信别人的话——永远要看他们的行动。人们的行为会讲述真实的故事，而他们讲述的故事在别人听起来不错。
90%的自助、健身和商业建议完全是胡扯，在“现实世界”行不通。书籍、文章、油管视频、甚至付费课程和研讨会中的大多数建议，在理论上听起来真的很好，很有帮助，但在现实世界中总是无法实现。但情况变得更糟了，有些建议甚至很危险。例如，最流行的饮食会让你发胖！大多数自助建议只会让你在几周内感觉良好，而不是教你如何改变习惯。