生活中最可悲的事实是什么(一)

Ayush Singh
Meet Nisar-ud-din Ahmad, he spent his 23 years in jail and the best thing is, after 23 years, Supreme Court found that he’s innocent.
Nisar was among three men who walked out from Jaipur jail after the Supreme Court acquitted them of all charges, setting aside their life sentence and ordering their immediate release on May 11. They were booked for five blasts onboard trains — on the first anniversary of the Babri Masjid demolition — that killed two passengers and injured eight.
By the time they were acquitted, their families had been left shattered by the fight to prove their innocence.
After acquitted all charges he said,
“I have clocked 8,150 days of the prime of my life inside the jail. For me, life is over. What you are seeing is a living corpse.”

会见尼萨尔(Nisar-ud-din Ahmad)，他在监狱里度过了23年，最棒的是，23年后，最高法院认定他无罪。
尼萨尔是最高法院宣布他们无罪后从斋浦尔监狱走出的三名男子之一，他们被撤销了终身监禁，并于5月11日下令立即释放。他们因火车上的五起爆炸而被立案，这是发生在巴布里清真寺被拆除一周年之际的事，造成两名乘客死亡，八人受伤。
当他们被判无罪时，他们的家人已经在被证明自己清白的斗争弄得支离破碎。
在宣布所有指控无罪后，他说，
“我人生中8150天的黄金时光在监狱里度过。对我来说，生命已经结束了。你看到的是一具活死人而已。”

“I was yet to be 20 years old when they threw me in jail. I am 43 today. My younger sister was 12 when I saw her last. Her daughter is 12 now. My niece was a year old. She is already married. My cousin was two years younger than me, she is now a grandmother. A generation has completely skipped from my life.”
Nisar spent his first night of freedom in a hotel in Jaipur. “I couldn’t sleep, there was a bed in the room. All these years, I have slept on the floor on a thin blanket,” he said.
“I had an exam in 15 days, I was on my way to college. A police vehicle was waiting. A man showed me his revolver and forced me to get in. The Karnataka Police had no idea about my arrest. This team had come from Hyderabad. They took me to Hyderabad.”
His father Noor-ud-din Ahmad left everything to fight a lonely battle to prove his innocence. He didn’t see any hope until he died in 2006.
That's the saddest truth of life when you're innocent but spent your precious 23 years in jail.

“他们把我关进监狱时，我还未满20岁。我如今43岁。我最后一次见到妹妹时，我妹妹12岁，现在她其女儿12岁了。我侄女当时是一岁，现在她已经结婚了。我表妹比我小两岁，现在做奶奶了。整整一代人从我的生活中跳了出来。”
尼萨尔在斋浦尔的一家酒店度过了他自由的第一个夜晚。他说：“我睡不着—房间里有一张床。这些年来，我一直睡在有一条薄毯子上的地板上。”。
“我当时在15天内要参加了一次考试，我正在去大学的路上。一辆警车在等着我，一名男子向我展示了他的左轮手枪，强迫我进去警车。卡纳塔克邦警方对我被捕一事一无所知。这支警方队伍来自海得拉巴，后来把我带到了海得拉巴。”
他的父亲Noor-ud-din Ahmad为了证明他儿子的清白，不惜一切代价，孤军奋战。直到2006年，他才因看不到任何希望去世。
当你是无辜的，却在监狱里度过了宝贵的23年时，这就是人生中最悲哀的事实。

Chris Wojcik
Today, you’re reading this answer from some know-it-all white kid on Quora.
“This guy is an idiot!” you think, and keep scrolling.
A week from now, you’ll be going through your life, and maybe not much has changed.
Then, maybe a month from now, your girlfriend leaves you for another man. Ouch.
She’d be cheating on you for months. Double ouch.
A year after that, you meet someone new and you decide to get married.
A few years after that, you have a kid. This changes everything. It usually does.
A few weeks after you have a kid, you realize that having a kid is stressful. Kids are a lot of work. You need to take yourself more seriously.
You work. You really fucking hard. You build a successful business. You start to make some money.

今天，你读到的答案来自一个无所不知的白人孩子
你在想：“这家伙是个白痴！”然后继续往下看。
一周后，你将经历你的生活，也许没有什么改变。
然后，也许一个月后，你的女朋友会离开你去找另一个男人，哎哟。
她会欺骗你几个月，哎哟。
一年后，你遇到了一个新朋友，你决定结婚。
几年后，你有了一个孩子。一切都改变了，通常是这样。
在你有了孩子几周后，你会意识到生孩子是一种压力，带孩子也真麻烦。你需要更认真地对待自己。
你真他妈的很努力工作，你建立了一个成功的企业，开始赚钱了。

You make some investments. You get a house. You get yourself a better car—a better one than your neighbors at least.
Your kid starts to grow. 10 years of driving him to soccer practice later, next thing you know, he’s going off to college. You worked your ass off to make sure he could go to college, and he’ll never know how much time you put into building him a nice life.
You can’t think about this though, because you have to make sure he gets through college. You have to make sure your family is okay.
A few years after that, you turn 65. Your back pain is really bad now.
A few more years pass and you’re 80. Damn dude, you’re old.
You and your partner play golf or whatever it is you want to do to pass the time. You go to the grocery store together. You attempt to rediscover the love you had that was destroyed through the tumultuous experience of raising children.
Maybe you do. Maybe you don’t and you become bitter.
Then your partner gets sick. They die.
Then you die.
And… that’s your life.

你做了一些投资。买了房子，给自己买了一辆更好的车，至少比你的邻居的车好。
你的孩子开始长大了，10年后开车送他去足球训练，接下来你知道，他要上大学了。你拼命工作确保他能上大学，而他永远不会知道你给他营造一个美好的生活花了多少时间。
但你不能考虑这一点，因为你必须确保他读完大学，必须确保你的家人没事。
几年后，你就65岁了。你的背现在真的痛得很厉害。
再过几年，你就80岁了。该死的家伙，你也老了。
你和你的伴侣打高尔夫球或者做任何你想做的事情来打发时间。你们一起去杂货店。你试图重新发现在养育孩子的混乱经历中被摧毁的爱。
也许你会，也许不会—变得痛苦。
然后你的伴侣生病了—死了。
然后你就死了。
这就是你的生活。

How many minutes of that life were mindful? Very few. Just about everything that happened in this fictional life I just created happened on autopilot.
The sad thing is that the fictional life isn’t too different from many people’s actual lives.
I’m partially working on my phone and checking emails, partially scrolling Instagram, and slamming another coffee to fuel my ambition and to help me get through the day.
The saddest truth of life is that most people live their entire lives and never even start to think about why they’re doing the things they’re doing.
Most people are living lives they were told to live, not lives they’re interested in living. That’s heartbreaking.
Thoughtlessness in our lives destroys the world.
Many people have kids because society told them to have kids. This leads to unhappy kids and parents.
People chase money over happiness because society told them to. Indirectly, leads to capitalism killing the planet.
Most people let external factors dictate the course of their life.
To me, that is the saddest truth of life.

这一生中有多少分钟是被铭记的？很少。我刚刚创造的这个虚构生活中，几乎所有发生的事情都是自动发生的。
可悲的是，虚构的生活与许多人的实际生活没有太大不同。
我一边在手机上工作，一边查看电子邮件，一边滚动Instagram，一边喝咖啡来让我鼓起干劲，帮助我度过这一天。
生活中最悲哀的事实是，大多数人一生都在生活，甚至从未开始思考他们为什么要做他们正在做的事情。
大多数人都过着被告知要过的生活，而不是他们感兴趣的生活，真令人心碎。
我们生活中的欠考虑行径会毁灭世界。
许多人有孩子是因为社会告诉他们要有孩子。这会导致孩子和父母不开心。
人们追逐金钱而不是追逐幸福，因为社会告诉他们这样做。间接地，这会导致资本主义毁灭地球。
大多数人让外部因素支配他们的生活。
在我看来，这是人生最悲哀的事实。

Kashi Viswanathan
No one will read your answer at the bottom of Quora if it's not upvoted.
Just like no one will remember us until we do something remarkable in their lives.
You don't know who existed in your family 200 years before and similarly people will forget any traces of us after a 100 or max 200 years.
So, why worry in life over silly things?
Live life to the fullest and enjoy.

如果你的答案没有被点赞，没有人会去看Quora底部的答案。
就像没有人会记得我们，除非我们在他们的生活中做了一些了不起的事。
你不知道200年前你的家族中都有谁，同样地，在100年或最多200年后，人们就会忘记我们的任何痕迹。
那么，生活中为什么要为愚蠢的事情烦恼呢?
充分享受生活吧。

Grammarly
What's something I can do right now to increase my productivity?
A tool you can leverage to instantaneously improve your productivity is a writing assistant.
Writing assistants like Grammarly are digital tools designed to catch everyday grammar and writing errors to help direct you towards better writing, saving you time and oversight.
What are the features of a writing assistant that makes it advantageous?
Super Corrector: How many times has autocorrect taken a word you wanted to use and changed it to something completely wrong? Some spelling and grammar tools just look at your words and judge them as-is, but in a world where we communicate constantly via written word, context matters! Built-in spelling and grammar tools like autocorrect appraise very little of the context in which a word was written—they make the same corrections, whether dealing with a text to your friend or a resume you’re sending out to a potential employer.
Writing assistants like Grammarly take into consideration the style, intent, and emotion of your words to make sure that you don’t lose the meaning of your message. They might even let you add your preferences to something like a personal dictionary. As you let the AI know how you like to write, it’ll remember your preferences for next time.

我现在能做些什么来提高我的效率呢？
你可以利用写作助手来即时提高你的工作效率。
像Grammarly这样的写作助手是一种数字工具，旨在捕捉日常语法和写作错误，帮助你更好地写作，节省时间和监督。
写作助手的哪些特点使其具有优势？
超级校正器：有多少次自动校正器把你想用的单词改成了完全错误的单词？一些拼写和语法工具只是看你的单词并按原样判断它们，但在一个我们经常通过书面文字交流的世界里，语境很重要！内置的拼写和语法工具，如自动更正，很少评估一个单词所写的上下文，无论是处理给朋友的短信还是你发送给潜在雇主的简历，它们的更正总是一样的。
像Grammarly这样的写作助手会考虑到你说话的风格、意图和情感，以确保你不会失去信息的含义。他们甚至可以让你将自己的喜好添加到个人词典之类的东西中。当你让人工智能知道你喜欢写什么时，下次它会记住你的偏好。

A Writer’s Toolbox: Better writing is so much more than just perfect spelling and grammar. Writing assistants will help you dig into your toolbox with suggestions for more appropriate synonyms and better sentence variety. The right word choice or sentence structure can be the key to a better connection with your intended audience.
Writing assistants like Grammarly will also help you identify wordiness or vagueness. They can discern and pull together the meaning of your message and let you know what words you can leave out. If you have ever been on the receiving end of a long-winded email with important information buried somewhere in its contents, you understand the value of being direct and forthcoming with the meaning of your message.
Instant Editor: Today, writing assistants are digital and available across different platforms—including browser extensions and apps. They can check your 10 p.m. tweet as easily as your 10 a.m. blog post. You’d be hard-pressed to find an editor willing to instantly check your work around the clock with the same amount of reliability as a digital writing assistant.
Ready to take your productivity to the next level with more effective writing? Install the free Grammarly for Windows and Mac today to access writing suggestions across Gmail, lixedin, Twitter, Facebook, and most other sites on the web.

作家工具箱：更好的写作不仅仅是完美的拼写和语法。写作助手将帮助你深入工具箱，为你提供更合适的同义词和更好的句子变体的建议。选择正确的单词或句子结构是与目标受众建立更好联系的关键。
像Grammarly这样的写作助手也会帮助你识别词累赘或模糊的语义。他们可以辨别并汇总你信息的含义，让你知道你是可以省略哪些单词的。如果你曾经收到过一封词累赘的电子邮件，邮件内容中隐藏着重要信息，那么你就明白能够直接和坦率地表达信息含义的价值。
即时编辑器：如今写作助手是数字化的，可以在不同的平台上使用，包括浏览器扩展和应用程序。他们可以像查看你早上10点的博客一样轻松地查看你晚上10点的推特。你很难找到一个编辑愿意24小时不停地检查你的作品，而且可靠性和数字写作助手一样高。
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Nicola Leon
This is the Rockefeller family.
it is one of the wealthiest families in America, and their estimated fortune is $ 11 billion, placed in trust funds scattered here and there. Beginning with John D. Rockefeller, the first American billionaire who became rich after founding Standard Oil in 1870, the family worked hard to get everything they had.
For 100 years, they accumulated and reinvested their wealth so quickly that in 1913, family patriarch John D. Rockefeller, with 900 million, was so rich that for every $ 100 of the US economy, 2 were controlled by him.
Rued for inflation, his fortune today would be $ 400 billion, making him the richest man in modern history. Of course, the Rockefellers bought and built historic buildings, including 30 Rockefeller Plaza,
And the most popular Chase towers.

这是洛克菲勒家族。
它是美国最富有的家庭之一，他们的财产估计为110亿美元，分散在各地的信托基金中。从1870年创立标准石油公司后成为第一位美国亿万富翁的约翰洛克菲勒（John D.Rockefeller）开始，一家人努力获得他们所拥有的一切。
100年来，他们积累和再投资财富的速度非常之快，以至于1913年，家族族长约翰·洛克菲勒（John D.Rockefeller）拥有9亿美元，非常富有，美国经济中每100美元就有2美元是由他控制。
考虑到通货膨胀，他今天的财富将达到4000亿美元，成为现代史上最富有的人。当然，洛克菲勒家族购买并建造了历性建筑，包括洛克菲勒广场30号。
还有最受欢迎的大通大厦。

Last month, July 2019, Mr and Mrs Bezos finalized their divorce, and MacKenzie Bezos received 4% of Amazon in the deal.
As if by magic, his fortune grew to $ 38 billion.
The entire Rockefeller fortune, built over 100 years and 5 generations through ups and downs and "the great despression", is not even a third of MacKenzie Bezos' new fortune. Now, she is the fourth richest woman in the world.
In this life, no matter how wealthy, intelligent, gifted or strong you are, there will always be someone better than you who will come out sooner or later.
No matter how hard you work, or how lucky you get, someone will always have it easier than you.
Don't stop to compare yourself to others.
Do your best. Do your part. Leave your mark.

上个月，也就是2019年7月，贝佐斯夫妇敲定了离婚协议，麦克肯齐·贝佐斯在协议中获得了亚马逊4%的股份。
他的财富仿佛是靠魔法般增长到380亿美元。
洛克菲勒的全部财富，在经历了100年和5代人的风风雨雨和“大萧条”后积累起来的，甚至还不到麦肯齐·贝索斯新财富的三分之一。现在，她是世界上第四富有的女性。
在这一生中，无论你多么富有、聪明、有天赋或坚强，总会有比你更好的人会出现。
无论你多么努力，或者你多么幸运，总有人比你过得容易。
不要停下来拿自己和别人比较。
尽你所能做好你的工作，留下你的印记。
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Avinash Hiremath
People (including you and I) do not change when you give them an option. They change when there is no option.
Tell a person to study, he won't do until last few hours before exam.
Tell a person to quit smoking, he wont until he coughs out blood.
Tell a person to change his attitude, he won't until his girlfriend leaves him.
Tell a person to work hard in office, he won't until he has a warning letter.
Tell a person to love his parents, he won't until the parents are admitted in hospital.
Tell a person to be less stubborn, he won't until he loses everything to stubbornness.
Tell a person to be more expressive, he won't until his crush has got engaged.
Silver lining: Change while you still have time.

当你给他们一个选择时，人们（包括你和我）不会去改变。当没有选择时，才会改变。
告诉一个人要学习，直到考试前的最后几个小时他才会去学。
告诉一个人戒烟，直到他咳出血来，才会戒烟。
告诉一个人改变态度，直到女友离开他，他才会改变。
告诉一个人在办公室里努力工作，直到他收到警告信，他才会这样做。
告诉一个人爱他的父母，直到父母住进医院，他才会这样做。
告诉一个人不要那么固执，直到他因固执而失去一切，他才会这么做。
告诉一个人要更善于表达，直到他的爱人订婚，他才会这样做。
一线希望:在你还有时间的时候做出改变。

Hina Anser
What are ten truths everyone should accept in life?
If you think you just need intelligence to succeed, then this belief will make your life difficult because success only comes to those who also know how to digest failures, criticism, standing alone, painful time, lonely nights, long hours, keep working even when there is 1% chance of success, that is only achieved by one quality — Resilience.
Companies expect 10 years of experience from you while hiring you (completely forget they gave ad for fresh graduate) but while giving you a salary they perfectly remember that you are graduate.
Stop labeling yourself without even trying things. Because, the thing you consider impossible, will become possible, once you try it.
Once you failed in maths — in grade 1, that doesn’t mean you’ll fail in maths again in the engineering exam. So, stop doing Over-Generalization, it will destroy your life.
Stop operating from victim mentality — that’s the real problem because once you believe that your effort or hard work wouldn’t change your situation. Then, no one can help you.

人生中每个人都应该接受的十条真理是什么?
如果你认为你只需要智慧就能成功，那么这种信念会让你的生活变得困难，因为成功只属于那些知道如何消化失败、批评、孤独、痛苦的时间、孤独的夜晚、漫长的工作时间，只属于那些知道即使有1%的成功机会，也要去继续工作的人，成功只有依靠一种品质——韧性才能实现。
公司在招聘你的时候希望你有10年的经验（完全忘记了他们为应届毕业生做的广告），但在给你薪水的时候，他们却完全记得你已经毕业了。
不要在不尝试的情况下给自己贴标签。因为，你认为不可能的事情，一旦你去尝试，就会变成可能。
你曾在一年级数学不及格，这并不意味着你会在工程考试中再次数学不及格。所以，不要再做过度性概括，这会毁了你的一生。
停止从受害者的心态出发——这才是真正的问题，因为一旦你相信你艰辛付出不会改变你的处境。那么，没有人可以帮助你。

You often get depressed, when your friends or family not giving you the same importance, that you’re used to. You need to understand one thing, they are not duing you. They just have something more interesting in their lives, that takes their attention.
Stop playing the blame games and start taking the responsibility of your all-action whether it’s right or wrong. Always own every part of your life, because every experience (good or bad), weakness, strength, challenge helps you to make the person you’re today.
You don’t get slim by eating fast food, the same way you don’t get strong by just watching martial art training on TV. Strength either mentally or physically only comes from practice or more importantly by consistent practice.

当你的朋友或家人没有像你习惯的那样重视你时，你经常会感到沮丧。你需要明白一件事，他们并没有贬低你。他们只是生活中发现一些更有趣的东西，引起了他们的注意而已。
停止玩指责游戏，开始承担你所有行为的责任—无论是对还是错。永远拥有你生活的每一部分，因为每一次经历（好的或坏的）、弱点、力量和挑战都会帮助你成为今天的自己。
你不会因为吃快餐而变得苗条，就像你不会因为只看电视上的武术训练而变得强壮一样。无论是精神上还是身体上的力量都来自于练习，更重要的是来自于持续的练习。

As you throw rotten tomatoes from your refrigerator, the same way you should throw your rotten beliefs from your mind. Either it’s a tomato or beliefs, it becomes useless once it’s rotten.
Stop bashing yourself for the mistakes that you never commit.
Stop calculating yourself worth on others' calculators. Use your own calculator, you’ll have a happier and satisfying life.
There so many people, who specially make Quora profile for criticizing others instead of contributing & helping others. That’s very sad to see but still true.
Please Upvote If Found Helpful
Thanks for Reading!!

当你把烂番茄从冰箱里扔出去时，你也应该把你的烂信念从脑海里扔出来。番茄或者信仰，一旦腐烂就变得无用。
不要因为你从未犯过的错误而自责。
不要用别人的计算器来计算自己的价值。使用你自己的计算器，你会有一个更快乐和满意的生活。
有非常多的人，专门为批评他人而不是贡献和帮助他人而制作Quora简介。这让人很难过，但仍然是存在这样的人的。
如果发现有帮助，请点赞哈
感谢阅读！！
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Hina Anser
What is the hardest truth you had to accept that made you stronger?
One of the earliest lessons I learned in life when I learned to play the game of chess from my neighbor. And the easiest way to learn chess is by playing the game. Every time I played with Aisha; Aisha used to defeat me.
And I still, clearly remember, because these were my thoughts & I was in 8th standard, and first 35 days, every game we played, Aisha defeated me.
The 36th day I won, the 37th day I won, And I told myself, I will play with her for at least 71 days because I want to win one more time than her. I am consistently winning, within a few days of winning, a very profound realization hit me.
As long as I was losing to Aisha, my game was improving. Ever since I was winning against Aisha, only my ego was improving, Game was not improving.
I realized, If you want to develop yourself, surround yourself with people whom you look up to. But if you want to develop your ego, surround yourself with people who look up to you.
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Be Humble: My ego will not be hurt by taking help from others.

你不得不接受的最残酷的且让你变得更坚强的事实是什么？
当我从邻居那里学会下棋时，我学到了人生中最早的一课之一。学习国际象棋最简单的方法就是玩这个游戏。每次我和艾莎玩;艾莎过去一直打败我。
我仍然清楚地记得，因为这是我的想法&我在8年级，前35天，我们玩的每一场比赛，艾莎都打败了我。
第36天我赢了，第37天我赢了，我告诉自己，我要和她一起玩至少71天，因为我想比她多赢一次。我一直在获胜，在获胜的几天内，我突然意识到一个非常深刻的认识。
只要我输给艾莎，我就会进步。自从我赢了艾莎之后，只有我的自尊心在提高，竞技能力没有进步。
我意识到，如果你想提高自己，就和你尊敬的人在一起。但是，如果你想要提高自尊心，就和那些尊敬你的人在一起。
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学会谦卑：我的自尊心不会因为接受别人的帮助而受到伤害。
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Sherry Cam
1. Not everything can be solved with an apology.
2. Tomorrow is not guaranteed, you might not be alive to witness that “tomorrow”.
3. Some people like being unhappy.
4. Life goes on with or without you.
5. You’re not everyone’s cup of tea and that’s cool.
6. The smile on their face doesn’t mean their life is perfect.
7. You can’t escape your negative emotions and thoughts.
8. Overthinking won’t make things better.
9. Your obsession with finding happiness is what prevents its attainment.

1.不是每件事都可以用道歉来解决。
2.明天是无法保证的，你可能无法活着见证“明天”。
3.有些人喜欢不开心。
4.无论有没有你，生活都会继续。
5.你不会是那个每个人都喜欢的人，这很酷。
6.他们脸上的笑容并不意味着他们的生活是完美的。
7.你无法逃避自己的负面情绪和想法。
8.过度思考不会让事情变得更好。
9.你对幸福的执念阻碍了你去获得幸福。
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HaLiMa
To love is to dream Nov 23
Bad things happen to good people
It’s sometimes a test to access us
Make the best of your moment since it is bound to become a memory someday
You can never go back
Just learn from the past in order to shape your present and future

爱就是梦想，11月23日
坏事总是发生在好人身上
有时候这是对我们的考验
好好利用现在，因为它注定有一天会成为回忆
你再也回不到过去了
从过去学习，塑造你的现在和未来

We often waste time on those who are not willing to waste a minute on us or for us
Good friends are like four clover leafs;
We realize the value of things after we lose them
If there is no pain then there is no gain
Last but not least; the life we are living right now may be someone else's dream

我们常常把时间浪费在那些不愿意在我们身上或为我们去浪费一分钟的人身上
好朋友就像长有四片叶子的三叶草；
我们在失去东西后才意识到它们的价值
如果没有痛苦，就没有收获
最后但并非最不重要的：我们现在的生活可能是别人的梦想