生活中最快乐的事情是什么(一)
What are the most happy things in life?
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网友：今天是什么让你微笑？我在班加罗尔做软件工程师。今天早上，我上了一辆公共汽车去上班。那里非常拥挤。公共汽车票价是19卢比。我给公共汽车售票员20卢比，并要求买票。他给了我车票（19卢比），不过他没有给我找零.......
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What are the most happy things in life?
生活中最快乐的事情是什么?
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What made you smile today?
I am working as a software engineer in Bangalore.Today morning,I boarded a bus to go to my office. It was very crowded.The bus fare was 19 rupees.I gave 20 rupees to a bus conductor and asked for a ticket.He gave me the ticket to my office (for 19 rupees). He did not give me the remaining one rupee.
I asked him to give the one rupee.He told that he was not having 1 rupee change and he would give it to me when I am getting down.
3 other passengers were also travelling to my office.They also gave 20 rupees for a ticket and the conductor did not pay the remaining 1 rupee to each of them.I was observing this.
Usually, when the bus reaches my office,nearly around 30 or 40 passengers (all are IT employees) will get down and conductor can/will not give the change at that bus stop. He will keep that with himself (as a commission!!).That is why he was not intentionally giving us the remaining change at the time of giving a ticket even though he had change.
今天是什么让你微笑？
我在班加罗尔做软件工程师。今天早上，我上了一辆公共汽车去上班。那里非常拥挤。公共汽车票价是19卢比。我给公共汽车售票员20卢比，并要求买票。他给了我车票（19卢比），不过他没有给我找零。
我让他给我一卢比。他告诉我，他现在没有1卢比的零钱，我下车时他会给我。
另外3名乘客也是前往我的办公室那个区域。他们也给了20卢比的票款，而售票员没有向他们每人支付剩余的1卢比。我正在观察这一情况。
通常，当公交车到达我的办公室地点时，大约有30或40名乘客（都是IT行业员工）会下车，售票员可以/不会在那个公交车站给零钱。他会自己留着（作为佣金！）。这就是为什么他在出票时没有故意给我们剩下的零钱，即使他有零钱也不给的原因。
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Then an old lady boarded the bus.While seeing her, I understood that she would be poor and helpless. So, what I did was I yelled in the bus, “Hi all, how many of you need the 1 rupee change from the conductor? Please raise your hands”. Approximately 20 hands were raised.
So I asked them, “Friends, are you ready to give your one rupee to this Grandma for her bus ticket?”
Everybody said. “Yes”.So,I asked the conductor to give her a ticket with that 20 rupees.He stared at me and then gave the ticket to that Granny.
Everybody started smiling(except the conductor).The smile from that Granny made me to smile with pride and happiness!!
现在让我们来谈谈这个故事。公共汽车快到我的办公室地点了。我向售票员要一卢比的零钱。他说：“我没有零钱”。公共汽车已经到了我的办公室区域。
然后，一位老太太登上了公交车。当我看到她时，我明白她会很穷，很无助。所以，我所做的就是在公交车上大喊：“嗨，你们中有多少人需要售票员1卢比的零钱？请举手”。大约有20人举手。
所以我问他们：“朋友们，你准备好把你的一卢比给这位奶奶吗？”
大家都说。“可以”。所以，我让售票员给她一张20卢比的票。他盯着我，然后把票给了那个奶奶。
每个人都开始微笑了（除了售票员）。奶奶的微笑让我感到骄傲和快乐！！
For me it would be having friends or a boyfriend that i love, that care for me, worry for me, gives me huggies when i need them, accepts me and doesnt judge me and id do the same for them.
Never wanted anything more than that really.
对我来说，就是有一个我爱的朋友或男朋友，他们关心我，担心我，在我需要的时候给我关心，接受我，不评判我，我也会为他们做同样的事情。
除此之外别无所求。
What is one thing that is necessary to be happy?
To me it's the absence of a pursuit.
If you are always chasing something it is never with you. Whatever you chase will always be moving away.
Happiness cannot be when you find love or get the job or quit the job or get the apartment or resolve your inner turmoil.
It absolutely has to be found in the right now- the imperfect, unsettled, painful now.
快乐所必需的一件事是什么?
对我来说，就是没有追求。
如果你总是在追求某件事，那它永远不会伴随你。无论你追逐的是什么，它总会离开你。
幸福不可能是当你找到真爱、找到工作、辞职、找到公寓或解决了内心的烦恼就会来到的。
它绝对必须在当下找到——不完美、不稳定、痛苦的当下。
What brings you happiness in your day to day life?
This is my dad.
Obviously, he's not my birth dad.
But, as soon as I got to Thailand, he let me know he was my new Thai father. He even told my parents when they visited “When Charissa is in America, she is your daughter. But in Thailand, she is my daughter. I will always take care of her.”
When I first arrived, I was helpless, lonely, and unable to speak the language. Dr. Jao did everything he could to make me comfortable and adjusted. He made his students hang out with me so I wouldn't be alone. He made his other students take me to breakfast, lunch, and dinner to help me order food. He got a phone plan for me. He made me text him whenever I traveled anywhere just so he would know I was safe. He got a motorcycle for me to borrow when I said I wanted my own transportation. The other grad students called me “Dr. Jao's princess".
是什么给你的日常生活带来快乐？
我爸爸，显然，他不是我的生父。
但是，我一到泰国，他就让我知道他是我在泰国的新父亲。他甚至在我父母来访时告诉他们：“当查丽莎在美国时，她是你的女儿。但在泰国，她是我的女儿。我会一直照顾她。”
当我第一次来的时候，我很无助，很孤独，也不会说这种语言。Jao博士竭尽全力让我感到舒适和适应。他让他的学生和我在一起，这样我就不会孤单了。他让其他学生带我去吃早餐、午餐和晚餐，帮我点菜。他给我准备了一个电话计划。每当我去任何地方旅行时，他都会让我给他发短信，让他知道我很安全。当我说我需要自己的交通工具时，他给我借了一辆摩托车。其他研究生称我为“Jao博士的公主”。
Every day, Dr. Jao takes me and his other grad student to lunch. He pays for our meals and talks with us until we are finished eating.
Afterwards, he takes us to a coffee shop. He always orders a hot cocoa. I always thought of hot cocoa as a winter treat, but my Thai dad loves to drink hot cocoa every day, it's a true joy in his life.
Dr. Jao sits and talks with us for an hour or more. Sometimes he tells me about his childhood. Other times he wants to talk about my travels. Some days he just wants to laugh and joke. He also likes to make me practice speaking Thai.
It’s my absolute favorite part of every day, it brings me so much joy.
When I think about leaving Thailand after I graduate, drinking hot cocoa with my Thai dad is truly what I’ll miss the most.
没有他，我真的无法在这里生存。
每天，Jao博士都会带我和他的另一个研究生去吃午饭。他为我们支付餐费，并与我们交谈，直到我们吃完为止。
然后，他带我们去了一家咖啡店。他总是点热可可。我一直认为热可可是冬天的一种享受，但我的泰国爸爸每天都喜欢喝热可可，这是他生活中真正的快乐之事。
Jao博士坐着和我们交谈了一个多小时。有时他会告诉我他的童年。其他时候他想谈谈我的旅行。有时他只是想笑和开玩笑。他还喜欢让我练习说泰语。
这是我每天最喜欢的部分，它给我带来了很多快乐。
当我想到毕业后离开泰国时，和我的泰国爸爸一起喝热可可确实会是我最怀念的时光。
What is the most difficult thing to learn and accept about life?
People usually aren't listening. They are either thinking of what they are going to say next, or something else entirely.
Everyone is insecure about something, it's not just you.
You are going to die no matter what.
Your kids will experience hardship.
The bigger an organization is, the harder it is to make a change even if the need is so obvious.
Some people are bad and have bad intentions.
Many people (not all) will steal $100 from you today even if it means missing the opportunity to earn $1000 from you next week.
You will never be 100% sure about decision ever. But always make a decision because it's better to go back and fix it than to never make it at all.
There is ALWAYS someone who makes more money than you, is more fit, has a better looking spouse, has an easier life, good things happen to them. Usually more than just one.
How you react to an event, problem, emotion, or anything, is more important than the actual event, problem, emotion or whatever. You cannot control your emotions, you cannot control others, all you can control is how you are going to react. Sometimes it's easy but usually it's really really hard.
生活中最难学习和接受的事情是什么？
人们通常不会倾听。他们要么在想下一步要说什么，要么在想完全不同的事情。
每个人都对某件事缺乏安全感，这不仅仅是你。
不管怎样，你都会死的。
你的孩子会经历困难。
一个组织越大，就越难做出改变，即使这种需求是如此明显。
有些人很坏，有不好的意图。
许多人（不是所有人）今天会从你那里偷100美元，即使这意味着错过下周从你那里赚1000美元的机会。
你永远不会100%确定自己的决定。但始终要做出决定，因为与其永远不做决定相比，不如回去解决它。
总有人比你赚更多钱，更健康，有一个更漂亮的配偶，生活更轻松，好事发生在他们身上，而且通常不止一个。
你对事件、问题、情绪或任何事情的反应比实际事件、问题或情绪更重要。你无法控制自己的情绪，你无法控制他人，你所能控制的只是你的反应。有时很容易，但通常真的很难。
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What are the things that make you happy in your life?
During my childhood, my parents went through a lot of financial crisis. It was one thing after another.
First, my grandfather fell sick. My father spent a lot of money on him, but we couldn’t save him. He passed away when I was in kindergarten.
Then, before my father could get out of the financial issues from his medical bills, his business partner cheated on him. So, he lost a lot of money.
Again, before we could get out of that, my grandmother fell sick and we spent a lot of money. But, unfortunately she passed away fighting cancer.
In spite of all this, my father always made every passing day better for us. I used to see all my school friends go on trips during summer holidays with their family. Few went on International trips as well. For us, even a trip to our hometown was a luxury. We were not able to afford such things in our life. An International trip was a dream!
在你的生活中，哪些事情让你快乐？
在我的童年时期，我的父母经历了很多经济危机，事情一件接一件。
首先，我祖父生病了。我父亲在他身上花了很多钱，但我们没救下他。我上幼儿园时他去世了。
然后，在我父亲从医疗账单中摆脱财务问题之前，他的商业伙伴背叛了他。所以，他损失了很多钱。
再者，在我们摆脱困境之前，我祖母生病了，我们花了很多钱。但不幸的是，她死于与癌症作斗争之中。
尽管如此，我父亲总是让我们过得更好。我过去经常看到我所有的学校朋友在暑假和他们的家人一起旅行。也很少有人去国际旅行。对我们来说，即使是去家乡旅行也是一种奢侈。我们生活中没有能力支付得其这样的东西，国际旅行是一个梦想！
I was so worried I overused the money. I told my mom that I will compensate it with buying stuff for 1 rupee lesser the next day. She hugged me and cried.
That day has distinctively stayed on my head.
Fast forward to few years later.
I scored good marks. I got into a good college. I got a good job. I moved to another company with a better salary. I bought them a house.
我们每天晚上有5印度卢比的零食配额。我过去常常在晚上用那5卢比给我和姐姐买零食。我还记得，有一天，我花了6卢比买了一件东西。比我们应该用的多1卢比。我把它和其他杂货一起买了回家。
我很担心我过度使用了钱。我告诉我妈妈，第二天我会以少买1卢比的东西来补偿，她抱着我哭了。
那一天的场景一直在我的脑海里。
快进到几年后。
我得了高分，我考上了一所好大学。我找到了一份好工作。我搬到了另一家薪水更高的公司。我给他们买了房子。
Then, I moved to Paris and now I am bringing them here for few days. Yes, they got their visa approved yesterday and my dream is coming true! And, my mom is more happy.
They’re going to be on their very first International flight soon. I am going to take them around in Paris <3
You ask me, “what makes me happy?”
I say, “it’s to surprise and give back as much as I can and as long as I can to the two people who made so many sacrifices to get me where I am today!”
Giving back to parents is not an obligation guys, it’s one of the most important purpose of our life! :)
我把他们带上了国内航班，那是他们的第一次飞行旅程，我妈妈非常高兴。
然后，我搬到了巴黎，现在我带他们来这里住几天。是的，他们昨天获得了签证，我的梦想成真了！而且，我妈妈更开心了。
他们很快将乘坐第一架国际航班，我打算带他们去巴黎转转。
你问我，“什么让我快乐？”
我说：“这是为了给两个人带来惊喜，尽我所能，尽我最大的努力回报他们，他们为了让我走到今天做出了非常多的牺牲！”
回馈父母不是一种义务，伙计们，这是我们生活中最重要的目的之一！
What are some tips for starting a blog?
It is always hard to start without having a good picture of what you do want to create. Today there are millions of helping tools and everyone is empowered to create a blog. The only question that is still hovering in the air is - how to start a successful blog?
So let’s go - here are some tips for those who are just starting and even for those who already have a blog:
Choose your blog niche. It’s easy to start a blog if you already know what you want to talk about but even if you don’t have your own topic, don’t give up - there are numerous bloggers who started with one idea and ended up with the other one.
You are creating a company or have a product? Writing a blog about it could become a great marketing strategy that would drag more attention to your business.
创建博客有哪些技巧？
如果你不清楚自己想要创造什么，你便很难开始。今天，有无数的工具可以提供帮助，每个人都有权创建一个博客。唯一悬而未决的问题是——如何开始一个成功的博客?
所以，让我们开始吧-这里有一些提示，适用于刚刚起步的人，甚至适用于已经拥有博客的人：
选择你的博客细分类别。如果你已经知道你想谈论什么，那么写博客是很容易的，但即使你没有自己的话题，也不要放弃——有很多博主都是从一个想法开始，最后变成了另一个想法。
你正在创建公司或拥有产品？写一篇关于它的博客可能会成为一个很好的营销策略，从而吸引更多人关注你的业务。
Before starting a blog, gather up some materials around you that can be used in the blog - photos, some thoughts written down. Having something for the start obligates you to create a blog and not procrastinate with only thought about having it.
sext an interesting domain name. Forget all the boring ones and find a name that stands out. There are some interesting TLDs for your domain, you don’t have to use .com, with imagination you can make even .online TLD attractive!
Also, these tips can help to sext the best domain name for you:
Make the domain memorable - keep it short and simple, you can use domain checkers to help you find the one that fits you best!
一开始准备些素材。很多人甚至不知道写什么就开始写博客，这不是世界末日，但你肯定可以做得更好！
在开始写博客之前，收集一些你身边可以用来写博客的材料——照片，一些写下来的想法。有一些东西作为开始，你就有义务创建一个博客，而不是只考虑拥有它。
选择一个有趣的域名。忘掉所有无聊的事情，找到一个与众不同的名字。对于你的域名，有一些有趣的顶级域名，您不必使用.com，凭借想象力，你甚至可以使在线顶级域名具有吸引力！
此外，这些提示可以帮助你选择最佳域名：
让域名令人难忘-保持简短，你可以使用域名检查器来帮助您找到最适合的域名！
Less but better - avoid any hyphens, numbers or non-unicode characters in the domain name. It could be too difficult to remember or hard to understand.
Check for popular keywords - with the domain checker you can find domains with popular keywords. Also, it can help you find domains with the same name and variations, buying those can help you to protect your brand.
Protect your privacy - make sure that privacy protection is activated for your domain name. This will hide your private data from the WHOIS database.
Be fast to be first - hurry up as the domain you want can be bought within seconds!
了解你的受众：域名目标关键字对你的受众来说非常重要，所以要让它相关。
更简单但更好-域名中避免使用任何连字符、数字或非 万国码 字符，不然可能太难记忆或难以理解。
检查流行关键字-使用域检查器，可以找到具有流行关键字的域。此外，它可以帮助找到同名和不同的域名，购买这些域名可以帮助你保护你的品牌。
保护你的隐私-确保为你的域名激活了隐私保护。这将从WHOIS（一个网际网络的程序）数据库中隐藏你的私人数据。
快速购买，因为你想要的域名可以在几秒钟内买到!
You can even analyze the SEO strategy of other websites! Neil Patel allows you to do that through his own website.
Remember that SEO is important but Content is still the king. No one ever got traffic without doing anything BUT it doesn’t mean that expensive ads will give you what you want. The most important thing here is content and you need to make sure it’s rock-solid, though SEO is also playing a huge role in blogging.
Set up social media platforms. Online presence is important and using social media can help you increase your user engagement. It’s the best tool to notify people about new articles and plans. Facebook and Instagram can help you grow and receive feedback from your readers directly. Also, you can implement the lixs from your blog post to Facebook and Instagram to gain more followers there and create a community for them.
分析你喜欢的博客。从一个例子开始要容易得多。我不是在说复制别人，只是在获得一些灵感，找到成功的方法。别忘了分析哪些博客获得了最多的流量——SimilarWeb可以帮你解决这个问题。如果一个博客获得了大量的流量，研究一下这其中的关键因素是什么。
你甚至可以分析其他网站的搜索引擎优化策略！尼尔·帕特尔允许你通过他自己的网站来做这件事。
记住搜索引擎优化很重要，但内容仍然是王道。没有人不做任何事就能获得流量，但这并不意味着昂贵的广告会给你想要的。这里最重要的是内容，你需要确保这是绝对可靠的，尽管搜索引擎优化在博客中也发挥着巨大的作用。
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Create a top-notch design. Even when content is so important, you have to make sure that your visitors can easily read it and find it. The eye-catching design is a must to keep the readers in the blog for more than a few seconds. You can create a design yourself, or you can use existing templates - WordPress has a lot of them! If you have no idea about the latest trends, give a shot for a minimalistic look. It will make your blog look more professional and easy to navigate.
Congrats! Now your blog is ready to storm the internet. Be sure to keep it upxed and it will stay on the successful path. Here Google Analytics and other platforms that help to track your blog growth or plan its future will come in handy. A goal without a plan is just a wish, so make it real and enjoy the journey!
建立社交媒体平台。在线状态很重要，使用社交媒体可以帮助你提高用户参与度。它是通知人们新文章和计划的最佳工具。Facebook和Instagram可以帮助你成长，并直接从读者那里获得反馈。此外，你还可以实现从你的博客文章到Facebook和Instagram的链接，以在那里获得更多的粉丝，并为他们创建一个社区。
作为社交媒体渠道（甚至是有效的渠道），个人资料也可以被使用。许多博主在他们的Facebook和Instagram个人资料的“关于我”部分链接了他们的博客。朋友和粉丝的自我宣传可以增加流量和人气。
创建一流的设计。即使内容非常重要，你也必须确保访问者能够轻松阅读并找到它。醒目的设计是让读者在博客中停留几秒钟以上的必要条件。你可以自己创建一个设计，也可以使用现有的模板-WordPress有很多模板！如果你对最新趋势一无所知，不妨试试极简风格。它会让你的博客看起来更专业，更容易浏览。
恭喜！现在，你的博客已准备好在互联网上掀起风暴。一定要保持更新，它将保持在成功的道路上。在这里，谷歌分析和其他帮助跟踪博客增长或规划其未来的平台将派上用场。没有计划的目标只是一个愿望，所以让它成为现实，享受旅程吧！
What was the most terrible day of your life?
I am a foreigner living in India. I got married to an Indian man who had lied everything about himself and his family. Including how many siblings they were, that he had earlier been married and divorced because they had asked for dowry and he had been imprisoned due to the same. He even hid the fact that he was admitted to a mental hospital for 8 months. These were all OK, even though shocking as and when I discovered them.
He forcefully made me convert to Sikhism, even though I am not a follower of any religion by practice and I only believe in Divinity.
Later he had multiple affairs and even had paid sex. After about 3 years I realized it was going nowhere and that he was having psychological disorders which was beyond my bearing level as he was mentally and emotionally very abusive and almost killed my self esteem.
But these are still OK. We decided to separate and then also mutually divorce. I stopped going to social events with him so that he could meet a new person while I became a workaholic.
你人生中最糟糕的一天是哪一天?
我是住在印度的外国人。我嫁给了一个印度男人，他在对自己和家人的一切事情上都撒谎了。包括他们有多少兄弟姐妹，他早些时候结婚和离婚，因为他们要求嫁妆，而他也因此入狱。他甚至隐瞒了自己在精神病院住了8个月的事实。这些都没问题—尽管当我发现它们时，它们令人震惊。
尽管我不是任何宗教的信徒，他强迫我皈依锡克教，我只信仰神性。
后来，他有了多次外遇，甚至还付费。大约三年后，我意识到这是徒劳的，他患有心理障碍，这超出了我的承受能力，因为他在精神和情感上非常虐待我，几乎扼杀了我的自尊。
但这些都还可以。我们决定分开，然后也离婚。我不再和他一起参加社交活动，这样他就可以在我成为工作狂的同时认识一个新人。
So I was there in a board meeting, had 48 hours to leave the country and I had no country to go to.
I am so grateful to my ex,because of him I learnt so much and became a very strong woman. A woman that no one can mess with anymore and a woman who knows her rights. When I won that battle I was a new person. I blossomed to my true self. Knowing I have the power beyond anyone's imagination.
Edit 1:
Thank you everyone for all your beautiful comments. I am anonymous right now because I am writing a book on my story.
I am well settled, the complaint was false as he had bribed his way through the system so I won the battle. Now helping others to overcome such traumas.
Once again thank you. It's heart warming to see so many beautiful people exist.
我们分手后，我请求公司把我调到海外，这样时间和距离就能治愈我们俩。1年半后，我被调回印度，这是我一生中最悲惨的一天。我是在开董事会的时候接到外国登记处的通知，由于前夫的投诉，我的签证被取消，我需要在48小时内离开这个国家。我放下电话，又接到一位在我们驻印度大使馆工作的亲戚打来的电话，他告诉我前夫，我已经皈依锡克教，在调查结束之前，我不应该回家。
所以我参加了董事会，有48小时的时间离开这个国家，我没有国家可以去。
我非常感激我的前任，因为他，我学到了很多，成为了一个非常坚强的女人。一个再也没人能惹的女人，一个知道自己权利的女人。当我赢得那场比赛时，我是一个全新的人。我绽放出真正的自我。知道我拥有超乎任何人想象的力量。
编辑1:感谢大家的美好评论。我现在是匿名状态，因为我正在写一本关于我的故事的书。
我已经很好地解决了，投诉是虚假的，因为他贿赂了整个系统，所以我赢得了这场战斗。现在正帮助他人克服这种创伤。
再次感谢你。看到这么多美丽的人，真让人暖心。