中国小女孩有理有据地要求爸爸给与她更多的玩耍时间
Girl in China reasons with dad for more play time
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在她成为一名外科医生之前，她爸是不会为她感到骄傲的。
正文翻译
A video of a schoolgirl in China pleading with her father for more play time outside of studying has gone viral. In tears, she lamented about her plight, saying “even a robot” couldn’t handle what is expected of her. Many Chinese social media users praised the girl for speaking eloquently
近日，中国的一名小学女生恳求父亲能让她在学习之余拥有更多玩耍时间的视频在网上火了。她泪流满面地倾述自己身处的困境，“即便是机器人”也无法应对人们对她的期望。许多中国社交媒体用户称赞了这个女孩的能言善辩。
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She has better communication skills and understanding than most adults!
她拥有比大多数成年人都更好的沟通和理解能力。
Sadly not every parents will understand this. Some parents will always think they are right and ignore the kids feelings just cuz they are kids
遗憾的是，并不是每一个父母都能理解这一点。有些父母总是认为自己是对的，他们刻意忽略了孩子们的感受，因为他们只是孩子。
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That'll eventually bleed into adulthood too, my mother still thinks she's superior to the kids in our family and it's a big reason why I don't speak to her anymore. There's no equal with her.
父母的这种思维将会一直持续到孩子们的成年时期，我的母亲依旧认为她比家里的孩子们更加优越，这就是我不再和她交谈的一个重要原因，她根本不知道什么叫做平等。
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Yes, my father would yell all the time about every little thing, insist he was right about everything, and if I tried to tell him he was being unfair, or inconsiderate toward my feelings, he said he didn't care, that he was the parent and I was his daughter and he would not tolerate me talking back to him. Fun fact, he also wouldn't listen to my mom. I later found out that he got into a couple of fist fights with his dad when he was a teen because he wouldn't listen to his parents either because he insisted he knew better than them.
是的，我的父亲会为每一件小事儿大吼大叫，并坚持认为他所做的每一件事情都是对的。如果我试图告诉他，他的做法是不公的，亦或者是他并没有体谅我的感受。他便会回答“我不在乎，我是你的父母，你是我的女儿，我无法容忍你顶嘴。”一个有趣的事实，他也不听我妈的话。后来我才知道，在他十几岁的时候，他和自己老爹打过几次架，因为他不听父母的话，并且坚持认为自己比父母懂得多。
“Please treasure our childhood days.”
“Not even a robot could do it!”
This kid really tells words of wisdom, words so wise you’d expect them coming from an adult. I hope the father gave her more free time after how she explained herself to the fullest.
“请珍惜我们的童年”
“就连机器人也承受不了”
这个孩子真是充满了智慧，你会觉得这些话只会出自成年人之口。我希望她的父亲在听取了她的充分解释后，能够给与她更多的自由时间。
Just the way she speaks tells us a lot about the type of education and raising she's receiving. She is probably a brilliant kid, playing a little after her school work and basic chores are done should be a given. She's earned it! How is she supposed to know she's doing good if there are no rewards?
我们仅仅通过她讲话的方式就能知道她受到了非常优秀的教育和抚养。她可能是一个聪明的孩子，在完成学校作业和基本的家务之后，她理应收获一些奖励。如果没有奖励的话，她怎能知道自己做得很出色？
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You don't understand china's competition.
你对中国社会竞争的激烈程度一无所知。
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@Vivek Thakur here it is, another disrespectful person who can't pay respects and pretend to know everything
@Vivek Thakur又来了，另一个不尊重他人的家伙在假装自己知晓所有的一切。
“Am I treating you badly? Is there anything I’m doing wrong?” These questions coming from a child her age is heartbreaking. Her voice was full of innocence and honesty. She was wanting to know how she is deserving the deprivation. I have kids. I limit their online games playtime, too. Now, I understand their pain.
It’s our fears as parents, that they might go downhill that make us restrict them. Understandably, we want them to have a bright future, but this gave me a slightly different perspective..
“我哪里对你不好，还是哪里做错了?“当这些问题从她这个年龄的孩子嘴里冒出来时，我的心都碎了。她的声音充满了天真和诚实。她想知道自己为什么会剥夺权利。我有孩子，我也会限制他们玩网络游戏的时间。现在，我总算能够理解他们的痛苦了。作为父母，我们怀有一种恐惧，那就是担心他们走下坡路，所以我们开始限制他们的行为。这可以理解，因为我们希望自己的孩子能够拥有一个光明的未来，但是这个视频依旧给我提供了一个稍微不同的视角。
Well, she has mastered communication.She has a bright future.How to communicate with people is the most underrated part of your life when you're in your adult age.Congratulations to her parents on raising such a good daughter. I hope they give their daughter some free-time she deserves it.
好吧，她已经掌握了沟通的技巧，这孩子前途光明。当你成年后，如何与人沟通将会是生活中最被人低估的技能。恭喜她的父母养育出了这么出色的女儿。我希望他们能给自己的女儿她应得的自由时间。
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Poor thing is all work and no play. My heart goes out to her. There's a reason why they put suicide nets around work building windows in china.
这可怜的孩子唯一做的事情就是学习，而没有玩耍的时间。我很同情她，这就是他们在办公楼边上安装防自杀网的理由吧。
What else can you expect from a Country like China? This is why America and all western countries are the best places to live in. Period!! People here who complain all the time about how difficult it is ��� should be sent to China or Korea. To make them realise how lucky they are to be Americans.
你能从中国这样的国家身上期待些什么呢？这就是为何美国以及所有西方国家是世界上最宜居的地方的原因所在。就是这样！这里的人们总是在抱怨自己的生活如何艰难，我们应该把这些家伙送去中国或者韩国。好让他们意识到，身为美国人究竟是有多么的幸运。
Tbf as a kid, we played 24/7 and still cries for more playtime when our parents tells us to stop playing.It just so happens that we don't do it while looking so mature like this girl did.
说句老实话，我们每天24个小时都在玩耍，然而当父母告诉我们别再玩耍时，我们仍然会哭嚷着想要更多的游戏时间，但是我们在向父母祈求时则丝毫不像这个小女孩表现得这般成熟。
The fact that she speaks articulately like this is an indication that her parents are trying to make her an adult early on instead of allowing her to enjoy her childhood.
事实上，她说话的条理之所以如此清晰恰恰证明她的父母在试图让她快点长大，而不是放任她享受自己的童年。
Let’s be fr, she can argue than most fully grown lawyers.
说句老实话，她的口才比大多数成年律师都更加优秀。
Ok that’s just an overstatement but she speaks well for a child
好吧，这就有点夸大其词了，不过作为一个孩子，她的口才确实很棒。
What a mature little girl. That dad should be very proud of her!
真是一个成熟的小女孩啊，她的父亲应该为她感到骄傲！
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He won’t be proud until she’s a surgeon
在她成为一名外科医生之前，她爸是不会为她感到骄傲的。
No need to be proud. She ain't supposed to backtalk to her father. She needs more lesson on moral education
没有为她感到骄傲的必要。她不应该和自己的父亲顶嘴。她需要接受更多的品德教育。
I can't even argue like that at 32,what a talented kid
甚至连32岁的我都没法这么辩论，真是一个天赋异禀的孩子啊。
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This speaks to the heart of many children from Asian families who are driven hard and over disciplined when it comes to academics at a young age. We see over achieving or success but they are under such pressure. Bless her little heart. What an emotionally intelligent child.
她道出了许多亚洲孩子的心声，他们在很小的时候就被强迫学习，变得过于自律。我们目睹他们因此收获了很多的成就或者成功，但是他们却需要承受如此大的压力。我将会为这颗小小的心灵祈福，真是一个高情商的孩子啊。
She's definitely going to become an outstanding member of society.
她绝对会成为社会的栋梁之材。
The fact she can communicate in this manner, both verbally and with such emotional intelligence, shows she indeed studies more than enough. This is how you end up with straight A “brilliant” students hanging themselves in their college dorm
事实上，她的这种交流方式（无论是口才还是情商）恰恰证明她学得已经够多了。这就是为何你会目睹那些“优秀”的学生在大学宿舍里上吊自杀的原因。
I feel her deep in my bone. Since young, for me, I have been doing my best to achieve my parents' expectations. Getting good grades, winning competitions, not rebelling. I learned to comply with my parents and tiptoed around them just so they can tell me that I'm a good girl while my younger siblings can jump and scream around without care. I stopped myself from wanting to buy a teddy bear because I was worried we wouldn't have enough money.
我完全能够和她感同身受。从小时候起，我便一直在尽自己最大的努力去实现父母的期望。取得好成绩，赢得比赛，而不是叛逆。我学会去顺从父母，在他们身旁踮起脚尖，这样一来，他们便能告诉我，我是一个多么优秀的女孩。而我的弟弟妹妹们则可以无忧无虑地活蹦乱跳。我扼杀了自己想买泰迪熊的念头，因为我担心我们家没有足够的钱。
我的父母可能认为这不过只是一个小小的问题罢了。但是即便到了现在，这种童年的影响依旧深深地植根在一个24岁年轻人的心中。我只是想让他们感到开心，然而他们严格的教育却让我的童年充斥着烦恼，而不是玩耍的快乐。
如今的我从我们国家最好的大学退学了，我被偶发性抑郁症缠身，还得吃药。我无法正视自己的父母，也无法走出家门和更多的人们接触。在一些重要的问题上，我总是缄口不言，但是为了掩盖自己的可怜，我又会在一些无关紧要的问题上雀跃地废话连篇。全世界的父母，请珍惜孩子们的童年，让他们没有顾虑地成长吧。孩子们是非常敏感的，尤其是那些比同龄人早熟得多的孩子。
I’m so proud of her because not a lot of kids can speak their hearts or feelings to their parents.
我实在太为她感到骄傲了，因为没有多少孩子能够向父母说出自己的心声或者感受。
“Treasure our childhood days”. What a great quote from a kid. Love her so much.
“珍惜我们的童年”。这句话居然出自一个孩子的口中。我太喜欢她了。
The way this child still respects her fathet while saying all of this is mature behaviour. I can tell she is very pressured considering the father doesn't even answer her properly. It's inspiring tbh,I can never talk tomy parents like this they would say I'm "talking back" when I'm not. I can tell she'll be a good mother and won't pressure her children in the future.
这个孩子在说出这些成熟的话语时，依旧非常尊重自己的父亲。我能够看出她正承受着巨大的压力，因为她的父亲甚至没有办法好好回答她的问题。说实话，这很鼓舞人心，我永远都无法这么和自己的父母交谈，因为他们会说我这是在“顶嘴”，然而我并没有。我敢说她会成为一位优秀的母亲，她将来不会向自己的孩子们施加压力。
She feels like an adult who goes back in time and relives her childhood
她给人的感觉就像是一个成年人穿越时空返回过去，再一次重温自己的童年。
Impressive, I like this kid, it totally felt validating. I had been through the same thing as a child, but everytime I tried to even speak up for myself, my parents took that as talking back at them and being disrespectful and punished me for it, they didn't even allow me to finish speaking. So this young lady, I'm really happy for her, she protested pretty well, and I was also glad to see that her father was listening to her instead of brusquely interrupting.
了不起，我喜欢这个孩子，我完全能和她感同身受。我小时候也经历过同样的事情，不过每当我为自己辩护时，我的父母总会认为我在顶嘴，说我不尊重他们，并因此惩罚我，他们甚至不让我说完。所以我真心为这位年轻的女士感到高兴，她很出色地完成了自我辩护，我也很高兴看到她老爸在认真倾听她的发言，而不是粗暴地打断。
oh my god the fact that she reminds me of me. the difference is i didn't have that kind of courage to speak up about things that upset me, i simply just accepted everything even when i thought that my parents were being irrational. i'm crying with her
天啊，她让我想起了自己。不同的是，我没有勇气说出那些烦扰我的事情，我只是默默地接受了所有的一切，即便我认为我的父母并不在理。我在和她一起哭泣。