和变性女人结婚是什么感觉?
How does it feel to be married to a transsexual woman?
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Star Smith:如果一个人娶了一个变性女人，我认为这和普通的夫妻没有什么不同。在丈夫眼里，她只是一个变性的女人。这真的不重要。
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How does it feel to be married to a transsexual woman?
和变性女人结婚是什么感觉?
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I am living with my girlfriend, who is an Asian pre-op MTF transsexual. She appears absolutely feminine and most stunningly beautiful. She has a totally feminine temperament and mannerism. Therefore, we have the most awesome sex life imaginable.
我和我的女朋友住在一起，她是一个做了MTF（MTF一般是指出生时生理性别为男，而自我性别认同为女的人，男变女）手术的亚洲变性人。她拥有绝对的女性化的外表和最惊人的美丽。她有一种完全女性化的气质和举止。因此，我们拥有想象中最美妙的性生活。
Despite her totally femininity, she still gets clocked 1% of the time. It would hence be a bit awkward to present her to people like my boss or some less open-minded friends.
She could become temperamental and moody at times.
She is too obsessed about being a total woman and she is neglecting other aspects of life eg learning, hobbies etc.
缺点是:
尽管她完全是女性化的，她仍然有1%的时间会受影响。因此，把她介绍给我的老板或一些不那么开明的朋友时会有点尴尬。
她有时会变得喜怒无常。
她太沉迷于做一个完全的女人，而忽略了生活的其他方面，如学习、爱好等。
It feels wonderful! I couldn't have a better life partner to spend the rest of my life with.
My wife is pre-op MtF, she's not on hormones, has had a couple of surgeries and she works hard on her body to look good, she has some dysphoria and loves her penis. She's open about being trans
We are both 27, we been together for 7 years, and we have two beautiful children together. Her parents are very supportive of her, mine on the other hand don't have contact with us, cause of who my wife is. Other than that minor annoyance our relationship is strong and we enjoy every minute of it.
感觉好极了!我找不到比这更好的人生伴侣共度余生了。
我的妻子是术前MtF，她没有使用激素，做了几次手术，她努力让自己的身体看起来更好，她有些焦虑，她喜欢她自己的阴茎。她对自己是变性人持开放态度。
我们都是27岁，我们在一起7年了，我们有两个漂亮的孩子。她的父母非常支持她，另一方面，我的父母没有和我们联系，因为我的妻子的身份。除了那些小烦恼，我们的关系很牢固，我们享受在一起的每一分钟。
My husband doesn’t not view me as ‘trans’ but a woman and we have been together for nigh on 30 years and legally married since 2005 (Birth certificate law changed in the UK in that year). I asked him the above question and his answer was ‘I’m not married to a ‘trans’ anything but a woman whom I love and think is the most amazing woman ever. My husband is a loving caring man and to him what I went through was in the past. So if you want to know the answer to that question then ask husbands of ‘trans’ women who are married. I had a friend whom sadly died and her husband only saw her as a normal woman.
我的丈夫并不认为我是“变性人”，而是把我当做一个女人，我们在一起近30年了，从2005年开始合法结婚(英国的出生证明法律在那一年改变了)。我问了他上面的问题，他的回答是“我并没有娶一个‘变性人’，而是娶了一个我爱的女人，我认为她是有史以来最了不起的女人。”我的丈夫是一个有爱心的人，对他来说，我所经历的一切都是过去的事了。所以，如果你想知道这个问题的答案，那就去问那些已婚“变性”女性的丈夫吧。我有一个朋友不幸去世了，她的丈夫就把她当作一个正常的女人来看待。
She the best. I’d say she is beautiful inside and out. We were both our first. She looked like a girl when we teenagers. Encouraged and helped her transition. Together 35 years, married for 24 years. It doesn’t seem that long ago. I still remember the scimpy,sexy kind of wedding outfit we wore. Scandalous back then. Probably only provacotive at most today. Only using only our long hair to cover our bare back and ass cheeks. Full exposed front during the ceremony. Lezlee had to prove her real gender back then. The women officiating our ceremony says she couldn’t legally marry two women even though the marriage license designated her a male. We didn’t have our purses with. So I pulled down her string bicini bottom reached around her and spread her ass cheeks and down it flopped between her legs. I then pulled her bottom up and returning to her side leaving it hang there for her to see through the whole ceremony. She gasped . She stumbled through like she was running out of air all the time and having a hard time trying to keep her eyes off Lezlee and her unit. She quickly signed our marriage license and handed it to Lezlee smiling and quickly ducked behind the curtain. Lezlee covered her front with her hair and didn’t retuck her penis until it was time to get out of the limo at the special club we chose. We were the main attraction there for sure. She asked me did you the woman minister go behind the curtain? I was busy admiring our rings. Lezlee said she obviously lost control and peed herself. I said oh my god. She didn’t pee herself. She was obviously orgasming over you! Because I noticed her twisting and gripping the potium like she was hanging off a cliff. Our wedding outfit consisted of diamond studded string bicini bottoms . Using our only our long hair to cover bodies in more public places. It was easier fo Lezlee though because her hair is incredible thick. My hips would easily be exposed and my breasts would poke through the front easily. Wild times.
她是最好的。我得说她内外兼美。我们都是第一次。当我们十几岁的时候，她看起来像个女孩。我鼓励和帮助她进行了性别转变。我们在一起35年，已经结婚24年了。这似乎不是很久以前的事了。我还记得我们穿的那种性感的婚纱。当时很羞耻。放在如今可能只是显得有点挑衅性。只用我们的长发遮住光秃秃的后背和屁股。在仪式上完全暴露正面。莱兹莉当时必须证明她的真实性别。主持我们婚礼的女人说，她不能让两个女人结婚，这不合法，尽管结婚证上写着她是男性。我们没有带包包。所以我拉下了她的比西尼裤把手放在她身边，推开她的屁股，然后在她两腿之间一抓。我把她的老二拉起来摆在那里，然后我回到那个女主持身边，让她看到整个仪式。她倒吸了一口冷气。她踉踉跄跄地走着，好像她快没气了，很难把目光从Lezlee和她的老二身上移开。她很快在我们的结婚证上签了字，微笑着把它递给莱兹莉，然后迅速躲到帘子后面。莱兹莉用她的头发遮住了她的前胸，直到我们在我们选择的特殊俱乐部下车，她才收起她的老二。我们无疑是那里最吸引人的焦点。她问我，你是不是把那个女牧师吓得躲到帘子后面去了?我正忙着欣赏我们的戒指。莱兹莉说，她显然失控了，吓尿了。我说，天哪。她不是自己尿了。她显然是在为你高潮!因为我注意到她像挂在悬崖上一样扭着。我们结婚时穿的是镶满钻石的bicini裤装。在公共场合用我们唯一的长发遮住身体。莱兹莉就容易多了，因为她的头发非常浓密。我的臀部会很容易暴露，我的胸部会很容易穿过头发显露出来。当时真是疯狂。
If someone is married to a transsexual woman, I think it would be nothing different from usual couple. In the husband’s eye, she is just a woman who is transsexual. It really doesn’t matter.
如果一个人娶了一个变性女人，我认为这和普通的夫妻没有什么不同。在丈夫眼里，她只是一个变性的女人。这真的不重要。
This is my 2nd post of the same comment because all of you pussies keep reporting this, luckily for me, I can do this all day…Remember, facts over feelings here pussies.
I understand why you posted this question as Anonymous, because you don’t want to attach your name to something that means you’re gay. Hey man, being gay is alright. Anyway, due to the sensitivity of this question, I’ll answer this anonymously as well, because I don’t feel like arguing with brain dead people who don’t understand what the fuck they’re talking about either.
这是我关于同一个问题的第二篇评论，因为你们这些孬种一直在报道这件事，幸运的是，我可以一整天都这样做……孬种们，记住，事实胜于感情。
我理解你为什么以匿名的身份发布这个问题，因为你不想把你的名字和表明你是同性恋的东西联系在一起。嘿，伙计，同性恋是可以的。不管怎样，由于这个问题的敏感性，我也会匿名回答这个问题，因为我不想和那些连自己在说什么都不懂的脑死亡的人争论。
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So if they’re transgendered, they are no longer a lad. Because they feel like a woman even though they have a penis, they are woman, which is fucking ridiculous. When I see men who are clearly men with tits and a full beard, and pretend like they’re women, and want to be identified as women, but they have a penis, sorry man, I can’t participate in your mental health delusions.
根据社会学定义，你是一个跨性别的男性，不是一个男性，实际上你是一个女人，你的问题实际上被称为跨性别恐惧症。
所以如果他们是变性人，他们就不再是男性了。即使他们有阴茎，但是因为他们觉得自己是女人，他们就是女人，这太他妈荒谬了。当我看到那些明明只有乳头和大胡子的男人，假装自己是女人，想被认为是女人，但他们却有阴茎，对不起，伙计，我不能理解你的心理妄想。
If man has a penis, he is a man.. And if a woman had a vagina, she is a woman… Period. I will never as long as I live consider a transgendered man who thinks they’re a woman, but have a penis, a woman.
我和专业精神科医生一起在一家医院工作，DSM-5记录了性别焦虑是一种精神健康状况。当时是2021年，这真的让我很震惊，人们的感情现在被认为是新科学，这也太他妈荒谬了。主观感觉，或者一个人内心的感受并不能战胜科学或生物学。
如果男人有阴茎，他就是男人。如果一个女人有阴道，她就是女人…只要我还活着，我就永远不会认为一个自认为是女人，但有阴茎的变性男人，是一个女人。
Until a transgendered man goes through post op surgery and get a vagina, they are a man, not a woman.
Laslty, there are only two sexes or genders… All the Twitter weirdos trying to convince me that there are more than two also need to seek some professional mental health help as well. This world is going crazy, and everyone is losing their goddamn minds.
更糟糕的是，在现代社会，如果你是一个直男，但选择不和变性人约会，你经常会被推特上的白痴称为变性人恐惧症患者。我个人并没有反对变性人，但当我不得不参与他们的心理健康妄想时，我确实感到生气。
在变性人做完手术，拥有阴道之前，他们是男人，不是女人。
最后，只有两种性别……所有试图说服我人类有两种以上的性别的推特怪人，他们也需要寻求一些专业的心理健康帮助。这个世界快疯了，每个人都疯了。
And to any clowns who downvote this, not to worry, I’ll keep checking from time to time and resubmitting my post, because I know there’s far to many people are actively trying to brainwash others with their own mental health issues also, I’ll keep posting just for the sake of adding some common sense to questions like these.
You can’t undo over 2000 years of science and biology because of how someone feels on the inside, that is fucking ridiculous.
还有，如果你想知道和一个变性人结婚会是什么样子，我就说说同性恋婚姻是什么样子，因为你和一个变性人结婚，实际上意味着你是同性恋。
对于那些投了反对票的小丑们，不用担心，我会不时地查看并重新提交我的帖子，因为我知道还有很多人在积极地用自己的心理健康问题给别人洗脑，我将继续发布帖子，只是为了给这些问题添加一些常识。
你不能因为部分人内心的感受就毁掉两千年来的科学和生物学，这太他妈荒谬了。
I have been living full time as a female since I was 16. I have had several relationships with men, and all of them have been “normal” heterosexual relationships.
I met the man of my dreams a few years ago and told him of my history. He said that he didn't care and that I was the woman he wanted to live with for the rest of his life.
He recently asked me to marry him and I very happily said “yes please”. Next year I will be his wife in every way except that I cannot bear children.
Our relationship is very strong and loving. No-one would ever know that I started by trying to be a boy.
What is it like for him? He has an adoring woman by his side. Perfectly matched!
我从16岁起就一直以女性的身份生活。我和几个男人有过恋爱关系，而且都是“正常的”异性恋关系。
几年前，我遇到了我的梦中情人，并告诉了他我的过去。他说他不在乎这些，我是他想与之共度余生的女人。
他最近向我求婚了，我很高兴地答应了。明年我将是他的妻子，除了我不能生育。
我们的关系非常牢固和相爱。没人会知道我一开始想做个男孩。
对他来说是什么感觉?他身边有个爱慕他的女人陪着他。我们相互般配!
My husband of over32 years married me and is 100% straight. He saw a woman he liked courted me then married me. Transgender people are just people with the same needs, desires etc as any person who is not transgender. Yes I had undergone gender confirming surgery years before I met my husband if anyone is curious. We are just an ordinary couple and both our families treat us as such. I've worked in society in various types of employment and finally trained as a mental health counsellor. Absolute no problems with employment . We are not aliens from another planet and we don't have 2 heads etc we are just human beings. I'm 72 now and my husband is 64. I thought he was older when I met him as he is a mature intelligent man and it didn't shock him when I told him of my medical history. He just said to me is that all?
我32岁的丈夫和我结婚了，他是100%的直男。他看到一个他喜欢的女人，然后他向我求爱，然后娶了我。跨性别者和非跨性别者有着相同的需求、欲望等。是的，如果有人好奇的话，在我遇到我丈夫的几年前，我就做过性别确认手术。我们只是一对普通的夫妻，我们的家人也都这样对待我们。我在社会上做过各种各样的工作，最后成为了一名心理健康顾问。在就业方面绝对没有问题。我们不是来自另一个星球的外星人，我们没有两个脑袋之类的，我们只是人类。我现在72岁，我丈夫64岁。当我遇到他的时候，我以为他比我大，因为他是一个成熟而又聪明的人，当我告诉他我的病史时，他没有感到震惊。他当时跟我说，就这?
I’m a straight male, and yes. If I weren’t already married and I fell in love with a transgender woman who loved me too, that would definitely be a possibility.
Also, it doesn’t matter to me whether they have had that surgery, will have it, or will never have it. What genitals a woman has really isn’t that important to me. If I love her and she loves me, her physical attributes really aren’t a significant factor.
我是个直男，没错。如果我还没有结婚，并且爱上了一个也爱我的跨性别女性，那肯定是有可能的。
而且，对我来说，他们是否做过手术，是否会做手术，或者即使永远不会做手术都并不重要。女人应该有什么生殖器对我来说并不重要。如果我爱她，她也爱我，那么她的身体特征真的不是一个重要的因素。