你心目中的理想生活是什么样?
What is your idea of an Ideal Life?
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网友：嗯，理想的生活。
首先，让我告诉你根据谷歌对“理想”这个词的定义是什么:
1. 完美的: 满足某人对完美的概念; 最合适。
2. 只存在于想象中的; 理想的或完美的，但不可能成为现实......
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What is your idea of an Ideal Life?
你心目中的理想生活是什么样?
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Ideal Life. Hmm.
Firstly, let me tell you what according to Google are the definitions of the word ‘ideal’ :
1. Satisfying one's conception of what is perfect; most suitable.
2. Existing only in the imagination; desirable or perfect but not likely to become a reality .
So yeah, according to Google the word ‘ideal’ is difficult to achieve. But it also says it is achievable, conceptually. So I will tell you about the ‘ideal’ life in my conception in the following two categories.
Ideal Professional life is when:
You wake up in the morning with purpose, and go to sleep at night with satisfaction.
When work is not a burden; it’s a playtime and when it doesn’t matter - whether the watch shows 9 a.m. or 9 p.m.
When you have a ‘Best employee of the year’ award on your shelf and also have a drawing sheet of your daughter with a caption ‘My daddy/mom is the best’ - hung on your wall.
When you look forward to Mondays as much as you look forward to weekends.
When your colleagues are your friends.
When you are comfortable where you are, but you are working hard for much better things.
When you never stop learning.
嗯，理想的生活。
首先，让我告诉你根据谷歌对“理想”这个词的定义是什么:
1. 完美的: 满足某人对完美的概念; 最合适。
2. 只存在于想象中的; 理想的或完美的，但不可能成为现实。
所以，根据谷歌，“理想”这个词很难实现。但它也表示，从概念上讲，这是可以实现的。所以我将在以下两个类别中告诉你我心中的“理想”生活。
理想的职业生活是:
你早上带着目标醒来，晚上带着满足入睡。
工作不是负担; 这是一个游戏时间，什么时候并不重要——无论手表显示的是上午9点还是晚上9点。
你的书架上有一个“年度最佳员工”奖，墙上还挂着一张你女儿的画册，上面写着“我的爸爸/妈妈是最好的”。
你期待周一就像期待周末一样。
你的同事是你的朋友。
你在舒适的地方，但你正在为更好的事情努力工作。
你永不停止学习。
When you are admired for your talents than your looks and riches.
When it really doesn’t take much to make you happy. You derive happiness from the simplest of things.
When you bloom like the flowers of the spring, and let go of the things that no longer nurture you like the leaves of the autumn. And pull yourself together in between.
When you have more friends you can talk to at night 2 a.m., than the online friends who send ‘Happy birthday’ wishes because of a notification.
When your conscious is clear about all the decisions you have made in your life.
When your life is not ‘only’ about daylight worries and midnight feelings.
When you actually live life, not put up with life.
When you give more, take less, expect nothing.
When you have made a tough decision that left you baffled but yet you could sleep peacefully at night - when you know you have made the right decision.
When notifications from Quora make you happy than Facebook notifications.
When you reach the finish line- you achieve your biggest victory, you have people to high-five with.
In general, ‘ideal’ life is something that makes you feel content, and that sets your soul at ease.
理想的个人生活是:
你的才华比你的容貌和财富更受人尊敬的时候。
其实不需要太多就能让你快乐。你从最简单的事情中获得快乐。
你像春天的花朵一样绽放，放手那些不再滋养你的东西，像秋天的树叶一样。在两者之间振作起来。
你有更多的朋友可以在凌晨2点交谈，而不是因为通知而发送“生日快乐”祝福的在线朋友。
你的意识清楚你在生活中所做的所有决定时。
你的生活不仅仅是白天的烦恼和午夜的感觉。
你真正地生活，而不是忍受生活。
你付出更多，索取更少，不期待什么。
你做了一个让你困惑的艰难决定，但你知道你已经做出了正确的决定，你可以在晚上安然入睡。
来自Quora的通知比FB的通知更让你开心。
你到达终点线时——你获得了最大的胜利，你可以和别人击掌。
一般来说，“理想”的生活会让你感到满足，让你的灵魂放松。
To me your life is ideal if-
1. You are at peace with who you are.
2. You are at peace with what you have.
3. Temptations of the world fail to rock you.
4. You are a part of the world, but you have your world within you.
5. You do things because you want to do, not to impress anyone.
6. You are very clear about your priorities in life. You know "when", "what" and "whom" to say no to.
对我来说，你的生活是理想的，如果
1. 你能和真实的自己和平相处。
2. 你能坦然面对你所拥有的。
3.世界上的各种诱惑都无法撼动你。
4. 你是世界的一部分，但你的世界在你心中。
5. 你做事是因为你想做，而不是为了给别人留下好印象。
6. 你很清楚你生活中的优先事项。你知道“何时”、“什么”和“谁”该拒绝。
life is to live and enjoy so dont live ur life by seeing perfect, only on movies or story books it is possible, not in real life:)
生活就是活着和享受，所以不要把你的生活看得完美，完美只有在电影或故事书中才可能，在现实生活中是不可能的。
Perception of ideal life varies for every person
For a poor person who struggles for daily bread, a life with basic needs such as food, shelter and clothing is ideal life.
For an orphan kid, living with parents is an ideal life.
For a rape victim, getting married is an ideal life.
For an acid attack victim, life without struggles is an ideal life.
For people with health issues, living a stress free healthy life is an ideal life.
For a cancer patient, living without painful chemotherapy sessions is an ideal life.
For a cancer survivor, living healthy without cancer relapse is an ideal life.
For a human trafficking victim, escaping from the darkness and leading a peaceful life is an ideal life.
For a widow/divorcee, remarrying a right person and starting the life journey ahead is an ideal life.
For a single mom/dad, raising their kids and securing a stable life to them is an ideal life.
For Syrians and victims of terrorism, leading a peaceful life is an ideal life.
According to me “An ideal life is living happily the present moment with complete satisfaction”!!!
Smiles and Cheers :-)
每个人对理想生活的看法都不相同
对于一个为日常生计而挣扎的穷人来说，有衣食住行等基本需求的生活是理想的生活。
对于一个孤儿来说，和父母一起生活是一种理想的生活。
对于强奸受害者来说，结婚是一种理想的生活。
对于被硫酸攻击的受害者来说，没有斗争的生活就是理想的生活。
对于有健康问题的人来说，没有压力的健康生活是一种理想的生活。
对于癌症患者来说，没有痛苦的化疗是一种理想的生活。
对于癌症幸存者来说，健康生活而不复发是一种理想的生活。
对于人口贩卖受害者来说，逃离黑暗，过上平静的生活才是理想的生活。
对于寡妇/离婚者来说，与合适的人再婚并开始未来的人生旅程是一种理想的生活。
对于单身妈妈/爸爸来说，抚养孩子并确保他们过上稳定的生活是一种理想的生活。
对叙利亚人和恐怖主义受害者来说，过和平生活是一种理想的生活。
按照我的说法，“理想的生活就是幸福地活在当下”！
An ideal life is when you are honest to yourself. You share what you know, nothing mix, or duplicity.
You are compassionate towards everyone. You just give what you have.
You are living a balance life, you are content with what you have.
Sharing with you a beautiful story.
There is a beautiful story about Saint Kabir. Once a lady with her young child came to Saint Kabir and complained that her son had the habit of eating lot of Jaggery everyday. Saint Kabir told her to come after a week.
Upon the lady’s return after a week, Saint Kabir told the boy to give up the habit of eating Jaggery. The lady was surprised to hear this and asked Saint Kabir, “You could have said this when we had come earlier”?
Saint Kabir clarified to the lady, “How could I advise your son not to eat Jaggery when I used to eat it myself at that time? Therefore these last seven days I practiced to stay without eating Jaggery, so I could advise your son to do the same!”
Here Saint Kabir showing his greatness, he advised when he got rid of his habit..
Otherwise, we can find many people they try to be great advisor, but they itself don’t follow such advice.
理想的生活就是对自己诚实。你分享你所知道的，不要混为一谈或口是心非。
你对每个人都很有同情心。你只要付出你所拥有的。
你过着平衡的生活，你对你所拥有的感到满足。
与你分享一个美好的故事。
有一个关于圣卡比尔的美丽故事。有一次，一位女士带着年幼的孩子来到圣卡比尔，抱怨她的儿子每天都吃很多棕榈糖。圣卡比尔告诉她一周后再来。
一周后，这位女士回来后，圣卡比尔告诉男孩放弃吃棕榈糖的习惯。这位女士听到这个消息很惊讶，问圣卡比尔：“我们早些时候来的时候，你本可以这么说的？”
圣卡比尔向这位女士解释道：“我当时自己也吃棕榈糖，我怎么能建议你儿子不要吃呢？因此，在过去的七天里，我练习不吃棕榈糖，所以我可以建议你儿子也这样做！”
圣卡比尔在这里展示了他的伟大，当他改掉习惯时，他建议道。
否则，我们会发现许多人试图成为伟大的顾问，但他们自己却不听从这样的建议。
Having the ability to spend my time doing what I love, adventuring as much as possible, building and maintaining powerful relationships while experiencing personal growth regularly.
有能力花时间做我喜欢的事情，尽可能地冒险，建立和保持强大的人际关系，个人不断成长。
To have an ideal life there is no fixed formula as such, but yeah on the basis of my personal experience and learning, I can tell few points which I believe are important to have life which can be called ideal:
Trust your family rather to trust an outsider: Yes, it is true trust family more than any body else because whatever they say they say on the basis of their experience and whatever they have seen since they are there before us. At times it may look that an outsider is the one we were searching for, but it will always end up to be an illusion. We should never at any point ignore this truth that they carry much more experience than us.
Listen to your gut feeling and trust it: your gut feeling never lies, mostly it doesn’t listen to it. If before doing anything it says no listen to it and think twice before indulging into any matter.
Never indulge in bad habits like drinking/smoking/ drugs etc. even for the sake of friendship or to come out of some painful event do not indulge in such habits, there is nothing fruitful in it. We should never forget this ‘Addiction of anything is bad at the end’. No true friend on the earth would want you to have bad habits.
Have a real relationship: do not indulge into multiple relationships or time pass relations. Just have true relation with the person wherein you can say yes this is the one I can spend my whole life with. Love is the most essential ingredient for an ideal life. People who have great bonding with their partners are seen to grow exponentially compared to those who are more talented but struggling in their personal lives.
Do not trust anyone blindly: Trust is an important aspect of life but these days it is broken like hell, think thousands of time before trusting anyone. Just don’t trust anyone like that.
拥有理想的生活没有固定的公式，但是根据我个人的经验和学习，我可以说几点我认为拥有可以称为理想的生活很重要的几点：
相信你的家人而不是相信一个局外人：是的，这是真正。信任家人胜过信任任何其他人，因为无论他们说什么，他们都是基于他们的经验和他们在我们之前所见所闻的。 有时，我们可能会觉得自己在寻找的是一个局外人，但这最终都只是一种错觉。 我们在任何时候都不应忽视这个事实，即他们比我们拥有更多的经验。
倾听你的直觉并相信它：你的直觉从不说谎，大多数时候它不会去听。如果在做任何事情之前，它说不，那么在沉迷于任何事情之前三思而后行。
永远不要沉迷于诸如饮酒/吸烟/吸毒等坏习惯。即使是为了友谊或是为了摆脱一些痛苦的事件，也不要沉迷于这些习惯，因为它们不会带来任何成效。我们永远不应该忘记“对任何事情上瘾最终都是不好的”这句话。地球上没有一个真正的朋友希望你有坏习惯。
拥有一段真正的关系：不要沉迷于多重关系或时间流逝的关系。只要与你能说“是”的人建立真正的关系，这就是我能与之共度一生的人。爱情是理想生活中最重要的组成部分。与那些更有才华但在个人生活中挣扎的人相比，与伴侣关系融洽的人成长速度会呈指数级增长。
不要盲目地信任任何人：信任是生活的一个重要方面，但现在它已经像地狱一样破碎了，在相信任何人之前要三思。不要那样相信任何人。
Do have passion but do not leave your job in sway: Everyone wants to live his/her passion, but it can be disastrous sometimes when you leave your good paying job for your passion. I am not negative here, it’s just a suggestion before you think this way, that’s all.
DO NOT LEND MONEY TO ANYONE: Yes, this is the most important of all, if you really really want to have good relations with people, do not lend money ever. Money is not the root of evil but yeah it shows the person’s true character and you feel ditched.
SAVE MONEY: It doesn’t matter how much you earn but make it a point that you save money. You will find n number of reasons to spend and all the reason would be alluring enough to you but trust me man, when you actually go through your worst time only money can save you. No friend, no relative, nobody would ever show up in your worst. But your financial stability will give you that peace of mind which you would want in that period.
勤勉地选择你的朋友：嗯，即使在一起多年，也很难理解任何人。这并不容易，但我们还是应该尽量不要过早地信任任何人。
要有激情，但不要让你的工作摇摆不定：每个人都想活出自己的激情，但当你为了激情而离开高薪工作时，有时可能会是灾难性的。我并不是否定你的观点，这只是在你这么想之前的一个建议，仅此而已。
不要借钱给任何人：是的，这是最重要的，如果你真的想与人保持良好的关系，永远不要借钱给别人。金钱不是罪恶的根源，但它显示了一个人的真实性格，你会觉得被抛弃了。
省钱：你挣多少钱并不重要，但一定要省钱。你会找到N个花钱的理由，所有这些理由对你来说都很有吸引力，但相信我，伙计，当你真的经历了最糟糕的时候，只有钱能救你。没有朋友，没有亲戚，没有人会在你最糟糕的时候出现。但你的财务稳定会让你在那段时间里心平气和。
Spend time with family and kids: spend quality time with your loved ones, it releases stress and kids are the stress busters.
Do not talk about problems while eating food: Whatever you talk about while eating, trust that you are consuming that too with your food. Talk only positive things or do not talk at all. Problems are never ending and are part and parcel of life, never carry them at your dinner table. It worsen your situation and nothing else.
Do not blame others for your problems: Learn to take the responsibility of your life and your problems.
Frustration/Anger/ Overthinking is no solution: Learn that frustration, anger, overthinking are no solution to any of your problem they just multiply your problems. #Be cool.
Don’t take life too seriously: Everything else is good, take life easy. Enjoy and go with the flow. Don’t harm anyone for your benefits. Smile a lot it costs nothing and try to make others smile daily.
Thanks!
制定良好的储蓄计划：储蓄应始终放在第一位，而不是最后一位。大多数人只有在支出之后才打算存钱，然后他们就有足够的理由不存钱了。
花时间与家人和孩子在一起：花时间与你爱的人在一起，这会释放压力，而孩子是压力的克星。
不要在吃东西的时候谈论问题：无论你在吃东西的时候谈论什么，相信你在吃东西的时候也在谈论这些问题。只谈积极的事情，或者干脆不谈。问题是永远不会结束的，是生活中不可缺少的一部分，不要在餐桌上提到它们。它只会让你的情况更糟。
不要因为你的问题责怪别人：学会对自己的生活和问题负责。
沮丧/愤怒/过度思考并不能解决问题：要知道，沮丧、愤怒、过度思考并不能解决你的任何问题，它们只会让你的问题成倍增加。冷静点。
不要把生活看得太重：其他的一切都很好，轻松地对待生活。享受并顺其自然。不要为了你的利益而伤害任何人。多微笑，这不需要任何代价，试着让别人每天都微笑。
谢谢
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In my opinion, an ideal lifestyle is one that brings to you a lot of positivity. It should be such that at the end of the day you feel productive, relaxed and contented… So anything that adds up positivity to your daily rituals ultimately ends up making your lifestyle an ideal one…
However the concept of “ideal” is very subjective.. it varies from person to person.. A lifestyle which is ideal for one might not be ideal for someone else.. For example someone might feel waking up early is an essential part of an ideal life, whereas to some others working till late night gives a sense of being highly productive making his/her lifestyle an ideal one..
So basically, any lifestyle that keeps you HAPPY and HEALTHY is an ideal one..
在我看来，理想的生活方式是给你带来很多积极的东西。这应该是这样的，在一天结束的时候，你会感到富有成效、放松和满足……因此，任何能给你的日常生活增加积极性的事情最终都会使你的生活方式成为理想的生活方式。
然而，“理想”的概念是非常主观的。它因人而异。对一个人来说理想的生活方式可能对另一个人来说并不理想。例如，有些人可能会觉得早起是理想生活的重要组成部分，而有些人工作到深夜会给人一种高效的感觉，使他/她的生活方式成为理想的生活方式。
因此，基本上，任何让你快乐和健康的生活方式都是理想的。
Doing something I love, surrounded by friends and family.
Perhaps travelling the world and immersing myself in new cultures, helping in poor parts of the World and generally making a positive difference somehow.
做自己喜欢的事，身边有朋友和家人。
也许是周游世界，让自己沉浸在新的文化中，帮助世界上的贫困地区，以某种方式做出积极的改变。
Ideal life is being where you want to be, with who you want to be with, doing what you want to do.
My ideal life is being self-employed, with two home schooled kids, and retired husband, slowly traveling the world and visiting all of our friends and family. We've already tasted it before.
And now we are a bit stuck in place because our youngest went to kindergarten. His dad promised that if he beats him in chess, he can quit kindergarten. So, I'm cheering for the little one. He tries every night.
理想的生活是在你想呆的地方，和你想要的人在一起，做你想做的事。
我理想中的生活是自己当老板，两个在家上学的孩子和退休的丈夫，慢慢地周游世界，拜访我们所有的朋友和家人。我们之前已经尝试过了
现在我们有点原地踏步，因为我们最小的孩子上了幼儿园。他爸爸承诺，如果他下棋赢了他，他就可以从幼儿园退学。所以，我为这个小家伙欢呼。他每晚都试。
It’s hard for me to imagine an ideal life, most of the time I don’t think a good life is even possible for me anymore.
An ideal life would entail me becoming a completely different person, one who has passions, can move on from the past, has confidence and self esteem, who actually has a place they want to go in life. I can’t really imagine being such a person, but I think that my life would be ideal if I had traits like those. If I was that kind of person I would be able to get an ideal life, or at least pretty close.
我很难想象一个理想的生活，大多数时候我认为一个好的生活对我来说甚至是不可能的。
理想的生活应该让我变成一个完全不同的人，一个有激情的人，一个能从过去中走出来的人，一个有自信和自尊的人，一个在生活中有自己想要去的地方的人。我真的无法想象成为这样的人，但我认为如果我有这些特质，我的生活将是理想的。如果我是那种人，我就能过上理想的生活，或者至少是非常接近理想的生活。
Growing up with my grandparents, I've learned to appreciate the simple things life has to offer.
We are living in the countryside and my grandparents had carabaos, ducks, goats and currently only have chickens, and dogs. Most people here make a living through farming and so our place is surrounded by paddy fields, sugarcane plantations, corn plantations, and such.
Aside from those, the people here are all friendly and will lend a helping hand whenever needed without asking for payments (aside from working on other's farms). We are used to sharing food and anything if we have it.
And what I appreciate here the most is whenever it is my birthday when I go out, people would greet me when I’m not even telling anyone that it's my birthday.
在与祖父母一起长大的过程中，我学会了欣赏生活所能提供的简单的东西。
我们住在乡下，我的祖父母养过水牛、鸭子、山羊，现在只养鸡和狗。这里的大多数人都以务农为生，所以我们这里周围都是稻田、甘蔗种植园、玉米种植园等等。
除此之外，这里的人都很友好，在任何需要的时候都会伸出援助之手，而不需要任何报酬(在别人的农场工作除外)。我们习惯于分享食物和任何我们有的东西。
我在这里最感激的是，每当我过生日，当我出去的时候，人们都会向我打招呼, 而我甚至没有告诉任何人这是我的生日。
From that experience, I’ve realized that that kind of life living in the city isn't for me.
So what's my ideal life?
You could guess.
My ideal life would be living somewhere away from the city but not too far that it becomes inconvenient, be financially stable, have businesses, and probably adopt kids as I don't really see myself getting a partner.
Of course, I still need to live in the city in the future for work and to make some of my dreams become a reality.
But settling in the rural place when I retire is definitely a must-thing for me.
作为一个在这种生活中长大的孩子，我很开心，但我也对生活在城市里感到好奇。所以我决定在城里读高中。就像其他任何城市一样，这里熙熙攘攘，噪音太大，人们太不友好，太自由了，我不喜欢这里。我大部分时间呆在家里，只有上学时才出去。大多数时候，我都被别人冷落了，所以我也懒得表现得友好和外向。
从那次经历中，我意识到那种住在城市里的生活不适合我。
那么，我的理想生活是什么？
你可以猜到。
我的理想生活应该是住在远离城市的地方，但不要太远，那样会带来不便，经济稳定，有生意，可能还会领养孩子，因为我觉得自己找不到伴侣。
当然，我将来仍然需要住在城市里工作，让我的一些梦想成为现实。
但退休后在农村定居对我来说绝对是必须的。
My idea life is a life where I earn big money for less number of hours worked. I do not believe in this “work hard day and night until you die” lifestyle.
I earn good money, I work less number of hours, I keep my expenses minimum and I enjoy life. And added to this - I work with whomsoever I like, in the manner I like and only on those terms and conditions I feel are applicable to me.
Now with regards to YOUR IDEAL LIFE….This is what I can recommend:
Find a day, date and time when you are all alone and no one will disturb you
Take a note book, pen and sext a nice spot to sit and think
Do not have any smartphone, internet or friend or anyone near you
Sit down and ask yourself what (realistically) is your ideal life
Be truthful, honest, practical and logical in your answers
Once you have this answer - then start being specific & by specific I mean super specific with your answers
Then focus on finding out all the steps to achieve this lifestyle - the good, the bad and the ugly
Ask yourself what are you willing to do right now (as in now) and consistently every single day to achieve this life
Start doing it immediately.
If you do this consistently - you will be well on your way to achieve success and yes, live your ideal life.
Remember - life is not all about working 24/7.
Its about living those moments fully and meaningfully.
我的理想生活是这样的生活：我用更少的工作时间赚大钱。我不相信这种“日以继夜努力工作直到死”的生活方式。
我挣钱多，工作时间少，开支少，我享受生活。除此之外，我还与我喜欢的任何人合作，以我喜欢的方式，只在我觉得对我适用的条款和条件下工作。
现在关于你的理想生活，以下是我的建议：
找一个你独自一人的日子、日期和时间，没有人会打扰你
拿一本笔记本，一支笔，选择一个好地方坐下来思考
身边没有智能手机、网络、朋友或其他人
坐下来问问自己（现实地）你的理想生活是什么
回答时要真实、诚实、务实、合乎逻辑
一旦你有了这个答案，那么就开始具体化; 我所说的具体化是指你的答案非常具体
然后集中精力找出实现这种生活方式的所有步骤——好的、坏的和丑陋的
问问自己，为了实现这种生活目标，你现在（如现在）和每天都坚持做些什么
马上开始行动。
如果你坚持这样做，你就会在通往成功的路上走得很好，是的，过上你理想的生活。
记住——生活不全是全天候工作。
关键是要活得充实而有意义。