话题:你更喜欢朋友多一点还是朋友少一点?
Which do you prefer, many friends or just few?译文简介
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On a personal level as well as on social level, I prefer just a few friends. There is a saying which says that 'friends should be few and good one'. I follow that good adage. That apart personally, I don't believe in having too many friends. It is because we should not waste our precious time unnecessarily with friends and we have to give some time to our personal life too. After all, I too have a life to look after and care about.
There is also a saying why a person's life gets improved or spoiled is all because of friends. I strongly believe having too many friends will only waste your time and their time and nothing concrete would be achieved out of such friend's circle. I know people who are spoiled because of their friends.
无论是在个人层面还是在社交层面,我更喜欢朋友少一点,有一句谚语说“朋友应该少而精”,我遵循这句格言。就我个人而言,我不希望有太多朋友,这是因为我们不应该在朋友身上不必要地浪费我们的宝贵时间,我们也必须给我们的个人生活一些时间,毕竟,我们也有自己的生活要照顾和关心。
还有一种说法,为什么一个人的生活会得到改善或被破坏,都是因为朋友。我坚信拥有太多的朋友只会浪费你的时间和他们的时间,在这样的朋友圈子里不会有什么实质的意义,我就知道有些人的生活因为朋友而被破坏了。
"Too many cooks spoil the brooth" same applies to someone when they have many friends. When you have many friends, the possibility of being influenced by peer pressure is very high. Each one of them will try bringing up different ideas into you head thus poisoning your brain.
It's good to have few friends like 2 or 3 who are trustable and reliable and will always come at your rescue when you're in need. Whenever it comes to friendship, don't trust anyone 100% though. Some friends are just evil from inside and will be not show you. Their joy will be celebrating your downfall but whe they're with you are good. Its advisable to hear your friends advises but don't do what they tell you.
"太多的厨师会坏了一锅粥",这句话同样适用于有很多朋友的人。当你有很多朋友时,受到同龄人压力影响的可能性非常大,他们中的每一个人都会试图把不同的想法带入你的头脑,从而毒害你的大脑。
有几个朋友就挺好了,比如两三个值得信赖和可靠的朋友,他们总是在你需要的时候出现在你的身边。但凡涉及到友谊,不要100%相信任何人,有些朋友从内心就是邪恶的,不会向你展露出来,他们会为你的失败而高兴、庆祝,但是当他们和你在一起的时候,表面是好的,明智的做法是听取朋友的建议,但不要照他们说的去做。
I prefer to have just a few friends. I have a very close group of friends and I like it that way because I'm a very reserved person who likes to open up to Just a few. Still I have a lot of acquaintances and I like to keep it that way. I also think that as you grow older, some People will naturally leave your life.Other people feel it is good for them to keep in touch with a lot of friends.They enjoy the multitude. Especially those who intend to become public figures. They feel that keeping a lot of company will be in their best interest and security. I'd say whatever you are comfortable with is what you should be doing as long as relationships with others aren't toxic.
我喜欢只有几个朋友。我有几个非常亲密的朋友,我喜欢这样,因为我是一个非常内向的人,更倾向于对很少的人敞开心扉。尽管如此,我还是有很多泛泛之交的朋友,而且我喜欢保持这种状态,我还认为,随着年龄的增长,有些人会自然而然地离开你的生活。
其他人觉得和很多朋友保持联系对他们有好处,他们喜欢人多的地方,尤其是那些想成为公众人物的人,他们觉得和很多人在一起会使他们的利益和安全最大化,我想说的是,只要你和别人的关系不是有害的,你就应该做你觉得舒服的事情。
I have always been a person who has moved around most of my life. It was hard for me to have a lot of friends and then I needed to say goodbye when I moved again. Over the years I've learned that having too many friends isn't always the best for me. I like to have a handful of good friends that are there and I can count on them and they can count on me. When I was younger I loved to make friends with everyone. I thought it was great to have a lot of friends near me all the time. However, this was a very bad idea. In the end, it was basically me who ended up doing for them and they never gave anything in return.
You'll find out as you grow older who is really a good friend and who isn't. I feel it is best for me to have a few great friends around me than a ton of people who are just there to profit on me and get what they can. I like to have 3 or 4 good friends than 20 friends who don't really care about me at all.
我是一个在我生命中大部分时间都在搬家的人。对我来说,有很多朋友很难,然后当我再次搬家时,我需要说再见。多年来,我了解到,有太多的朋友并不总是对我最好的,我更喜欢只有少数几个好朋友,我可以依靠他们,他们也可以依靠我。我年轻的时候喜欢和每个人交朋友,我认为有很多朋友一直伴随我身边是件好事,然而,这是个非常糟糕的想法,最后,基本上是我最后为他们竭力付出,而他们却从未给予任何回报。
随着你年龄的增长,你会发现谁是真正的好朋友,谁不是。我觉得对我来说,身边有几个好朋友是最好的,而不是一大堆朋友却只为了在我身上获利,得到他们能得到的东西,我更喜欢3到4个真正的好朋友,而不是20个根本不关心我的朋友。
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I only wish to have few friends which I have now. I have lots of friends, but I am not sure if they care about me like I care about them, so maintain to have two friends. I have two friends. We met August 24, 2007. We are celebrating our 15 years of friendship. They are my friends who have been with me through rough times. Some friends around me only know me if they need something, but these two best friends of mine, they are with me through good times and bad times. They treat my problems are their own and I am doing the same with them. If you will just keep a few friends with you, you get to know more about them intimately and the experience is the same with them too. You can be kind to lots of people but you cannot trust them all. You just need a few people that will love you and tht is enough.
我只希望有几个我现在有的朋友。我有很多朋友,但我不确定他们是否像我关心他们那样关心我,所以我与其中两个保持较好的朋友关系,我们2007年8月24日认识,我们正在庆祝我们15年的友谊,他们是我的朋友,是陪我度过难关的朋友,我周围的一些朋友只有在他们需要的时候才想起我,但我这两个最好的朋友,一直陪伴着我,无论是艰难时刻还是快乐时光,他们把我的事当自己的事,我也在这样对待他们,如果你只保留几个朋友在身边,你就会更深入地了解他们,,他们的经历也是一样的,你可以对很多人好,但你不能信任所有人,你只需要几个爱你的人,这就足够了。
I prefer to have only a few friends whom I can rely on. Quality over quantity. You may ask yourself--do you prefer having broad acquaintances or a number of people you can call at 2:00 AM when you badly need a drink or just someone to talk to?
Also, truth is, even if you are in a group of people whom you have known for a couple of years, you cannot be in the same level of closeness with every single one of them. You will eventually develop deep connection with a few of them and some of them may not even be your friend till the very end, especially when both of you become distant for whatever reason.
I do believe that there is nothing worthy in sticking with people who do not (intend) to know you, your dreams, your quirks, your failures, etc.
我更喜欢只拥有几个我可以依靠的朋友,质量高于数量,你可以问自己——你是更喜欢有一大堆泛泛之交的朋友,还是喜欢有一些可以在凌晨两点在你急需喝一杯的时候陪你,或者在你只是想找个人聊聊的时候,你可以打电话的朋友?
另外,事实是,即使你是在一群你认识了几年的人中,你也不可能和他们每一个人都保持同样的亲密程度,你最终会和他们中的一些人建立起深厚的关系,其中一些人甚至可能直到最后都不会成为你的朋友,尤其是当你们因为某种原因变得疏远的时候。
我确信,与那些不(打算)了解你、不了解你的梦想、不了解你的怪癖、不了解你的失败等等的人在一起,实在是没有什么值得坚持的。
If I'm honest I have a lot of acquaintances but not many close friends and I like it that way. I would say I have only three friends that I would call close, people I know I can depend on and tell them secrets that I know they will keep. There are people who I thought I was close to and did many favours and then when I asked them to help me they didn't want to know .. I realised then they were not true friends.
Most of the people I am close to I have known a long time, 30 years or more, and even though we have moved in different directions through marriage or moving away, we will always help each other out in times of need. To me that's what true friendship means, someone who is always there for you and will move heaven and earth to help if they can.
说实话,我有很多交情浅的朋友,但是亲密的朋友不多,我喜欢这样。我会说,我只有三个朋友,我觉得是很亲密的,我知道他们是我可以依靠的人,我可以告诉他们我的秘密,我知道他们会保守秘密。有些人我认为我和他们很亲近,我也帮了他们很多忙,然后当我请他们帮助我时,他们却不想帮我.....我意识到他们不是真正的朋友。
大多数与我关系密切的人我都认识很久了,30年或更久,尽管我们因为结婚或者搬家而走向不同的方向,但是在需要的时候我们总是会互相帮助,对我来说,这才是友谊的真正含义所在,一个永远在你身边的人,如果可以的话,他会竭尽全力帮助你。
I prefer a few friends. It is because having many friends will not really make you happy, don't get me wrong, yes it is good to have friends and like what others said, the more the merrier but it is not necessarily true. I don't really need to have many and more friends for me to be happy, it is fine with me to only have a few friends and I'm contented with it. I don't need a friend who's just there when there is a party or happy gatherings and yet nowhere to be found when I have a problem or I'm in the low point of my life. A few friends are all I need for me to be happy, A few but really considered me as a friend, A few that will never leave me whatever my circumstance is, A few but really dependable and really trustworthy. That's why I prefer to have few friends.
我更喜欢朋友少一点。这是因为有很多朋友并不会真正让你快乐,不要误会我的意思,是的,有朋友是件好事,就像其他人说的那样,越多越好,但这不一定是真的。我并不真的需要有很多和更多的朋友才能让我快乐,只有几个朋友对我来说很好,我也很满足。我不需要一个只在有聚会或快乐聚会时才出现,而在我遇到问题或处于人生低谷时却无处可寻的朋友。我只需要少数几个朋友就能让我快乐,几个真正把我当朋友的朋友,几个无论我的处境如何都不会离开我的朋友,几个真正可靠和真正值得信赖的朋友,这也是为什么我更喜欢朋友少一点的原因。
Generally friends are of different categories. We have online friends, casual friends and intimate friends.
However, it is better to be very friendly and accommodating to whoever that you have encountered with positively especially on a casual base.
It is necessary to share thought and burdens some times to be able move on and adjust where necessary, this makes it necessary to have close friends. It is better to have few close friends that are reasonable, understanding and reliable .
The other categories of friends can be as many as possible because every one of them will definitely have role to play in your life. Building successful networks across is a responsibility of having many friends that you have established good relationship with which could be casual.
一般来说,朋友是不同的类别,有网上的朋友、普通的朋友和亲密的朋友。
然而,最好的朋友是那种对你遇到的任何人都非常友好和包容的朋友,尤其是在非正式场合。
有时有必要分享思想和负担,以便能够继续前进并在必要时进行调整,这使得有必要拥有亲密的朋友,最好能有几个通情达理、善解人意和可靠的亲密朋友。
其他类别的朋友可以尽可能多,因为他们中的每一个人都将在你的生活中发挥重要作用,建立成功的网络是一种责任,即拥有许多与你建立良好关系的朋友--可以是普通朋友。
I had a lot of friends when I was much younger, but as I grew older, I realized that it's not the number of friends that one have but the quality of friends. As for me, I don't think there is anybody that is good at making friends than me. From my primary school days to secondary school and down to higher institution, I was having far more than I could count as friends. Among them I had few ones there were much closer than the others. It goes on like that until it narrowed down to one been a best friend.
Presents, I barely boast of a best friend talk more of close ones. All I have now are trusted and loyal associates that we share same interests together. Some of my old best friends still keep in touch from time to time but the bond is no longer strong as it were when we started our friendship.
我年轻的时候有很多朋友,但随着年龄的增长,我意识到交朋友不在于朋友的数量而是朋友的质量。就我个人而言,我不认为有谁比我更善于交朋友,从小学到中学,再到大学,我的朋友数不胜数,在这些朋友中,有几个人比其他的人要亲近得多,就这样继续下去,直到最后只剩下最好的朋友。
现在,我几乎可以不夸张地说,我有的是最好的朋友,最亲密的朋友,我现在所拥有的都是值得信赖和忠诚的伙伴,我们一起分享相同的兴趣,我的一些老朋友仍然时不时地保持联系,但是这种联系已经不再像我们开始友谊时那样牢固了。
I have meet so many people along the way, some of them I no longer seen them anymore. It is true saying that poeple will just come and go and those who stays are ypur true friends. I don't really lile to have a packed of group friends. I rather want a few friends that I can trust and won't distrust my loyalty to them. Some people will just want to be part of your life because you have something, especially money. When you are nothing, they will never be around. I don't like this type of people. Some will pretend to be your friends and will listen to your story but at your back they will tell everyone they know. I don't like this either. Trust and loyalty is for one true friends rather than a packed that is untrustworthy.
一路走来,我遇到了很多人,其中有些人我再也见不到了。有句老话说得好,人来人往,留下的人才是真正的朋友,这句话很真实,我真不太喜欢有一大帮朋友,我更希望有几个可以信任的朋友,而且不会怀疑我对他们的忠诚。有些人只是想成为你生活的一部分,因为你有一些东西,特别是金钱,当你一无所有的时候,他们就不会在你身边了,我不喜欢这种人,有些人会假装是你的朋友,倾听你的故事,但在你背后,他们会把你的事告诉他们认识的每一个人,我也不喜欢这样的朋友。一个真正的朋友是可信任和忠诚的,远超一帮不值得信任的朋友。
I don't keep much friends because I like my space most times and I don't like friends invading my privacy all the time so I keep one or two friends at a time.
I used to keep friends before now when I was really into games I just needed much friends to compete with during the different games I used to play both indoors and outdoors games and it will be more interesting with friends but when I started working and knew I really needed to focus and be more serious with my job, so I let go of some of them.
I have had very loyal 2 friends since childhood and we have been waxing stronger for more than 15 years now and this is the ones I call my friends Because we share our jobs and pains together and we get each other back. It good to have a very good friend to live with.
我不怎么交朋友,因为大多数时候我都喜欢自己呆着,我不喜欢朋友老侵犯我的隐私,所以我每次只交一两个朋友。
在这之前,我曾经保留过朋友,当时我非常喜欢游戏,我需要很多朋友在不同的游戏中与我一起玩,有室内的,有室外的,和朋友一起玩会更有趣,但当我开始工作后,我知道我非常需要专注,更认真的工作,所以我放弃了一些朋友。
我从小就有两个非常忠诚的朋友,我们已经在一起超过15年了,这是我称之为“朋友”的人,因为我们一起分担工作,一起分担痛苦,我们互相帮助支持,生活中能有一个非常要好的朋友是件幸事。
Friends are a necessity part of life. We all cannot live without friends in our lives. If there is anyone who has no friends in this world they are probably dead and buried, or for the simple reasons of not having a life. You cannot be a loner in life you need people who will guide you, mentor you and also be there for you whenever you need someone to talk to or a shoulder to lean on. For me i would rather have few friends who will always be there for me when i need them, than having many friends who add no value to my life. Which is better, someone who will stand with you in times of trouble, or someone who will take off as far as they're legs can take them when they hear that you are in trouble. One true friend is better than 100 friends. Like the saying goes you can only know your true friends when you are in trouble, check that out and see how many friends you have left, you will probably be shocked at the end of it all.
朋友是生活中必不可少的一部分,我们的生活中都不能没有朋友。如果这个世界上有谁没有朋友,他们可能因为没有生活已经死了,被埋葬了。你不能做生活中的独行侠,你需要有人引导你,指导你,并且在你需要有人倾听,或在你需要一个肩膀依靠的时候陪伴你。对我来说,我更喜欢少一点朋友,喜欢在我需要的时候总在我身边的朋友,而不是有许多对我的生活没有价值的朋友。哪一个更好,是在你遇到困难时与你站在一起的人,还是在听到你遇到困难时就会跑得远远的人?一个真正的朋友胜过100个普通朋友,正如俗话说的那样,患难见真情,只有在你遇到困难的时候,你才知道谁是你真正的朋友,看看你最后还剩下多少朋友,你可能会被吓到。
A few but genuine friends is worth more than plenty but not useful friends. Friends are supposed to contribute to the progress of your life. And this should be vice versa, and not one way which will make the friendship unbalanced.
少数真正的朋友比有很多没用的朋友更有价值,朋友应该对你生活的进步有所贡献,反之亦然,而不是让友谊变得不平衡。
It depends on every individual. Since you asked this question I would say quality of friends that are helpful and honest with you would be very important aspect. So the more real friends you have the better it is.
这取决于个人,既然你问了这个问题,我想说的是,朋友的品质是非常重要的,对你有帮助、诚实的人才是真正的朋友,而真正的朋友越多越好。
I can be Mr. Congeniality to everyone in this world. But I only choose true friends to keep. In the past, it is easy to make new friends who are genuine. Now, we need to be vigilant in finding them. Regardless, I can be their casual friends.
我可以对世界上的每一个人都和蔼可亲,但我只选择真正的朋友,过去,结交真诚的新朋友很容易,现在,我们需要很警惕才能找到真正的朋友,不管怎样,我可以成为他们的普通朋友。
As many friends as I could have. I like to make friends at work and at every hobby I like such as snowboarding and drumming. Also, I make friends at parties and get-togethers, gradually expanding my friend circles endlessly.
That said, a while ago, I fought with all my friends because I made some mistakes in choosing bad ones and then the good ones stopped trusting me.
So, now I gotta start all over. Oh well... I'm sure I can make it happen again. I used to host 100+ people parties at my rooftop apartment.
Good question. May everyone make good friends and avoid bad people.
我更喜欢朋友尽可能的多。我喜欢在工作中交朋友,也喜欢在我喜欢的任何爱好上交朋友,比如滑雪和打鼓,此外,我在聚会和聚会上结交朋友,逐渐扩大我的朋友圈子。
即便如此,不久前,我和我所有的朋友吵架了,因为我犯了一些错误,选择了一些坏朋友,然后好朋友就不再信任我了。
所以,现在我要重新开始,哦,好吧...我相信我可以让它再次发生,我曾经在我的屋顶公寓里举办过100多人的聚会。
这是个好问题,愿大家都能交到好朋友,远离坏人。
I prefer to have few friends like two friends instead of many friends who are not real friends.I want to have few friends who are willing to support each other in times of good or bad moments as they say a friend in need is a friend indeed
我更喜欢朋友少点,比如两个,而不是数量很多,却不是真正的朋友,我希望有几个愿意无论好坏的情况下都互相支持的朋友,就像他们说的,在你需要的时候愿意帮你的朋友才是真朋友。
My whole life, I've always had my guard up. When it comes to "friends: a lot has proven to me why I should stay the way I am. I have no friends as of now, I know it's pretty odd to understand but when you have been backstabbed so many times you don't wanna be levelheaded again and just invite anyone in your life. I only have my family and my lover. I and he are just too introverted to have other extra people in our lives.
在我的一生中,我总是保持着警惕。说到 "朋友",很多事情已经向我证明了为什么我应该保持现在的状态。到目前为止,我没有朋友,我知道这很奇怪,但当你被背后捅了那么多刀的时候,你不会再想平心静气地邀请任何人进入你的生活,我只有我的家人和我的爱人,我和他都太内向,无法在生活中拥有其他多余的人。
I prefer a few friends, to whom i really matters and could rely upon. I am not a people-person who likes to be surrounded by a crowd so, just a few caring and intellectual beings rather than uncaring and selfish crowd.
我更喜欢朋友少点,他们是我真正在乎的人,我可以依靠的人。我不是一个喜欢被人群包围的人,我更喜欢与少数有爱心、有智慧,而不是冷漠和自私的人做朋友。
Friends are our closest persons and we also consider them as second family. Friends help us in many ways. I prefer having few genuine friend rather than have a lot of fake friends. Nowadays it's hard to get a real friend due to the change in humanity. People have become greedy, selfish and jealous and we need to be careful when choosing friends.
朋友是我们最亲密的人,我们也把他们视为第二个家庭,朋友在很多方面帮助我们,我更喜欢少数几个真正的朋友,而不是一大堆假朋友。
如今,很难找到一个真正的朋友,人性在变,人们变得贪婪,自私和嫉妒,我们在选择朋友时必须谨慎。
If i must choose i would say Few, its not about quantity its about quality. i would be happy to have 2 dependable friends, yet i would love to have 4 dependable friends. but most importantly learn to be alone sometimes and enjoys your company because those days will certainly come
如果一定要做个选择的话,我会选朋友少一点,这不是数量的问题,而是质量的问题。我很高兴自己有两个可靠的朋友,但我也很想有四个可靠的朋友,最重要的是学会独处,享受陪伴,因为这样的日子一定会到来。
Many or few both are equally good. Because without friends trust life is a little dull. Friends are people who would become your family without having any blood connection with you. They will spark your world with loads of memories of different emotions. Whether you have few or many that i don't know but do make friends in your life cause that bond ain't any less than any other bond. You can always have them through your thicks and thins.
朋友多一点,朋友少一点,都同样很好,因为没有朋友的信任,生活就会变得有些乏味。朋友,就是那些与你没有任何血缘关系,却可以成为你家人的人。他们会在你的世界里引发大量的不同情感记忆点亮你的世界,我不知道你是朋友多还是朋友少,但无论如此,在你的生活中你会交到很多朋友,因为这种联系并不比其他任何联系少,你可以在任何情况下拥有他们,度过你的困难和挫折。
I prefer quality over quantity but it is not bad to have plenty of peers around. True friends are hard to find but you are very gifted if you can have more. You can have plenty of comrades but choose the real ones who will bear with you at all cost.
我更喜欢质量而不是数量,但身边有很多同伴也不是坏事,真正的朋友很难找到,但如果你能拥有更多的朋友,就说明你是非常有福气的,你可以有很多朋友,但要选择愿意不惜一切与你共患难的朋友,选择真正的朋友。