你喜欢什么样的人（上）
What kind of people do you like?
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网友：我真的很喜欢那些试图远离争议的人，他们能够保持中立，善待每个人。
我儿时的好友就是这种人。不只是我，她被她遇到的每个人都喜欢。无论身在何处，仿佛她带着魔法。
这件事发生在很多年前我在学校的第八次标准考试期间，我仍然对她的善良肃然起敬......
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What kind of people do you like?
你喜欢什么样的人?
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里特什·库马尔·米什拉，热衷于分享哲学话题
Do not lie when they come for a talk.
Doing their job honestly.
Those who want to dig deep inside the life.
True seekers of knowledge.
Those who know their weakness and positive points.
Walking on the path of Dharma.
Those who embrace meditation.
接受自己的人；
当有人来谈话时，不要撒谎；
诚实地工作；
那些想要挖掘生命深处的人；
真正的求知者；
那些知道自己优缺点的人；
走在佛法的道路上。
那些拥抱冥想的人。
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People who are comfortable in themselves, and don't need me to behave in a particular way for them to be comfortable in themselves.
People who know how to connect on a human level, and you can feel a positive energy exchange when interacting with them.
People who have a lighthearted personality, but also have dreams and ambitions and pursue these.
People who know how to chill and relax.
People with a can-do attitude, not a can't-do attitude.
People who let by-gones be by-gones.
People with a positive attitude.
那些令自己感到舒适的人，不需要我以特定的方式来让他们感到舒适。
那些知道如何与人沟通的人，当与他们互动时，你能感受到是在交换某种积极能量。
他们性格开朗，但也有梦想和抱负，并追求这些。
知道如何冷静和放松。
拥有乐观态度的人，而不是持有悲观态度。
过去的事就让它过去吧。
有积极态度的人。
Harish.MJR,理解是爱的另一种名字
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Due to tight work schedule, Sinamika used to return from office at late evening. Arjun used to come before her wife. After returning from office, Sinamika used to cook dinner for both. One fine day, Arjun noticed Sinamika's difficulty in doing household works.
From the next day, Arjun shared every household works, He cooked dinner after returning from his office.
Suresh & Ashwin were friends. Ashwin was well settled and Suresh was preparing for Government exams.
One fine day, Ashwin called Suresh for a movie,
Suresh told that,he is having an Exam in few days.
Hearing that, Ashwin said, “Do well, After your exams got over, We will both together go for a movie”.
What kind of people do you like?
People who understands others struggles, feeling and their situations are the kind of people I like.
由于工作时间紧，西那米卡（Sinamika）过去常常在深夜下班。阿琼（Arjun）过去总是比她妻子先来。从办公室回来后，西那米卡经常为两人做饭。在一个晴朗的日子里，阿尔琼注意到了新阿米卡做家务方面面对的困难。
从第二天起，阿琼就开始分担所有家务活，他从办公室回来后做饭。
苏雷什（Suresh ）和阿什温（Ashwin）是朋友。阿什温安顿下来了，苏雷什正在为政府组织的考试做准备。
某个晴朗的日子，阿什温打电话约苏雷什看电影，
苏雷什说，他几天后就要考试了。
听到这些，阿什温说：“好好考，考试结束后，我们一起去看电影。”。
你喜欢什么样的人？
理解他人的挣扎、感受和处境的人是我喜欢的那种人。
Shrishti Lahoti，就读于XLRI商业与人力资源学院(2020年)
The willingness to put fight & keep striving till we reach the goal
Courage to speak up, speak your mind, disagree & be yourself
Sincerity & honesty in their work - mistakes are completely fine if intent was not corrupted
Each of this can be cultivated, learnt, changed & acquired if somebody truly wants to transform.
First thing I will look for in people is their attitude to life & work
Anyone can be destined for success, with a good attitude.
在与我指导的一群人一起工作后，我从一个员工/工人身上了解到什么是成功的真正要求。虽然资历、智力、智商和聪明才智都很重要，但我更愿意与表现出以下特点的普通人一起工作：
愿意拼搏，不断努力，直到我们达到目标；
勇敢地说出来，说出你的想法：不赞成，保持做自己；
工作中真诚和诚实——如果没有破坏意图，犯错误是完全可以接受的。
如果有人真的想改变，这一切都是可以培养、学习、改变和获得的。
我首先看的是人们对生活和工作的态度；
只要态度好，任何人都有可能成功。
People who show up their vulnerability.
People who accept that they are not perfect.
People who talk openly about guilt and shame.
People who are honest about their feelings.
People who ask for help, and don’t consider it as weakness.
People who accept that they are broken, and need healing.
People who find beauty in imperfections and flaws.
People who accept their mistakes with courage.
We all deal with loneliness. We suffer from anxiety of ‘What’s next?’ most of the time.
We have been on guilt-ridden trips a zillion times and suffered in silence.
We all crave a company that feels homely, but an invisible wall stops us .
Maybe we fear rejection.
Or maybe we fear asking for help.
‘What if I look weak?’
There is huge respect I feel for those who open up and talk about their fear, heartbreaks, and weak moments.
The world at times is cruel.
Maybe holding each other’s hands can be a safe way through this turbulent world.
表现出弱点的人。
承认自己并不完美的人。
公开谈论内疚和羞耻的人。
对自己的感受诚实的人。
那些寻求帮助的人，并不认为这是软弱。
接受自己已经崩溃，需要治愈的人。
在不完美和缺陷中找到美的人。
勇敢地接受错误的人。
我们都要面对孤独，我们为“下一步该做什么而困扰？”大多数时候是这样。
我们经历无数次内疚，默默地忍受着痛苦。
我们都渴望有一家感觉亲切的公司，但一堵无形的墙阻止了我们。
也许我们害怕被拒绝。
或者我们害怕寻求帮助。
“如果我看起来很虚弱怎么办？”
我对那些敞开心扉谈论自己的恐惧、心碎和脆弱时刻的人深表敬意。
世界有时是残酷的。
也许牵着彼此的手可以安全地走过这一生。
Shamrin Basha，我对写作很有热情。
2. Laugh: people who make laugh others by cracking some jokes.
3. Humanity: The people who are with great humanity and show compassion to everybody.
4. Open-minded person: The people who open up easily and share their experiences in life.
5. Ambitious: I like people who are passionate and hardworking towards their professions.
6. Importance: I love people who give importance to education, family, career and health.
7. Treating the same: I like the people who treat everyone the same way without the differences of rich /poor.
8. Listening: The people who listen to everything genuinely and share their opinions.
9. Helping : I love people who never hesitate to help others.
10 . Good-hearted: I like people who have a good heart and shower love and care to others.
11. Being humble: I like people who have humbleness no matter how rich or educated they are.
12. Comfort: I like people who make others comfortable and protected.
理解：理解他人并重视他人意见的人。
笑：通过开玩笑逗别人笑的人。
人性：具有伟大人性并对每个人表示同情的人。
心胸开阔的人：容易敞开心扉并分享生活经验的人。
雄心勃勃：我喜欢对自己的职业充满激情和努力的人。
重要性：我喜欢重视教育、家庭、职业和健康的人。
一视同仁：我喜欢那些对每个人都一视同仁，不以贫富去看待人的人。
倾听：真正倾听一切并分享意见的人。
帮助：我爱那些从不犹豫帮助他人的人。
心地善良：我喜欢心地善良、爱人、关心人的人。
谦逊：我喜欢谦逊的人，无论他们多么富有或受过啥教育。
舒适：我喜欢让别人感到舒适和受保护的人。
Mathematics exam.
The difficulty level was unbelievably high and everyone including me was fretting even at the sight of the question paper.
“Didi, is something wrong?” my bench partner, who was a guy from 8th grade, asked me.
“Umm.. no" I lied and faked a smile.
Soon after, the bell rang and I began writing.
But wait there, the young guy sitting next to me wasn't yet convinced.
He sensed that something was probably bothering me and he made his mind to help me out :))
So, while usually he fooled around during the exam time, that day he made sure there was zero disturbance around me.
He asked all his fellow eighth graders to maintain quietude, and honestly he was doing it better than the invigilator.
He would intently watch me writing like a mad man, and whenever I paused to think over a question, he'd slowly whisper
“Didi, shall I ask the answer for this to somebody?”
When I denied with a laugh, he made sure that the other things like supplementary sheets, stapler, thread etc. reached me on time.
“You write your exam, I'll get it for you" was what he said.
When I finally submitted the answer sheet, he smiled
“Seems like that was a tough paper, but don't worry didi, I know you'll score the best!”
And there I melted.
Like literally, this sweet little gentleman went out of his way to help me out that day.
Why even? We were complete strangers.
He had no reason to aid me but he still did out of kindness and that, I swear, won my heart.
数学考试。
难度之高令人难以置信，包括我在内的所有人甚至一看到试卷就感到焦虑。
“Didi，出什么事了吗？”我的同桌是8年级的男生，他问我。
“额，没事”我撒谎并假装微笑。
不久，铃声响了，我开始答题。
但是等一下，坐在我旁边的那个年轻人还没被说服。
他感觉到可能有什么事困扰着我，于是决定帮我解决。
所以，在考试期间他虽然通常做些无用的事，但那天他确保我周围没有干扰源。
他要求所有八年级同学保持安静，说实话，他比监考老师做得更好。
他会聚精会神地看着我像疯子一样答题，每当我停下来思考一个问题时，他就会慢慢低声说
“Didi，我可以向别人问这个问题的答案吗？”
当我笑着否认时，他确保其他东西，如补充纸、订书机、线等，都按时送到我手上。
他说：“你写你的考试，我会帮你拿的。”。
当我最终提交答题纸时，他笑了
“这似乎是一篇很难的论文，但别担心，滴滴，我知道你会得最好的成绩的！”
听到这我心融化了。
那天这位可爱的小绅士确实帮了我一把。
他何必多此一举呢？我们完全就是陌生人。
他没有理由帮助我，但他仍然出于善意而帮我，我发誓，这赢得了我的心。
Shreyas Sahoo，在印度出生和长大
The owner of that shop knows me very well, He runs that shop for 20+ years and he is a very kind and lovable person.
I was in a hurry that day as I had an online test and I was not fully prepared.
I quickly bought whatever I needed and gave it to the uncle for billing the items. He did it pretty fast.
Now comes the twist, the total cost of my purchase came somewhere around ?470 and I just had a ?500 note with me.
I gave it to him and he said that he didn't have the change as it was morning hours and he had just opened the shop for the day.
Me: “Uncle baadme sort out karlenge, 500 rakh lo please late ho raha hai.”
(Uncle we'll sort out the change later, for now, please keep the 500 as I'm getting late.)
2 days passed.
I still wasn't reminded of it.
All of a sudden, The doorbell rang in my house. Mom was at work so I rushed to check out who it was.
It was none other than the shopkeeper uncle.
I was perplexed at first, but later he himself handed me over the change amount which was due.
He told me that he too had forgotten about this but got reminded of it this morning. He returned the money with a smile and left. Without any other word spoken.
What kind of people do I like?
Honest ones, who at the same time are hard-working and loyal in whatever they do.
They will always have my respect, especially those who work very hard to earn a living and live in discomfort but still stay happy and truthful.
Moreover, they have a lovely smile :)
大约两个月前，我去附近的一家蔬菜店买了一些妈妈让我买的东西。
那家店的老板非常了解我，那家店他经营20多年了，他是一个非常善良可爱的人。
那天我很匆忙，因为我有一个在线测试，还没有完全准备好。
我很快拿好了我需要的东西，并把它交给了叔叔，让他给我开账单。他很快弄好。
现在是转折点，我购买的东西的总花费是470，而我只有一张500的钞票。
我把它给了叔叔，他说他没有零钱，因为现在是早上，他刚开店。
我：叔叔，我们以后再处理零钱，现在请收好500元，因为我要迟到了。
两天过去了，我都忘了这件事。
突然，我家的门铃响了。妈妈上班去了，所以我赶紧去看看是谁。
不是别人，正是店主叔叔。
起初，我有些不知所措，但后来他亲自把应付的找零交给了我。
他告诉我，他也忘记了这件事，但今天早上又想起了这件事。他微笑着把钱还给我，然后离开了，没有说别的话。
我喜欢什么样的人？
诚实的人，他们在做任何事情的同时都努力和忠诚。
他们将永远受到我的尊重，尤其是那些努力工作谋生、生活不舒适但仍保持快乐和诚实的人。
此外，他们还有一个可爱的微笑。
Khalid Al Ameri's brave statement to critics about his wife's skin condition
This guy Khaled Al Ameri , an Emirati blogger.
His smile itself is so heart warming but still why I like such people?
His beautiful wife has a skin condition, which she had as a child. I believe she is undergoing treatment and I hope she gets better.
However, people as usual are commenting not in the greatest way about his gorgeous wife. But what he said stole my heart
“I see a lot of men marrying women in the hopes they can change them into something that they want,” he said. “But that’s not what love and marriage and relationships are all about.
Its true we marry a person and try to change them into our little dimensions,His father also married a British woman but never forced Islam and she never converted, I believe he got this gift from his father.
Conclusion
I wish you have so much more happiness and love. May you both love each other forever and please don’t listen to trolls. May that smile shine as always.
哈立德·阿梅里（Khaled Al-Ameri）勇敢地向批评他妻子皮肤状况的人发表声明
这家伙叫哈立德·阿梅里，是一位阿联酋的博主。
他的微笑本身是十分温暖人心，但我为什么喜欢这样的人呢？
他美丽的妻子有一种皮肤病，她小时候就患这种病。我相信她正在接受治疗，我希望她能好转。
然而，人们像往常一样，对他美丽的妻子议论纷纷。但他的话偷走了我的心
“我看到很多男人娶女人，希望能把她们变成自己想要的的样子，”他说。“但这不是爱情、婚姻和人际关系的全部内容。
的确，我们嫁给一个人，然后试着把他变成我们的小世界。他的父亲也娶了一名英国女子，但从未强迫她皈依伊斯兰教，她也从未皈依，我相信他的父亲给了他这份礼物。
结论：我希望你有更多的幸福和爱。愿你们永远相爱，请不要听喷子的话，愿你笑一如既往保持微笑。
Anwesha Barua，雇员国家保险公司办公室主管/社会保障官(2019年至今)
And in one scene the hostess was about to have a goat brain. She was apprehensive first, creating mental images of what it might taste.
But she tasted it and was quite surprise to prove her perceptions wrong. She was quick to judge the food but yet she kept all things aside and tried it.
Similarly, we all are always quick to judge. And it is not a good thing to do. Don't judge a book by its cover is actually a well-said thing. When we make assumptions, the whole situation depends on it and how we perceive it.
When someone looks at a person or situation without any prejudice or judgment, life is indeed very simple. It makes everything less complicated. And when I meet people with those qualities, it is always a deep veneration from my side.
I have deep admiration towards people who stand by their own thoughts and stick them rather than succumbing to illogical notions about anything.
The world is so much judgmental these days and if you judge littles less, the world becomes a little tolerant towards such things!
那天我在油管上看了一个名为“像女孩一样吃”的系列节目，在那一集里，它展示了勒克瑙（印度北部城市）的食物。
在一个场景中，女主人即将拥有一个山羊脑。她一开始很担心，在脑海里想象着它可能带来的味道。
她尝了一口，很惊讶地发现自己的看法是错误的。她很快就对食物（是否好吃）做出了判断，但她把所有的东西都放在一边试了试。
同样地，我们总是很快做出判断。这不是一件好事。不要根据封面来判断一本书是否是一本好书。当我们做出假设时，整个情况取决于它和我们如何看待它。
当一个人不带任何偏见或判断地看待一个人或一种情况时，生活其实很简单。这让一切变得不那么复杂。当我遇到具有这些品质的人时，我总是深深地敬佩他们。
我非常钦佩那些坚持自己的想法，而不是屈从于任何不合逻辑的观念的人。
如今的世界充满了评判，如果你少评判一点，这个世界就会对这些事情宽容一点!
Anshu Bharti，事故经理(2020年至今)
“Don't you know this? You had your training, right? Come on! We don't do spoon-feeding. I had explained to you this the last time, again you forgot?” This is the first person.
The second person says as below:
“Hey, come on buddy! Don't panic. You will learn gradually. I too made silly mistakes when I was new to this job. This happens, don't think too much. Finish the work at your own pace, you are a beginner.”
I like the second type of people. Such people are rare. They will guide you and try to help you grow. They are selfless. If you are blessed to have met such people, learn from them to motivate others.
Thank you for reading.
当你获得一份新工作，因为一切都是新的，你需要一些时间来掌握这个过程，在工作中你会遇到两种类型的人。
“你不知道吗？你受过训练，对吧？拜托！我们不吃勺子！上次我跟你解释过了，你又忘了？”—这是第一类人。
第二类人说：
“嘿，来吧，老兄！别慌。你会慢慢学会的。我刚开始这份工作的时候也犯过愚蠢的错误。这种情况既然发生了，就不要想太多。按照你自己的节奏去完成工作，你毕竟是个初学者。”
我喜欢第二类人，不过这样的人很少见。他们会引导你，帮助你成长。他们是无私的。如果你有幸遇到这样的人，向他们学习后再去激励他人。
谢谢你的阅读。
Lakshmi Tadepalli，软件工程师
My childhood bestie is an excellent example of such people. Not just me , she is liked by everyone who she meets. She carries the magic with her wherever she is.
This incident happened many years ago during my 8th standard in school. I am still awestruck at her kindness.
She has a weird habit of making awkward hand movements while speaking. It looks so funny to the people. Everyone make fun of her body language. One naughty girl in my class sat beside me that day. She slowly started mocking my friend. Instead of defending my friend I ignorantly encouraged the other girl to tease. After sometime I too started teasing her badly. I was an immature and ignorant kid in those days. We teased her for the whole day. Suddenly my friend became silent. She didn't say a single word.
I realized my mistake but I don't have the courage to apologize her. What if she blast me? I was hesitant with fear and ego. She came to me while leaving to home and said ‘sorry ‘. But why?
Me: Hey why are you saying sorry? It was my mistake to make fun of you
She: It doesn't matter. We are bestfriends. I don't want such silly issues to stop us from talking to each other. If a ‘sorry ‘is capable of resolving the issue then I don't mind to say it.
OMG!!! She won my heart forever.I learned the biggest lesson of my life. A relationship is more important than ego. If a ‘Sorry ‘ is so powerful then don't hesitate to say it. I love people who try to protect the relationship against egos.
我真的很喜欢那些试图远离争议的人，他们能够保持中立，善待每个人。
我儿时的好友就是这种人。不只是我，她被她遇到的每个人都喜欢。无论身在何处，仿佛她带着魔法。
这件事发生在很多年前我在学校的第八次标准考试期间，我仍然对她的善良肃然起敬。
她有一个奇怪的习惯，说话时手会做出笨拙的动作。人们觉得它很有趣。每个人都因肢体语言取笑她。那天，我们班上有一个淘气的女孩坐在我旁边。她慢慢地开始嘲笑我的朋友。我没有为我的朋友辩护，而是无知地鼓励另一个女孩取笑她。过了一段时间，我也开始放肆地取笑她。那时候我是个幼稚无知的孩子。我们取笑了她一整天。突然，我的朋友沉默了，她一句话也没说。
我意识到我的错误，但我没有勇气向她道歉。如果她痛斥我怎么办？我因恐惧和自负而犹豫不决。她在离家的时候来找我说“对不起”，但这怎么可能呢？
我：嘿，你为什么说对不起？取笑你是我的错啊。
她：没关系。我们是最好的朋友。我不希望这些愚蠢的问题阻止我们彼此交谈。如果“抱歉”能够解决问题，那么我不介意说。
天啊！她赢得了我的心。我学到了人生中最重要的一课。关系比自我更重要。如果“对不起”是如此有力，那么不要犹豫说出来。我喜欢那些试图保护夫妻关系不受自我影响的人。
Malavika, 幸运之神，乐于助人的旅行者
People who care for others.
People who treat everyone the same be it rich or poor, educated or uneducated, girl or boy and so on…
People who respect others privacy, choices and religion.
People who are not two faced.
People who try to understands others situation by putting themselves in their shoes.
People who don’t show off.
People who are not obsessed with themselves.
People who are true to themselves and others.
People who are funny but don’t make fun of others.
People who love to travel
诚实的人。
关心他人的人。
对每个人都一视同仁的人，无论是富人还是穷人，受过教育还是没受过教育，女孩还是男孩等等。
尊重他人隐私、选择和信仰的人。
不是两面派的人。
通过设身处地了解他人情况的人。
不炫耀的人。
不为痴迷于自身的人。
忠于自己和他人的人。
有趣但不会取笑别人的人。
喜欢旅行的人。
Geetak Milind Patil , 读了很多心理学方面的书。
When I passed my senior secondary, I tried to bond with a girl (pure friendship). But she used me and neglected me hence after.
When I passed my higher secondary, I was friend with one of my batchmates but similar fate followed me.
You might be wondering that why on the earth am I mentioning these facts, right? Read on to get an answer.
A young girl aged 21 who was a final year M.B.B.S. student stepped in the rings of entrepreneurship and began her journey. At first she received a couple of rejections but finally she got the breakthrough she needed .
She received rejections because a powerful man’s son had applied for the same too and they were obliged to give him the thing and the second one because she was a girl.
She tried getting help from several people but the reply she got in return was, “You’re a girl, you’ll get married away with someone and will settle down. ?”
What would’ve been her response?
当我还是个孩子的时候，我信任我的一个同班同学。猜猜接下来会发生什么？我13岁时他背叛了我。
当我高中毕业时，我试着和一个女孩建立联系（纯粹的友谊）。但后来她利用了我，忽视了我。
当我高中毕业时，我和我的一个同学是朋友，但类似的命运发生在我身上。
你可能想知道我到底为什么要提到这些事实，对吧？请继续阅读以获得答案。
一个21岁的年轻女孩在读MBA的最后一年，她走进了创业的圈子，开始了她的旅程。起初她遭到了几次拒绝，但最终她获得了所需的突破。
她被拒绝了，因为一个有权势的男人的儿子也申请了同样的东西，他们不得不提供给他，第二个是因为她是个女孩。
她试图从几个人那里得到帮助，但得到的回答是：“你是个女孩，你会和别人结婚，然后安定下来”
她会怎么回答？
Did she bowed down? No, she didn’t.
She didn’t started crying because she was denied of her opportunities for consecutive times but in-fact she began thinking practically.
She’s a successful entrepreneur now who hold a M.B.B.S. degree.
She completely, singlehandedly took the reigns of her home and family in her hands and sailed through successfully.
我引用她的话，“是的，他们完全没错。每当我们向银行或任何金融机构寻求帮助时，他们也会要求提供担保，所以他们没有错。是我的错，我把他们当成了我的知己。我会找到出路的。”
她屈服了吗？不，她没有。
她并没有因为连续几次被剥夺机会而哭，但事实上她开始实事求是地思考。
她现在是一位成功的企业家，拥有工商管理硕士学位。
她完全以一己之力掌控了她的家和家庭，并成功地渡过了难关。
She seldom enjoys nor gets time to attend any family functions, she keeps herself at a distance from all of the so called confidants. (Not necessarily relatives only.)
Her life revolves only around her immediate family and her future family.
I like to be surrounded by the people mentioned above.
I’ve had enough such experiences in my life and hence I’ve no interest in either having sympathy or emotions for any person and I’m happy to be surrounded by my work.
Think of entertainment as a waste of time and their opportunities.
Have a specific time bound plans and goals.
Who never demeans others based on their career growth or positions.
她的大脑总是被一些或其他的工作、生产单位或数学占据着。
她很少享受也没有时间参加任何家庭活动，她与所有所谓的知己保持距离。（不一定只有亲戚。）
她的生活只围绕着她的直系亲属和未来的家庭。
我喜欢被上面提到的人包围。
在我的生活中，这样的经历已经够多了，因此我对任何人都不感兴趣，既没有同情心，也没有清洗波动，我很高兴我的工作围绕着我
把娱乐看成是浪费时间和机会。
有明确目标且有时限的计划。
从不因他人的职业发展或职位而贬低他人。