爱情到底是怎么发生的？
How does love exactly happen?
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网友：两个人之间的爱情是很难解释到底是什么的。因为有太多的方式可以让我们坠入爱河，也有太多的瞬间可以让我们产生爱。“爱从瞬间开始，随着时间的推移而增长，并持续一生……
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How does love exactly happen?
爱情到底是怎么发生的？
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罗辛·库马尔·古迪，爱就是爱，无法用语言来解释。
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“Love begins in a moment , grows over time and lasts for lifetime..”
As we grow older together, As we continue to change with age, There is one thing that will never change.. It’s love!! Self love is the best way to attract true love.
I've heard from some of my female friends that women think about love from the moment they meet a guy. I've heard that sometimes women fall completely in love only to later learn to like the guy they love.
If human beings were unable to experience the beautiful and all-consuming sensation known as falling in love, we would have never created some of the world's most powerful music, art, literature, or film. We would also be missing out on one of the most profound facets of human existence.
Falling in love is confusing, scary, funny, and life-changing all at the same time. While many of the physical effects of being in love may be unique to you..
Some weird symptoms you may experience when falling in love:
When you fall in love, your cheeks flush, your heart beats faster, your palms are sweaty and your head starts spinning. This is all thanks to a rush of chemicals and hormones that flood your brain and body when you fall in love.
People in love, love to think about each other. They somehow manage to relate even the smallest things to the person they love. You wake up and go to sleep thinking of someone other than yourself. You smile when you're alone. You do embarrassing things. You do things outside of your comfort zone. You suddenly care more about your appearance. It makes us crazy, but it also makes us happy.
“Love is exciting; it's addicting, it's confusing and it's weird..” :)
两个人之间的爱情是很难解释到底是什么的。因为有太多的方式可以让我们坠入爱河，也有太多的瞬间可以让我们产生爱。
“爱从瞬间开始，随着时间的推移而增长，并持续一生……”
随着我们一起变老，随着年龄的增长，有一件事永远不会改变。就是爱！！自爱是吸引真爱的最好方式。
我从我的一些女性朋友那里听说，女人从遇见男人的那一刻起就开始思考爱情。我听说有时候女人完全坠入爱河，只是后来才学会喜欢她们爱的男人。
如果人类无法体验到被称为坠入爱河的那种美丽而彻底的感觉，我们就永远不会创造出世界上最强大的音乐、艺术、文学或电影。我们也将错过人类存在最深刻的一面。
坠入爱河是令人困惑的、可怕的、有趣的，同时也会改变生活。虽然恋爱的许多身体影响可能是你所独有的。。
当你坠入爱河时，你可能会经历一些奇怪的症状：
当你坠入爱河时，你的脸颊通红，心跳加快，手掌出汗，头开始打转。这一切都要归功于当你坠入爱河时，大量的化学物质和荷尔蒙充斥着你的大脑和身体。
相爱的人，爱去想对方。他们不知何故设法把哪怕是最小的事情都与他们所爱的人联系起来。你醒来睡觉时想到的是别人而不是你自己。你独自一人时微笑。你做了令人尴尬的事。你做的事情超出了你的舒适区。你突然更在意自己的外表了。它让我们疯狂，但也让我们快乐。
“爱是令人兴奋的；它让人上瘾，让人困惑，而且很奇怪……：）
A tale from my life journey.
This is happened exactly one year six months ago .
The reason for the break was “Sex before marriage”.
He asked for that, she denied.
He pleaded for that, she ignored.
That was the reason to end the 6+ years love relationship and friendship from 2012.
So, gradually they stopped talking!
6+ years of love relationship and 9 years of friendship.
Still, she was not allowing to take the relationship to next level. A sign of trust issue, he felt!
我人生旅途中的一个故事。
这件事发生在一年半以前。
分手的原因是“婚前性行为”。
他要求的，她拒绝了。
他为此辩护，她却不予理睬。
这就是结束从2012年开始的6年多的恋爱关系和友谊的原因。
于是，他们渐渐停止了交谈！
（这可是）6年以上的恋爱关系和9年的友谊啊。
不过，她不允许将这种关系提升到一个新的水平。他觉得这是信任问题！
于是，他停止了这段关系。
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After two months of that incident she called him and said,
Aaditya, during your absence I started falling for my colleague, he understood me so well. He is so caring and loving. He knows my likes and dislikes. He never force me to do anything against my well. Even I said I love him.
He cut the call and start crying, YES boys cry too… & I was trying to convince him to stop. She continuously call him but he not received the call.
He: Sarang, what do now and what to respond now?
Me: Bro, first received her call and talk to like a gentleman, you are good person in the world . Move on bro..
He: OK.., but what to say her, I am total blank bro..
(I explained him…., to say like that or like these…… but speak gently)
那件事发生两个月后，她打电话给他说：Aaditya，你不在的时候我开始爱上我的同事，他很了解我了，很有爱心。他知道我的好恶。他从不强迫我做任何我不想做的事。甚至我说了我爱他。
他挂断电话开始哭，是的，男孩们也会哭，我试图说服他停止。她不停地给他打电话，但他没有接。
他：Sarang，你现在该怎么办？现在该怎么回应？
我：兄弟，首先要接到她的电话，像个绅士一样跟她说话，你是这个世界上的好人（我正试着跟他说话）。行动吧，兄弟。。
他：好吧，但是怎么说呢，我完全是一片空白。
于是我向他解释了……，像那样说或像这样说……但要温柔地说。
You spend most of the time in the office with him, you guys take lunch together, you guys be together in office trips, presentation and projects. You share everything because he sits next to your cubicle cabin. So, obviously he must and should understand you. Since we are not in same office & in a little distance relationship it's difficult to maintain such bonding.
Goodbye!!
Then the rest is history!
They are still in contact as friends, but not as couple anymore.
10分钟后，他打电话给她并给予了回应!
你们大部分时间都在办公室里，一起吃午饭，一起出差，一起做报告，一起做项目。你们共享一切，因为他坐在你的小隔间旁边。所以，显然他必须也应该理解你。而我们不在同一个办公室，而且关系有点疏远，所以很难保持这种联系。
再见了，一切就成为历史。
他们仍然是朋友，但不再是恋人。
The more time you spend together you fall for him/ her. It's as simple as that.
Doesn't make sense?
Well, to be practical! Go on a date for 4 weekends with your enemy. Trust me you will fall for him/her.
“You will start loving even your enemy if you start spending time with them.”
The psychology behind love is just simple. The more time you spend with a person you obviously fall for him.
现在说正题，你们在一起的时间越多，就越会爱上他/她，就这么简单。
没有道理吗？
好吧，说实在的！即使和你不喜欢的人约会4个周末。相信我，你会爱上他/她的。
“如果你开始与敌人共度时光，你甚至会爱上他们。”
爱情背后的心理很简单。你和一个人相处的时间越多，你就越容易爱上他。
So, hence proved.
The more time you spend knowing a person, you will start falling for him/her without being aware of yourself.
Human heart and mind are just like WiFi if you go away from your dear one, then it catches another network. So, to be in a strong relationship then you should be together within the connecting range. :D ??
Love is so strange and unpredictable. It can happen at any place and on anyone. Hold on! You might question me about love at first sight? Well, it is not love, it's just attraction at first sight.
很多女孩在这个平台上向我求婚。尽管她们没有花时间和我在一起，但她们花时间和我的答案在一起，他们开始陷入爱里。
所以证明了：你了解一个人上的时间越多，你就会在不知不觉中爱上他/她。
人的心灵就像WiFi，如果你离开你的爱人，它就会抓住另一个网络。所以，要想建立牢固的关系，你们就应该在一个相互联系的范围内。
爱是如此的奇怪和不可预测。它可以发生在任何地方和任何人身上。等等，你也许会问我存在一见钟情吗？这不是爱，只是一见钟情而已。
I hope you live near a park where you can watch children , couples and families. If not , try imagining this.
A father calls out for his 3 year old daughter and she comes running, right into the safe arms of her father. She is laughing hysterically for no apparent reason. It’s a joy of looking at her father , simple joy of running and joy of being in assuring arms of her father. Father is hugging her so tight that you fear she may pass out. She is laughing uncontrollably and father is uttering something gibberish in her ears.
Does this make you smile. I hope it does.
If yes, why?
There could be many reasons. You aspire to have a family like that, it reminds you something of your past , it shows that you live in healthy society …so on and so forth.
There could be multiple reasons but they apply to the situation only because of one static parameter.
我希望你住在一个公园附近，在那里你可以看到孩子，夫妇和家庭。如果没有，试着想象一下:
一位父亲呼唤他3岁的女儿，女儿跑了过来，正好投入父亲安全的怀抱，并无缘无故地放肆的笑。这是看着她父亲的快乐，跑步的简单快乐，在她父亲安慰的臂膀中的快乐。父亲把她抱得那么紧，怕她会昏倒。她无法控制地笑着，父亲在她耳边乱说着什么。
这会让你微笑吗?我希望如此。
如果是,为什么?
原因可能有很多，你渴望拥有这样的家庭，它会让你想起你的过去，它表明你生活在一个健康的社会中，等等。
可能有多种原因，但它们只适用于一个静态参数。
Similar is love. We all share the “experiencing of LOVE” but each savor it uniquely.
Will there be some scientific explanation for all this chaos?
I seriously doubt. Putting all aspects of a personality ( known and unknown) together does not seem scientifically seem possible in near future.
你的过去，你的环境，你的偏好，你的神话，你的噩梦，你未来的梦想……你的……，你懂的。
类似的是爱。我们都分享着“爱的体验”，但每个人都有独特的品味。
对于所有这些会有科学的解释吗?对此我严重怀疑。
在不久的将来，从科学角度来看，把一个人的所有方面（已知和未知）放在一起似乎是不可能的。
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Too many variables and only one static parameter. It’s too vast to explain so many unique combinations.
Does that mean it doesn’t exist?
Ask yourself. You experience it every day.
爱情到底是如何发生的?
太多的变量，却只有一个常量。是无法解释这么多独特的组合。
这是否意味着它不存在?
问问你自己，你每天都在经历爱。
Love cannot be planned ,
There cannot be a ‘how can’to it ,
If it is truly love mostly It happens unexpectedly.
Life is too short and love is important .
It's really great to be loved by someone .
Falling in love should be a best part of life and getting your love back by the person you love remains to some lucky ones.
This four letter word looks very small but the phenomenon it is ,is larger than life .
It can make your life the most fulfilled one or the worst possible depending upon your take.
For many it is a most giving ,fulfilling and blissful phenomenon.
And to many it is nightmarish ,if it is not reciprocated.
No matter what sometimes or the other it gives us all ,that overwhelming sweet experience which is otherwise difficult to feel and experience in an average day to day boring and boredom life .
爱情是不能被计划的，
不可能有"怎么可能"的说法
如果是真爱，很多时候都是意外发生的。
生命太短，爱很重要。
被人爱真的很好。
坠入爱河应该是生活中最好的一部分，能从你爱的人那里得到爱的反馈仍然是一些幸运的人。
这个由四个字母组成的单词看起来很小，但在生活中占据的比重很大。
它可以让你的生活变得最充实，也可以让你的生活变得最糟糕，这取决于你的理解。
对许多人来说，这是一种给予、满足和幸福的最佳提现。
对许多人来说，如果没有回报，这就是噩梦。
无论它有时给我们所有人带来什么，那种压倒性的甜蜜体验是在日常无聊的生活中很难感受和体验的。
Love is a very complex Psychological and Chemical process. It does happen between every one -no matter how handsome a guy is, or how beautiful a girl is. I will quote one example from my neighborhood. My sister Neha fell in love with a guy called Vinod in class tenth. Now they are married and somehow manage their living, fighting every morning and loving every night.
Love is a sort of addiction, without which you cant survive. It starts when a boy or girl sees each other. The first attraction is always on face value -that is how pretty a girl looks or how attractive a guy looks. Then the chemical process of acceptance starts in the brain. A boy or a girl constantly keeps on rejecting each other. Both read each other and try to find that perfect couple. A girl rejects more than guy and a point comes when the girl completely writes-off the guy, and this thing happens with the boy as well.
But when boy finds that this girl is completely normal, accepts her. It is the stage when he proposes her, and if girl accepts the affair begins.
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爱是一个非常复杂的心理和化学过程。它确实发生在每个人之间，不管一个男人有多帅，或者一个女孩有多漂亮。我将引用我的邻居的一个例子。我妹妹妮哈爱上了十年级一个叫维诺德的男生。现在他们结婚了，不知怎么地过着他们的生活，每天早上吵架，每天晚上相爱。
爱会上瘾，没有它你就无法生存。当一个男孩或女孩看到彼此时就开始了。外貌是第一个吸引力——即一个女孩看起来有多漂亮或一个男孩看起来有多有吸引力。然后接受的化学过程就在大脑中开始并发。男孩或女孩彼此不断地拒绝对方。两人都能读懂对方的心，并试图找到完美的伴侣。女孩拒绝男孩的次数比男孩更多，当女孩彻底抛弃男孩时，这种情况也会发生在男孩身上。
但是当男孩发现这个女孩是完全正常的0，完全接受了她。这时进入他向她求婚的阶段，如果女孩接受了，恋情就开始了。
It indeed is...every bit of the word chaos..,however there isn't a proper explanation as to how it happens,people might suggest attraction,proximity or platonic feelings as possible causes,but this aint exact science,although it might be a mixture of all these aspects,or maybe not ! What I'm trying to tell you buddy that with regards to love..to each his/her own;there is no set pattern,there is no formula and most importantly there is no telling when its gonna happen.
爱确实是混沌状态……然而，对于它是如何发生的，没有一个恰当的解释，人们可能认为吸引力、亲近或柏拉图式的感情是可能的原因，但爱不是确切的科学，尽管它可能是所有这些方面的混合体，也可能不是！我想告诉你的是，伙计，关于爱，每个人都有他/她自己的；爱没有固定的模式，没有公式，最重要的是不知道什么时候会发生。
Mae Mumbles，艺术家，音乐家，作家
Like really knowing someone.
Learning their quirks and facial expressions etc..
I think if anyone is in a relationship, they could fall in a deeper love every day but it depends on how attentive the individuals are.
But love is a commitment, something you have to work at every day. Those warm fuzzy feelings aren't going to last forever. (This is also another reason why I think love is pointless)
Thanks for the request, I hope you've received a helpful insight.
爱是以化学方式发生的，但对我来说，它通常是在与一个人相处了很长时间并了解此人所有事情之后发生的。
就像真的认识一个人。
学习他们的怪癖和面部表情等。
我认为，如果人在谈恋爱，他们的爱意会一天天加浓，但这取决于个人的关注程度。
爱是一种承诺，是你每天都要努力的事情。那些温暖模糊的感觉不会永远持续下去(这也是我认为爱情毫无意义的另一个原因。）
感谢您的请求，我希望您收到了有用的见解。
Someone comes into your life and makes your life a bed of roses. Makes u smile all the freaking time. Gives you the best time of life . N suddenly all the light fades away and then arrives the night. The dark depressing night. You cry, you beg. You die inside each day. Love is not, looking or stalking a boy/girl for centuries. N one day unexpectedly out of the blue they say yes. Love is not a plan to be executed or target to be achieved. It is something that just happens. Sometimes wrong place at the wrong time.
But my friend if you are lucky enough and it really happens. It is lovely , beautiful. Their look, perfections. Imperfections.. Nothing matters all Love for once If its true. You won’t ever fall for someone again. Love is two souls living for and with each other... Always! never apart...
有人走进你的生活，使你的生活充满了欢乐。让你一直笑个不停，给你生命中最美好的时光。突然，所有的光都消失了，夜幕降临。黑暗沉闷的夜晚，你哭泣，你乞求。你内心每天都在死去。爱不是盯着或跟踪一个男孩/女孩几个世纪，（期待）有一天，他们出乎意料地答应了。爱不是要执行的计划或要实现的目标。这是刚刚发生的事情，有时在错误的时间错误的地点发生。
但是我的朋友，如果你够幸运的话，爱情来临，它很可爱而漂亮。他们的外表或完美或有瑕疵，其实都不重要。爱一次吧，如果它是真的。你再也不会爱上别人了。爱是两个灵魂为彼此而活，并与对方一起生活,永远永不分离。
Pooja Dasgupta，在Xavier农村管理学院学习MBA农村管理（2021年）
In a fraction of a second, a surge of emotions, an absolutely inexplicable chemical reaction in your brain.
Love grows.
That spark in the beginning that magnifies into a wildfire, consuming you, finally subsides. It then grows into a gentle flicker that continues to light up your heart through countless beautiful moments.
You realise, love happens everyday, it grows everyday.
When he inadvertently holds you tight at the first strike of thunder…
When he misses a football match to meet you…
When he gets you the book you had been waiting to read, without you even mentioning about it…
When he feeds you the last spoon of his favourite ice-cream…
When he walks around the rain-soaked city with you when he’d rather have been sleeping…
When he patiently deals with your mood-swings during ‘that time of your month’….
…Love happens.
Love happens, each time he holds you, looks into your eyes and whispers the three magical words.
Love happens, through a fraction of a moment…through countless moments…everyday.
爱情发生了，
在不到一秒钟的时间里，情绪激荡，你大脑中发生一种完全无法解释的化学反应。
爱在成长。
一开始的火花会放大成野火，吞噬你，最终会消退。然后通过无数美丽的瞬间，爱会变成一种温柔的闪烁之光，继续照亮你的心。
你知道，爱每天都在发生，每天都在成长。
当他在第一声雷声中不经意地抱紧你时；
当他不惜错过一场足球比赛来见你的时候；
当他给你那本你一直等着看的书的时候—你甚至都没有提到它；
当他喂你最后一勺他最喜欢的冰淇淋时；
当他和你漫步在被雨水浸透的城市时—他本想一直在睡觉；
当他耐心地处理你在“这个月的那个时候”的情绪波动时。
爱会发生。
爱发生了，每次他抱着你，看着你的眼睛，轻声说出三个神奇的字。
爱发生了，通过一小部分的时刻、通过无数的时刻、每天。