国外quora上的有趣问题：你喜欢做一个女人吗?
Do you enjoy being a woman??
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国外quora上的有趣问题
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Do you enjoy being a woman??
你喜欢做一个女人吗?
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Here is why.I love how I can fit easily into the roles of a man and a woman both.I love how curvy my body is. I guess if i were a man i would have loved the muscles and all but this is something else. Like a sculpture. I love it.I love the fact that I can be a girly girl or a tom boy depending on my mood (and need of the hour ).
I love the attention i get from all the men and some women too.
I can wear so many different kinds of clothes and also a man’s attire and pull it off.Wear my hair in a thousand different ways.
I can wear heelsI can wear make up (yohooooo)
In today's age, where I live, we get equal opportunities for men and women.My dad is biased toward me over my brother
I like not having to deal like how men deal with each other (rough and tough, coarse language).I like the fact that I can cry and people won't judge me for it.I can behave cute and get away with it.I get to wear an amazing outfit and elaborate jewellery at my wedding.I can click as many pics as i want without being judged.
I love the fact that i am a care giver and nurturer and will happily play that role all my life.I love how kids warm up to me (motherly) and elderly people love to spend time with me (daughter like). Can also be true for men, the kind and empathetic ones.
That being said, it is difficult for women in some parts of the world and in some societies and cultures and I sure feel blessed to be born in the family and time i am born in.I hope and pray every woman one day enjoys and loves the experience of womanhood as much as i do and people the world over respect women for what they are and not solely for thr purpose of gender equality.
回答1：
我喜欢做一个女人。
下面是原因:
我喜欢我能轻松地同时扮演男人和女人的角色。
我喜欢我身体的曲线。
我想如果我是男人，我会喜欢肌肉，像一个雕塑。我爱它.
我喜欢这样的事实：我可以是个女孩，或打扮成小汤姆男孩，就看我的心情了（还要有闲时间）.
我喜欢所有男人和一些女人对我的关注.
我可以穿很多不同的衣服，也可以穿男人的衣服，然后把它脱下来。
我的发型可以千变万化.
我可以穿高跟鞋.
我可以化妆，啊，太爽了.
在今天这个时代，在我生活的地方，我们男女平等.
跟哥哥比，我爸爸还偏爱我.
我喜欢不用像男人那样对待彼此(粗暴、粗鲁、粗俗的语言)。
我喜欢我可以哭的事实，人们不会因此而说我什么.
我可以撒娇.
在婚礼上，我可以穿上了一套漂亮的衣服，戴上了精致的首饰。
我可以点击我想看的图片，别人不会说我什么.
我将愉快地在一生中扮演照顾、养育（孩子）的角色，这很爽.
我喜欢下有小，上有老，身边的男人善良而又善解人意.
我扮演孩子的母亲，也扮演孝顺老人的女儿.
话虽如此，在世界上的一些地方，在一些社会和文化中，女性很难做到这一点。
我很庆幸我出生在现在的家庭，在当今时代。
我希望并祈祷每一位女性都能像我一样享受并热爱作为女性的经历，
我希望全世界的人们都尊重女性，而不仅仅是为了性别平等。
More than a little envious, I can’t lie! If there was a spell or magic button to press and have a go at being my equivalent female self, I would totally do it. No hesitation.For about a month, that is. Menstruation and childbirth would be enough to make me want to reverse the effect quickly XD
评论：
我不想说假话，女人善妒！
如果有个咒语或魔法按钮什么的，刷一下就能让人变性，
我绝对会去变一下，体会一下女人身.
不过，最多也就坚持一个月我会变回来的.
月经、分娩就让我想变回来的.
Given. If you were a woman i am guessing you would naturally be in acceptance of both menstruation and childbirth. But i guess we will never know. :)
楼上，如果你是一个女人，我猜你自然会接受月经和分娩这种经历的。
不过，我想我们永远都不会知道会不会是那样. :)
You love being born beautiful not a woman. You love taking selfies, you love getting attention, you love the curves of your body, you love the fact that everyone likes to talk to you, you love tying hairs in different styles. Aren’t most of the points you mentioned emphasize more about you being gorgeous rather than a woman? Very rarely I have seen girls being beautiful and not flaunting it. Apologies to the BNBR policy.
你是喜欢天生丽质，而不是女人。
你喜欢自拍，你喜欢引人注目，你喜欢你身体的曲线，你喜欢每个人都喜欢和你说话，你喜欢把头发扎成不同的风格。
你提到的大多数观点不是更强调你的美丽而不是女人吗?
我很少看到女孩长得漂亮而不炫耀的。
向BNBR政策道歉.（注：BNBR是什么鬼东西，译者搜索不到）
Minor point, you’ll never know how many women are beautiful and not flaunting it. A lot of women on the internet don’t even show their faces. : )
楼上，你想当然了.
你永远不知道有多少漂亮女人并不炫耀她的美。
很多女性在网上甚至都不露脸。:)
I bet if she wasn’t as pretty and curvy, she wouldn’t enjoy it as much, because than you mostly get the negative sides of being a woman and don’t have the advantages of pretty women to counterbalance them.
我敢打赌，如果她没有那么漂亮和曲线美，她就不会那么喜欢做女人了，因为，不漂亮的话，你看到的只会是作为一个女人的负面.
A Big Yes !I consider myself to be lucky to be born as a ‘Female ‘ and especially in India. :)I am treated equally just like my brother by my Parents . Actually more than equal :pI am allowed to pursue any thing regarding my career.My family doesn’t have any problem , if I join Indian Defense Service.(that’s my dream)
As a girl , we have more options of outfits then men. :p
I am currently working and my parents don’t have any problem in taking money from me .I am going to be 24 now and my parents are OK with my decision of Marriage after 26 :)I am still weak at cooking and my father is like “ Arey sikh jaegi, thoda time dene ki jarurat hai “ ( don’t worry she will learn , she just need to give sometime ) . But yeah I can cook basic things for daily life.
8. My parents knows about my past relationships. yeah I have told them everything. They are that much frank .The only thing which I don’t like is I still cannot go outside after 9 or 10 Pm . its not because my parents are conservative . Its because Its not safe to roam in night being a girl. I completely understand the reason behind their ‘No’ .So ,Yeah I am a Proud Indian Girl . :)P.S :-Its my request to some boys please don’t comment anything regarding feminism or being feminist. Whatever I have mentioned is not about feminism or something.
回答2：
大声回答你：喜欢！
我认为自己是个幸运的“女性”，尤其是在印度。:)
我的父母平等对待儿女，实际上可能更偏爱（我）. ：P
我可以去追求任何职业（父母不会阻拦我的）.
如果我去参军（这是我的梦想），我的家人也不会阻拦.
作为女孩，我们可选来打扮的衣服比男人多.:p
现在，我已经工作了，我的父母在拿我的钱方面没有任何问题.
我马上就要24岁了，我决定26岁之后再结婚，父母也不干扰我的决定.
我的厨艺还不行，而我老爸的态度则是Arey sikh jaegi, thoda time dene ki jarurat hai”(不要担心，她只是没时间练习厨艺而已）
不过，一些基本的菜谱，我还是会做的.
8. 我父母知道我过去的感情经历，
是的，我都向他们坦白了. 他们也非常坦率.
我唯一不爽的事情是，晚上9点过后，我就不能出去乱逛了.
这并不是我父母保守，而是，做为一个女孩，大晚上乱逛是不安全的.
嗯，是的，我是个自豪的印度女孩:)
又： 我对一些男生的要求是：
请不要说我关于女权主义或成为女权主义者的事情.
我上面所说的并不是女权主义之类的东西.
Answered Sep 28, 2017
NO!!!!!!
I come from a heavily conservative ,Muslim family of a strong patriarchal nature.
I can't
Work
Pursue higher studies
Hang out with friends
post my pictures online (even pictures with hijab)
Talk to or befriend people of the opposite gender.
Go to places alone
Drive a vehicle
Argue with someone and make them understand that it's unfair to suppress me as though I'm a little, immature child.
And did I mention that a brother can freely do all of the above, with no obxtion from his parents????
On top of that, I am expected to show complete submission to my future husband. I'm expected to obey his every word, to let him have full authority over me.
Apparently, I carry my family's honour as well. If I'm seen talking to a guy, I'm characterless . My parents have failed to instill 'morals’ in me. I am a disgrace to them. Yadayadayada…. And a hoard of judgements and gossips will ensue.
So you see?
Just because of my gender, I am suppressed , discrimated against, 'kept under control’.
I'm a 21 year old girl with a fully functioning brain. I bet my IQ is also fine. I am capable and mature enough to do things independently. So why the hell should I depend on a man to make big decisions, on my behalf???
So all in all, I loathe being a woman!
And after learning about the injustice I face, you can't blame me, can you?
回答3：
不——喜——欢！！！
我来自一个极端保守的msl家庭，家庭的父权性质非常强烈.
在这个家庭里，以下是（作为一个女孩）不能有自主权的事:
1. 工作
2. 进一步学习
3. 和朋友出去玩.
4. 网上发布自己的照片(即使是带头巾的照片也不行).
5. 与异性交谈或交朋友.
6. 独自去一些地方.
7. 驾驶车辆.
8. 和别人争论，让他们明白压制我是不对的，就好像我是一个不成熟的小孩子.
我有没有提过，男孩子可以自由地做以上所有的事情，而不受父母的反对?
最重要的是，我要对我未来的丈夫表现出完全的服从。
我要服从他的每一句话，让他对我有完全的权威.
显然，我也承载着家族的荣誉。
如果有人看到我跟男人说话，我就没个性了。
现在，我父母没能把他们的“道德观”灌输给我，
我已经成为他们的耻辱了，balabalabalabala,
随之而来的是一大堆的背后指指点点和流言蜚语.
现在，你们看到这些了吗?
因为我的性别，我被压制，被歧视，被控制.
我是一个21岁的女孩，我的大脑功能正常。
我打赌我的智商也不错。
我有足够的能力去独立做事情.
那么，我到底为什么要依靠一个男人来为我做出重大决定呢?
总之，我讨厌做女人!
在了解了我所面临的不公之后，你不能怪我，对吧?
But Linda Sarsour said that Muslim women are the freeest women in the world!And Mohammed’s treatment of women was so advanced for seventh century Arabia.:-) He outlawed killing baby girls. Unfortunately for women, Islam hasn’t kept up with the times in many ways.It is a shame that Islam is so contemptuous of women. It seems as if the Muslim woman must constantly check her behavior to ensure that it is modest, unassuming, retiring and if at all possible, not even visible. I can’t imagine how hard it must be for a woman like you, who seems to have lots to contribute — if only you could.
评论：
但是Linda Sarsour说MSL女性是世界上最自由的女性!
而且在七世纪的阿拉伯，muhan默德对待妇女的方式非常先进:-)
他禁止杀害女婴.
不幸的是，ysl教在很多方面没有跟上时代的步伐.
ysl教如此轻视妇女是一种耻辱.
在msl世界，妇女似乎必须要经常自查自己的各种行为，
要确保自己的行为是谦逊、卑微、底下的.
如果有必要，妇女就最好不要抛头露面.
我无法想象像你这样一个女人，
只要你愿意，就能（对社会）很有贡献的女人，
面临的环境是多么的艰难.
As a young woman and a Muslim I feel sorry for you for having such injustice in your society. I know how upset it is to live in such conservative society where people assume women as inferior. However, your future is in your hands. If you have a chance to go abroad, then go. I support you to leave this behind and live your freedom life. I know it will be so so hard for you, but at last there is no other way except choosing the right path. Good luck, dear.
作为一名年轻的穆斯林女性，我为你在社会上遭受的不公感到遗憾.
我知道生活在这样一个保守的社会里，
人们认为女人低人一等，这是多么令人沮丧的事.
然而，你的未来掌握在你的手中.
如果你有机会出国，那就去吧.
我支持你离开这一切，过你自由的生活.
我知道这对你来说会很难，但最后除了选择正确的道路没有其他的路。
祝你好运,亲爱的。
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But these unfortunate circumstances are not really a consequence of being a woman, they are consequences of being Muslim. The part about your being a woman is still amazing. Your bright woman’s mind cannot be stopped from observing and questioning and thinking, your heart will still be caring and loving, your wonderful woman’s body will create new life. The other things are bad circumstances. I hope someday you will be able to travel. If you ever come to Paris, visit me….
这些不幸的遭遇并不是源于你是女人，
而是源于你是MSL的女人.
单论你的女人身，那是非常令人惊奇的.
你那聪明的女人脑子会不停地观察、质疑和思考周围的一切，
你的心仍会充满关怀和爱，你那美妙的女人的身体将会创造新的生命.
其他的是糟糕的外部环境造成.
我希望有一天你能去旅行.
如果你来巴黎，就来看我……
They are consequences of being part of an extreme, patriarchal cultured family. This is not a Muslim thing, this is a cultural problem.
这是一个极端的、父权文化家庭的一部分.
这不是MSL的事情，这是一个文化问题.
Yes, I do
#I love my body
There are a lot of things about being a woman that aren't very fun (periods, shaving, plucking, makeup etc). For some reason society expects a lot from women physically. There are always new fashions, trends, and pressures, and it can be exhausting.
I love wearing beautiful dresses and high heels.
A woman's body is INCREDIBLE. A woman has the physical capacity to create and sustain human life. How amazing is that? And, after conception, a woman carries and births a child and then creates means to nourish it. That is SO COOL!
#I love being a woman.
There has never been a better time to be a woman than now.
Looking back on the history of the world, I am sure grateful to be a woman right here, right now. I love that I am valued by society. I love that I can vote and drive and travel on my own. I have a say in societal issues, and my voice matters. Our world still has a long way to go toward gender equality, but I am grateful to be a woman right now.
I love that I can do anything I want. I can go to college and study in any emphasis, and I can seek a career in any field. I have the ability to choose how I live my life.
I love that I have a distinct femininity.
I can't quite put my finger on why or how, but women are inherently different from men with different strengths, qualities, and tendencies. I love my deep, natural capacity to nurture and love and care. I love my sensitivity and tenderness. I love that I feel hurt when I see other people hurt, and that I cry when I'm really happy.
#I love other women
I love that I can be best friends with strong, beautiful, brilliant women. I get to associate with them and see their majesty from such a close perspective. I love the challenge of following my mother's example. I love the sisterhood that exists among my sister and friends.
#I love men
I love that as a woman, I get to fall in love with a man. I get to see his heart. I get to invest everything I am into him. I have the opportunity to take my strengths and abilities and combine them with his. Together, we can create life, build a strong family, and change the world.
I love that I can be my daddy's girl; I can admire him and follow in his footsteps. I love having brother. I learn so much from him.Men are incredible and do amazing things.
But I love being a woman.
回答4：
是的,我喜欢.
我爱我的身体.
作为一个女人，有很多事情并不是很有趣(月经、刮胡子、拔毛、化妆等等).
出于某种原因，社会对女性的身体要求很高：
总是有新的时尚、潮流和压力，这可能会让人追随得筋疲力尽.
我喜欢穿漂亮的裙子和高跟鞋.
女人的身体构造非常不可思议.
女人的身体构造具有创造和哺育人类（后代）的物质能力，这很多神奇吧.
在怀孕后，女人养胎，生下孩子，然后产奶来滋养孩子，酷极了!
我喜欢做女人
当今时代，是做女人好的时机.
回顾世界的历史，我很庆幸自己是此时此地的一名女性.
我喜欢社会对我赋予的女人身价值.
我高兴我可以自主投票、开车和旅行.
我在社会问题上有发言权，我的声音很重要.
我们的世界在实现性别平等方面还有很长的路要走，
但我现在很庆幸自己是一名女性.
我喜欢我可以做任何我想做的事.
我可以上大学，学习任何专业，我可以在任何领域找工作.
我有能力选择自己的生活方式.
我喜欢我有独特的女性气质.
我不能确切地说出原因或方式，但女人天生不同于男人，有着不同的力量、品质和倾向.
我爱我那深沉的、与生俱来的养育、关爱和关怀的能力.
我爱我的女性特有的敏感和温柔.
我喜欢那种看到别人受伤而自己也感同身受的感觉.
我喜欢那种喜极而泣的感觉.
我爱其他女人.
我喜欢和强壮、美丽、聪明的女人成为最好的朋友.
我可以和她们交往，近距离地感受她们的活力与魅力.
我喜欢成为贤妻良母.
我爱我姐姐和朋友们之间的姐妹情谊.
我爱的男人.
我喜欢作为一个女人而爱上了一个男人.
我能看到他的心.
我可以把我的一切都投入到他身上.
我有机会发挥我的长处和能力，并与他相结合.
我们可以一起创造生活，建立一个强大的家庭，改变世界.
我喜欢：我可以成为我爸爸的女孩;
我可以崇拜他，追随他的脚步.
我喜欢有兄弟，我从他身上学到了很多.
男人是不可思议的，他们能做很多令人惊奇的事情.
但我喜欢做一个女人.
Pros: I heard women orgasm more. It’s publicly accepted for us to wear men’s clothes. We can cry and not be laughed at. We are labeled as “perverts” less. We can smile at kids and not be considered suspicious. Nobody will squash your balls. We don’t have the societal pressure to succeed, unlike men. We can bear kids, get a long paid maternity leave, and always get help with a flat tire. In life threatening situations, kids and us get rescued first.
Cons: Monthly internal bleeding. PMSing, cramps, agony of it all. Lots of appointments in order to look “presentable.” Constant waxing, hair, tanning, nail oriented issues. We have to think about safety. Often you can’t take a stroll at 1AM in a park due to the fear of being raped, kidnapped, and murdered in the end. Being single is shameful, according to societal standards. We are judged by our physical appearance. We also get sexual harassments frequently.
I don’t know. It depends.
回答5：
优点:
我听说女人更容易高潮.
我们穿男装，大众比较容易接受.
我们哭泣不会被嘲笑的.
我们很少被贴上“变态”的标签.
我们对孩子微笑不被人怀疑居心不良.
我们不用担心蛋蛋被压扁.
我们不想男人那样有“必须成功”的社会压力.
我们可以生孩子，可以有很长的带薪产假，
还可以在轮胎漏气时得到帮助.
在生命受到威胁的情况下，孩子和我们会首先获救.
坏处:
每月都会内出血，痛经，抽筋，痛苦.
不得不参加很多约会，就为了让人觉得自己“漂亮有魅力”.
不断打蜡、染发、晒黑、美甲.
我们必须考虑安全问题.
通常你不能在凌晨一点去公园散步，
因为你得提防被强奸，绑架，最后被谋杀.
根据世俗眼光，我们单身的话，会被判为可耻.
我们是由外表来判断的.
我们经常受到性骚扰.
喜不喜欢做一个女人？ 我不知道，只能具体问题具体分析.
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but in my experience, women have a lot of advantages within society, because they “need” to be protected. Men are generally stronger and more agressive, which is great in career building and doing work, not so great in social interaction. I've heard a lot of women complain about not being taken seriously in workplace, being cut short in pay negotiation or not being offered a job, based solely on their gender. On the other hand, if you were to slap me, for whatever reason, I'm sure everyone in the same building would side with you, even if you were the attacker.
评论：
如果我说错了请纠正我.
以我的经验来判定的话，就是：女性在社会中有很多优势.
因为她们“需要”被保护.
男性通常更强壮、更有进取心，
这在职业生涯的建立和工作中很重要.
但在社会交往中就不那么重要了.
我听过很多女性抱怨，她们在工作中不被重视，在薪资谈判中处于弱势，或者仅仅因为是女性而得不到工作机会.
但是，另一方面，如果你（身为女性）因为任何原因打我耳光，我相信同一栋楼里的所有人都会站在你那一边，即使是你攻击我.