男人会觉得超重的女人没有吸引力吗？
Do guys find overweight women unattractive?
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网友：我是个肥胖的女人，我从来没有遇到过什么麻烦。很多男人觉得我很有魅力。我有一个前男友，尽管他爱我，感觉和我在一起很好，但他总是担心其他人会怎么看他娶了一个胖女人。由于我承受的压力，我们最终分手了。所以从我的经验来看，大多数男性对女性超重没有任何问题......
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Do guys find overweight women unattractive?
男人会觉得超重的女人没有吸引力吗？
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男人会觉得超重的女人没有吸引力吗？
I am an obese woman, I never had much trouble with it. Many men found me attractive. I had an ex boyfriend tough that despite loving me and feeling well with me naked was always very worried about what the world would think for him to marry a fat woman. We ended up splitting due to the pressure it was putting on me. So from my experience, most men don’t have any problems with a woman being overweight, and many of the ones that do are mostly with what the society will think.
I do have much more negative comments on my weight from women (they think men will not find me attractive) than of men.
I do believe that in an attraction sense it doesn’t matter so much…
我是个肥胖的女人，我从来没有遇到过什么麻烦。很多男人觉得我很有魅力。我有一个前男友，尽管他爱我，感觉和我在一起很好，但他总是担心其他人会怎么看他娶了一个胖女人。由于我承受的压力，我们最终分手了。所以从我的经验来看，大多数男性对女性超重没有任何问题，而很多有问题的男性主要是考虑到社会的看法。
女性对我体重的负面评论(她们认为男性不会觉得我有吸引力)确实比男性多。
我确实相信，从吸引力的角度来说，肥胖并不重要……
You are a beautiful woman with lovely body.
你是一个拥有可爱身体的美丽的女人
Thank you, altought health wise I should really lose weight, I don’t have too many problems with my look
谢谢你，虽然从健康方面看我真的应该减肥，但我的外表没有太多问题
My pleasure, but only if you want to you should you lose weight to help your health. but you should do it because you want to not for someone else, or because they tell you to,if any man does to you that then they aren’t worth
这是我的荣幸，但只有当你认为你应该通过减肥来帮助你的健康。那时候你就应该这么做，因为你想要这么做，而不是为了别人，也不是因为他们让你这么做，如果有男人这样对你，那他们就不值
I agree entirely with you.
我完全同意你的看法。
Not to sound offensive or vulgar but those boobs are so cool. I don't know why would any man resist that.
我不想冒犯你，也不想表现的粗俗，但你的胸部真的很酷。我不知道为什么男人会抗拒这种诱惑。
I think I have a very polarizing look, Some people like it others really hate it. I don’t worry too much about how I look, I just worry about my weight due to the other problems it brings.
我觉得我看起来很偏激，有些人喜欢，有些人讨厌。我不太担心我的外表，我只是担心我的体重，因为它带来的其他问题。
love that body
喜欢这样的体型
thank you
谢谢你
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Omg just gotta say you look so cute especially in the flower dress!!
我的天，我只想说你看起来很可爱，尤其是穿花裙子！！
Thank you I just think there is not a rule, some people do some don’t…
谢谢你，我只是觉得没有什么特别的规定，有些人喜欢我这样的身材，有些人不喜欢我这样的身材
you look great. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Sometimes I think a man’s height and woman’s weight is a deterrent for the opposite sex because of what their friends or family will say (society etc) but for men it is worse because they cannot change their height.
I’m 5′9-5′9.5 so I haven’t gotten rejections because of my height (I look 5′11 with shoes on and working out for 2+ yrs helps a lot) but some men who are < 5′7–5′8 have faced difficulties during courtship.
你看起来很棒。情人眼里出西施，有时我认为男性的身高和女性的体重对异性来说是一种威慑，因为他们的朋友或家人会说这些(社会等)，但对男性来说更糟，因为他们无法改变自己的身高。
我的身高是5英尺9英寸——5英尺9.5英寸，所以我没有因为身高而被拒绝(我穿鞋时的身高是5英尺11英寸，锻炼2年多很有帮助)，但是一些低于5英尺7英寸——5英尺8英寸的男人在求爱时遇到了困难。
I do agree with you. But weight although is changeable for some people is very difficult to do it. I lost and gain many times, I have an hormonal disease that makes very difficult to control it. I used to be smaller as I used to be really focused in sport but some lesions limited that for me..
But what I do think is that with height for men, weight for women or any other thing the most of barriers are in our mind. My father got handicap when he was 24 years, he got to marry my mother after that, she was richer, with more studies and that made absolutely no difference. I think that people sometimes focus too much in what they have wrong instead of playing with what they have right and that this attitude and outlook in life makes a big difference. I used to be obxtively more beautiful when I was 50 kg lighter some years ago, but I also used to struggle more with relationships as O was very insecure. I had very thin friends crying on my should about they were being rejected and nobody liked them and asking of they were ugly. They were not but personality plays a big role in all this. Everybody say that attraction is skin deep and maybe that is true in casual sex but for a relationship sometimes that is the least important, it's proved for instance that when people are friends before developing a love relationship the look is unimportant. I think life gets easier when people worry less and accept the negatives as just that a negative but not something that defines them totally. :)
我同意你的看法。但是体重虽然对一些人来说是可以改变的，但是很难做到。我减肥和增重重复了很多次，我有激素疾病，使得体重很难控制。我过去比较瘦小，因为我过去非常专注于运动，但是后来一些身体损伤限制了我运动。
但我认为，对于男性的身高，女性的体重或其他任何问题，都是我们需要面对的一些障碍。我父亲24岁时就残疾了，在那之后，他娶了我的母亲，她更富有，有更多的学问，这完全没有影响。我认为人们有时过于关注他们的缺陷，而不是去关注他们拥有的正确的东西。这种生活态度和人生观很重要。几年前，当我体重减轻50公斤的时候，客观地说我更漂亮，但我也经常在人际关系中挣扎，因为我是非常没有安全感的。我的一些瘦朋友向我哭诉，说他们被拒绝了，没人喜欢他们，说他们长得丑。其实他们并不丑，但个人的性格在这一切中起了很大的作用。例如，事实证明，当人们在发展恋爱关系之前是朋友时，外貌并不重要。我认为，当人们减少过于的担心，接受自己的缺陷，而不是完全否定这些时，生活会变得更轻松。
You look very beautiful and very confident!! That is awesome!
你看起来很漂亮，很自信！！这是很棒的！
By the definition of morbidly obese, it is, as what is counted as morbidly obese is a BMI higher than 40.
根据病态肥胖的定义，病态肥胖是指BMI高于40。
You're gorgeous, honey~ and I really like your style, it definitely suits you
你真漂亮，亲爱的~我真的很喜欢你的风格，这种风格绝对适合你，
Oh~, I'm sure you're very happy with them ^u^) but still, happy married life~! Yes, I feel bad too, many people feel like they'll be alone all their lives because of their weight, but it doesn't really matter, there's always a someone out there for each person~ we just have to find that someone c:
哦~我相信你和他们在一起一定很幸福，幸福的婚姻生活~!是的，我也很难过，很多人觉得他们会因为体重而孤独一生，但是这并不重要，每个人总有适合自己的另一半，我们只要找到那个人就行了。
Thank is what I believe too, obviously having a “perfect body” makes people feel that is easier. But I used to be normal size, and to be honest, it didn t actually made things easier, in long-term relationships finding someone that loves us despite our looks is much better than finding someone that likes us…
感谢你，我也相信这一点，显然，拥有一个“完美的身体”会让人们觉得寻找另一半更容易。但我曾经是正常身材，老实说，这并没有让事情变得更容易，在长期的关系中，找到一个不顾外貌而爱我们的人比找到一个喜欢我们的人要好得多……
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Exactly that, when you find true love, looks don't matter, ofc they're an attraction point, but they're secondary traits thanks to you too
的确如此，当你找到真爱时，外表并不重要，因为它们只是其中一个吸引点，而且它们也是次要的特质
why do you lie?
你为什么说谎？
I am not lying. This is my experience. Maybe your is different.
我没有说谎。这是我的经验。也许你不一样。
Not everyone likes thin women. Different strokes for different folks. I'm a plus size woman 5'11 a size 26 US and I get attention from men as I'm confident no matter my size. I don't dress trends I dress how I want to and that's it. There is no perfect woman be it skinny or as big as a house. Be confident as you are. Don't feel pressured to look a certain way I don't read beauty magazines etc as it isn't any good for women's self esteem. Eat well exercise and take care of yourself we only live once life is too short to hate your body.
不是每个人都喜欢苗条的女人。萝卜白菜各有所爱。在美国，我是一个身高5英尺11英寸，身材是26码的胖女人，我得到了男人的关注，因为无论我的身材如何，我都很自信。我穿衣服不潮流，我想怎么穿就怎么穿，仅此而已。世上没有完美的女人，不管是瘦的还是胖的。保持自信。我不读美容杂志等，因为这对女性的自尊没有任何好处。健康饮食，锻炼身体，好好照顾自己，我们只活一次，生命短暂，没有时间讨厌自己的身体。
I never judge a woman by her weight.
我从不以体重来评判一个女人。
Depends on the guy, some guys love overweight women. But I personally don’t. I mean If she is 20 pounds overweight, and if she's pretty, I don’t mind. But if she’s 5′4 and 200 pound, then no I won’t find her attractive.
这取决于男人，有些男人喜欢超重的女人。但我个人不喜欢。我的意思是，如果她超重20磅，如果她很漂亮，我不介意。但如果她身高5英尺4英寸，体重200磅，那我就不觉得她有吸引力了。
Take a walk outside, all types of people, sizes, religion are married or have spouses. Of course there are guys who find overweight women and men attractive.
出去散散步，各种各样的人，各种身材，各种宗教信仰的人都结婚了或有对象了。当然，有些男人觉得超重的女人和男人很有吸引力。
Remember tho that attraction is not only about physical looks. A person’s personality makes them more or less attractive. There are some beautiful people with ugly insides and no one wants them.
There are many ‘physically unattractive’ (to many people) individuals who have partners who think they’re sexy and attractive.
Point is, there is always someone who will find you attractive and always people who won’t. Take care of yourself, be yourself, be a confident, good person and the right people will find you.
记住，吸引力不仅仅是外表。一个人的性格会影响他或多或少的吸引力。有些人外表漂亮，但内心丑陋，没人想跟他们在一起。
有很多人(对很多人来说)“外表没有吸引力”，但他们的伴侣却认为他们性感迷人。
重点是，总有人会觉得你有吸引力，也总有人觉得你没有吸引力。
照顾好自己，做自己，做一个自信的人，你会找到合适的人。
We men are highly visual. When a woman walks by we don't turn around to see her personally!!
It used to be the less attractive/heavy woman had the nicest personalities. They understood beauty wasn't their selling point. To attract a husband she had to be very nice. Now we have large aggressive/assertive woman basically telling men to accept them as they are or kick rocks.
我们男人是高度视觉化的。当一个女人走过的时候，我们不会转身去看她本人！！
过去不那么迷人/肥胖的女人有很好的性格。他们明白美丽并不是他们的卖点。为了吸引丈夫，她必须表现的非常好。现在我们看到的是咄咄逼人/自信的大个女人告诉男人要么接受她们的本来面目，要么走开。
I have seen a few overweight Women who were absolutely gorgeous. But unless you have been lucky enough to be born with the right looks, an athletic body is always more attractive.
我见过一些超重的女人，她们绝对漂亮。但是，除非你很幸运地生来就有好看的外表，否则运动型的身材总是更有吸引力。
Nope I do not. My girlfriend is slightly overweight and I find her very attractive. Shes put on 24 lbs since we started dating and I find her more and more beautiful
不，我没有。我的女朋友有点胖，我觉得她很有魅力。自从我们开始约会以来，她胖了24磅，我发现她越来越漂亮了
Not necessarily: for me kindness and a pretty face are more important. A few years ago I had a love at first sight experience for a woman who happened to be overweight but unfortunately she turned out to be a lesbian. I still see her occasionally in a social context but presumably she will never date me.
不一定：对我来说，善良和漂亮的脸蛋更重要。几年前，我对一个碰巧超重的女人一见钟情，但不幸的是，她原来是个女同性恋。我仍然偶尔在社交场合见到她，但估计她永远不会和我约会了。
It depends on the woman. I’ve been involved with women of all shapes and sizes, and I’ve been in relationships with women who are considered obese who were lovely and quite sexy. I think it really depends on the woman, and I think it’s often about personality as much as appearance. But I don’t think being skinny necessarily makes someone more attractive.
这取决于女人。我和各种体型和身材的女人交往过，我也和一些被认为肥胖的女人交往过，但她们很可爱很性感。我认为这取决于女性，我认为性格和外表一样重要。但我不认为瘦就一定会让一个人更有吸引力。
beauty as they say is in the eye of the beholder, in other words one man may not find what they deem an over wight woman attractive and others do think they are. But seeing as the size of a woman’s body has or should have nothing to do with her looks or personality why should they not be seen as attractive by men. After all there are thin women who are ugly to look at just as much as there are over weight ones,by the same token there are women who are over weight who are beautiful to look at. Personally I prefer women with a fuller body shape, what some may call over weight
俗话说，情人眼里出西施，换句话说，一个男人可能不会觉得他们认为的超重女性有吸引力，而另一些人确实认为他们有吸引力。但是，女性的体型与她的外表或性格没有关系，为什么男性不认为她们有吸引力呢？毕竟，瘦骨嶙峋的女人和超重的女人一样丑，同样超重的女人也有美丽的外表。就我个人而言，我更喜欢身材丰满的女性，有些人可能会称之为超重
Yes, for the most part. A slightly full figured female with nice full boobs and wide hips are really sexy. Once a person gets so over weight that stuff begins to sag or hang down is not attractive.
是的，大部分都是。一个略显丰满的女性拥有丰满的胸部和宽阔的臀部是非常性感的。一旦一个人超重了，衣服就开始下垂了，这就不吸引人了。
Depends on exactly how much overweight, doesn't it?
Research seems to show that mens' actual preference is for women who are a bit bigger than the typical model. A cynic might say that this is because fashion is run by men who aren't actually into women, but I don't know how you'd prove that.
Personally, I prefer women who are fat where a woman ought to be fat — but my expressed preferences show this to be a trivial factor.
这取决于超重的程度，不是吗？
研究似乎表明，男人真正喜欢的是比一般身材大一点的女人。愤世嫉俗的人可能会说，这是因为时尚是由不喜欢女人的男人引领的，但我不知道你怎么证明这一点。
就我个人而言，我更喜欢胖女人，而女人应该胖——但我所表达的意思就是，肥胖是一个微不足道的因素。
For me, it mostly depends on how a woman presents herself.
I actually prefer women that are on the “thick” side.
As long as the woman is reasonably proportioned & not truly obese, it’s all good. Rolls of fat hanging out of ill-fitting clothes are a definite turn off.
Self-confidence & a winning smile work wonders for me.
A quick wit & a good sense of humour is also a bonus.
对我来说，这主要取决于一个女人如何表现自己。
我其实更喜欢“粗壮”的女人。
只要女人的身材是合理的比例并且不是真正的肥胖，这很好。但穿着不合身的衣服露出来的一卷又一卷的肥肉绝对让人扫兴。
自信和成功的微笑会给我带来奇迹。
机智和良好的幽默感也是额外的加分项。
Yes but it’s also more than that since women are supposed to be care talkers when they can’t take care of themselves then how they gonna take care of a guy?
是的，但也不止于此，因为女性应该是照顾别人的人，当她们不能照顾自己的时候，那么她们要怎么照顾男人呢?
In a word yes, we prefer woman who are a healthy weight.
Look at who the most desirable men marry/date. Pro-athletes, actors and wealthy business men. Do you see any 200lb women?
Sorry but guys will lie to big girls to sleep with them. And other women lie and say they look good. They aren't doing them any favors.
Look at the sports illustrated calendars and the women. That is most men's ideal.
总之，是的，我们更喜欢体重健康的女性。
看看最受欢迎的男人和谁结婚/约会吧。职业运动员、演员和富有的商人。
他们没有帮他们任何忙。
看看有体育插图的日历和女人。这是大多数男人的理想。
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We men are highly visual when it comes to woman. I think you both understand and agree with that. Sports illustrated calendars, Playboy magazine etc. prove this. Men aren't going to think like woman. If there is no physical attraction he likely won't be interested. There are exceptions but exceptions don't disprove the rule for most men.
Shallow? You think it's shallow for men to be more attracted to women who are a healthy weight?
Let's say a short fat guy works at McDonald's. A beautiful woman drives her Jaguar there every morning for coffee. What are the chances she will accept his offer of a date? So is she shallow?
You need to reconsider your viewpont in regards to attraction. Stop offering overweight woman hope. Instead offer them motivation to lose weight They will be healthier both mentally and physically as a result.
当谈到女人时，我们男人是高度视觉化的。我想你们都理解并同意这一点。体育画报日历，花花公子杂志等都证明了这一点。男人不会像女人一样思考。如果没有身体上的吸引力，他可能不会感兴趣。当然也有例外，但对于大多数男人来说，例外并不能推翻这一规律。
肤浅？你觉得男人更喜欢健康体重的女人很肤浅吗？
假设一个又矮又胖的家伙在麦当劳工作。一个漂亮的女人每天早上开着她的捷豹去那里喝咖啡。她接受他的约会邀请的可能性有多大？她很肤浅吗？
关于吸引力，你需要重新考虑你的观点。停止给超重女性希望。相反，给他们减肥的动力，他们会因此在心理和身体上都更健康。
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I am not going to bother to reply further, other than to reiterate that I do not believe that physical appearance is the most important factor in a love based permanent relationship, for either men OR women. I find your preferences shallow- as a woman, I do not even care about the factors you describe as characteristic of an ideal man (a pro sports figure, a business CEO, etc).
Some of us choose partners based on emotional compatability, intelligence, etc. And the sexual attraction develops from that connection. Sorry if you do not get that or have not experienced that sort of connection.
Please do not be insulting about others’ appearance, or assume all men have the same tastes in women that you do. I assure you that both my current partner and my previous partner of 12 years would disagree with your views- and might feel the need to be far less polite with you than I am!
我不想再做进一步的回答，只是重申一下，我不相信外表是建立在持久爱情基础上的最重要的因素，无论对男人还是女人。我发现你的喜好很肤浅——作为一个女人，我甚至不在乎你描述的理想男人的特征(职业体育明星、企业首席执行官等)。
我们中的一些人选择伴侣是基于情感相容度、智力等。性吸引就从这种联系发展而来。如果你不明白或者没有经历过这种联系，那我很抱歉。
请不要侮辱别人的外表，或者认为所有男人对女人的品味都和你一样。我向你保证，我现在的伴侣以及和我交往了12年的前任伴侣都会不同意你的观点——而且可能觉得有必要比我更不礼貌地对待你!
You can't argue with a million years of evolutionary biology.
As usual the overweight woman feel the need to justify themselves in talking about their long term relationships. But you notice they never mention a husband? Modern women expect men to think like women. It's not what we do. Unless you are an effeminate beta male. And that is exactly what strong, educated overweight alpha females tend to attract. Most men don't find their masculine vs feminine ways attractive. We might date you, but marry? Nope!
你无法反驳一百万年的进化生物学。
和往常一样，超重的女性觉得有必要在谈论她们的长期关系时为自己辩护。但你注意到她们从没提到过自己的丈夫吗？现代女人希望男人像女人一样思考。这不是我们该做的。除非你是个娘娘腔的贝塔男。而这正是强壮、受过教育、体重超标的雌性领袖喜欢吸引的地方。大多数男人不觉得他们的男子气概比女性的方式更有吸引力。我们也许会和你约会，但是结婚?不!
Not all women seek marriage, Robert, or feel that we need marriage to justify our existence. And a 12 year relationship is pretty meaningful, regardless of whether one is married or not.
不是所有女人都寻求婚姻的，罗伯特，或者觉得我们需要婚姻来证明我们的存在。
一段12年的感情是很有意义的，不管一个人是否结婚。
Not everyone is as superficial as you, Robert. A “pro athlete” gets no bonus points from me and in fact, I cannot see myself ever having a serious relationship with a pro athlete, yuck, we would have nothing in common (I have no interest in team sports, I like the arts).
And I am not especially drawn to “wealthy businessmen” either. What impresses me in a guy is kindness, a non judgmental attitude towards others, intelligence, great verbal skills, a love of the arts.
Again, many men and women seek partners based on deeper traits. And as a plus sized but attractive and highly educated woman, I assure you that not all men share your preferences in women.
不是每个人都像你一样肤浅，罗伯特。一个“职业运动员”对我来说没有任何好处，事实上，我不认为自己会和一个职业运动员有一段认真的感情，恶心，我们没有任何共同之处（我对团队运动不感兴趣，我喜欢艺术。）
我也不是特别喜欢“富商”。让我印象深刻的是一个人的善良，对他人不加评判的态度，聪明，出色的语言能力，热爱艺术。
同样，许多男人和女人基于更深层次的特征来寻找伴侣。作为一个身材丰满，有魅力，受过高等教育的女性，我向你保证，不是所有的男人都和你一样喜欢女人。
some men go after overweight girls because they know they have low self esteem so will” do the deed” to get someone to like them.
有些男人追求超重的女孩，因为他们知道自己自尊心很低，所以会“采取行动”让别人喜欢他们。
Yes, a host of issues associated with being overweight. Physical and psychological.
是的，很多问题都与超重有关。身心健康
As a plus sized, professional woman with a graduate degree, let me assure you that many plus sized women have no issues with self esteem! And I (as well as other plus sized women I know) have had no problem maintaining monogamous, long term relationships with intellectual, kind, enthusiastic men- have been with my current partner, an artist, for 6 years, and with my previous partner 12 years.
作为一个拥有研究生学位的大码职业女性，让我向你保证，很多大码女性都没有自尊心问题！我(我认识的其他胖女人也一样)和聪明、善良、热情的男人保持着一夫一妻的长期关系，这是没有问题的——我和我现在的伴侣，一位艺术家，相处了6年，和我之前的伴侣相处了12年。
I personally, in a broad sense, find fat women unattractive. I also think that most guys also find them unattractive.
My honest opinion is that most fat women are lazy slobs. They can't cook and they don't clean. They're dirty individuals prone to sickness and disease.
On the other hand, I do find some fat women attractive. They cook and clean for themselves and they actually have jobs.
我个人认为，从广义上来说，胖女人没有吸引力。我也认为大多数男人也觉得她们没有吸引力。
我的真实看法是，大多数胖女人都是懒人。他们不会做饭，也不会打扫卫生。他们是容易生病的肮脏的人。
另一方面，我确实觉得有些胖女人很有吸引力。她们自己做饭，自己打扫，而且她们还有工作。
Yes, encasing the natural human form in a giant skin sack full of disgusting, jiggly, sweaty rolls of flabby cellulite due to your daily gluttony is extremely repulsive. For either men or women.
是的，把人的自然形态包裹在一个巨大的皮囊里，里面塞满了因日常暴食而形成的恶心、摇晃、汗流浃背的脂肪团，这是非常令人厌恶的。不管是男人还是女人。
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