Asian Boss:韩国单亲妈妈
Being a Single Mother in Korea | THE VOICELESS #31
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网友 :因为是单亲妈妈，就受到歧视，实在是太可悲了。她努力工作，尽力做到最好，她爱自己的孩子。
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Asian Boss:韩国单亲妈妈
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It’s so sad she gets discriminated against for being a single mother! She is working hard and doing her best and she loves her kid!
因为是单亲妈妈，就受到歧视，实在是太可悲了。她努力工作，尽力做到最好，她爱自己的孩子。
It's pretty difficult in Korea to be a single mother
I'm curious to know what type of girl she was from 18 - 23...
在韩国做一个单身母亲是相当困难的
我很想知道她在18到23岁时是什么类型的女孩
@Benjamin Cho Who cares what type of girl she was at that age. Nothing wrong with being a single parent.
谁在乎她那个时候是什么样的。做单亲父母又没有什么错
Doubly discriminated because her child isn't "normal"
因为孩子不“正常”又受到了双重歧视
People who leave their children and not supporting them are the ones that should be discriminated for being neglectful and not owning their responsibilities.
那些抛弃孩子，不赡养他们的人才应该受到歧视，因为他们是如此的不负责任
@That's Tuff! I can't believe y'all are blaming the women who STUCK AROUND AND RAISED THE KIDS and not the ones who abandoned them
我真不敢相信你们不去责怪那些抛弃他们的人，而去责怪那些陪伴孩子长大的单亲妈妈
Single mothers are almost always discriminated against and almost everywhere on Earth.
单亲妈妈总会受到歧视，世界上每个地方几乎都是这样
Korean society is kinda weird sometimes
有时候觉得韩国社会有点奇怪
sad that she is still calling those who left her when she was in need “friends and family”
可悲的是，她依然把那些在她需要帮助时离开自己的人当作朋友和家人
You are only hearing one side of the story.
这只是她的一面之词
When her son grows up, he will be very proud of having such a great mother like her. ;)
当她的儿子长大后，他会为有像她这样伟大的母亲而感到非常自豪。
@Anddres Torres why would he become a criminal? what kind of logic is this?
为什么他会成为罪犯？这是什么逻辑？
@Anddres Torres It really isn't, America has more criminals in general because it's a shitty country . I have a hard time believing you are even an adult let alone a police officer . I really hope you aren't honestly.
并非如此，美国总体上有更多的罪犯，因为美国是一个糟糕的国家。我真的不敢相信你作为一个成年人会说出这种话，更不用还是一个警察了。我希望你不是认真的
@Chill Out come on america isn't the whole world u guys have too many problematic people in our country the kids raised by single moms grow up wonderfully !
美国不能代表全世界，我们国家有太多有问题的人了，单亲妈妈抚养长大的孩子也可以很优秀
If you are a son, would you be proud of having a singe mom and she gets help from here and there?
如果你是这个孩子，你会以四处寻求帮助的单亲妈妈为荣吗？
Why discriminate against someone who is working hard to keep herself and her child alive all on her own? Someone who is trying her best? It blows my mind how biased people can be.
为什么要歧视那些努力养活自己和孩子的人呢?她已经尽力了？人们的偏见真让我震惊。
TheTechie Korea is more developed than most countries but that doesn’t stop old cultures and traditions
高科技韩国比大部分国家要发达，但这并不能妨碍古老的文化和传统
As a single mother with a Korean daughter, I can understand her struggles completely.
作为独自抚养女儿的韩国单身妈妈，我能理解她的挣扎
Where is the father?!! Dont you have a law where the father is forced to send money to raise the baby?!!! Thats ridicules!!!
孩子父亲在哪？你们的法律不是规定父亲必须寄钱抚养孩子长大的吗？这太荒谬了
Jann hope you and your daughter find the happiness and love you both deserve
希望你和你的女儿可以找到应得的幸福和爱
Reading these comments gives me faith in humanity. So often we only see people spewing hate online. Glad to know that people really do care.
看到这些评论，让我对人性又有了信心。我们经常在网上看到别人散播仇恨，很高兴看到人们真心的关心别人
Asian boss, we need to open another fundraising event.
Asian boss，我们需要再开一场筹款活动
Yes, I would donate to that
是的，我要捐款
Yes I agree. If not to her directly then to the association that helps the single moms in Korea
是的，我同意，如果不是直接给她，也可以捐给帮助韩国单身妈妈的协会
Get me some money
给我一些钱把
Yes do help this mom
是的，要帮帮这个女人
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I would donate too
我也要捐款
Oh, God. Never go back to him. A man like that will never change, he will only get worse.
哦,上帝。永远不要回到他身边。那样的人永远不会改变，只会变得越来越恶劣
I’m a single mom from Canada with a son who’s 3 going 4 years old with an autism. I felt her every single word, it hit me deep within my soul. I’m just crying like non stop
我是一个加拿大的单身妈妈，我儿子现在三岁多，患有自闭症，我感觉他说的每个字都深深触动我的灵魂。让我哭个不停
My biological mom (korean) found out she was pregnant at 18 years old. She only met my father once and she was not in any relationship. She could expect no financial support from her (our) family and therefor set me up for adoption. I am now 18 years old and have grown up in Norway. Im hoping to meet my mom next year. I respect her decision and im not mad at her for it, but my whole life has felt out of balance and I wish that I got to grow up with my biological parents in my birthcountry.
我生母（韩国人）18岁的时候发现自己怀孕了。她只和我父亲见过一次，他们两人并不是恋爱关系。她不能指望从她家人那里得到经济上的支持，因此她把我安排给别人收养。我现在18岁，在挪威长大。我希望明年能见到我母亲。我尊重她的决定，现在我已经不生她的气了，但我的整个人生都失去了平衡，我希望自己可以和亲身父母在出生国长大
Best luck to you, your family and your biological mother (family).
祝你和你的家人及你的生母(家人)好运。
I will never understand people that discrimate single mothers. They are the brave ones that stayed and are working very hard to raise their kids. I feel so sorry for this woman... She suffered a lot growing up without a mother and then being abused by her husband. She has a very tough life.
我永远不能理解那些歧视单身妈妈的人。她们非常勇敢的和自己的孩子呆在一起，努力抚养他们长大。我为这个女人感到难过，她遭受了很多的痛苦，在成长过程中失去了母亲，然后遭受丈夫的虐待，她过的很艰难
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It goes against the social norms. If you don’t fit into this category then you will be discriminated.
因为这不符合社会规范，如果你和他们不一样，那么就会遭受歧视
@jess0099 then social norms need to change
社会规范需要改变
The kid must really appreciate her when he grows up
孩子长大后一定会感激她
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All kids are appreciative of their parents when they grow up.
所有的孩子长大后都会感激他们的父母。
@Ali he has autism. i don't think that he will be able to see that. but that doesn't mean that he doesn't love her mum
他有自闭症。我认为他看不到这一点，但这并不意味着他不爱自己的妈妈
there are alot of different spectrums of autism. My cousin has autism, when she was a baby we were scared she will grow to be dependent of us as an adult. Years have passed and she is understanding of our emotions and so loving and appreciative. So I dont agree with your statement.
自闭症患者之间也是有很大的不同的。我表妹也有自闭症，当她还很小的时候，我们就担心她长大以后还会继续依赖我们。多年过去了，她正在开始理解我们的情感，充满爱和感激。所以我不同意你的说法。
@Sweet Potatoes that's thanks to her parents. it depends a lot of how they raise their children with some spectrum of autism. i know people that don't let their kids do the smallest things that even they are able to do alone without any help!. i think that they should raise them for being able in the future to be independent.
这要感谢她的父母，这取决于父母如何抚养患有自闭症孩子的方式。我知道有些人连最细微的事情也不让自己的孩子做，哪怕孩子可以在没有帮助的情况下独立的完成。我认为他们培养孩子未来可以独立自主的能力。
@Ali Hmm Sadly, there are quite a number of parents with grown kids who are not loved nor appreciated! These parents are heartbroken!
Go, talk to many old parents in care homes who are not visited by their kids!
可悲的是，有相当多的父母，孩子长大后既不爱他们也不感激他们，这些父母都很难过
去和那些没有孩子探望的养老院里的老人谈谈就知道了
Can’t we start a go fund me for this woman?
我们就不能给这个女人捐钱吗？
The fact he abused her during the pregnancy hurts my heart
She is such a good mom to her son
怀孕期间还要遭受虐待真是让人伤心
对他儿子来说，她是一个好妈妈
This man is bloody embarrassment of a human. I hope he realises what he’s done and asks her for forgiveness and spends the rest of his life regretting it bro wtf.
这个人真是人类的耻辱。我希望他能意识到自己做了什么然后请求她的原谅，然后后悔一辈子
This Type probably never will. Putting hope in that maybe is in vain...
这种人可能永远也不会这样做，把希望放在这上面或许是徒劳的
He won't and she should never let him contact her or her son, even to apologize.
他不会这样做的，她也不会让他联系她或自己的儿子，即便是要道歉
No real man will leave a woman alone like this when she gets pregnant with him. I feel for her so much it must be so hard. Specially in a more conservative country like korea. Keep strong mama. :(
真正的男人不会在自己女人怀孕的时候离开她，我很同情她，这一定非常的艰难，尤其是在韩国这样一个保守的国家。
Wow this Korean woman seems like a strong, hopeful and brave person. Hope all the best to her and her son, hopefully he can get better with his current condition.
这个韩国女人看上去似乎是一个坚强，乐观勇敢的人。希望她和她儿子一切都好，希望他现在情况有所改善。
Daniel Lee absolutely agree...so many ppl thinks korea is wonderland...but the reality is different...
完全同意，很多人认为韩国是一个非常棒的国家，但事实却不是这样的
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I'm not a single mom. But my mom was. She did an incredible job. This mom is really brave and strong. I send you all the blessings...
我不是单亲妈妈，但我妈妈是。我妈妈做的非常的好，这个单亲妈妈也是一个非常勇敢和坚强的人，我祝福你们，，
She escaped an abusive relationship and is a hardworking single mother. She and her son deserve everything
她逃离了过去的虐待，作为单亲妈妈努力工作，她和她儿子值得所有的一切
Bless this mother, she has gone through so much. But she continues to raise a beautiful child independently.
祝福这位妈妈，她经历了那么多。但她选择继续独自抚养孩子
She is a kind, loving, strong and a good mom. A perfect mom.
她是一个善良、慈爱、坚强的好妈妈。一个完美的妈妈。
Such a strong woman
真是一位坚强的女人
The end is sooo heartwarming, omg, I'm crying!
结尾太感人了，天哪，我哭了!
This makes me so sad bcs i have a single mom
看了让我很伤心，因为我也有一个单亲妈妈
Like saw me in the mirror , I'm single mother with special need children too. Thx for sharing
就像看镜子里的自己一样，我也是单亲妈妈，我的孩子也是特殊儿童，感谢分享
Having a Korean mother who raised both me and my brother in Korea alone, I can imagine what's shes going through. I was pretty young at the time. But as I got older, I realized how much my mother worked to give us a wonderful life. I guess she worked so hard I never really understood the situation she was in.
我妈妈在韩国独自将我和弟弟两个人抚养长大，可以想象她经历了多少困难。当时我很年轻。但我长大一点以后，我意识到妈妈要多么的努力才能给我们提供一个好的生活。我猜她工作的一定非常努力，我从来不懂她之前的处境有多么艰难。
she’s an incredibly strong woman
她是一个非常坚强的女人
The fact that she went through so much and has so many hardships getting by, she still works hard and never even considered abandoning or putting her son for adoption. She is truly an amazing mother, best wishes to her and her son!
尽管过去及现在经历了那么多的困难，但她依然那么努力，从来没有想过要抛弃自己的孩子，或将孩子送给别人抚养。她是一个了不起的妈妈，祝福她和她的儿子!
"I'm very grateful that he is in my life". What a wonderful woman. I hope that she and her son live a joyful life.
“我很感激他出现在我的生活中。”多棒的女人啊。我希望她和她的儿子能过上幸福的生活。
After watching this, I've become more appreciative of my mom who provided everything for me and my boy when I separated from my ex husband.
看了这个视频后，我更加感激我的妈妈了，在我和我的前夫离婚后，她为我和我儿子提供了一切
Her son js so cute. Stay strong!
她的儿子很可爱，保持坚强
She looks so young and the horrible things she went through breaks my heart. It angers me hearing the abuse she endured at the hands of her ex-boyfriend. I pray the best for her and her son.
她看上去很年轻，但她遭遇了很多可怕的事情，这让我很难过。听说她还被她的前男友虐待，这让我感觉非常生气。我希望她和她的儿子一切都好。
I'm glad that there's still people out there that want to help those who need it.
我很高兴仍然有人想要帮助那些需要帮助的人。
South Korea seems to have a lot of issues with single parents. I hope that someday they set up a system to make life easier for them.
韩国似乎有很多单亲家庭的问题。我希望韩国将来能建立一个系统，可以让这些人的生活更加容易
Single mother are more stronger them being both the mother and father
单亲妈妈更加坚强，她们既是母亲又是父亲
She is very brave for sharing her story! I have great respect for single parents. For most of my childhood into early teens, my mom, a Korean immigrant who moved to Queens New York, raised me on her own, and words cannot begin to describe my gratitude. I can spend the rest of my life trying to pay her back, but it wouldn't compare to all she has done for me.
她能把故事讲出来真的是非常的勇敢。我对单亲父母非常尊敬。我的母亲是一个生活在纽约皇后区的韩国移民，在我童年到青少年早期的那段时间里，是我母亲一人将我带大的，言语无法表达我的感激之情。我会用一辈子的时间来报答她的养育之恩，但这和她为我做的事情相比根本就不值一提。
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I’m from New York as well. Born in Brooklyn, raised in Queens. My siblings and I was also was raised by my mom.
我也来自纽约，在布鲁克林出生，在皇后区长大，我的兄弟姐妹和我也是由我妈妈养大的
Joseph rogers send my regards to your mom ..
代我向你妈妈问好
She’s so strong ❤️ She’s amazing and they deserve all the best I’m sorry about what you had to go through.
她很坚强，很了不起，他们值得获得最好的，我为你的经历感到难过
She's just amazing and so brave! I hope the best for her and her child
她很了不起，很勇敢，我希望她和她儿子一切都好