你为什么爱你的父亲？（一）
Why do you love your father?
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网友：为什么不爱呢？在过去的几年里，我意识到我爸爸为我做了很多事，尽管我仍然认为他是个彻头彻尾的混蛋。他把我送到中国，因为他在我身上看到了巨大的潜力......
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Why do you love your father?
你为什么爱你的父亲？
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Why not?
Over the past years of my life, I’ve realized how much my dad has done for me, despite the fact that I still think he is a complete douchebag. He sent me to China, because he saw great potential in me, hoping that I’d get better education than my two, oops, make that one other sibling would get in that shithole of a country that I was born in. If it wasn’t for me living in China, I wouldn’t had been more “civilized” and intelligent than I would’ve been, it also prevented me from seeing the cruel side of humanity and keep a pure and simple mind. That was until I witnessed a store robbery and store shooting when I was brought back to that shithole.
为什么不爱呢？
在过去的几年里，我意识到我爸爸为我做了很多事，尽管我仍然认为他是个彻头彻尾的混蛋。他把我送到中国，因为他在我身上看到了巨大的潜力，希望我能得到比我的两个兄弟更好的教育，而且我的兄弟姐妹会在我出生的那个鬼地方得到更好的教育。如果不是因为我生活在中国，我不会比以前更“文明”，更聪明，这也阻止了我看到人性的残酷一面，可以保持一个单纯的头脑。直到我被带回那个鬼地方目睹一起商店抢劫和枪击事件之后才改变。
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If it wasn’t for my dad, I would not have existed. I wouldn’t be who I am today without my dad doing all the things he did not just for me, but for my family too. He also helped me “open my eyes” and learn the harsh realities of life, and be grateful the for the things I have, because we were poor af. He set an example for me, because of the things he did, I knew what consequences making certain stupid decisions would lead to. Seeing his old photo galleries of him enjoying the time of his life instead of being with his family gave me an incentive to live my life to the fullest one day, but I’d probably not neglect my family like he did.
但我也看到了另一面，他把我送到中国，可能因为我是他和我母亲的负担。也无所谓，反正我和祖父母在一起更开心，他们都很爱我，对我很关心，尽管他们把我给宠坏了。虽然我爸爸让我接触了很多坏东西，但他从来没有帮助我做过家庭作业。但是没有他，我的生活会有很大的不同，可能会死在那个鬼地方。正是因为他有很多关系，从当地的富人家庭到警察，可能还有政府层面，我的家人才能够移民到加拿大。
如果不是我爸爸，我就不会存在了。如果没有我爸爸的努力，我不会有今天的成就，他所做的一切不仅是为了我，也是为了我的家人。他还帮助我“睁开眼睛”，了解生活的严酷现实，并学会感恩我所拥有的一切，因为我们都很穷。他为我树立了榜样，因为他，我知道做出某些愚蠢的决定会导致什么后果。看到画廊里的他那张照片，他享受自己的生活，而不是和他的家人在一起，给了我动力，让我活得充实，但我可能不会像他那样忽视我的家人。
My father, throughout my school and college-life, used to drop and pick me up, no matter how busy or how important the work was, he never missed this even for a single day.
He was not rich, but he made sure that we lived a luxurious life.
He always understood what we needed or wanted, and he would always get that for us.
He has always treated me and my brother equally, he never said “ No, you are a girl and you can't-do that “, instead he says “You are a girl, you can even rule the world if you want to”.
Since childhood, he narrates at least one story/poem every night to me. Stories that inspired me, groomed me. Stories about the leaders, Gods, Sikander and so on…. He never narrated ‘fairy tales’ to us, he never wanted us to get dependent on or wait for any “prince” that will come and save us from the world.
After my mother died (in 2015), My father became my mother too. He fulfilled her role as well. From taking care of us to every little thing, he did it all.
Last year I was operated for my sinuses, I was not allowed to eat anything for 12 hours before the operation and a few hours after the operation. I was not even allowed to have water after the operation for a few hours.
在大学在内整个学校生活中，无论工作有多忙，有多重要，我的父亲总是开车来接我，他从来没有错过一天。
他并不富裕，但他确保我们过着奢侈的生活。
他总是知道我们需要什么，想要什么，他总是会帮我们得到。
他一直平等地对待我和我的弟弟，他从来没有说“不，你是一个女孩，你不能那样做”，相反，他说“你是一个女孩，如果你想你甚至可以统治世界”。
从孩提时代起，他每天晚上至少给我讲激发我灵感，培养我的一个故事/一首诗歌。这些故事是关于领袖，神，Sikander等的故事等，他从不向我们讲述“童话”，他从不希望我们依赖或等待任何“王子”来拯救我们。
在我母亲去世后(2015年)，他也履行了我母亲的职责。从照顾我们到每一件小事，他都做到了。
去年我做了鼻窦炎手术，手术前12个小时和术后几个小时我都不能吃东西。手术后的几个小时，我甚至不被允许喝水。
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When I wake up, he was sitting next to me holding my hand. I asked him whether he had lunch or not, “He said, I will have it after you”.
He even had water after me. His sugar level went down because of not eating anything, but he was so scared for me.
After I was operated, I was having this cotton pack all over my face, and there were stitches on my nose and lips. He took care of me like I was this small little girl, he cooked food for me and didn’t let me enter the kitchen for the complete month.
As we are going through the rough phase, we don’t have any maid or servant working for us anymore, he gets up early before me, and do all the household work on his own, from cleaning the utensils to cleaning home, so that I don’t have to do that. We have fought over this so many times but he never listens to me on this topic.
He is the most honest and loyal person, He never lies, never cheats (in relations or in business), never takes the side of the wrong, always take stand for the right thing…..etc.
He has saved so many lives, once he saved the life of a small kid (10-years-old) who met with an accident, his left eye came out, his head was seriously injured, while everyone was scared and shocked by the horrible site, he took that kid in his arms and immediately rushed to the hospital.The boy is half paralyzed now but is alive. His family was so thankful to my father for saving his life.
He is a selfless person, he has always lived his life for others, by helping them when they were in need, when they needed him or his money.
P.S: There are so many other things as well, which makes him different from others. I LOVE MY FATHER because of the good person he is.
他站在重症监护病房外，不停地透过玻璃窗看着我，直到我恢复知觉并被带回我的房间。
当我醒来时，他就坐在我旁边，握着我的手。我问他有没有吃午饭，“他说，你吃完我就吃。”
他很担心我，因为没吃东西，他的血糖水平下降了。
手术后，我脸上全是纱布，鼻子和嘴唇也缝了几针。他像照顾小女孩一样照顾我，他给我做饭，一个月都不让我进厨房。
当时我们正在经历一个艰难的阶段，不再有任何女佣或佣人为我们工作，他起得比我早，然后做所有的家务，从清洁器具到打扫房间，这样就不用我做这些了。我们为此争吵过很多次，但他从来不听我的。
他是最诚实和忠诚的人，他从不说谎，从不在关系或生意上进行欺骗，从不站在错误的一边，总是站在正确的立场上等等。
他挽救过很多生命,有一次他救了一个小男孩（10岁）的命，这小男孩遭遇了一场意外，他的头受了重伤，左眼出来了，而所有人都被可怕的现场吓坏了，他抱着那个孩子，立即送往医院。这个男孩现在半瘫痪，但还活着。他的家人非常感谢我父亲救了他的命。
他是一个无私的人，他总是为别人而活，在他们需要的时候，在他们需要他或他的钱的时候，都会帮助他们。
附注:还有很多其他的事情，这让他与众不同。我爱我的父亲，因为他是一个好人。
Just seeing this question makes me tear up.
My father is an amazing man. I still call him “daddy” because I never grew out of it, but he deserves that title because he has done so much for me.
Right after I was born, my father held me in his arms and called me “dolly” because I looked like a little doll that he would care for the rest of his life.
When I was a kid, I would trust him with all my secrets because he would rarely get angry with me.
When I was a tween, I would start to rebel, but my father would never hit or yell at me. He would calmly explain what is right and try to understand my side too.
When I was in my early teens, he would always support me academically. He would create practice problems for me to understand concepts. He would sit with me for an extended period of time if I was having trouble with understanding what was taught in class, even if it cut into his work time.
He would stay at home to work when I was sick so that he could take care of me. He would prepare food for me and bring it up to my room so that I would not have to feel exhausted.
While our family does not express emotions that often, I would usually go to my father if I was not feeling well.
My freshman year java teacher, and my father, were the ones who supported me in my decision to pursue computer science.
Now, in my late teens, I am thankful everyday that my father is still here for me. I tell him almost everything, from social to academic endeavors. I love talking with him during our weekly video calls.
I love him.
I hope this answers your question :) <3
一看到这个问题我就哭了。
我的父亲是一个了不起的人。我一直叫他“daddy”，因为我从没有长大，但他也当之无愧，因为他为我做了很多。
我一出生，我的父亲就把我抱在怀里，叫我“多莉”，因为我看起来像一个小娃娃，他会照顾我一辈子。
当我还是个孩子的时候，我会把我所有的秘密都告诉他，因为他很少会对我生气。
当我十几岁的时候，我会开始反抗，但我父亲从来不会打我或对我大喊大叫。他会平静地解释什么是对的，并试图理解我的立场。
在我十几岁的时候，他总是在学业上支持我。他会制造练习题让我理解概念。。如果我听不懂课上讲的内容，即使占用了他的工作时间，他也会在我旁边坐很长一段时间。
我生病的时候他会呆在家里工作，这样他就能照顾我。他会为我准备食物，并把它带到我的房间，这样我就不会感到疲惫。
虽然我们家不经常表达情感，但如果我感觉不舒服，我通常会去找我父亲。
我大一的时候，我的java老师和我的父亲是支持我选择计算机科学的人。
现在，我十八九岁，我每天都心存感激，因为我的父亲仍然陪在我身边。我几乎告诉了他所有的事情，从社交活动到学术活动。我喜欢在每周的视频通话中和他交谈。
我爱他。
我希望这能回答你的问题。
Let me tell you his story. He was the last child in his family and as soon as he was born, my grandpa passed away and he was called a bad omen. He was raised in poverty with his brothers and sisters as the relatives neglected my grandma and cheated her of everything as soon as my grandfather passed away. But my grandma was a strong willed person and took care of her children and raised them well.
My dad was made to do odd jobs and cleaning work by his relatives. He used to wear the old and tattered clothes of the relatives and when he asked for new clothes he was told he can’t have new ones cause he was the reason my grandpa passed away. He went to a government school and started learning English only when he was in his 5th grade. But, he is a very inquisitive and knowledge thirsty person. He made sure he gained something new in whatever work he did.
He wanted to become a doctor and took science for his higher studies but fate played a game and he couldn't write his exams. So without any option, he enrolled in B.Com. Later became a CA and is one of the best in my city right now.
Ask him anything and he will have an answer for everything. Taxation, investment, business, mythology, medicine, carpentry, politics, cinema and what not. Why? Because he reads, reads and reads a lot. He also made me develop that habit by making me read from a very young age. Wherever I go, I am regarded with respect once people know I am his daughter because of the empire he built from scratch purely by his hard work. Not to mention, he has always been a kind hearted person, helping people in need whenever he could with education and medical expenses.
he has never said No to anything I have asked for (reasonably :3) My granny on her death bed told that she wanted to have her last breath only in my dad’s house. He has been an amazing son, wonderful husband, awesome father and most of all, a fantastic human.
I wish I could be at least half the person he is :)
让我来告诉你他的故事。他是家里最后一个孩子，他一出生，我的爷爷就去世了，他被认为不详。他和他的兄弟姐妹一起在贫困环境中长大，因为我的祖父一去世，亲戚们就忽视了我的祖母，把她的一切都骗走了。但是我的奶奶是一个意志坚强的人，照顾她的孩子，把他们抚养得很好。
我爸爸被他的亲戚强迫做一些零工和清洁工作。他过去常常穿亲戚的旧衣服，当他要求新的衣服时，他被告知他不能穿新的，因为他导致我爷爷去世。他去了一所公立学校，五年级时才开始学习英语。但是，他是一个非常好奇和渴望知识的人。他确保自己无论做什么工作都能有新的收获。
他想成为一名医生，在高等教育中攻读理科，但命运捉弄了他，他无法通过考试。所以别无选择，他注册了B.Com。后来成为了一名CA，现在是我所在城市最好的CA之一。
他对任何问题都有答案：税收、投资、商业、神话、医药、木工、政治、电影等等。为什么?因为他拥有大量阅读。他还让我从小养成了阅读的习惯。无论我走到哪里，一旦人们知道我是他的女儿，我就会受到尊敬，因为他完全是白手起家靠自己的努力建立了这个帝国。更不用说，他一直是一个善良的人，随时帮助需要帮助的人，他可以负担教育和医疗费用。
他对我的任何合理的要求从来没有说过“不”，我的奶奶在她临死的时候说她只想在我爸爸的房子里咽下最后一口气。他是一个了不起的儿子，了不起的丈夫，了不起的父亲，最重要的是，他是一个了不起的人。我希望我至少做到他的一半。
the only one who pleases me since I was a kid. everyone knows that I am his favorite child.
the only one who loves me more than others. he taught me a lot of things. he taught me to be strong, independent and responsible with my life. he taught me to be responsible with all the decisions that I have decided and made me learn to accept whatever the consequences of all my decisions.
the only one who is always with me, supports me, becomes my place to rely on, does not blame me, cheers me on and helps me stand up again if I end up making the wrong decision
the one who taught me how to cover up my feelings, how to control myself and my emotions and how to pretend that everything is okay
the only one who defended me while all my family, my relatives accused me and badmouthed me.
the only one who still believes in me even though everyone never trusts me because I'm famous for my madness, my mischief and everyone hates me but he still loves me unconditionally
the only one who protected me and calmed me down at that time when I was depressed and stressed because I broke up with my first love
I am the only one among my siblings who has ever felt what it is like to be married, with my father as my marriage guardian. I was so grateful when he could see his grandson was born and I knew he loved my son as much as how he loved me. And I really thank God because at least he can feel what it's like to have grandchildren before he dies
the only one who had a heart attack because at that time he could not hold back his sadness when he saw me being dressed up while having my wedding party. I think at that moment when he saw me getting dressed up, he knew that it was the last time I would get that close to him. because he knows after that day I will belong to someone else.
the only one who gave me a will before he died. I guess in the end even though I never told him what my marital situation was like, in the end he could feel it all.
I love you, pa … and I really miss you right now
从我小时候起唯一一个让我开心的人。每个人都知道我是他最喜欢的孩子。
他是唯一一个比别人更爱我的人。他教了我很多东西。他教我生活中坚强，独立和负责任。他教我对自己所做的决定负责任，让我学会接受所有决定的后果。
他是唯一一个永远和我在一起，支持我，成为我的依靠，如果我最终做出的决定是错误的，不会责怪我，而是鼓励我，帮助我站起来。
他教我如何掩饰自己的感情，如何控制自己的情绪，如何假装一切都好。
当我的家人，亲戚都指责我，说我坏话的时候，他是唯一一个为我辩护的人。
他是唯一一个仍然相信我的人：因为我的疯狂，我的恶作剧，每个人都恨我，尽管每个人都不相信我，但他仍然无条件地爱我。
因为我和我的初恋分手了，在我沮丧、压力大的时候，唯一一个保护我、让我冷静下来的人。
在我的兄弟姐妹中，我是唯一一个感受过结婚是什么感觉的人，我的父亲是我的婚姻监护人。当他看到自己的孙子出生时，我很感激他，我知道他像爱我一样爱我的儿子。我真的很感谢上帝，因为至少他能体会到在他死前有孙子是什么感觉。
当他看到我打扮后出席婚礼派对，因为当时他无法抑制他的悲伤，他是唯一一个心脏病发作的人，我想当他看到我盛装打扮的那一刻，他知道这是我最后一次这么靠近他。因为他知道那天之后我会属于别人。
他是唯一一个死前给我留遗嘱的人。我想到最后，即使我从未告诉他我的婚姻状况如何，他最终还是能感受到一切。
我爱你，爸爸，我现在真的很想你
Yeah i love my dad like anything. He is one of supportive person. Even in my studies when i get low mark he won't scold instead of that he give ideas to get good marks at next. His planning , suggestions are always fantastic. I can't say no to that. He cares for me like sky high. I can't explain it in words. He knows I'm fear of darkness so he is always behind me. I usually fear of animals like snake, dog. He says that you want to get out of this fear.. and give suggestions. Now somehow i manage when i see these things. One of best thing is till now he doesn't instead me to be first bt want me as best. Even evryone tease me i won't say anything. But he say you want to face people. He says that if there are good at teasing show what you are good at. They will stop. But reality its happened. He can't see me in sad. I used to smile for him always. When I'm sad none of comfort me like him. One of best quality abt him is his honesty level. In future i want to be like my dad in character and everythng.. Its one of my dream. When i scored good marks in 10th he never used to appreciate me directly. He is proudly says to another ppl only. That one word i want to hear from him is i'm proud of u. For that i will take steps. He is more that friend.. if he is silent for some reason i can't tolerate that. I used to cry like anything. Its cute when he fight with me when I'm coming late to home. He never use harsh words. Instead of that he will do like child he won't talk with me or sometimes he used to tease indirectly like i won't talk to ppl those who are coming late. Its really funny. But so cute. One time i said my frnds are teasing me sone extends he got angry and said how dare for them to tease my daughter hereafter if someone tease u i will talk in my manner like he said??while fighting he used to says that don't talk to me hereafter but reality is we can't maintain for that more hour. He sometimes forgets that talks normally. Even if he didn't talk i will make him talk. Usually i won't sorry to anyone. But in his case i will ready to say that without thinking a sec.while going shopping my sextion and his sextion is always same. He know my choice bttr than me. I used always get more things when i go with him.even sometimes in night study time he will wake up for me. even he doesn't have work he will do something. He used to prepare coffe for me. While I'm cooking he will suggest some tips to make ec. In morning study time he is alarm for me. Even he feels sleepy he tells to mom to make coffee for me. I feel happy for me. I can't say it in words abt his cares for me and my family. He is everythng to us.
是的，我爱我爸爸胜过一切。他是一个乐于助人的人。即使在我的学习中，当我得到较低的分数，他不会责骂，而不是他给主意，以获得好分数在下一个。他的计划和建议总是很棒。(我不能拒绝。)他对我关怀备至。我无法用语言来解释。他知道我怕黑，所以总是跟在我后面。我通常害怕像蛇、狗这样的动物。他说你想摆脱这种恐惧。并给出建议。现在当我看到这些东西的时候，不知怎么的，我能做到。最好的事情之一是，到目前为止，他没有代替我成为第一个，而是希望我是最好的。即使每个人都取笑我，我也不会说什么。但他说你想面对别人。他说，如果有人擅长取笑别人，那就展示出你擅长什么。他们将停止。但事实是这样的。他看不到我的悲伤。我以前总是对他微笑。当我难过的时候，没有一个人像他那样安慰我。他的优点之一是诚实。将来我想在性格和一切方面都像我爸爸。这是我的梦想之一。当我在第十课中取得好成绩时，他从来没有直接欣赏过我。他骄傲地只对别人说。我想从他那里听到的一句话是“我为你感到骄傲”，为了这个，我会采取措施。他更像是我的朋友。如果他因为某种原因保持沉默，我不能容忍。我以前哭得很厉害。当我回家晚了的时候，他和我打架，这很可爱。他从不说刺耳的话。相反，他会像个孩子一样，他不跟我说话，有时他会间接地取笑我不跟那些迟到的人说话。它真的很有趣。但是太可爱了。有一次我说我的朋友在取笑我，他很生气，说他们怎么敢再取笑我的女儿，如果有人取笑你，我会像他以他的说话方式一样用我的说话方式回应他。我和他吵架的时候，他说以后不要跟我说话了，但事实是，我们无法坚持一个小时了。他有时会忘记自己说过的话。即使他不说话，我也要让他说话，通常我不会向任何人道歉。但就他的情况而言，我会毫不犹豫地说出这句话。在购物时，我和他的选择总是一样的。他比我更了解我的选择。当我和他在一起的时候，我总是得到更多的东西。甚至有时候在晚上学习的时候，他也会为我醒来。即使他没有工作要做，他也会做些事情的。他以前常给我煮咖啡。当我做饭的时候，他会建议用一些烹饪技巧。在早上学习的时候，他叫我起床。即使他感到困倦，他也告诉妈妈为我煮咖啡。我为自己感到高兴。我无法用言语表达他对我和我家人的关心，他是我们的一切。
I reckon every single son or daughter in this world love their parents and I am a no exception.They are the reason why we got to see this beautiful world and it is more than enough reason to love your parents.
The quality of my dad which makes me love him a lot is that he is always beside me.He will always encourage me in whatever decision I take and will always back me up. He played a crucial role during my JEE preparation.
He ensured that I never felt too much pressure or expectations from them during my jee preparation.
He always encouraged me during my jee preparation days.When I would score less marks in test, he was the one who lifted me up and told me that one bad performance doesn't matter.
He made it clear that Jee was not the only option for me. He told me to prepare sincerely and leave the rest to almighty.If you have worked sincerely and with dedication, even if you don't get sexted, there is nothing too be sad about it,that's what he said to me during my jee preparation days. That always made me feel a bit relax.
He always has plan B ready incase plan A does not work. I remember he had fill online form of about 10 engineering institutes for me incase jee didn't work.
Even today if I don't do well in a subject in my college,he would not scold me but encourage me to do well in the next semester.He himself being an Engineer has helped me a lot as he knows how tough it is to get good pointers in exam .
He is the one who takes my side when I have an argument with my mom and tries to convince her even if the fault was mine.
He hardly scolds me and my sister( he has a lot of patience,another quality which I love about him) but also ensure that we donot get out of his hands.
In addition to this I love my dad because of his dedication to his work. He thinks about his work 24×7 and loves his job.( He hardly has time to spend with us and this irritates my mom a lot ).
My dad is my role model,my hero and I hope that I can become a dad like him.
I love you Papa.
我认为这个世界上的每一个儿女都爱他们的父母，我也不例外。他们是我们看到这个美丽世界的原因，也是要爱JEE你父母的充足理由。
我爸爸让我很爱他的品质是他总是在我身边。无论我做什么决定，他都会鼓励我，并且永远支持我。在我准备考试的过程中，他发挥了至关重要的作用。
他确保我在准备考试的过程中，不会感到太多压力或来自他们的期望。
在我准备的日子里，他总是鼓励我。当我在考试中得分较低时，是他鼓励我，一次糟糕的表现并不重要。
他明确表示，JEE考试不是我唯一的选择。他告诉我要认真地做好准备，其余的就交给全能的上帝吧。如果你工作得很真诚，很有奉献精神，即使你没有被选中，也没什么好伤心的，这是他在我准备考试的时候对我说的。这总是让我感到放松。
他总是准备好B计划以防A计划不起作用。我记得他在网上为我填写了10个工程学院的表格，以防万一。
即使是在今天，如果我在大学的某门课上做得不好，他也不会责骂我，而是鼓励我在下个学期好好学习。他自己作为一名工程师帮助了我很多，因为他知道在考试中得到好的指示是多么困难。
当我和妈妈争吵时，即使是我的错，他会站在我一边，他也会试图说服她。
他很少责骂我和我妹妹(他很有耐心，这是我喜欢他的另一个特点)，但也会确保我们不离开他的控制。
除此之外，因为他对工作的奉献,我爱我的爸爸。他一天24小时思考他的工作。(他几乎没有时间和我们在一起，这让我妈妈很生气)。
我的爸爸是我的榜样，我的英雄，我希望我能成为一个像爸爸一样的人。
我爱你，爸爸。