你爱她哪一点
What do you love about your woman?
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网友：事实上，他让我感到被爱和被需要，我经历了两段完全相反的糟糕的感情。一段感情是身体上和精神上被虐待和控制，而另一段感情最终变得漠不关心，他不愿意来见我，对我或我正在做的事情不感兴趣。这些是导致我的身份危机和依赖问题的部分原因......
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What do you love about your woman?
你爱你女人的哪一点?
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The fact that he makes me feel loved and wanted, I have been in two bad relationships that are completely polar opposite to each other. One relationship was physically and mentally abusive and controlling, while the other one turned out in the end to be as uncaring as it could be and the guy couldn’t be bothered to come see me or didn’t take interest in me or what I was doing. These relationships are part of what caused my identity crisis and dependency issues.
To be completely honest, my current relationship happened so fast and so close to the recent breakup that deep down inside I was convinced he was with me only for the sex. I was convinced that he only wanted to use me and leave, I questioned why he would go out with someone like me because he’s smart, athletic, tall, good looking and overall an amazing guy.
But he completely proved me wrong…
事实上，他让我感到被爱和被需要，我经历了两段完全相反的糟糕的感情。一段感情是身体上和精神上被虐待和控制，而另一段感情最终变得漠不关心，他不愿意来见我，对我或我正在做的事情不感兴趣。这些是导致我的身份危机和依赖问题的部分原因。
说实话，我现在的恋情开始得有点快，毕竟上次分手也没多久，以至于在内心深处我确信他和我在一起只是为了做爱。我确信他只是想利用我然后离开，我质疑为什么他会和像我这样的人约会，因为他聪明、健壮、高大、英俊，总体来说是个很棒的家伙。
但结构他证明我完全错了……
Another good thing is that he is probably going to read this! And if you are reading this, I appreciate everything you do and everything you’re doing and I hope we stay together forever, that’s my lifetime goal and wish. To be there for you through thick and thin, illness and health. I love you.
他像对待公主一样对待我，他关心我，确保我没事。他对我很温柔，不想伤害我，当我难过的时候，他会倾听我诉说，并试着让我高兴起来(这总是有效的，他总是让我笑)。他宠坏了我,他试图给我饮料和试图购买食物时,它总让我感觉不好,但它表明他真的想宠我,让我开心,不要误会,这不是单方面的，我也尽我所能宠坏他。在学校，当我沮丧或生气时，他让我睡在他的怀里，他是如此体贴。直到在学校的羽毛球俱乐部和我道别时，他吻了我的额头，我才意识到他就是我想要的一切。那时我们不在一起，但对我来说，这是我一整天都需要的东西。
另一件好事是他可能会读到这篇文章!如果你正在读这篇文章，我很感激你所做的一切，以及你所做的一切，我希望我们永远在一起，这是我一生的目标和愿望。与你同甘共苦，同病相怜。我爱你。
She is just a usual person.
She is nice, though not always. She asks questions that occasionally shake me up but I don’t mind, it’s kind of cool.
Although she speaks less but sometimes it’s tough for her to contain herself.
She likes to watch sunset, I think that is the only time her mind is empty.
I sometimes feel that she has trust issues, but hey, who doesn’t?
It feels good to be with someone you can sit silently with no urgency to chatter.
She ain’t perfect. But I feel, some day, she will be perfect for me.
When you got no partner, you are your own partner. Enjoy the relationship as this one is sure gonna stick till the end.
What were you thinking??
她只是个普通人。
她很好，尽管偶尔不好。她问的问题偶尔会让我震惊，但我不介意，有点酷。
她喜欢看日落，我想那是她唯一头脑空虚的时候。
我有时觉得她有信任问题，但谁没有呢？
和某人在一起感觉很好，你可以静静地坐着，不急着聊天。
她并不完美。但我觉得，总有一天，她会成为我的完美伴侣。
当你没有伴侣时，你就是你自己的伴侣。享受这段感情，因为这段感情肯定会坚持到最后。
你在想什么？
The greatest thing about being together for 20 years and married for 19 is that if you are lucky to get to this point, everyday is effortless. It has never gotten routine or boring, it is just fun and enjoyable. We are a perfect fit for each other, we are complete opposites. She is short and I am tall. She is liberal and I am conservative. She is cute and smoking hot and I am, well, less fat than I used to be. She is blind, so she doesn’t drive any of my cars and I get to drive everywhere. She stays at home with and takes care of the house and kids and I get to focus on work. She is more talkative and social and I am actually more introverted and enjoy listening. Really, it isn’t any one thing, it is EVERYTHING. I am a very lucky guy.
在一起20年，结婚19年的最大好处是，如果你幸运地走到这一步，每一天都会很轻松。让人不会觉得是例行公事或无聊，它只是有趣和享受。我们是一个完美的组合，我们是完全不同的。她个子矮，我个子高。她是自由派，而我是保守派。她很可爱、很性感而我，好吧，没有以前那么胖了。她是路痴，所以我的车她都不开，而我可以开车去任何地方。她在家照顾家庭和孩子，而我则专注于工作。她很健谈，更喜欢社交，而我实际上内向，更喜欢倾听。我真的是一个非常幸运的人。
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the way she sees the world and things around us and how she deal with them.
I like girl with her mission in life and how she approaches it, the more she takes life seriously and the more she have passion in her goals and dreams the more i like her because by doing this she also motivates me approaching my goals.
I see my partner as a supporter that helps me not someone that makes trouble from every single piece of shit of our conversation.
relationships are simpler than most of us approaches it i see most girls take it as battle or a game to win but it’s not like that it’s just a win win situation and the more you love your partner the more you care the more she/he loves you back
我爱这一点：她看待我们周围世界和事物的方式，以及她如何处理它们。
我喜欢有使命感的女孩，她对待生活的态度越认真，对自己的目标和梦想越有激情，我就越喜欢她，因为她这样做也会激励我接近自己的目标。
我把我的搭档看作是一个帮助我的支持者，而不是一个给我们的每一次谈话制造麻烦的人。
恋爱比我们大多数人都要简单，我看到大多数女孩都把它当作一场战斗或一场游戏并要赢得胜利，但这并不意味着是一个双赢的局面，因为你越爱你的伴侣，你就越关心她/他，她/他也就越爱你
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What I love most about my wife I love her eyes, her smile, her face, her hair, her neck, her hands and feet. I love her shape and style, the sound of her voice, her love for Jesus and our children and grandchildren. I love her work ethic and her somewhat OCD ways she keeps our house in order. I love her creativity and her athletic ability. I love that she is strong and tender, firm yet loving. I love that she loves me and that she said yes to me some 38 years ago to be my wife. These are just a few things I can rattle off the top of my head. There is much more but this is a good start.
我最爱的是我的妻子，顺便说一句，我爱她的眼睛，她的微笑，她的脸，她的头发，她的脖子，她的手和脚。我爱她的外形和风格，她的声音，她对耶稣和我们的子孙的爱。我喜欢她的职业道德和她有点强迫症的方式，她让我们的房子井井有条。我喜欢她的创造力和运动能力。
我爱她坚强而温柔，坚定而富有爱心。我爱她，因为她爱我，她在38年前答应嫁给我做我的妻子。这些只是我能脱口而出的几件事。还有很多，但这是一个好的开始。
What I love most about my boyfriend, Roland.
That’s a hard question.
It could be that he is always very happy and obviously excited to see our daughter. He always hugs her and kisses her and makes her feel happy and loved.
It could be that whenever we have sex, he always makes sure I get satisfied first.
It could be that we can have heated but not arguing discussions about Star Wars, something we’re both passionate about.
It could be that he is trying so very hard to progress past his anger issues and his anti-social personality disorder because he wants to be my boyfriend more than anything.
It could be that he wants me to be healthy and helps me to push past my insecurities to eat healthy and to be a better role model for our daughter.
It could be any of these things, but most of all the thing I love most about my boyfriend is him. That he is unfailingly, faithfully and unapologetically him.
我最喜欢我男朋友罗兰的地方。
这是个挺难回答的问题。
可能是他见到我们的女儿总是很高兴，很明显会兴奋。他总是拥抱她，亲吻她，让她感到幸福和被爱。
可能我们做爱的时候，他总是先让我满意。
可能是因为我们可以就星球大战展开激烈但不争论的讨论，这是我们都很热衷的事情。
这可能是因为他非常努力地克服自己的愤怒和反社会人格障碍，因为他更想成为我的男朋友。
可能是他希望我健康，帮助我克服不安全感，有健康饮食习惯，成为女儿更好的榜样。
可能是这其中的任何一个，但我最爱我男朋友的东西：他始终如一，忠诚不悔。
Some things I have learned to love since being a teen.
I love that she trusts me enough to ask me questions. Anything really. I’ve learned to appreciate it.
I love that she is such a positive and caring person.
I love that she has made me a better person.
I love that I used to be able to say that she made me want to be a better person.
I definitely love that she enjoys cooking ;)
I love that she has a habit of making the best out of a situation.
I love that she makes me think sometimes.
I love that now I can totally believe that life is better everyday, and not worry about it.
I love that I have been able to learn how to help others and not feel like I am constantly exhausted.
Should I go on? I’m sure I can think of more.
我从青少年时期就学会如何定义喜欢了。
我爱她信任我、问我问题，啥都可以。我已经学会了欣赏它。
我爱她是这样一个积极和有爱心的人。
我爱她让我变得更好。
我爱她，我曾经能够说她让我想成为一个更好的人。
我非常爱她，她喜欢烹饪。
我爱她有个习惯，就是凡事尽力而为。
我爱她有时让我思考。
我爱现在我可以完全相信生活每天都比昨天好了，而且不用担心。
我爱自己能够学会如何帮助别人，而且不会觉得自己总是疲惫不堪。
我应该继续说吗?我肯定还能想到更多。
He is down-to-earth, hardworking, ambitious, kind, funny and family oriented. He has a sense of calmness that makes me feel comfortable around him.
We share a number of same interests in terms of hobbies and personal values. Our personalities are quite similar as well. We are both ENFPs and ambiverts, enjoying a fun day out or chilling at home watching movies.
The little things he does makes my heart flutter - The way his gaze lingers tenderly with mine, the small smile he gives me whenever I look at him, and the way he touches my hand and put his arms around my waist.
Most of all, he makes me a better version of myself. Having struggling with motivation, his determination and drive in life makes me strive to be more accomplished to achieve my goals.
他脚踏实地，勤奋，有抱负，善良，风趣，顾家。让我在他身边感到很舒服，能给我一种平静的感觉。
我们在爱好和个人价值观方面有许多共同点。我们的性格也很相似。我们都是一个积极乐观的人，喜欢在外面玩一天或者在家看电影。
他做的每一件小事都让我的心怦怦直跳—每当我看着他时，他给我的微笑，他抚摸我的手，搂住我的腰的方式、他温柔的目光都停留在我的脑海里。
最重要的是，他让我变成了更好的自己。与行动力做斗争后，他的决心和动力在生活中使我努力实现我的目标。
I love my wife’s heart and soul. She is kind and caring to others and doesn’t take care of herself as much as she does others. I love my wife’s mind. She is smarter than she will take credit for about many subjects. I love my wife’s body. Her eyes, her boobs, her butt, and her hands. That was the 1st thing i noticed but i talked to her and found out about her heart and soul. After the 1st date i knew, I’m marrying her!!
我全心全意地爱我的妻子。她很善良，对别人很关心，甚至她照顾别人的程度和照顾自己的程度是不同的。我爱我妻子的思想。她在很多科目上都比别人认为的要懂得多。我爱我妻子的身体。她的眼睛，胸部，臀部，还有她的手。这是我首先注意到的，但我和她交谈，了解她的心和灵魂、自从第一次约会之后，我就要娶她了!
He called me today and said he was tired of waiting and we needed to get married and start living together.
“We should ask your family what they think first,” I said, feeling suddenly nervous and knowing my stalling techniques for him pretty well.
“I’ve decided this. They’re waiting for me to tell them.”
And that’s the first time in all my years of knowing him that he hasn’t deferred a decision or sought counsel.
他今天打电话给我，说他等得不耐烦了，我们需要结婚，开始同居。
“我们应该先问问你的家人是怎么想的，”我说。我突然感到紧张，也很娴熟的用我的拖延技巧。
“我决定就行。他们就等着我告诉他们。”
这是我认识他这么多年来第一次他没有推迟决定或寻求建议。
He loves me for me. He doesn't want me to be anyone other than me and always encourages me to be myself and to only care about what's in my own heart, not worry about what anyone else is thinking or wants me to do.
He supports me and cares for me and our children and wants nothing more in life than for us to be happy.
He is an amazing father and husband, he has a kind heart and the best sense of humour ever.
He is always there for me and he is my absolute world.
他因我是我而爱我。他不希望我成为别人，他总是鼓励我做我自己，只关心我自己的内心，不要管别人的想法或想让我做什么。
他支持我，关心我和我们的孩子，在生活中他只想让我们幸福。
他是一个了不起的父亲和丈夫，他有一颗善良的心和最好的幽默感。
他永远在我身边，他是我的绝对世界。
I think my husband is incredibly sexy, but sex isn't the most important part of a marriage. I love the way he held my hand through the streets of Morocco. He was proud of me. I love the way he would stop and give me a beautiful sexy smile in the middle of a soccer game. I love the way he would let me put my head on his shoulder.
我觉得我的丈夫性能力很棒，但性并不是婚姻中最重要的部分。我喜欢他牵着我的手走过摩洛哥的街道。他以我为荣。我喜欢他在足球比赛中间停下来，给我一个美丽性感的微笑。我喜欢他让我把头靠在他肩膀上的样子。
Well i would have to say, what i love most about her is well everything about her. I can't simply choose one or two things.
I love all of her.
She's has a sweet and kind and thoughtful personality, i love that part of her, it makes her an amazing person go be around.
Her kind heart..always putting others before herself, even though i wish sometimes she didn't i still love this part of her.
The way she acts like a kid sometimes is just so cute… I love it.
Her smile is just amazing and lights up the room. Melts my heart when i see her smile.
Her pretty blue eyes… so beautiful they are breath taking. I could get lost in them forever…
Her red hair… Just fits her perfectly.
Her laugh… So real and odd, she has many but all are cute and it's just amazing to hear…my heart melts when i hear it.
There is nothing i don't like about her. Shes perfect to me and i wouldn't change a single thing about her, i can't choose a favorite nor can i choose a least favorite. I love everything about her the same. I'm lucky to have her. She means everything to me and just i couldn't love her or anything about her more.
我不得不说，我最爱她的是她的一切，无法简单地选择一两件事来说。
我爱她的全部。
她有一个甜美、善良和体贴的性格，我喜欢她的这一部分，她在周围人之中算是个令人惊叹的人。
她心地善良，总是把别人看得比自己重要，即使有时我希望她不是这样，但我仍然爱她的这一部分。
她有时表现得像个孩子，真是太可爱了，我爱这一点。
她迷人的微笑能把整个房间都照亮。当我看到她的微笑时，我的心都融化了。
她漂亮的蓝眼睛，美得令人窒息。我可能会永远迷失在它们之中。
她的红头发非常适合她。
她的笑声真实又古怪，她的笑声听起来很美妙，我的心都融化了。
我没有什么不喜欢她的。她在我看来很完美，我不会改变她的任何一点，我不能选择最喜欢的，也不能选择最不喜欢的。我还是爱她的一切。我很幸运能拥有她。她是我的一切，我爱她爱到极致。
Well, Here's a few of the more usual suspects:
Old fashioned gender roles: The woman makes the man feel like a man, virile, like an overall good person. It can feel like a natural high, and who wouldn't want a feeling like that as often as possible, eh? Excuse me for a minute. My wife needs me to open a jar of pickles.
The woman is a good cook. Yup. Some guys let their stomach do their deciding for them. Simple as that.
The woman has a spark of something you can't quite name, but you really like it.
Being a fan of sex helps. I'm not gonna lie. For some guys, a steady supply of it can be all it takes to win his…ahem…heart.
The way she smiles, laughs, and even cries. The way a woman chooses to express herself is one of the most endearing ways to capture a man's heart. It's something that can be witnessed by all the senses, and so it is very effective.
以下是一些比较常见的方面:
传统性别角度:女人让男人觉得自己像个男人，有男子气概，整体上是个不错的人。很自然的让人有好感，谁不想尽可能多地享受这种感觉呢，嗯?失陪一下。我妻子要我开一罐泡菜。
这个女人是个好厨师，有些人让他们的胃为他们做决定，就这么简单。
这个女人有一种莫名的气场，让你真的喜欢它。
作为一个性爱好者是有帮助的。我不想撒谎。对一些男人来说，稳定的性爱可以赢得他的心。
她微笑，大笑，甚至哭泣的样子。女人表达自己的方式是最能俘获男人心的方式之一。并且能调动你所有的感官，而且非常有效。
I watched a video a few years ago and they asked the man ““what made you want to marry her?”
He gave a few of the obvious answers but the REAL one surfaced.
“She made me love myself more… just with her presence. By who SHE WAS.”
I dated someone that knew me since I was 12. But between 18–48 didn’t speak. I didn’t even like him. Was shocked to find out he did me all those years.
When I got divorced over a years time he asked me if he could cook me dinner 3 times. Two I didn’t even respond to. The third I went because of curiosity I guess. I had zero expectations. But was open to fun. As a friend.
When he opened the door I knew I was stepping into the best night ever. It was a strange but cool experience. Like the matrix.
It was so obvious the love he put into that night. He even had on my favorite music my deceased brother and I listened to in 78–84.
But even better I could FEEL it. And that he enjoyed putting it together. I felt his hopes in it.
几年前我看了一个视频，他们问这个男人:“你为什么想娶她?”
他给出了一些似是而非的答案，但真正的答案呼出欲出。
“她让我更爱自己……只是因为她的存在。”她是谁? "
我和一个从12岁就认识我的人约会，但是18-48岁之间没有说话。我甚至不喜欢他。他这么多年来一直在对我做的事感到震惊。
当我离婚超过一年的时候，他问我三次他是否可以给我做晚餐。前两次我都没答应。第三次我去是因为好奇。我没有任何期望，但作为一个朋友，却很开心。
当他打开门的时候，我知道我将走进有史以来最棒的夜晚。这是一种奇怪但很酷的体验。
很明显那晚他是带着爱的。他甚至还放了我最喜欢的音乐，我和我已故的哥哥在78-84年都一直在听它。
我以前也有过这种感觉。为人们准备一段美好的时光。
He treated me like I was at a five star restaurant that night. Pulled my chair. Served me. It was so fun watching him ““glow.”
Then he started talking about my dad. My dad was the most respected farmer in the area. Maybe state. But even more for the moral man he was.
Integrity. Great sense of humor. Generous.
He apparently really adored my family. It shocked me. I never really paid attention to him because he was a bully to others growing up. He admitted it.
In reality our family wasn’t as loving as he believed.
By listening to him he helped me appreciate the good things. Even stuff that was hard. Through his eyes. Heal. Forgive my mother. Forgive myself even.
He knew things about me I couldn’t understand how he knew. I laughed and said ““were you stalking me or something?” It was curious and fun.
He treats me with the respect I deserve but don’t speak about. He loved the things that I worked hard to achieve. For example my home. I do all my own landscaping and a lot of remodeling because my dad taught me. But still feminine.
If you ever are in a situation like that and you don’t act on the sexual attraction portion.
他那天晚上让我感觉像待在五星级餐厅一样。拉开我的椅子、为我服务。看着他“发光”真是太有趣了
然后他开始谈论我爸爸。我爸爸是这个地区最受尊敬的农民。但更重要的是，他是一个有道德的人：正直。很幽默。慷慨大方。
他显然很喜欢我的家人。让我很震惊。我从来没有真正注意过他，因为他在成长过程中一直欺负别人。他也承认这个。
事实上，我们的家庭并不像他认为的那样充满爱。
通过听他说话，他帮助我欣赏美好的事物。即使是困难的事情。通过他的眼睛让我原谅我的母亲以及原谅自己。
他知道我的事，我不明白他是怎么知道的。我笑着说"你是在跟踪我吗"既好奇又有趣。
他以我应得的尊重待我，但不说。他喜欢我努力工作得到的东西。例如我的家。尽管我是女性，但我自己做园林美化和装修，因为我爸爸教过我。
如果你曾经处于这样的情况，你是不会对那么快想到性上面去的。
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