你所收到并愿意传递的最好的建议是什么
What is the best advice you''ve ever received and are willing to pass on?
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网友：我收到的一些建议已经改变了我的生活！你可以拥有一切，只是不能同时拥有一切。这句话很直白，让你放松，你可以拥有你想要的一切，只是不是一下子而已。但你绝对可以拥有一切......
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What is the best advice you've ever received and are willing to pass on?
你所收到并愿意传递的最好的建议是什么?
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There are a few that I have received that have been life transforming!
You can have it all, just not all at the same time.
This statement is so freeing and puts you at ease in a way that relax you can have everything you want, just not all at once. But you can definitely have it all!
Action drives Behavior
Contrary to popular belief that it is our behavior that leads to us taking action, it is in fact our actions that will change our behaviors. Often when you want to change a habit, taking the right action despite not feeling like it, is a vote to what kind of behavior you want to have which in turn shapes our Identity and Personality. When we keep doing a certain action everyday, we tend to relate as a person who does this. For example if we began to run every morning, After a certain number of days we will start to think of ourselves being a runner and hence our behaviors will reflect that.
A committed decision is all you require for something to materialize
我收到的一些建议已经改变了我的生活！
你可以拥有一切，只是不能同时拥有一切。
这句话很直白，让你放松，你可以拥有你想要的一切，只是不是一下子而已。但你绝对可以拥有一切！
行动驱动行为
与普遍认为我们的行为决定我们采取行动相反，事实上是我们的行为改变了我们的行为。通常，当你想改变一个习惯，尽管不喜欢它，采取正确的行动就行，什么样的行为是你想拥有的，进而塑造我们的身份和个性。当我们每天都在做某件事的时候，我们倾向于认为自己是做这件事的人来被联系。例如，如果我们每天早上开始跑步，经过一定的天数后，我们会开始认为自己是一个跑步者，因此我们的行为会反映这一点。
一个坚定的决定就是你所需要的一切
Being Vulnerable is the single greatest act of courage one can perform
Vulnerability is often considered to be a weakness. Hence everyone runs away from it. The truth is the opposite. Vulnerability is an act of Courage. Showing up into the arena and getting your ass kicked is really difficult and hard. What we need to understand that if we don’t show up, we can’t truly love, be loved, belong and discover our greatness. That is why showing up despite the fact that you could get hurt bad is an act of courage!
我们常常倾向于推迟行动和计划，直到我们有足够的钱，足够的时间，足够的人脉等等，而这些都不是必需的。唯一的先决条件是坚定的决定。一旦你做到了，时间，金钱，人，任何你认为你需要的东西都会逐步到位，因为现在你已经为他们创造了有用的东西。坐着等他们就行，，一旦你还没有为他们创造一个用途，他们永远不会来找你。例如，你推迟了买房的决定，直到你有足够的钱，但事实是，直到你作出购买特定房子的决定，你发现钱不是决定因素，因此它将是如此难以捉摸！
脆弱是一个人所能表现出的最大的勇气
脆弱性通常被认为是一个弱点。所以大家都逃避它。事实恰恰相反。脆弱是勇气的表现。在竞技场上被踢屁股真的很难面对的事。我们需要明白的是，如果我们不出现，我们就不能真正地去爱、被爱和发现我们的伟大。这就是为什么尽管你可能会受伤，但你还是要表现出勇气！
Thanks for the request! My dear friend.
Let me tell you a story. A great story that will give you a greatest life lessons. So here we go…..
Sonu & monu they are the best friends of their childhood. They lived in a same village. They trust each other, they like each other, they help each other & they love each other.
They are going to the same school & after the school time, in their home they were spend their time with each other. Time passes on & their love, trust increases on.
Sonu is a honest & a simple boy but monu is smart & change himself according to the time. Monu advises Sonu that world is not honest & people changes according to the time.
But his mind was not able to understand this because he has no self-respect, self awareness, confidence on himself & he doesn't thing that he is a capable of anything.
They are pass out their 10th & now the life will going to be change. When they are going to the class 11th monu changed. He cheated his best friend Sonu & Sonu trusted him so monu says sonu I will be giving you a second hand class 11th book so be ready.
Monu manages the books & tell Sonu that these books prise is just 1100 RS so do you want it. He says, yes! I trust you. But the thing is some books prise was not written in that book but after that unfortunately! He again trust him blindly.
谢谢你的请求(提供意见)！我亲爱的朋友。
让我给你讲个故事。一个伟大的故事，将给你一个伟大的人生教训。他们在童年时候是最好的朋友。他们住在同一个村庄。他们互相信任，彼此喜欢，互相帮助以及互相爱对方。
他们要去同一所学校，放学后以及在家里，他们在一起度过了时间。时间流逝，他们的爱，信任不断增加。
索努是个诚实的男孩，但蒙努很聪明，并根据时间改变自己。蒙努建议索努，世界不诚实，人心是会变化的。
但是他的头脑无法理解这一点，因为他没有自尊和自我意识，也不自信，他不认为自己是一个有能力的人。
他们已经度过了第10个年头，现在生活将改变。当他们去第11班的时候，他们改变了。他欺骗了他的好朋友索努，索努信任他，所以当蒙努说我会给你一本二手的第11班的书。
蒙努管理着这些书，告诉索努，这些书的价格只有1100卢比，你想要它吗。他说想要，我相信你。
His father also says don't trust him! But he doesn't listen his father's advise. After that he buy the book.
After that time Sonu recognised that is friend was cheated him. He can't believe but that's the truth. Destiny give the lots of hints to the Sonu but he couldn't recognise.
But his behaviour not so much change after that incident. He doesn't give the importance for his self respect. He cares alot that what the people says about him.
Time passes on and his classmates makes fun of him. But he didn't care about his self respect and he was thinking that if I am going to take any action against them so I lose my friend.
He doesn't know the true definition of the friendship. He was mentally harassed by their classmates in their schools 2 year. When the Life OK same then he can understand that what is the definition of self respect, it doesn't matter what the people says about you.
After that to hear you understand the true meaning of life and importance of life. Now he can understand the the what is the importance of his self respect, his self awareness, his confidence in his life.
Now! he is a matured person and understand the life very well.
放学后，当他的一个同学说不要买书，给他一些暗示，但他不明白。
他父亲也说不要相信他！但他不听父亲的劝告，之后他买了这本书。
那以后，索努认出是被朋友欺骗了。他不敢相信，但事实就是这样。命运给了索努许多暗示，但他记不住。
但在那次事件之后，他的行为并没有发生太大的变化。他不重视自己的自尊。他非常关心人们对他的评价。
时间一天天过去，他的同学们取笑他。但他不在乎自己的自尊，他在想，如果我要对他们采取任何行动，我就失去了我的朋友。
他不知道友谊的真正定义。他在学校的2年里受到同学精神上的骚扰。当生活还过得去的时候，他理解自尊的定义是人们对你说什么并不重要。
在那之后你才明白了生命的真正意义和生命的重要性。现在他可以理解什么是他的自尊，他的自我意识，他对生活的信心的重要性。
现在！他是一个成熟的人，对生活很了解。
· Don't trust anyone blindly
· Be a confident person
· Self respect self awareness self confidence is really important thing in our life
· Do not think so much that what the people says about you just think about those thing that is good for you
· Believe in yourself
· Listen your parents advice and give first priority of them
· Your friends are temporary, they exist one day
· Love yourself the most not anyone
· Recognise the hands of your destiny that what what will your destiny want to tell you
· Change yourself according to the time
· All the persons in your life exist one day
· Money matters a lot
· Trying to do your work most of the time alone, don't take anybody's help every time.
This is the life lessons that is best for you and they will help you do for becoming the successful.
所以现在我要告诉你，什么是最好的建议：
不要盲目地信任任何人；
成为一个自信的人；
自尊、自我意识、自信在我们的生活中确实是重要的；
不要太多地思考别人对你的看法，只考虑那些对你有利的事情；
相信自己；
听取父母的建议，并优先考虑他们的意见；
你的朋友是临时的；
爱自己，而不是其他任何人；
根据时间改变自己；
金钱很重要；
尽量独自完成工作，不要每次都得到任何人的帮助。
这是对你最好的人生的教训，他们将帮助你成为成功。
Backstory: So I was giving my H.S.C. I was attending tution for that. But unfortunately the tution which I sexted was not good. She(my teacher) rarely use to clear my concepts, infact she use to ask me to mentor students of younger age. I decided not to share this to my parents because we already paid fees in advance and thus don’t wanted to trouble my parents. Okay, if you think I did wrong on first hand than it’s not that simple. I have 2 brothers and they both are mentally retarded, we were facing financial crisis those days, my parents were already tensed those days and they have been worried since ages for my brothers and thus I didn’t wanted to trouble them more. This continued long and it only got worse. Finally, I decided to share this to my parents but I think I was more than late. It was only 20 days left for my exams(As I am not an on-time preparer so I think 20 days for me is….unimaginable).The first thing they did was to make me leave that tution. Even though they complained but as per my expection we didn’t got a single penny back(ofcourse it was my fault), also financially we were not that stable to take another tution. My board exams were near. I was tensed those days thinking about,
What if I fail?
How will my parents react to this?
What will happen to my future?
What will happen to my family then?
背景故事：我有次机会进入“H.S.C”。为此我报了个辅导客。但不幸的是，我选择的家教不好。她（我的老师）很少给我澄清概念，事实上她还要求我指导较年轻的学生。我决定不把这个说给我父母知道，因为我们已经预付了费用，所以不想给我父母添麻烦。好吧，如果你认为我第一选择就做错了，其实要做决定没那么简单。我有两个兄弟，他们都是弱智，我们面临着金融危机，我的父母已经紧紧张张的过日子，他们一直担心我的兄弟，所以我不想麻烦他们。这种情况持续了很长时间，变得越来越糟。最后，我决定把这个分享给我的父母，但我想可能来不及了。考试只剩下20天了（因为我不是一个按时备考的人，所以我认为20天对我来说是难以想象的），他们做的第一件事就是让我离开辅导班。尽管他们抱怨，但按照我的预期，我们一分钱也没有拿回来（当然这是我的错），而且我们的经济状况也不太稳定，不能再接受一次辅导。我的考核日期快到了。那些日子我很紧张，
如果我失败了怎么办？
我父母对此有何反应？
我的未来会怎样？
那我的家人会怎么样？
因为我是个内向的人，我以前只有一个朋友（同学），但她家离我有点远。我问她是否能在学习上帮助我。她说她会的，但我得去她家。我把这个告诉我父母。我父亲说他会每天送我去她家。我父亲每天都送我去那里（他是我的英雄）。我在她家学习了大约15天。我非常感谢我的朋友，那些天她真的帮了我很多。尽管我得到了她的帮助，我还是不抱希望。我慢慢地放弃了想法，不管怎样我都会失败。我妈妈不知道怎么回事猜出来了我的想法。也许她感觉到了。我仍然记得她每天微笑着对我说的话：“眼睛（看到的）可能会让你害怕，但孩子的手可能不会。你可能认为这是不可能的，但一旦你开始这样做，你永远不知道明天会有什么。别担心，这只是一个考试。”。我决定不再多想了，尽了最大努力。我还记得考试前一天，我真的在发抖，我很害怕。考试那天（第一天），我父母祝我好运，并试图夸耀我的信心。他们满怀希望。我决定不让他们失望，面对现实。我的得分（正确率）是64.34%，我当时很高兴，我的父母比我自己更支持我，我非常感谢有这么支持我的父母。
It was one of the week days. I was complaining about what happened to me that day. I kept saying this to my friend in a phone call. Then she inquired, Do you have a plan for tomorrow? I'm confused and asked what about tomorrow? She laughed then inquired so you don't have any plan for tomorrow ? i confirmed yes.
Then why are you expecting to something happen just because you want it to happen? and she said like this,
Time is like a express train. It will pace to other end so fast. If you want to reach any other place you only should step in and travel and explore. Stop standing at the same place and complaining about other passengers.
and ended up saying, go with a flow. It's not wrong. But make a plan and go with that flow. If you are not ready to push yourself first some events or situations will be created automatically at that time don't regret.
I found helpful.
这是一周中的一天。我在抱怨那天发生在我身上的事。我一直在电话里对我的朋友说这些。然后她问，你明天有计划吗？我很困惑，问明天干嘛？她笑了，然后问：你明天没有什么计划？我确认是的。
那你为什么仅仅因为希望事情发生就期望它发生呢？她这样说，
时间就像一列快车。它会很快地走向另一端。如果你想到达任何其他地方，你只需要踏进去旅行和探索，不应该站在同一个地方抱怨其他乘客。
最后说顺其自然就好。但是，得制定一个计划，并按照这个流程去做。如果你还没有准备好推动自己前进，一些事件或情况是会自动发生的，不要后悔。
我觉得这很有用。
Hi.
The best advice I have ever received is not from the philosophy books or from the mouth of the talks by one of the motivational speakers or during a Ted talk or that sort. Nope.
My best advice is “Never argue with idiots. They bring you down to their own level and beat you with experience.” It was said by comedian George Carlin and is one of the most apt ones. If you ever find yourself in a situation where you are arguing, you are right and the other person is hell bent on proving you wrong, you will find the use of this advice. Unless you are a lawyer, of course.
Always remember that if you are arguing with an idiot, there is no use of losing your worth. Simply accept what they are saying and move on. Be it personal life or professional life, always know your opponent before throwing yourself into an argument. Always value your time and avoid any unwanted scuffle.
你好。
我所收到的最好的建议不是来自哲学书籍，也不是来自某位励志演讲者的演讲，更不是来自Ted演讲或诸如此类的演讲。最好的建议是“不要和白痴争论。喜剧演员乔治·卡林说：“他们把你带到自己的水平，用经验打败你。”。如果你发现自己处于一种争论中，你是对的，而另一个人却执意要证明你错了时候，你会发现这个建议是有用的。当然，除非你是律师。
永远记住，如果你和一个白痴争论，是没有用的。简单地接受他们所说的，然后继续前进。无论是个人生活还是职业生活，在与人争论之前，一定要了解你的对手。总是珍惜你的时间，避免任何不必要的混战。
Don’t let fear grip you
Work then play
Don’t let best get in the way of better
Plan for success
Let the shovel do the work
“Happy wife, Happy Life”
Look after myself, so there would be one less scoundrel in the world.
All material obxts fade and rust, no matter how they glitter.
It takes 30 days to make a habit and three days to break one.
Die with memories, not dreams
If you are going to be a bear, be a grizzly.
Tell the truth in the first place and you won’thave to remember what you said.
If you have an idea and everyone says it’s a great idea, everyone, it’s not a great idea. When you hear that will never work, no one has ever asked for that, or my favorite, we can’t do that, that would change everything. Then you might have something worth fighting for.
不要让恐惧控制你
先工作后娱乐
别让最好的阻碍了更好的（选项）
计划成功
让铲子来干活（利用工具）
“幸福的妻子，幸福的生活”
好好照顾我自己，这样世界上就少了一个无赖。
所有的实物都会褪色生锈，不管它们如何闪闪发光。
养成一个习惯需要30天，改掉一个习惯需要3天。
带着回忆而不是梦想死去
如果你想成为一只熊，那就做一只灰熊吧。
如果你一开始就说实话，你就不必记住你说过的话了。
如果你有一个想法，每个人都说这是一个伟大的想法，那么这不是一个伟大的想法。
当你听说这永远行不通，从来没有人要求这样做过，或者我最喜欢的人也一样，那我们不能听他们的，这样你就有值得为之奋斗的东西了。
Hi, that is a beautiful question. Thank you for the request to answer. It is however a very deep question;
It is to observe nothing (but for the initial sight) of/from the ‘mortal’ two eyes we perceive.
Only thru the thing that ‘teases as the ‘3rd eye mystery’ can a holy value ever really be seen.
That 3rd eye is not mortally visible . . . but it sees thru a ‘purified’ heart and soul only.
To mystics, it is known as the 3rd eye; to the Jews it is known as the ‘inner fire’; to those who follow Yahshua Hamashiach . .
So you can now understand; No, it’s not like one of those little ‘word teasing’ slips, baked inside a fortune cookie.
At times it is perceived as difficult to solve as a ‘rubix cube’,
Hey, you have a great day
嗨，这是个很好的问题。谢谢你的提问。然而，这是一个非常深奥的问题。
它是我们“凡人”所两只眼睛观察不到的
只有通过被戏称为“第三眼之谜”的东西，才能真正看到神圣的价值。
第三只眼睛是看不见的。但它只看穿了一颗纯净的心和灵魂。
对神秘主义者来说，它被称为第三只眼；对犹太人来说，它被称为“内在之火”；
所以你现在可以理解了；这不像是在幸运饼里烤的那种文字游戏的小纸条。
有时它被认为是很难解决的一个'魔方。
嘿，祝你今天愉快。
The best advice i want to pass is the one that i haven't received from anyone but i have experienced it in my own life and took a great lesson from it.
Here it is : Never get too much attached to anyone. Anyone means anyone. You never know when they will betray you. That thing hurts us tremendously and brake us and also it shakes our self confidence.
Alway be friend and remain in contact but never ever get attached to someone. It's s not easy to overcome and accept. That betrayal feeling gives tremendous pain and gives birth to more problems. I faced it, suffered it and understood it.
我想传递的最好的建议是我从未从任何人那里得到过的，但我在自己的生活中经历过，并从中得到了很好的教训。
就是这样：永远不要对任何人有太多的依恋。任何人都意味着其他。你永远不知道他们什么时候会背叛你。这件事会伤害了我们，也动摇了我们的自信。
永远和朋友保持联系，但永远不要依恋一个人。克服和接受它并不容易。这种背叛的感觉会带来巨大的痛苦，也会产生更多的问题。我面对它，忍受它，理解它。
Sharing and giving nature is one of the greatest virtue any human can ever have to led the growth in his/her life,by this very proven fact it's a great advice that I want to pass on.sharing knowledge on quora and thinking and seeing things through different perspective meanwhile helping me to increase my deep level thinking.
It goes similarly in life as well,what you put in it's comes around in many fold.
For example,I bow a seed of mango and it grow up after while it gives me several mangos.
Think it in every manner.
So the fact of matter is give something good and receive so many things in return.
I do.
学会分享和给予是能引领任何人的生命成长的最伟大的美德之一，这是一个我想传递的非常好的建议，从不同的角度思考和看待事物，同时帮助我进行深层次思考。
在生活中也是如此，你放进去的东西有很多方面。
例如，我亲手种下芒果种子，它长大后，而它给了我几个芒果。
所以，事实是给予美好的东西，并得到许多东西作为回报。
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People get so many advice in their life time i also got , but no one gave me any crucial advice that i can share .The best advice i received from my own experience is “Never expect too much from others” . If you do good for someone then don’t expect that good will come to you in return. Life is not a business transactions in which there is always equal give and take. If we think it so then we only hurt ourselves. So whatever you want to do whether to help others or any other thing, do that by your own heart without expecting the same in return.
人们在他们的一生中得到了很多建议，我也得到了，但是没有人给我任何重要的建议，我可以分享。我从自己的经历中得到的最好的建议是“不要对别人期望太高”。如果你为某人做了好事，那就不要指望会报答你。生活不是一个总是平等的给予和索取的商业交易。如果我们这么想，那么我们只会伤害自己。所以，无论你想做什么，无论是帮助别人还是做其他事情，都要用心去做，不要期望得到同样的回报。
“If you don't have little bit of perv inside you then you are not going learn anything”
“Hard work, hard work and hard work is the only way for success but one obstacles still stands it's way is bull headed approach, you should be able to adapt according to the situation while doing the hardwork”
“This is not a perfect world, this is not a grey world either, reality is consist of black, white, grey and unexplained, unseen colors, remember this world isn't bad either because otherwise it would become a perfectly bad world”
“Don't be a good guy or a bad guy just be a realistic adaptable guy”
“Good and bad is a theory created by human beings to explain the world around them most simplistically, this reality is way more complex than any theory”
“A little bit arrogance is a good thing, it will help you get yourself up when you are completely down and out”
“Don't have a single role model because that person isn't perfect, otherwise he or she would become God, open your eyes and ears and take things from people which are useful to you, the more people here, the better it is for you”
“Don't think about things that is beyond your control instead concentrate on things that you can control”
“If you want to be mentally strong and confident then don't depend on other people, do everything by yourself and I mean everything”
“Do you want to know the secret of killer instinct? It is fitness. The more you conditioned your body, the more unending energy you have which invariably would help you want to win everytime without getting tired”
如果你内心不是执着的，那你就什么也学不到；
努力工作是取得成功的唯一途径，但有一个障碍仍然存在，那就是固执的方法，在努力工作的同时，你应该能够适应形势
这不是一个完美的世界，这也不是一个灰色的世界，现实是由黑、白、灰和无法解释的、看不见的颜色组成的，记住这个世界也不坏，否则它会变成一个完美的坏世界；
不要做好人或坏人，做一个现实的人；
好与坏是人类创造的一种理论，用来最简单地解释周围的世界，这种现实比任何理论都要复杂得多；
有点自大是件好事，当你完全情绪低落时，它会帮助你振作起来；
不要去想你无法控制的事情，而要把注意力集中在你可以控制的事情上；
如果你想变得坚强自信，那就不要依赖别人，一切都要自己做，我是说一切；
你想知道杀手本能的秘密吗？这就是健身。你的身体锻炼得越好，你就越有无穷的精力，这无一例外地会帮助你赢得每一次比赛而不会感到疲倦。