生活中有哪些苦涩的道理？（1）

No matter how hard you try to bring equality in world, it's not going to happen because we are born different. We dont do the same things why expect equality?
Life is always unfair, some complain about money, relationships, society etc. Dont expect everything to be nice and perfect, just face the reality and learn from it
Angels exist on earth - we just neglect to see them. They are not flying in air with a magic wand. They are normal humans doing more humane things.
People lost are lost for ever. Never miss a chance to say final good bye to a dying person or a pet. You'll regret it for the rest of the life

无论你多么努力地想让世界变得平等，但这都不会发生，因为我们生来就不同。我们都做着不同的事情，为什么要期望平等呢?
生活总是不公平的，有些人会抱怨钱财、人际关系、社会等等。不要期望一切都是十全十美的，要学会面对现实并从中学习。
天使在地球上是存在的——只是我们忽视了他们。他们不是飞行在天空中使用魔杖的人。他们都是普通人，只是在做着更人道的事。
离开的人就永远离开了。永远不要错过与垂死的人或宠物作最后道别的机会。不然你会后悔一辈子的。

Money makes many things. However, there would be a day we’d realize how these pieces of papers have influenced our lives and want to kill its user
No one is perfect and you're wasting time if you're trying to be one. Try your best but dont get sucked into its vortex . I have OCD btw so I can feel it.
Time is a constant - you can decide to be a vegan, non religious, hippie, monk, entrepreneur, doctor or whatever but time is same for everybody. It could age you out before you know it
Kindness is considered weakness - a lot of people act tough and rude because of that.

钱能做成很多事情。然而，总有一天，我们会意识到这些纸片是多么的妨碍我们的生活，甚至想杀死它的使用者。
没有人是完美的，如果你想成为一个完美的人，那你就是在浪费时间。尽你最大的努力即可，没必要执着于完美。顺便说一下，我有强迫症的，我能体会到那种感觉。
时间如河，慢慢流逝——你可以决定成为一个素食主义者、非宗教人士、嬉皮士、僧侣、企业家、医生或任何属性的人，但时间对每个人都是一样的。它会在不知不觉之中让你我变老。
善良有时会被认为是软弱，所以许多人因此表现得强硬和粗鲁。

We came to life with nothing, we will take back nothing while leaving
All humans have 1 common color - blood is always red unless you're an alien.
People who love you the most could hurt you the most. We are vulnerable that much to them
Proper sleep could sometimes solve health issues than a visit to doctor

我们都是一无所有的降生于世，我们也将一无所有的离开。
所有人类都有一种共同的颜色——红色的血液，除非你是外星人。
最爱你的人往往伤害你最深。我们在他们面前是很脆弱的。
适当的睡眠有时比看医生更能解决健康问题。

Nature have abundant resources to give everybody food, water and shelter . We drew boundaries and restricted our movements. We live in a world where 1 in 7 person is hungry where we waste only 20–30% of food we make.
Limitations of social media - A friend fell down and got admitted in a hospital , close friends are sending wishes on social media than visiting her in person. Its pathetic!
Everybody have the power to change their lives but only a few even try!
You will enjoy your life to the fullest only if you keep doing the things you like, keep spending time with people you like. Dont waste time just express your love .

大自然拥有丰富的资源，足够满足所有人的食物、水和住所的需求。但我们以邻为壑，互不帮助。这导致在我们生活的这个世界里，有七分之一的人仍然在挨饿，与此同时，我们每次吃饭大约会浪费20-30%的食物。
社交媒体的局限性——当一个朋友跌倒并被送进了医院，亲密的朋友往往会在社交媒体上发送祝福，而不是亲自去看望她。真的可悲!
每个人都有能力改变自己的生活，但只有少数人敢于尝试!
如果你能坚持做你自己喜欢的事，坚持花时间和自己喜欢的人在一起，你就能最大限度地享受自己的生活。勿虚度光阴，敢于表达自己的爱吧。

Nothing is free. Nobody can give you anything for free in the corporate world. There is always an intent behind that , it could be money, motive or impression etc.
Lastly, if someone tries to end their life thinking it would put an end to all of their misery. The moment you decided to end your life, your past is dead just move on and live it differently!
Life is a mystery ; 7+ billion people are living it with no clue about what happens next. So be grateful about wherever you fit in and live to the fullest!

没有什么是免费的。在公司里，没有人会免费给你任何东西。这背后总有一个目的，可能是钱，某些动机或为了好印象等。
最后，如果有人试图结束自己的生命，认为这将结束他们所有的痛苦。那么当你决定结束生命的那一刻，其实你的过去已经死亡，你只需要继续前进，去过一种不同的生活就好了!
生活是一个谜题。70多亿人都生活在这样的环境中，都对下一刻会发生什么一无所知。所以，无论你身处何方，都要心怀感激，尽情生活!

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That many come into the world being unloved, abused and neglected. Child abuse is common.
Most people, (not all), are prone to selfishness and will do what is best for them and what they want regardless if it harms other people
When you stand up for what is right which is the hard and only road to lasting happiness, people will attack and persecute you as it is what they cant do.
Most people are fake and superficial conforming to the popular fads of the day in society. They are brainwashed.

许多人来到这个世界上时，是不被爱、被虐待和被忽视的。虐待儿童是种普遍现象。
大多数人(不是所有人)都有自私自利的倾向，他们会做对自己最有利、最想要做的事情，而不顾是否会伤害到他人。
当你坚持正确的事，而这件正确的事是通往幸福的唯一艰难之路时，人们就会攻击和迫害你，因为这正是他们做不到的。
大多数人都是虚伪的，肤浅的，随波逐流的。他们会迎合当今社会的流行时尚，他们已经被洗脑。

Not everyone that you love or display kindness to will love and be kind back. Love them anyway
Not all have the same equal opportunities for a better quality of life. Be grateful and make the most of your lot regardless and be happy.
Most people will abandon you in your darkest moments. Don't give up, keep going anyway to greater things.

不是每一个你爱的人或者你友善的人都会爱你或对你友善。但是还是要去爱他们。
并不是所有人都有同等的机会获得更好的生活。所以，要对现在心存感激，充分享受你的命运，保持快乐。
大多数人会在你最黑暗的时候抛弃你。请别放弃，无论如何你都要继续追求那些伟大的东西。

Countless of innocent millions have been and will continue to be killed or maimed in war and genocide; wars mostly caused by the agenda of power, greed, hatred, revenge, madness and corruption
Your loyalty to others may be rewarded by a double edged sword - stabbing you in the back. Be loyal anyway holding your head up high.
Most people will suffer mental ills at some time in their life caused by the unrelenting stress and pressures inflicted by modern society; or from being abused, traumatised, irreparably hurt, betrayed
With the rising pollution levels and the use of chemicals to chase profit and greed, diseases will become even more prolific and more dangerous ones will mutate; also eventually destroying the sustainability of our environment to support life.

无数无辜的人，曾经或者将来，在战争和种族灭绝中被杀害或者致残。战争大多是由权力、贪婪、仇恨、报复、疯狂和腐败所引起的。
你对别人的忠诚，可能是一把双刃剑——他们会在背后捅你一刀。但是，你仍然需要昂首挺胸的坚持忠诚!
大多数人都会在一生中的某个时刻患上精神疾病，这是由现代社会施加的无休止的压力所造成的。他们或遭受虐待、创伤、或遭受无可挽回的伤害，以及被背叛。
随着污染水平的上升，以及人们为了追逐利润而贪婪的使用化学品，各种疾病将会变得更加猖獗，疾病也更容易发生变异，最终我们赖以生存的环境也会遭受到破坏。

Supported killing will become a answer to suffering/disease. It can relieve the suffering of patients that makes the end comfortable.high standard palliative compassionate care - that gives the sufferer true dignity and worth right.
Killing the problem will become the cheaper alternative; - is not offering human dignity - all it it offers is a convenient death; (with many potentially standing to benefit monetary wise from it). It will not be offered only for the terminally ill - but the mentally ill, disabled and for anyone who finds temporary suffering difficult or just being tired of life. anyone will have the right to die for any reason as life becomes cheap and no longer seen as the sacred gift it is.
You will die one day - no one escapes it or knows when their time is up. Some will live longer than others. But this life is short for all as it is but a blx of an eye compared to eternity.Does not believe in a higher power, an afterlife or justice/rewards therein.

支持安乐死，将成为治疗疼痛或疾病的一个办法。它可以让病人无需再受苦难，使临终时感到舒适。这是更高标准的临终关怀——给予患者真正的尊严和人身权利。
但当安乐死成为一个成本更低的选择时。它也将不再提供人类尊严，它提供的只是一个方便的死亡。(许多人可能会从中获利)。它不仅会提供给绝症患者，还可能提供给精神疾病患者、残疾人以及任何觉得遭受痛苦或只是暂时厌倦生活的人。此时，生命已经廉价，不再被视为神圣的礼物时，任何人都可能会以任何理由死去。
你总有一天会死——没人能逃脱，也没人知道他们的去世何时到来。有些人会比其他人活得更久些，但是一生对所有人来说都是短暂的，因为与永恒相比，它不过是一眨眼的功夫。不要相信高等级的力量，不要相信来世或所谓的正义回报。

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There are three kinds of people in this world. 90% are ignorant and selfish; 8% are intelligent and selfish; and 2% are intelligent and caring. These 2% are all the stands between us and complete societal collapse.
Most of what you are and where you are in life is due to sheer luck. A person doesn’t choose to be smart or stupid, industrious or lazy, healthy or sick, brave or cowardly, have loving or abusive parents, or be born in Sweden or Somalia.

世界上有三种人。90%是无知自私的人，8%聪明自私的人。2%聪明体贴的人。而这2%的人就是我们与社会彻底崩溃之间的唯一屏障。
你是什么样的人，你处于什么阶级，大多数情况下都完全取决于运气。一个人不能决定自己是聪明还是愚蠢，勤劳还是懒惰，健康还是易病，勇敢还是懦弱，是有关爱还是虐待你的父母，以及你是出生在瑞典还是索马里。

People are NOT equal. They never were and never will be. Some people are smart and some are stupid; some are hardworking and some are lazy. Some are courageous and some are cowards. Some are civilised and some are not. That is also true at group level. It makes sense since a Brit will more likely marry and have a child with another Brit, a Bantu with a Bantu, a Burmese with a Burmese, so over the course of time certain traits (positive or negative) will become more prent within that group. That is not racism, that is a fact.
Men and women are NOT equal and should not be. They should have EQUAL OPPORTUNITIES.

人生来是不平等的。过去不平等，将来也不会平等。有些人聪明，有些人愚蠢；有些人勤奋，有些人懒惰；有些人勇敢，有些人怯懦；有些人文明，有些人野蛮。在群体层面上也是如此，这是有道理的，因为英国人更有可能和英国人结婚生子，班图人和班图人结婚，缅甸人和缅甸人结婚，所以随着时间的推移，某些特征(积极或消极的)将会在这个群体里变得更加普遍。这不是种族主义，而是事实。
男人和女人不平等，也不该平等。但他们应该享有平等的机会。

The word ‘racism’ has been greatly overused and misused and, in most cases, should be replaced with ‘culturism.’ And racism isn’t about skin colour. Brazil is 50% mixed black and white, Mexico and Spanish-speaking American countries are 70% mixed Native Indian and white. All research in fact indicates that we tend to be attracted to people that look different. What we discriminate against is behaviour, values, and ideas. I do too. If, for example, you come from a culture that believes it is OK to torture animals, considers women to be second-class citizens, and regards spitting and littering as something normal, I am going to discriminate against you. What you look like is irrelevant to me. Think of the Germans and the Japanese. Seventy years ago they were the most despised peoples in the world. Today they are among the most highly respected and their passports among the most valuable. They haven’t changed their skin colour or eye shape; what they’ve changed was their behaviour. So don’t try to bleach your skin, dye your hair blonde, or have eyelid surgery to gain acceptance. Just change your behaviour and mentality. Even if people discriminate against your own group, they will not discriminate against you as an individual.

“种族主义”一词已被过度使用和误用。在大多数情况下，应该用“文化主义”来替代。种族主义与肤色无关。巴西50%的人是黑人和白人的混血，墨西哥人和讲西班牙语的美国人，他们中的70%是印第安土著和白人的混血。事实上，研究表明，我们更容易于被长相不同的人所吸引。而我们歧视的是行为、价值观和观念。我也有过歧视行为。例如，如果你的文化中认为虐待动物是可以接受的，认为妇女是二等公民，认为随地吐痰和乱扔垃圾是很正常的，那么我就会歧视你。这和你的长相没有关系。想想德国人和日本人，70年前，他们是世界上最受鄙视的民族。而今天，他们是最受尊敬的人之一，他们的护照是最有价值的。他们的皮肤颜色和眼睛形状都没有改变，他们改变的是他们的行为。所以，你不需要去漂白你的皮肤、去把你的头发染成金色、或者去做眼皮手术等，来获得认可。只要你能改变你的行为和心态。即使人们歧视你自己的族群，他们也不会歧视你这个个体。

Your life is not worth more than that of a dog, an insect, or a tree. Humans are the only species who take more from nature than they give. By the time s/he turns 4 or 5 years old, a human will have consumed more than s/he will ever give back to the world.
Those of you who refer to the coronavirus as a ‘crisis’ are an embarrassment to your great-grandparents who went through war and famine. Are you whining because you’re no longer allowed to get drunk in public and because your supermarket has run out of your favourite cereal? You have internet, 200 TV channels, family, etc. If nothing else, get some bloody war books and read, or watch some good documentaries so that you can learn something and stop being so ignorant.

你的生命并不比一条狗、一只昆虫或一棵树更有价值。人类是唯一一种从自然中索取多于给予的物种。到他4岁或5岁的时候，一个人消耗的食物就已经超过他回馈世界的总和了。
你们中这些把流行病称为“危机”的人，对你们那些经历过战争和饥荒的曾祖父母来说是件尴尬的事情。你在抱怨，是因为你不被允许在公共场合买醉了，还是因为超市里你最爱吃的麦片卖光了?但现在你有互联网，200多个电视频道，以及家庭等等。如果没有别的办法，那就去读一些有关战争的书，或者看一些好的纪录片，这样你就能明白一些东西，不再这么无知了。

Most people working for the Church are not religious at all.
If your priest tells you that’s it’s ok to be poor because that’s what God wants, what he really means is that you’re stupid.
People who drive fast or practice American football or other similar sports are not tough. The really tough ones are long-distance cyclists and hikers/climbers and mothers who work 9 to 5 and still have time to raise a family.

大多数为教会工作的人根本就不信教。
如果你的牧师告诉你贫穷没什么，因为那是上帝需要的。他真正的意思是你很愚蠢。
那些开快车、练习美式足球或其他类似运动的人并不强悍。真正艰难的是长距离骑自行车、徒步旅行者以及攀岩者，还有朝九晚五工作以支撑起整个家庭的母亲。

If you buy a nice car because you want to ‘turn heads’ remember that it is your car that makes the heads turn, not you.
To mortals like you and me rich people’s problems may not seem like real problems (e.g. ‘This year I made only one million instead of the usual ten’), but to them they are as real as our own problems. Remember that the problems may be different, but unhappiness is the same.
It is wrong to judge a country by how tourist brochures, the media, or tourists will portray it. Visiting a country and living in it are two very different things. You might discover that, say, Australia isn’t so safe or scenic after all, or that, say, Mexico is much safer and more cultured than you thought.

如果你买一辆好车，是想要去吸引别人的目光，记住，让别人转头来看的，是你的车，不是你。
对于你我这样的普通人来说，富人的问题可能看起来不像是问题(例如，“今年我只赚了100万，而不是以往的1000万”)，但对他们来说，这些问题就像我们遇到的问题一样难受。记住，问题可能不同，但不舒服的感觉是一样的。
根据旅游手册、媒体或游客的描绘来判断一个国家是错误的。访问一个国家和在这个国家生活是完全不同的两件事。你可能会发现，比如说，澳大利亚毕竟不是你认为的那样安全和风景优美，或者比如，墨西哥其实要比你想象的更安全和更有文化。

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When it comes down to it, you’re all you’ve got. People come and go and no one truly cares about you the way you wish they would.
People will judge you for your personal choices.
Children aren’t born innocent. Some have inherently malicious natures.
Money is necessary for survival.

当世界末日来临时，你才是自己的所有。人们来来往往，没有人会像你以为的那样真正关心你。
人们评价你的方式，来源于你的个人选择。
孩子也不是天生清白的，有些孩子天生就是恶意的。
钱是生存所必需的。

Marriage can be a lonely, bitter, and loveless experience. Your spouse may often disregard your feelings entirely, and never apologize.
Your parents may be immature at times, and they may not always have your best interest at heart.
Even though you may possess talent and ambition, still you may find it difficult to succeed in the areas you’d like to, for numerous reasons.
People may only like you if you align with them politically, socially, religiously, and morally.

婚姻可能是一种孤独、苦涩、无关爱情的经历。你的配偶可能会经常完全无视你的感受，并且不懂得道歉。
你的父母有时候也可能是不成熟的，他们也可能不把你的利益放在心上。
尽管可能你有天赋有雄心，但你可能会发现你很难在你热爱的领域成功，原因会有很多。
只有当你在政治、社会、宗教和道德上与群体一致时，他们才会喜欢你。

There are very few, if any, truly nice people who just want to be your friend and communicate with you often.
What types of foods you eat are very important to your health, especially as you hit your middle years.
Fear is the most crippling of emotions.
If you want something bad enough, you must swallow your fear and go for it. You very well may fail, but the important thing is to get back up and keep trying.

真正好朋友很少，如果真的有好朋友，你们需要经常相互交流。
吃什么类型的食物对你的健康非常重要，尤其是在你步入中年的时候。
恐惧是一种极有害的情绪。
如果你非常渴望某件事，你就必须战胜恐惧，为之奋斗。你很有可能会失败，但重要的是能重新站起来，并继续努力。

Your fantasies of love and sex may never come to fruition. Marriage can feel like a cruel trap.
Seeing a doctor is often not your best option. Most every doctor visit I’ve made in my life has wreaked havoc on my body, outside of emergency care.
There are lots of con artists out there. Trust no one and take no one at their word.
Don’t believe anything you read or hear. Dare to think for yourself, challenge the status quo, and formulate your own opinions.

你对爱和性的幻想可能永远不会实现。婚姻有时就像是一个残酷的陷阱。
看医生通常不是你最好的选择。在我的生活中，每次看医生都会对我的身体造成了损害，除非是急救。
外面有很多行骗高手。不要相信任何人，不要相信任何人的话。
不要相信你读到或听到的任何东西。要敢于独立思考，挑战现状，并形成自己的观点。