最有趣的人类行为有哪些？(上)

（这个问题有100+的人答复了，挑选其中有趣和支持率高的翻译）

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Anshul Agarwal, Nobody, but you make yourself miserable.

（没有人能让你痛苦不堪，除了你自己——应该是他的个人签名）

1、People let themselves be manipulated by others because they feel they are not smart enough to control their lives. So they let a someone ‘smarter’ control their lives.

1、人们让自己被别人操控，因为他们觉得自己不够聪明，无法控制自己的生活。所以他们选择让一个更聪明的人控制他们的生活。

2、Those who worry about ‘What will others think of me?’ believe others’ opinion is more important than their own.

2、 那些担心别人会怎么看我的人？“相信他人”的观点比他们自己的观点更重要。

3、It is always a fear of ‘What will happen if…’ which stops people from doing something. ‘What will happen if I fail?’ ‘What will happen if they don’t like me?’ ‘What will happen if it goes wrong?’

3、 人们总是担心“如果……会发生什么”，这会阻止人们去做某些事。如果我失败了会发生什么？如果他们不喜欢我会发生什么？如果出了问题会发生什么？’

4、It requires a lot of confidence to ask yourself what you want to do and then do it. People who are low in confidence look at others to decide what they should do.

4、你问自己，你想做什么，然后去做，这需要很大的信心。信心不足的人会看别人做什么，然后来决定他们自己应该做什么。

5、Many believe that they can get others’ respect by giving respect. The truth is that people don’t respect people, people respect strength. In giving respect, if you come across as weak, then you don’t get anyone’s respect.

5、 很多人认为，他们可以通过给予尊重来获得他人的尊重。而事实的真相是，人们尊重的不是某个人，人们尊重的是力量。在获得尊重方面，如果你给人的印象是软弱的，那么你不会得到任何人的尊重。

6、People criticise their spouses or parents for not understanding them. The hard truth to accept is that no one will understand you all the time. You are a unique person with a unique perspective. No one can see things with the same perspective as you.

6、人们指责他们的配偶或父母不理解他们。这难以接受的事实是没有人会一直理解你。你是一个独特的人，有着独特的视角。没有人能用和你完全一致的视角去看待问题。

7、Those who behave like everyone else and ‘fit in’ are accepted in this society. Those who are different are criticised. This is because people feel threatened by anyone who is different. Hence they criticise them in their times, but revere them when they are gone, because they feel safe then.

7、在这个社会上，那些举止“合群”的人是被接受的。不同的人会受到批评。这是因为，这些不同的人会让人们感觉受到威胁。因此，他们在自己的时代批评他们，但当他们离开时，他们会尊重他们，因为那时他们觉得安全。

8、People who lack self-esteem have a need to tell others about their accomplishments to make their own accomplishments meaningful to them. Those who have high self-esteem feel silent inner pride in their accomplishments.

8、缺乏自尊的人需要告诉别人他们的成就，（让人们称赞他们），这样他们的成就才对他们有意义。
           而那些有高自尊的人（即使人们不赞美他们）也对自己的成就感到发自内心的骄傲。

9、A lot feel they are regularly ‘used’ by others, or taken advantage of, or not respected, or discarded or ditched for another, or the like. It is because they have taught others to treat them this way. If you keep taking the shit people throw at you, then you have taught them that you’ll keep taking the shit they throw at you.

9、很多人觉得他们经常被别人“用完就丢”，或者被利用，或者不被尊重，或者被别人抛弃或撇开，等等。这是因为他们自己教会了别人用这种方式对待他们。如果别人扔给你屎，你就一直接住。你就是在告诉他们你会继续接住他们扔给你的屎。
（大意是：如果别人欺负你，你默默忍受不反抗。别人就会觉得他的行为没有问题，或者不会给他自己带来伤害，这样下次他还会这么对你。）

10、People don’t leave the work behind when leaving the office and mentally keep going through the events of the day, what tomorrow will entail. They may feel they are free beings in this free world, but in reality they are mental slaves to their company.

10、 人们离开办公室时不会把工作抛在脑后，精神上会继续思考一天中的事情，以及明天会有什么事。在这个自由的世界里，他们可能觉得自己是自由的人，但事实上，他们是公司的精神奴隶。

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Lokesh Kumar, Director at Awaken Infotech (2017-present)
1、If you are a woman, your looks and figure matters. If you are a man, your wallet matters (specially for this 21st Century Girls / Women) , but that does not apply to all women and men as it's the 21st century and people have started being open minded and looks , figure , bank balance none of that matters as long as you're a nice person that is enough!

1、 如果你是一个女人，你的外表和身材都很重要。如果你是一个男人，你的钱包很重要（特别是对于这个21世纪的女孩/女人）。但这并不适用于所有的女人和男人，因为这是21世纪，人们思想变得更加开放。对有些人来说 ，相貌、身材、银行存款余额，这些都不重要，只要你是一个足够好的人，这便够了。

2、Many believe that they can get others’ respect by giving respect. The truth is that people don’t respect people, people respect strength and people respect power. In giving respect, if you come across as weak, then you don’t get anyone’s respect.

（ 和上面的那个人重复）
2、 很多人认为，他们可以通过给予尊重来获得他人的尊重。而事实的真相是，人们尊重的不是某个人，人们尊重的是力量。在获得尊重方面，如果你给人的印象是软弱的，那么你不会得到任何人的尊重。

3、Speaking in a deeper voice helps to establish dominance over the person you are talking to.

3、 用更深沉的声音说话有助于建立对你所交谈的人的支配地位。

4、Asking for advice is a powerful way to influence others and warm them to you.

4、 对他人征求意见是一种很好的沟通方式，能让你更好的影响他人，让他们对你友善。

             （ 直译：征求意见是一种影响他人、让他人对你友善的强有力的方式。）

5、If you want to get someone to help you out, try the briefest of touches on the upper arm.

5、 如果你想得到某人的帮助，试着和他的上臂做短时间的接触。

6、The people who are more successful and rich are considered to be more intelligent.

6、 那些 更成功、更富有的人被认为是更聪明的。

7、Attractive and honest appearance can easily be misleading. People tend to trust appearance more than sincerity.

7、  漂亮诚实的外表很容易引起人们的误信。人们往往更相信外表而不是真诚。

8、Different colors can affect your behavior. Red, for example, makes you more alx and pay attention which is why stop signs and traffic lights use red.

8、  不同的颜色会影响你的行为。例如，红色会使你更加警觉和注意，这就是为什么停车标志和交通灯使用红色的原因。

9、The blue color is associated with trust. Wearing blue enhances the chances of someone trusting you.

9、 蓝色与信任有关。穿蓝色衣服会增加别人信任你的机会。

10、The way you dress is lixed to your mood. So dressing well most often helps you in keeping you happy.

10、你的穿着方式与你的心情有关。所以，穿得好往往有助于你保持快乐。

11、You can fool your mind that you are happy if you put a pencil in between your teeth.

11、如果你把一支铅笔插在牙齿中间（指的是用牙咬着一只笔），你会愚弄你的头脑，认为你很快乐。

12、When a person cries and the first drop of tears comes from the right eye, It’s happiness. If it’s from the left, it’s pain.

12、当一个人哭的时候，第一滴眼泪来自右眼，那就是幸福的眼泪。如果是左边的，那就是疼痛引起的眼泪。

13、Crying is how your body speaks when your mouth can’t explain the pain you feel.

13、当你的嘴无法表达你的悲伤时，你就会哭泣——这是你身体表达悲伤的方式。

14、Hugging for 20 seconds releases oxytocin, which can cause you to trust someone more.

14、和别人拥抱20秒会释放催产素，它会让你更加信任这些人。

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         催产素生理作用：（男女均可分泌）
（1）对乳腺的作用：哺乳期的乳腺在催乳素的作用下不断分泌乳汁，贮存于乳腺腺泡之中。催产素可使乳腺腺泡周围的肌上皮样细胞收缩， 促使具有泌乳功能的乳腺排乳。

（2）对子宫的作用：催产素对子宫有较强的促进收缩作用，但以妊娠子宫较为敏感。雌激素能增加子宫对催产素的敏感性，而孕激素则相反。

（3 ）对社交羞涩与自闭症的作用：催产素可以帮助社交场合因羞涩而受人冷落之人克服社交羞涩感。但是催产素喷鼻对本来就很自信的人不起作用。

（4）当心情开朗或有强烈归属感时，心脏会分泌催产素，压力也得到舒缓。同时，体内组织的供氧量大量增加。

2012年11月，科学家发现催产素可促使着已婚男士远离其他对自己有吸引力的女性，从而避免婚外情、小三的出现。吸入催产素的已婚或恋爱男士们比其他人保持了更大的个人空间，在对美女照片的反应上明显迟钝了很多。这一调查结果显示催产素是促进情侣忠诚的“催化剂”。

2012年12月20日，据国外媒体报道，科学家发现催产素能够影响一个人的慷慨或自私程度，他们称之为“道德分子”。催产素可以提升同情心，如果这个化学物质在某人身上被抑制，那么他就会更倾向于自私的品性。

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15、Your brain loves intimacy, be it emotional or physical. Intimacy makes the brain feel re-assured that ‘I am important, people value me, love me.’

15、你的大脑喜欢亲密，无论是情感上还是生理上。亲密的关系让大脑重新确信“我很重要，人们看重我，爱我”。

16、A woman will only argue with someone she truly cares for. Arguing less occurs when she’s less interested.

16、 女人只会和她真正关心的人争论。当她不感兴趣的时候，很少争吵。

17、When a group of people laughs, people will instinctively look at the person they feel closest to in that group.

17、 当一群人在一起大笑时，人们会本能地看着他们觉得最亲近的人。

18、When people know they are watched, they generally behave better.

18、当人们知道有人正看着他的时候，他们通常表现得更好。

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Sarah Maqsood, A college Student
When you start daydreaming in the middle of a lecture or some other work, you usually start drawing something on paper, play with your pencil… or do nothing.

当你在听演讲或其他工作中开始做白日梦时，你通常会在纸上画一些东西，玩笔……或者什么也不做。

 

Your drawings show what your feelings are or what kind of person you are.

你这个时候画的画显示了你此时的感受或者你是什么样的人。

The one who draws stars or moons:

1、那些画星星或月亮的人
(星星和月亮这个图片，我下载下来还是正常的，一上传到龙腾就变成了没有星星和月亮的晚上——一片漆黑伸手不见五指，我已经放弃治疗，请大家闭上眼睛，自己想象。)

Such people are usually ambitious, they have set high goals for themselves and are hopeful for the bright future.

这些人通常雄心勃勃，他们为自己设定了很高的目标，并对美好的未来满怀希望。

2 . Drawing flowers :

2、画花朵的人

 

Such people “love” travelling, they love to travel the world and explore the beauty of nature.

这样的人“热爱”旅游，他们热爱旅游世界，探索自然之美。

3. Drawing irregular patterns :

3、绘制不规则或者紊乱图案的人

 

Such people are sad, they are worried about something and cannot fix it, so they express their sadness through their strange drawings..

这些人正心乱如麻，他们正在担心一些事，或者碰到了无法解决的事情。图案表达了他们的心境。

（直译：这样的人是悲伤的，他们担心一些事情，不能解决它，所以他们通过奇怪的图画表达他们的悲伤。）

It is not necessary that they are sad all the time, but mostly. And when they are, they draw such patterns.

这并不表示他们会一直这样，只是说。当他们这么画的时候，他们正心情烦乱。

4. Filling whole circles:

4、填充整个圆：
 
People drawing and filling circles are confident and good decision makers, once they choose to do something, they never regret it.

画圈和填充圈的人都是自信并且优秀的决策者，一旦他们选择做某件事，他们就不会后悔。

5. Filling words and half circles:

5、填充单词和半圆圈：

 

Such people are confused. they cannot take any decision for themselves, and often when they do, they regret it.

这样的人很容易感觉困惑。他们不能为自己做任何决定，而且往往在做决定时会后悔。

6. Drawing Hearts:

6、画心

These people are…..ofcourse, lovers. They love someone, their family, their near and dear ones or anyone.

这些人……当然，是有情人。他们爱一个人，他们的家人，他们的亲人和亲爱的人，或者任何人。

（lovers，直译是情人，感觉怪怪的。我也不知道用什么合适，所以写了上面那个）

7. Doing signatures too much:

7、重复练习签名的人

 

Such people want to be famous, and are social, to some extent. They want to be known wherever they are.

这些人想出名，获得一定程度的社会地位。他们希望自己无论在哪里都能被人认出来。

7. Drawing human faces:

7、绘制人脸：

 

These people are beauty lovers, external beauty. They love beautiful people and being around them adoring them.

这些人都是爱美丽的人，他们爱外在美。他们爱美丽的人，想天天围着美人转，并且崇拜美丽的人。

8. Abstract art:

8、抽象艺术

Such people are usually lost in something, confused or deep…they have their own separate world, where they think and express their thoughts feelings, it comes out as an abstract art.

这些人通常迷失在某个东西中，困惑或深沉……他们有自己独立的世界，在那里他们思考和表达自己的想法和感受，他们表达出来的东西就是一副抽象的艺术品。

9. Shaking pencils, ticking them, shaking feet, moving fingers:

9、晃笔，挠别人，晃动脚，移动手指：

These people are anxious, or curious about something, they want something get done, and cannot resist too much.

这些人对某件事感到焦虑或好奇，他们总想做点什么，不能忍住不动太久。

10. Having interest in unnoticeable things like stones, paper, leaves etc. :

10、对石头、纸、树叶等不显眼的东西感兴趣

People like that are unique, they think multi dimensional, differently and notice things that people usually don't and carry out different conclusions. They are often….special.

像这样的人是独一无二的，他们的思想是多维的，不同的。常常会注意到人们注意不到的事情，并得出和大家不同的结论。它们通常是特别的。

11. Who Do nothing:
These people,
can be deep thinkers,
can be toxic,
can be blank,
or they usually show unexpected behavior because they stay quiet, so no one gets to know much about them.

11。什么都不做的人：
这些人，
可能是深刻的思考者，
可能有毒，
可能头脑一片空白，
他们通常表现出意想不到的行为，因为他们一直保持安静，所以没有人知道他们在想什么。

Source: From a psychologist, she conducted our class and saw my drawing ( from no. 3) and then asked the whole class about their drawings, and told us about our behaviors. It appeared quite interesting, so I thought to share it with you all.
Thank you, for reading :)

资料来源：来自于一位指导我们的课程的心理学家，他看了我的画（3号，心乱如麻那个），然后向全班同学询问他们的画，并告诉我们我们的行为。看起来很有趣，所以我想和大家分享一下。
感谢您的阅读：）  

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